Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #85|Farq Nahi Padta - Page 90

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

I would rather wish he didn’t...

She didn’t ask for it anyways🤷🏻‍♀️

Why should he do something for her when at the end of the day, he would still be labelled with the same tags as always and Raavi will be defended saying she never asked for it so why should she be grateful?

Yes. I wish they NEVER show any such thing and she completes her education without anybodys support..if need be, work and earn her fees. He need not do any favour , aise bhi Ehsan kiya usne pehle jaan bachake phir shadi karke phir pyar karke phir divorce file karke. 🤢 She need not owe him anything anymore.

Also when shiva finds out she is getting her masters degree hope he doesn't feel more inadequate for her ugh lol but rather realises that for her his family, being married or her ideal guy wasn't all she is about. She can also have other dreams and goals in life. Hope her and rishita can study and work respectively without interference from maha Saas lol

Originally posted by: manny136

Also when shiva finds out she is getting her masters degree hope he doesn't feel more inadequate for her ugh lol but rather realises that for her his family, being married or her ideal guy wasn't all she is about. She can also have other dreams and goals in life. Hope her and rishita can study and work respectively without interference from maha Saas lol

I dont think the masters n work track will happen Manny

It wont🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

For Raavi to realise, does Shiva need to sacrifice more??

Shiva sacrificed his education for family

He sacrificed his freewill to marry for his bhabhi

He sacrificed his love for Raavi for h

Raavi’s haappiness (warped thinking at its best)

Now he needs to sacrifice more for Raavi to realise his worth?

Why?

He is jaahil junglee gawar and he is smelly and he is even a gunda.

But he says panauti and he is at fault. She says a lot of things and still she is given a freepass.

She has no prob when the same gunda comes to save her at night but if he retaliates for the mud on his clothes, the police needs to be called.

Raavi misbehaves with him, its trauma.

Shiva misbehaves, he is 🤢

Raavi slaps him, its ok because he is a guy who asked her to go to her gentlemen friends if she liked it with them.

Shiva pulls away his hands from her Resulting in her stumbling away in Anita’s arms, the infamous push, he is a terrible human being.

He takes a whole wall on his back to save her, he is her hubby he has to. He hilds her hand tightly in his grip, he has nooo right.

She holds his collars many times, its okay, its kinda hot.

She pushed him on terrace of hveli, its still ok.

The thing is the balance has always been tipped towards Raavi. I love her for her innocence, the way she moves on, the way she is soft spoken, the way she loves the pandyas.

But she has always treated Shiva the worst. At first it was ok. They were on equal footing. But now its not.

Someone said she forgave dev then she forgave shiva too for kangan kaand.

Can we even equate the two?

One pushed her to the brim of death and he was forgiven, the other refused to take her back, n he was forgiven.

But there will always be imbalance.

Raavi is wronged in many instances

But Raavi’s wrongs is always okay.

And thats not okay.

Redemption and love is a two way street.

I hate Shiva for what he has become but the same way I hate Raavi for what she has been doing too.

When your world is name calling ua husband u need to stand up to the world or ua husband is not the only one who loose respect, it is you too. And this is where I feel she has tipped the whole balance...

I agree with every word you have said ❤️

Yesterday only I had said that Shiva has done his share of mistakes, but he has always been punished for it.sometimes the punishment much higher in magnitude than the mistake.

When the track started I was sympathizing with raavi, thinking that she is naive and can't understand shiva or his actions but she will eventually get him.

But now it's getting hard to see shiva being reprimanded by everyone around him and raavi has noone by her side to show her the mirror.her flashback scenes are also very vague.and the repeated name calling is putting me off.her reaction in anger was ok, because we do say hurtful things when angry but calling him Jaanwar at every interaction? 💔

I don't know how they will proceed with her realisation.i don't want an NDE this time because shiva has always saved her.its nothing new, that she will suddenly realise her feelings for him.

I want something more subtle, where raavi will get overwhelmed and all the memories and flashbacks will come rushing to her.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I agree with every word you have said ❤️

Yesterday only I had said that Shiva has done his share of mistakes, but he has always been punished for it.sometimes the punishment much higher in magnitude than the mistake.

When the track started I was sympathizing with raavi, thinking that she is naive and can't understand shiva or his actions but she will eventually get him.

But now it's getting hard to see shiva being reprimanded by everyone around him and raavi has noone by her side to show her the mirror.her flashback scenes are also very vague.and the repeated name calling is putting me off.her reaction in anger was ok, because we do say hurtful things when angry but calling him Jaanwar at every interaction? 💔

I don't know how they will proceed with her realisation.i don't want an NDE this time because shiva has always saved her.its nothing new, that she will suddenly realise her feelings for him.

I want something more subtle, where raavi will get overwhelmed and all the memories and flashbacks will come rushing to her.

Shiva s whole thinking process is warped and he deserves the reprimands coming his way, not the beatings though. He deserves the glares he is receiving, he deserves any advises or lectures he gets. He is stubborn to a fault and I hate that he is hoping that Raavi will understand him without a word. I hate the lack of conversations and understanding that she can’t understand his unspoken feelings. Being someone who has to talk with hubby if even a little thing bothers me, I cannot understand the silence and the need to push people away for their happiness. The happiness would have been if he worked hard like he does and little by little change her opinion of him. when He would fulfill her small needs and then her bigger ones and she would see her hardwork. It would have been beautiful. If he would change some habits and yet be the same guy at the core, it would be happiness for her. No need to change majorly but at least put the effort.

I agree Shiva has his own set of flaws. I agree that Shiva has many faults.

Instead of asking her to go to her friends if he had just lifted the bike up and ask her to sit as they will talk in the four walls of their room. If he had settled with her and had a conversation where he explained her why he did what he did and how he felt upon her silence.

But it didn’t happen and I dislike Shiva for this.

And I Dislike Raavi because she remained silent too. She told him and asked him what he wants and yet where she needed to speak she did it as an afterthought. Her words lacked conviction and she failed to see the goodness she knows he has.

But even after all their faults, I am sure I will get an apology from Shiva to Raavi but will she do it too?

Will she tell him she is sorry for calling him names as he tells her he is sorry for telling her to go to her friends? Will she tell him she is sorry for slappinv him as he tells her he is sorry for pushing her away? Will she tell him sorry for not defending him to her friends when he tells her he is sorry for not speaking to her about his concerns?

In a marriage there is a need of two. Only one cannot complete it.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

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This is all nice to look at their offscreen reels/stories but if they are shooting together these days the scenes are always about more misunderstandings, fight, name calling etc. The writers are making their track more and more complicated by showing Shiva in a poor light and the redemption like I said few EDT’s ago is going to be one sided. This sucks, period! I am tired of seeing the same thing again and again.

And then there was this reel KD posted of Shiva talking to his friends, yesterday! I think the above story probably comes after Shiva’s talk with this friends which means another confrontation🤢

Didn’t Raavi remove the sindoor the other day after the flying sindoor episode? I wish she didn’t continue to keep the sindoor until they got back together😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

This is all nice to look at their offscreen reels/stories but if they are shooting together these dats the scenes are always about more misunderstandings, fight, name calling etc. The writers are making their track mire and more complicated by showing Shiva in a poor light and the redemption like I said few EDT’s ago is going to be one sided. This sucks, period! I am tired of seeing the same thing again and again.

And then there was this reel KD posted of Shiva talking to his friends, yesterday! I think the above story probably comes after Shiva’s talk with this friends which means another confrontation🤢

Didn’t Raavi remove the sindoor the other day after the flying sindoor episode? I wish she didn’t continue to keep the sindoor until they got back together😕

Yess.its probably going to be another confrontation after raavi overhears shiva talking with his friends.

And the way they are showing Shiva's character nowadays, I am afraid he will probably be making fun of raavi or his marriage.

It's getting Tiring now.this week will probably have 2-3 shivi confrontation scenes without any progression.thats it.

Originally posted by: mpks1

This is all nice to look at their offscreen reels/stories but if they are shooting together these days the scenes are always about more misunderstandings, fight, name calling etc. The writers are making their track more and more complicated by showing Shiva in a poor light and the redemption like I said few EDT’s ago is going to be one sided. This sucks, period! I am tired of seeing the same thing again and again.

And then there was this reel KD posted of Shiva talking to his friends, yesterday! I think the above story probably comes after Shiva’s talk with this friends which means another confrontation🤢

Didn’t Raavi remove the sindoor the other day after the flying sindoor episode? I wish she didn’t continue to keep the sindoor until they got back together😕

I don't know how they are gonna ease up on these mu and start some turn around lol

As for raavis sindoor lol this is typical itv ploy the fl keeps on wearing it till its really over lol technically they are still married lol also shiva returning the sindoor made no sense what was she gonna need it for if she is getting divorced lol

One sp show had fl getting married to someone else all wedding events she kept on wearing sindoor for ml who had amnesia lol like what self respecting groom is ok with his bride dressed up like a married woman in all wedding festivities lol the fl and ml weren't even legally married ever lol kuch bhi lol

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Yess.its probably going to be another confrontation after raavi overhears shiva talking with his friends.

And the way they are showing Shiva's character nowadays, I am afraid he will probably be making fun of raavi or his marriage.

It's getting Tiring now.this week will probably have 2-3 shivi confrontation scenes without any progression.thats it.

Progression? What is that? Their relationship is falling deeper and deeper has almost hit the rock bottom. To show more it is just senseless.

If I ask for progression, I am shut saying this is how ITV works, ML has to become an asshole so much that there is no where for him to go and then his redemption starts. What the heck? I have seen IPKKND, ASR was bad but at some point there was reflection and he started to withdraw and married KKGin anger and rag, then things started to turn around after marriage. Here it has gotten worse after marriage especially after the diary kaand😕

In hindsight haveli scenes minus the danda kaand was much better till Mukteshwar. Both atleast were carefree, didn’t invest too much in the marriage, had light hearted nok-jhoks, equally name called each other. Their bitter words atleast did not affect each other😕

Originally posted by: manny136

I don't know how they are gonna ease up on these mu and start some turn around lol

As for raavis sindoor lol this is typical itv ploy the fl keeps on wearing it till its really over lol technically they are still married lol also shiva returning the sindoor made no sense what was she gonna need it for if she is getting divorced lol

One sp show had fl getting married to someone else all wedding events she kept on wearing sindoor for ml who had amnesia lol like what self respecting groom is ok with his bride dressed up like a married woman in all wedding festivities lol the fl and ml weren't even legally married ever lol kuch bhi lol

Manny, have been married for so long, wore sindoor only on the day of the wedding, that too placed by my husband. I told both my mother and MIL that I will not be wearing it as I was not comfortable of showing a red mark on my forehead. My sister wears it, my mother used to she stopped after my Dad’s death. So never understood this Sindoor wearing which IMO should be a personal choice. If Raavi removed it, so be it why force her to wear it again😕