Fatejo’s udaariyaan - Page 3

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

Oh my god! I’m so touched 😭

Will watch it in a bit and post something :)

Looking forward to your analysis of today's episode.. especially on Tejo - Simran!

We have had a comment respond session on Fateh's behavior regarding Tejo. Someone commented on how instead of fateh finding out how jasmine is why not it be jasmine learning of his true colors and ditching him. The thing is whether fateh is a pansy lousy loser or he is a man of virtue or standard it hardly matters to her as its only a game of ego and vices for her and she's knows that.

Now coming to fateh the reason him being the way he is today in the current scenario is his more of his lack of self confidence and self esteem and less of self respect .Like how Tejo's insecurities are being highlighted regarding her physical appearance more of that needs to be done with fateh's character as well. He is what many are is just a over the board itv representation of those people stuck and indulging toxic relationships. He has grown up being never up to the mark for his father, then unsaid pressure due to simran didis scenario. He in way feels inferior and not up to tejo's expectations, like she is way out of his league kind of thing.chua toh pavitra nahi rahegi is how he acts or feels about her. Now that is a very toxic and never highlighted aspect in a relationship on itv. No-one should ever have that feeling thinking oh their lucky that they have their partner and that God knows how I got u, I don't deserve u, u are too good. I don't know if I can ever be that good. We need to learn and show how relationships are not about being lucky but accepting eachothers kamiya as well as there is no such thing as perfect relationship. Achai of a person bohot jald apna Leta hain par bhuraiya koi nahi apnana chahta and that is where alot relationships fail. Alot of couples fail to understand that shaadi aur shaadi ka baad scenario can change. Like how gifts and flowers are a representation of ur emotion of love so can making sure ur partner having his meal a sign of love. At each stage of ur relationships comfort and expression of ur emotions in it change. U need to learn to adapt and update urself according to it as no relationship is immune to toxicity but if u will it can be nipped at the bud.

Love is not as complex or epic as poets and romantic books make it to seem. We experience it many times until we come at a stage where we learn to apply all of those learnt lessons from our previous relationships.

I also hate it when in relationships in movies, itv shows or even in real when people call their partners rab or place them at a pedestal of being greater as that is the most inhuman thing u can do, it is borderline violence of Human Rights as ur killing the beauty and basic essence of being human that is making mistakes learning and growing each day being better versions for urself and nobody else as insaan tab badalta hain jab woh khudh chahe. If someone else is probing u to change u will relapse badly. When u call ur partner God u take away his/her right of making mistakes as often we are taught as Indian kids that our elders and parents are figures who can never be wrong and if they are it is difficult to digest. Baade sahi hote hain never question their actions as unhone tumse jyaada barsaat dekhi hain. We forget that not how many barsaat u saw that matters but how bad were those barsaat as not necessary u have to live to be a certain age to be able to decipher certain things. Not everybody faces the same challenges or maybe even if they do not necessary ki aap ka nazar main jo badi galti ya kaami ho shayad meri nazar sa woh mayne hi naa rakhe.Its a matter of individual perspective. Baat nazar ki nahi nazriya ki hoti hain. Kabhi kabhi sirf lenses badla kafi nahi hota kabhie kabhie diagonal ya dekhna ka position also matters. ( sorry if I'm not making sense tried giving whatever best example I could).

Taking Fateh's stalking personality and his one way saab kuch luta do concept of love comes from the understanding of representation of love in Bollywood movies where pyaar Ek hi baar hota hain, chahe phir woh ek pal ka ho, sau sadiyo ka yaa phir bas shakal dekh ka hua Ho, jo bhi ho pal main Maasa pal main tola hi kyu na ho par pyaar ek hi baar hota hain.and even fateh believes firmly in that ideology and that is why he thinks he can only love jasmine no matter how shallow it is and is unable to come to terms with his attraction or whatever those feelings he has for Tejo, thinking of it as I feel bad disguise parda of a coat ki USA phir ek baar us galti ki saaza milna wali hain jo usna kabhie ki hi nahi.Dialogue from yesterday's dialogue.

There even being emphasis on the words sacha pyaar, mohabat, ibadat. In reality love is a metaphorical expression of ur feelings. Ur understanding or interpretation of it depends upon ur age and experience. Like in school it's about learning and discovering emotions for the opposite gender. Then in college it can bea factor of status. Often we observe or experience in college it is a matter of status or validation of ur existence and importance on college campus like having a gf or Bf validates ur importance. PS plz don't bash me saying( Saying ka aaisa Nahi hota there are also meaningful relationships shared.) I do know that but I'm not talking of those. Then once u walk around in the competitive economic world and learn by testing ur own values and perks do u actually discover ur personality and know who u are ,what can u accept and can tolerate in ur relationships. And choose ur life partner on the basis of that.

Fateh ka character growth abhi shuru hona baaki hain and that was always going to happen this way as those moving of attempts were futile and half heartedly done.

Whether he ends up with Tejo or not is Tejo and only Tejo's decision and only she gets to decide that.As him falling back was his Choice but he forgot that even Tejo has a choice and she can choose to move on with her head held high. She deserves better and should walk away is my personal opinion but baki Sab ab show makers hi jaane. I like have said previously of knowing a fateh personally and he paid a huge price for that transformation hope fateh redeems before his falls and hope he does but Tejo needs to walk away whether he stops his EMA or not.

I want jasmin to get dumped n getting hurt. she deserves it big time... she already had the chance to hurt him once

biches like jasmine do exist and deserve it lol selfish C***