Confusion about Ani's feeling

Hi there, I have watched BB since day one but had a break when the whole Thakumaa story came up, but with the elder Bon story line I have started watching again. Now I really like the new story line but one thing which confuses me a bit is why elder Bon wants Ani to confess his feeling for Bon-because he has never seen the grown up one, and with young Bon he said he can't love her as she was too young and more of his responsibility. To be honest I find it a bit too much thinking that he 'loves' young Bon. How would he know about his feeling for elder Bon when he never saw her or talked to her as such. As much as I find Anchal a great elder Bon the fact that Ani loves younger Bon, doesn't feel nice-she was a kid after all. He never considered younger Bon as his wife, but friend, companion and his responsibility. DId CV forget about that? I think they should have gradually shown that he loves elder Bon when she is Vyajanti.

Sorry I know this is only a serial and I should not take this too seriously but I don't like thinking that Ani loves young Bon (aka Aura's Bondita). I also find Jamaibabu's love for younger Bon weird.

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See I agree with your above points but for Anirudh,he had somewhere started seeing the perfect life partner in Bondita during marriage annulment👍🏼 and there is nothing wrong in it,because Bondita was everything Ani ever wanted!!❤️He loved her platonically at that point of time but after she left for London and as years passed by,he was obviously aware of the fact that Bondita is no more the little girl now,and so his feelings would have obviously changed for her,as of seeing or meeting her,Ani dosen't need to do that,they share this soulful relationship, so nothing in my point of view is being rushed!!😆Love was always there between them earlier it was platonic and now with dynamics being changed it'll be romantic!!

Originally posted by: Siddiquie

See I agree with your above points but for Anirudh,he had somewhere started seeing the perfect life partner in Bondita during marriage annulment👍🏼 and there is nothing wrong in it,because Bondita was everything Ani ever wanted!!❤️He loved her platonically at that point of time but after she left for London and as years passed by,he was obviously aware of the fact that Bondita is no more the little girl now,and so his feelings would have obviously changed for her,as of seeing or meeting her,Ani dosen't need to do that,they share this soulful relationship, so nothing in my point of view is being rushed!!😆Love was always there between them earlier it was platonic and now with dynamics being changed it'll be romantic!!

exactly u are right

see he has feelings for her even after he did not see her face-he has soulful and sefless love

ani se zyada pyar bon ko koi nahi kar sakta

both are on opposite ladders of love

Good points. thanks it helped me seeing it from a different angle. I guess I myself couldnt see younger Bon been grown up

Before leap when she asked whether she can choose him as her partner when she grows up he said yes. So it was kind of a promise between them when she was young. He did not have passionate feelings for her when she was young but i think he saw that she has all qualities he likes in his life partner in her. So he waited for till she comes back. Bondita might be looking childish now but she loved ani since she was young and he told her they can be together after her studies so its natural for her to have fantasies where he also loves her back