Bhool jao mere Adi ko - Page 21

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

But I thought SK works solo! But yea why not partnership! 😂✌🏼

It is obvious that he get support. No activity can carried out independently… that area in detailed they can’t touch …. Always pd seems as a Naxal belt region … remember he just phone somebody and tell to reach when going to attack Adhi… and get bike also… and also funding requires for arms & ammunition’s also… they used while fighting with police. Dilse scene…

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Kona scenes expectations ki lagni hai waat😆. They would rather show best bahooo competison🤓

Ye kya best bahu competison? Did i missed something

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Apu ne khud hi itna humiliate kiya hai imlie ko, her defending imlie in front of public is purely dikhaava and nothing else. Nothing she does will make her better in my eyes. I will watch it mainly for bs ka tandav against anyone who dares insult wifey❤️.

Nor me ..her behavior Is too much to justify but it is ITV way to whitewash ..

AKT ke taandav ke liye to hum 🍿 leke beth jaayenge😆

Kal hi bola tha mene ki I am taking a break from this show. Aaj subah hote hi mere se control nahi hua toh dekhli mene episode.

Bada wala jhatka for krantikari Dadda k fans k liye. Meethi ne krantikari Dadda ko joru ka gulam bana diya Jo bhi meko bilkul bhi pasand nahi aaya. Meri shakal hi sadh gayi Dadda ki iss new personality se. Dadda ko woh college kaand pata hi nahi hai aur baaki k kaand bhi. Sirf Imlie ne bola ki unhohne (in laws) ne reject kardiya but details nahi di she is subjected to their physical assault.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I get where you are coming from. The reason I said that their journey will be similar is because both tried to reject a truth that was clear to them from day one - That Aditya was married to Imlie. Adi rejected it because he was committed to Malini & his pride & ego took a huge hit. Aparna is rejecting it because her social conditioning does not allow her to easily to accept someone below her social standing to be called her son's life partner. Both of them use their inherent issues to lash out at the easiest target - Imlie. While Adi's ego was hurt, Imlie had no hand in that and had even worse consequences to face than he did. It is actually easier for me to understand Aparna than it was for Adi. Adi lashed out at her and continuously broke down her self respect as a punishment for his bruised ego and self respect, for which she was in no way responsible. She had no one to turn to then and was continuously alone, as she could not even tell her own family about anything. She was in a much worse state emotionally then, than she is now. That time when she had no one, Aparna supported her and loved her like a mother, and even stood up to her son multiple times for mistreating her.

Aparna does not inherently believe in what she is saying right now. If she did, she would have never berated Adi for keeping Imlie out of his room, for whatever reason. The issue now is that Aparna is unable to accept Imlie as her bahu. Not because Imlie did something wrong, but because she is afraid of facing the society and defending her son's decision. She feels that society will judge them and she is not prepared to face that. So she is using every trick in the book to alienate Imlie to either give up or move on from her son. This means that she will not have to do anything and things will be back to status quo, including her behavior with Imlie. But now Imlie has a solid support system, with a lot of people behind her, biggest of which is Adi, who is willing to go against everyone just to get her the place she deserves. This makes Aparna feel even more like things are going out of hand, so she tries getting more vicious to convince herself and others that Imlie is not worth being with them because of her paidaish. She is trying to throw everything on the wall to see what sticks. But beech beech mein that façade slips, when Imlie tries to reason with her or reach out to that mother in her who is attached to Imlie even now. That is why she reacts exactly like Adi by bargaining with her, so that again things go back to status quo.

So while I agree that Aparna's redemption will be different to Adi's, she is also suffering like Adi was. Rejecting years of conditioning and mindset is the most difficult thing to do, specially when you are challenged on your belief system everyday. You know your conditioning is wrong, but most people do not have the courage to break it easily. Imle and Adi are right now trying to chip away at that conditioning to get back the purane T family who fell in love with Imlie and still care for her even today.

i have had this open for so long.. i am oing to revert to this one for sure.. 😆

Originally posted by: _Seera_

i have had this open for so long.. i am oing to revert to this one for sure.. 😆

Will wait for it😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I get where you are coming from. The reason I said that their journey will be similar is because both tried to reject a truth that was clear to them from day one - That Aditya was married to Imlie. Adi rejected it because he was committed to Malini & his pride & ego took a huge hit. Aparna is rejecting it because her social conditioning does not allow her to easily to accept someone below her social standing to be called her son's life partner. Both of them use their inherent issues to lash out at the easiest target - Imlie. While Adi's ego was hurt, Imlie had no hand in that and had even worse consequences to face than he did. It is actually easier for me to understand Aparna than it was for Adi. Adi lashed out at her and continuously broke down her self respect as a punishment for his bruised ego and self respect, for which she was in no way responsible. She had no one to turn to then and was continuously alone, as she could not even tell her own family about anything. She was in a much worse state emotionally then, than she is now. That time when she had no one, Aparna supported her and loved her like a mother, and even stood up to her son multiple times for mistreating her.

Aparna does not inherently believe in what she is saying right now. If she did, she would have never berated Adi for keeping Imlie out of his room, for whatever reason. The issue now is that Aparna is unable to accept Imlie as her bahu. Not because Imlie did something wrong, but because she is afraid of facing the society and defending her son's decision. She feels that society will judge them and she is not prepared to face that. So she is using every trick in the book to alienate Imlie to either give up or move on from her son. This means that she will not have to do anything and things will be back to status quo, including her behavior with Imlie. But now Imlie has a solid support system, with a lot of people behind her, biggest of which is Adi, who is willing to go against everyone just to get her the place she deserves. This makes Aparna feel even more like things are going out of hand, so she tries getting more vicious to convince herself and others that Imlie is not worth being with them because of her paidaish. She is trying to throw everything on the wall to see what sticks. But beech beech mein that façade slips, when Imlie tries to reason with her or reach out to that mother in her who is attached to Imlie even now. That is why she reacts exactly like Adi by bargaining with her, so that again things go back to status quo.

So while I agree that Aparna's redemption will be different to Adi's, she is also suffering like Adi was. Rejecting years of conditioning and mindset is the most difficult thing to do, specially when you are challenged on your belief system everyday. You know your conditioning is wrong, but most people do not have the courage to break it easily. Imle and Adi are right now trying to chip away at that conditioning to get back the purane T family who fell in love with Imlie and still care for her even today.

Interesting discussions Apsvenky and Loony

Sigh! I do not have much to say on Aparna or Radha or any of those senior T's. The characters that I had understood according to what was shown is not aligned with what I am witnessing now. While I get the temper due to the shock, the conflict I am unable to comprehend the way they are venting this out. Infact with all of the four, it makes no sense that all of them feel the same! It boggles me that not one of them had a sensible argument even thought they are all angery. Mutlab wahan bhi they are being vahiyat together! So I will refrain from commenting much. This is where ITV loses me...trp, junta demands, melodrama..but I get it, they have a show to run, they have a vast audience to please. Aparna's real problem is Imlie's social status. Period. Their anger is way beyond the reason that these two broke their trust..naah! I initially gave that benefit of doubt.,,,it maybe be part of their temper but literally a very small percent...It is all about her social being.

Aparna definitely is that older generation stuck in an old time period, believing some age old norms, rituals, social statuses..etc. But the way she is dealing with it is definitely not dignified. Well atleast they have started to show how when Imlie spoke up or when Adi made some points, her wrath slacks a bit...

Oh well....we all know its all gonna end well...Today she be showing eyes...tomorrow those eyes will bow down...Imlie will call her ma and she will call her beti cum bahu cum beti...Baat khatam, ek naye rishte ka janam!

Aparna's bhook hartaal ( emotional blackmailing) will be the reason Imlie' s no sindoor- MS avatar😕 as per Twitter!! Looks like we need to be get ready for imotional atyachaar..

Kanha hum Adilie scenes in Kona ke suhaane sapne dekh rahe hai😆 Sab pe paani fer denge makers l😔

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Interesting discussions Apsvenky and Loony

Unfortunately I do not have much to say on Aparna or Radha or any of those senior T's. The characters that I had understood according to what was shown is not aligned with what I am witnessing now. Infact out of the four, it makes no sense that all of them feel the same! It boggles me that not one of them had a sensible argument even thought they are all angery. Mutlab wahan bhi they are being vahiyat together! So I will refrain from commenting much. This is where ITV loses me...trp, junta demands, melodrama..but I get it, they have a show to run, they have a vast audience to please. Aparna's real problem is Imlie's social status. Period. Their anger is way beyond the reason that these two broke their trust..naah! I initially gave that benefit of doubt.,,,it maybe be part of their temper but literally a very small percent...It is all about her social being.

Aparna definitely is that older generation stuck in an old time period, believing some age old norms, rituals, social statuses..etc. But the way she is dealing with it is definitely not dignified. Well atleast they have started to show how when Imlie spoke up or when Adi made some points, her wrath slacks a bit...

Oh well....we all know its all gonna end well...Today she be showing eyes...tomorrow those eyes will bow down...Imlie will call her ma and she will call her beti cum bahu cum beti...Baat khatam, ek naye rishte ka janam!

Even I was outraged at the regressive thought of the Ts Whatever ji. Makers clearly threw us under the bus with the turn of events. Thats because we had not gotten a hint previously that the Tripathi's had their own latent ugly mindset in them, that would pounce right at us when the time comes. Its something we can all agree that neither Aparna's actions or words could ever be justified. Atleast among the viewers they do not deserve forgiveness.

Imlie will be forgiving them, that is another case. But what I am really looking forward to is how the makers are gonna turn this around if ever there is a redemption as such. When I thought about it, the Ts are just representing that part of the society that preaches progressiveness when they all are silently regressive. Thats what is happening here. I thought of dropping it altogether because I was kinda certain that the redemption of Tripati's will be through some lame NDE of Imlie or some agent that makes them sympathise with Imlie.

But today we saw Adi hinting that he will be fighting against this stigma starting his home. I am kinda hopeful that, if the storyline takes that direction, it will be more about how Adi makes the Ts realise their mistakes and accept Imlie for what she is. Not through some fever dance or some lame sympathy inducing elements. Looking at how blindsided the Ts are acting now, its gonna be a real toughy for the makers to convince us and may be justify the Ts POV.

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Aparna's bhook hartaal ( emotional blackmailing) will be the reason Imlie' s no sindoor- MS avatar😕 as per Twitter!! Looks like we need to be get ready for imotional atyachaar..

Kanha hum Adilie scenes in Kona ke suhaane sapne dekh rahe hai😆 Sab pe paani fer denge makers l😔

Koi baat nahi.. Adi rehega tho kone me hi even she remove ms because of emotional atyachar..

Uski ma bhook hadtal karegi tho bete ka tho track record dekho vo bhi kam nahi hai..