Virat ko bash karne ke unlimited asaan tareeke - Page 4

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I am sorry to say this, you have every right to express your views and again sorry but why are you after @Fruitcustard_9 like this? Why such aggressive approach for a character?

I am not trying to single you out, but have been noticing this since a long time in her every post, these are just characters and it is just a show, neither Sai is real nor Virat. Disliking them is okay, who is it hurting? They aren't real

You added the last later I persume. I have been personally attacked & my post was hidden when I merely talked about fiction. That is hate and disrespect. You did single out. Like this is a show & characters, stop attacking personally for that. They aren’t real but I am. What are you even saying. I talk only fiction. You should check. I have learnt the methodology of replies from this forum. Sad how you didn’t point out how the above accs attacks others. Partiality I believe. Then don’t point fingers at others.

Discuss fiction then dude.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

I apologized twice that was to tell you that I am not singling you out, so you don't feel any hostility from my side, I just see this passive aggressive approach from your side in all of her posts, I don't say anything to anyone, unless it involves me, there are Mods for this

I don't care If characters are being questioned, they are not my relatives that I'll care about them, they are imaginary, we discuss their actions, everyone has a different opinion and they see things differently

Hmmm you did single out & apologies doesn’t pre empt that. I can feel hostile😌

Your perception is not my responsibility. I can say I find your approach passive aggressive too. So? it’s fiction unless we attack members here. Check my posts. I respond when abuse is glorified and victim is shamed. That’s my perception.

Bold- exactly my point too. They aren’t my relatives either. So what’s the issue. You said it everyone will have a different opinion, we discuss that here
Edit- If one can accept their favs mistake this will end. See how Virats domestic abuse is justified by nitpicking Sai. I don’t agree with that. So I will call it out

I have a genuine doubt . Has the reporting rules changed ? What’s the purpose of report button if people can openly report the post by tagging the mod and i am sorry but I feel it’s like bullying the member . It’s like inviting others to share their opinion on the reported post and single out the member . It should be mods who needs to decide if it’s offensive and the forum members shouldn’t be influencing it . I am sorry if I offended anyone but I felt like its bullying

Originally posted by: Niranjan256

You added the last later I persume. I have been personally attacked & my post was hidden when I merely talked about fiction. That is hate and disrespect. You did single out. Like this is a show & characters, stop attacking personally for that. They aren’t real but I am. What are you even saying. I talk only fiction. You should check. I have learnt the methodology of replies from this forum. Sad how you didn’t point out how the above accs attacks others. Partiality I believe. Then don’t point fingers at others.

Discuss fiction then dude.

I don’t wish to stretch this, I didn’t attack you, I was very gentle in my approach, if you thought thats attacking you then I am sorry

It is not my battle so have a good day

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I don’t wish to stretch this, I didn’t attack you, I was very gentle in my approach, if you thought thats attacking you then I am sorry

It is not my battle so have a good day

Nora, I have no bones to pick with you. That’s why I said don’t be sorry. I call out certain things which I feel is wrong. I don’t attack people. I might attack characters

Have a good day!

The whole post started with the victimization of Virat. Common I go through any post on the forum the same narrative, sai is not bashed, Virat is bashed for breathing. This is getting old. If Virat is criticized that's for his actions. How will Sai be criticized in the same way if their actions are different? Despite she gets bashed almost every day which is fine because everyone will have a different opinion. Then what's this narrative and gaslighting behaviour that none can speak against Sai, Virat gets bashed in 1000 tareeke. Isn't this mocking and instigation. This post itself is instigating and mocking.

If only one could accept the wrongdoings of their fav, but then the other character is brought to nitpick on to elevate their favs. Virat's domestic violence and abuse are also justified now. Honestly speak to makers and creatives if your fav character is butchered. Someone should actually keep a score board

Look at this topic alone- Sai is S***shamed, domestic violence is trivialized, its said nobody will want to live with her when Virats abuse is criticized Sai is brought into discussion saying she did blah blah wrongs. How can domestic violence even be equated. Isn't this all bashing? Then what's this narrative of Sai isn't bashed? Its getting so petty

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Originally posted by: chenjulia110

I am absolutely in awe of how everyone finds virat controlling. Like are you sure you havent seen sai getting what she wants done by hook or crook? And i am sorry it isnt cute at all and i find it rather disturbing.

Virat had problematic parenting and it shows in his behavior. Sai too however had a flawed upbringing and i can 100% see the symptoms. Kamal joshi undoubtedly was a gem of a human being and a dutiful police officer but alas couldnt be a fit dad. Pampering your kid to the extent that they think they are entitled to have everything their way looks problematic to me.

Sai had no reason to force bhavani, ninad and omkar to drink their tea or stop them from drinking their tea in their respective rooms when she herself took her tea cup to her room after the fiasco.

The entire drama to call them to the function was again very very over the top and i dont see enough harshness being meted out to her for this. She is a teenager and is in strict need of discipline since it looks like neither kamal nor usha maushi bothered to ever discipline her.

Speaking your mind out is one thing but speaking without a filter and without a thought to the company and the way your point should be presented is rude and brattish. You do not throw meaningless challenges around for no reason at all.

I cant even see the point in bashing virat for ousting sai from the house after pulkit-devyani wedding. We as audience knew everything that happened and that pulkit was a decent man if also a coward. But virat didnt. For all he knew sai could have married his mentally unbalanced sister off to a rapist or a wimp who would proceed to sell his sister to a brothrel. The marriage laws in the country would have meant that as soon as the wedding was solemnised pulkit had the supreme say in matters concerning devyani legally, which coincidentally meant that devyani being mentally unstable would have been unable to ask for help from her family if pulkit ever did something to her and virat would have been unable to do anything about it without proofs. If my husband did that to my sister i sure as hell would have slapped him and pushed him out of the house too.

The only part where i feel virat was too harsh than what was necessary was when he held sai's hand to stop her from leaving the house to meet pulkit for lunch but that again could be explained by his worry for a teenager girl who is going out to meet some guy for lunch at his home without telling the guy's name even after asking repeatedly and wouldnt let him even drop her. That sure raises a security issue in mind, dont you think? And frankly even my father would have angrily yelled at me and would have told me to stay in my room if i tried to pull a stunt like that.

Virat stopping sai from having food after she came back home hungry from her visit was again understandable. I think virat even explained it himself that sai cannot behave like the house was a hotel. If she had fought the entire house on a brattish whim that she wanted to go for lunch with her professor surely she shouldnt have returned home hungry? And if she is indeed returning home hungry then maybe there was something wrong with what she said about where she was going? That definitely looked like a teenage rebellion and needed to be shot down? The execution could have definitely been better. But the notion of tagging virat a domestic violence perpetrator doesnt sit well with me and probably never will

The problem is that people are busy seeing who is right and who is wrong instead of seeing that both are wrong and right. Sai is too impulsive. She will do the things anyhow even if this will hurt someone or create problem for her and others. It's good to be free, independent and all but sometimes you need to think before taking big decisions. Virat needs to stop being too harsh even if he thinks he is right. A few things could have avoided by him or dealt differently. If you want to oust her then make sure she is safe, maybe rent a house for her or at least wait till the next day. Even about stopping her from eating, he could have dealt differently. Instead of name calling the characters and bashing, maybe we should just accept both the characters are wrong.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

The problem is that people are busy seeing who is right and who is wrong instead of seeing that both are wrong and right. Sai is too impulsive. She will do the things anyhow even if this will hurt someone or create problem for her and others. It's good to be free, independent and all but sometimes you need to think before taking big decisions. Virat needs to stop being too harsh even if he thinks he is right. A few things could have avoided by him or dealt differently. If you want to oust her then make sure she is safe, maybe rent a house for her or at least wait till the next day. Even about stopping her from eating, he could have dealt differently. Instead of name calling the characters and bashing, maybe we should just accept both the characters are wrong.

Thank you for approaching the post with an open mind and a neutral positive approach.

I agree with your assessment completely however i do feel a little strongly about the wrong doings sai has done mostly because virat's wrong doings are dealt with justly whereas sai gets away with a lot on screen and that may have reflected in my post.

I apologise if i sounded a tad bit too rough to sai

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Thank you for approaching the post with an open mind and a neutral positive approach.

I agree with your assessment completely however i do feel a little strongly about the wrong doings sai has done mostly because virat's wrong doings are dealt with justly whereas sai gets away with a lot on screen and that may have reflected in my post.

I apologise if i sounded a tad bit too rough to sai

I won't excuse Virat for doing a few things just because his wife was at fault too. What he did was wrong so was wrong. He is rightly bashed and criticized but bringing the same topic again and again gets actually tiring. I see daily new posts are made on those old mistakes by him. Every day repeating the same thing isn't tiring ? 🤔 And then the audacity I see when Sai is bashed (which is hardly) or criticized people question how can you criticize her for that. I really want MODs to make two threads. Sai bashing thread and Virat bashing thread so that the forum becomes positive like before. I am tired of the negativity. Don't we come here for fun ? Or do we come here to fight ? 🤢 No wonder people have left. 🤢