Pallavi is still not important for Raghav yet - Page 8

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Hmm...he was shown to be scared of losing Pallavi with this guilt track..then they changed tracks and made Keerthi the culprit . Now he is trying to take blame and surrender....so now he us not scared of losing Pallavi? He is clearly not thinking straight. I'm not saying he should hand keerti to police.I am saying saying he needs to handle it another way...get lawyers and see how to protect Keerthi legally. I don't mind a legal battle with P and R on opposite sides...but he needs to maintain how important Pallavi is to him. He has not. 👎🏼

Why did they change track suddenly?! It was obvious that they intended Raghav to be Mandhar’s killer..

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

It's not him sacrificing himself that bothers me. And I know Pallu totally understands Raghav in this matter and her feelings aren't not change and may in fact instill the belief once again that he is really a nice person and not what others make him out to be.. That much she knows... And she will not ever give up, I know judging by her declarations and clarity... She has made that clear to Raghav time and again..

@bold: I don't know. I don't think so he will do that and even if he does, it will be kind of hard to understand.... Sacrificing yourself makes sense when you have thought enough about the other person's emotions and his/her happiness, if he gives up on her without understanding her emotions.. I would call it guilt tripping and nothing else... The first time he let her go to Kolhapur, I was totally rooting for it because they needed it... But if this time he does it without even taking a look at the person in front of him or without taking into consideration how deep she feels for him.. I would call him stupid..... Better person ke paas kyun jaane dena bhai? Khud hi better partner ban jao... I have been there in personal life and I have made that choice of I-don't-deserve-you kind of choice and it's cowardish I discovered... If you feel for that person, you work out, you talk, you try, otherwise I feel it's just wanting to get rid of guilt and toxicity...You see the person in front of you and her emotions, and not just your own guilt..

I guess I went off track, and it might not be even related to RR.. But about true love and sacrifices, it's not that simple for me.. Like Pallavi said, insaan bade bade kaam toh kaee baar aasaani se kar jata hai, par chhote chhote kaamon se pata chalti hai asli baat.. Anyways I am not rooting for him to be an ideal lover ya husband, but at least I hope it's intense enough from both sides even through their mistakes... And mostly my problem isn't how he is behaving, but how it's coming out.. It's on the writers.. Not Raghav, I know he feels deep enough for Pallavi, but it's not hitting home.. His conflict isn't doing it for me.. LOL.

There s nothing like ideal husband or ideal wife. A couple grows when they know to reach d other person to make it 100% how much one travels doesn't matter but to reach there s what matters. Some times u r at the giving end some time u r at the receiving end. Real life doesnt stop there it gives u many such instances where u have to travel an extra mile to reach ur partner. Once u know d other needs u there u ll not think twice to reach there that s what true love s.

To put it in more simple terms it s not 50-50 always some times it s 70-30. Or 30-70.

Husband n wife cannot be equal always it s important to be complementary to each other .

Jodiya aise banti hai jaha bande ko kami jode me poori hojati hai..

It's not always u at d 70 % end some times u might be at d 30% end too but ur partner ll know about ur insecurity to travel that extra mile n travel it for u. That comes from discussing ur views n beliefs.

Hope it made sense.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Yup, Raghav's emotions make sense, but his actions are literally so all over the place, and so senseless, that it's becoming a little hard to connect with him and sympathize for him. He's acting as if Pallavi's agenda is to send any random person to jail, so by going himself he'll solve her issue. How he thinks this will give her any closure is beyond me.

@ bold- that scene was just 💔

I don't mind him trying to protect Kirti, in fact, I expect that, but so far he has made an extremely stupid plan- it doesn't make me feel for him, all it makes me want to do is roll my eyes at him, so thoda sense aa jaaye plot mein toh badhiya hoga.

The closure thing still made sense until she didn't know about him not being the culprit.. But now...

I know. Awkwardness was I could feel. And I blame the team for not making use of the potential in that scene. Arghh.. Am I expecting too much??

Sense ki hi toh baat hai, otherwise it's obvious what he is gonna do, otherwise he isn't RR.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Brothers r made n carved to function like this. But she s a little too much ungreatful.. otherwise in real life too siblings do stuff like this i have seen one of my friend's brother take blame of an accident he didn't go to jail tough d victim just had a fracture n they got out of court settlement. But yeah such stuff happens..

But a lot s at stake for Raghav. We r all thinking it s pallavi's agnipariksha but the actual agnipariksha s of RAGHAV. Kahi bhi jaye dono taraf se bas isiki haar hai. My heart goes out for d brother in him who wants to protect his sister while she keeps adding troubles his way. Hopefully it gets sorted soon.

Otherwise isme hi ulajh k rehjayega aur bandar aake biwi lejayega..

Originally posted by: meghumonu

I guess most people cannot accept Raghav sacrificing himself for his sister who do not even love him!! That is what hurting them!! They want him to response to Pallavi with same passion and love she has for him. But we have to understand Raghav by nature is not an expressive person and the amount of trauma he has gone through for last 10 years it will not be overnight when he becomes expressive all sudden it takes time in reality and that is what it is shown here.

I can say for myself, my reasons are not exactly these.. I totally accept him being sacrificing himself for Keerthi, but I don't get his logics regarding Pallavi

. . And I get his conflicts and his nature but not his logics that's it.. They can take all the time, in fact that's all I want.. Taking it slowly...

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

yep! perfectly said

I also think he'll only understand when she's going to leave him

there was a time when I never wanted a separation between these two but I think its needed now

I'm just hoping he gets over his guilt by that time so he doesn't think Pallavi is better off with Mandar and lets her go

they both need closure and he needs to realize his feelings for her by then, otherwise we're going to get a lot of heartbreak

I think too that Pallavi needs to walk out on him. I mean n amount of declarations of not leaving him are not hitting home for Raghav Rao. I mean he is still quite stuck in his own head about his own insecurities, so I mean what is the point then. He still doesn't feel secure somewhere. And this problem he has to solve only, no one can do it for him.

If Pallavi walks out on him, and not just that if Raghav Rao even gets a hint that Pallavi is moving on with someone else, specially Mandaar, whom she has so much admiration for, then the Don of Hyderabad will roar and all insecurities of Raghav will crumble beneath the power of Hyderabad ka Don.

Although, I believe Pallavi will not be moving on anywhere. She will be doubtful whether the guy is Mandaar at all.

Originally posted by: libran90

Not that I am watching on a regular basis, but I have always felt that Raghav does not value Pallavi as much as he does his family. I mean I know they are blood and all, but for Pallavi also D family was no less than blood. She still went ahead and chose him, and in clear words she said, "You are my priority", and she is living up to that statement.

It's not that Raghav does not value her, but I feel that he always values her from a perspective of getting his family back to him. He has a rather conflicting stance, where he feels Pallavi is the reason he has a home and family, but whenever it will come to choosing, he will not choose the very person who brought this family back in his life. And then he has an additional baggage that he thinks he doesn't deserve Pallavi.

As I have seen the show progress, I have seen Pallavi starting out to be weak compared to Raghav. Now, the tables are turning, where we see that Raghav's weaknesses are becoming prominent apart from his behavioral issues. I am actually quite happy that they are showing the growth as well as the chinks in the armour of both the characters.

In my opinion, Raghav will only get a reality check when he will lose Pallavi - when his companion, his partner, his friend, and a woman who has immense faith in him will not be there. That is when he will he will come to terms with his fear of both losing Pallavi and not deserving Pallavi. Thoda sa hi sahi, but he has taken her presence for granted. She needs to walk out on him again. And we also will need Mandaar in the picture. Cause if its friendship cum budding love with Raghav, then it is admiration and respect for Mandaar. Raghav coming to terms with Mandaar and Pallavi's equation and the "khaulna-ubalna" scenario is what will be a fun watch.

In conclusion I would just applaud Pallavi for her capacity to love defective people, who never seem to choose her ever, and she is busy choosing them, be it Deshmukhs or Raghav. I just want someone to go tell that poor girl - "I choose you Pallavi." I feel sad for her, but I hope the makers make up for that via Raghav Rao.

Hi after long time🤗❤️, missed ur posts❤️

Totally agree with u..

U have explained it so well, I need not say anything else at all❤️❤️

He needs that lil jerk of name Mandaar😊...for him to value Pallavi in his life..he needs to come out of his shell, where he feels he's loosing her completely..

Pallavi should also be strict with him, saying..tell me where I stand in ur life..once u know that, I will come to u..

He just takes her for granted when it comes to his family..

Earlier also he told her, don't mingle in my family issues😡

Now also he's doing same thing...he wants her to give him importance, & when it comes to her...he's like understand me👎🏼

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

I can say for myself, my reasons are not exactly these.. I totally accept him being sacrificing himself for Keerthi, but I don't get his logics regarding Pallavi

. . And I get his conflicts and his nature but not his logics that's it.. They can take all the time, in fact that's all I want.. Taking it slowly...

Well there relationship is so deep and layered that everyone has their own perspective about it.

Originally posted by: samarp2

In precap, felt bad for Pallavi😭..she was looking at Raghav with full hope in her eyes..but he clearly told her, he will choose keerti over her.that was expected from Raghav, nothing new it was...for him, it was & always will Amma & Keerti over pallavi😭

If for Amma & Keerti...he can choose Pallavi, then for those he can easily leave her too😭😭

Its just like a reality......nicely they have shown here, reality👏.many boys does that.always they will choose their family over wife...only Wife needs to sacrifice😒...

if she chooses her parents, she is blamed

Raghav, should balance his responsibilites from both sides.i know, hes in the situation, where, he cant choose both or either.cause one is supposed to be sad & broken...

but here, one is criminal & other justice...but he choosed to be with criminal (who doesnt value other life at all😡)

i think, for Raghav to really valuse Pallavi , is.when Pallavi goes away from him..cause she still doesnt hold that importance in his life, what Amma, Keerti & Farhad holds...

so easily ( it was hard decision for him too), he just told her sorry for future..how him being in jail is solution for Pallavi.he very well knows, that she will not allow him to be there at all...

it has become like, everytime..Pallavi has to show, how much important he is for her...when he is going to do the opp...

even after knowing Keerti did bad & made a person loose his life.he doesnt seems to be strict with her, or confront her properly

In his desperate need to save his sister he has even forgotten his own principles, wasn't it shown earlier that Raghav doesn't let an innocent suffer but will never let a culprit go away easily? i guess it it is hard to do so when it hits closer to home.

I won't say that Pallavi isn't important to him...yes it did come across like that and any other person would jump to that conclusion too, but not Pallavi. She knows him well enough now, hence the words will hurt temporarily (hope she rubs it too when the fiasco gets over), but she will be standing again, right back in his corner.

What i am glad though is that she made it very clear to him that he is hurting her, that by not helping catch the real criminal he is robbing her and the Deshmukhs of justice, this i don't see it often in many ITV shows bahut saari baatein monologue mein nikal jaati hai .

He is mixing up with the fact that Pallavi doesn't believing in substituting her anger/ hate on somebody who doesn't deserve it. Knowing that the real criminal got away will never give her any peace and thus miserably failing in giving her a closure.

Originally posted by: samarp2

Hi after long time🤗❤️, missed ur posts❤️

Totally agree with u..

U have explained it so well, I need not say anything else at all❤️❤️

He needs that lil jerk of name Mandaar😊...for him to value Pallavi in his life..he needs to come out of his shell, where he feels he's loosing her completely..

Pallavi should also be strict with him, saying..tell me where I stand in ur life..once u know that, I will come to u..

He just takes her for granted when it comes to his family..

Earlier also he told her, don't mingle in my family issues😡

Now also he's doing same thing...he wants her to give him importance, & when it comes to her...he's like understand me👎🏼

I appreciate Raghav for all his things, be it his strength of character, honesty and frankness. His love for his family is commendable. But somewhere, he still treats Pallavi as an outsider. In Keerti's matter, he also kind of blocked her out. That was the 1st instance when I knew it would be an issue in the future.

I think for once Pallavi should leave him. Raghav Rao is impatient and impulsive. Saying that Pallavi needs freedom and closure and all that is easier said than done. Let her go and even bring the thought of moving on with someone, Raghav Rao will revert to his Hyderabad ka Don avatar.