Pallavi is still not important for Raghav yet - Page 10

Originally posted by: samarp2

he was always that manipulative...

so clearly he told her, for the past (dead), ur spoiling ur present & future relations..

he was not at all, thinking, from her POV.just being plain selfish & manipulative ( just for sister's blind love)

Ye Raghav Rao sabse bada paltu hai 😆

2 weeks tak guilt mein mar raha tha,abhi tone change kardiya.

Aane do mere Mandu darling ko. 🤪Uske baad sabka tone set ho jaana hai 🤡

🤗So happy u started making topics I always missed ur analysis

There is a thin line blood related comes first

In real life u must have experienced that hubby’s take wife as secondary

Siblings and parents come first

Same with girls too we give importance to our parents than inlaws but we as wives give equally importance to spouse too that’s all it is too it

Here pallu was not a choice of Raghu in fact she was forced in to being a wife so that his family will stay with him

Both have lived for loved ones

Raghu has lived half his life in guilt and he made a promise for himself that his family comes first but destiny added pallu to his list but when he came to know he did a sin by ruining her life he took up to redeem the mistakes he did

He did redeem in very good way and pallu too melted with that his past story even melt her further

Here storm came the past was connected to her and it destroyed her life and his sibling was directly / indirectly was involved

He took up to shield his sibling because he can’t afford to lose one more sibling again

His focus went there he knows in this process he is Gona hurt pallu the most he is looking in to future and pallu wants justice for the past

War between past and future has started

Both are stubborn both will fight

Neither Raghu wrong nor pallu

They both don’t know the importance in being a couple

Raghu feels she is there where would she go so he thinks that she can take care of herself even though he ends up in jail

Pallu knows the importance of having a spouse because her past is great example…

Raghu will get to value his spouse once mandaar enters the scene

It will be knock his senses then till then he will be self obsessed

If pallu would have gone to kohlapur he would have tasted the separation and how it feels Life without spouse

life teaches u greater lesson

Even pallu will realize to be selfish sometimes to get what u own the most ..

hope we get scenes of them longing to be together but destiny stopped them types ( mini separation)

We don’t know how next track will be

Mandaar is FB cameo or full length 3 rd angle who will bring spice to raghvi life

🤞hope we get to see

Keerti I don’t know we’re her track will lead too

If sunny ends up in jail will she end her life or be a vamp to separate raghvi

Let’s hope these tracks are lengthy and we enjoy the most 🤞

Originally posted by: libran90

I don't know why I feel that this Mandaar character is not going to be Mandaar to be honest. Let's see what happens. I feel that Pallavi-Amma-Farhad will solve this mystery. Keerti, she is hopeless to be honest. Even though she isn't vile like Manasi, but I wouldn't hold my breath if she turns vile.

Another thing I feel, even though Pallavi may not want to pull back, Amma will suggest her to do so. Raghav needs to understand that Pallavi is no means to an end anymore and neither she is an outsider. She is his wife, she is family and she is a partner, which means it's a two way street. And also the thing is it is the "Thirsty cannot live without water" situation. Raghav has been so thirsty for love, care, trust, friendship. If he feels that someone will take that away from him then I don't know how Raghav will react. He may have withdrawal symptoms I think.

Kirti is just about to cross into the territory- shame, because she was one of my favorite characters for the longest time. I'd love an Amma-Pallavi-Farhad team up. Farhad is the most level headed person in this show's universe, so definitely see him involved. Plus, he's always gone out of his way to help Pallavi, right from the first week of episodes, so why stop now?

I see Amma managing to keep her sanity as the world goes insane when Mandaar or 'Mandaar' returns, and she's going to be excellent support for Pallavi, and Pallavi's gonna need it. It won't be fair to expect anything from Sharda in that emotional space, when her dead son's back to life, and Raghav really is too caught up in his own head, and it's only going to get worse.

Raghav's withdrawal symptoms- I guess the night he's confessing to a passed out Pallavi about how desperately he needs her is a good indication that withdrawal is not going to be pleasant, but it'll shock him out of his mode of 'letting her go for her own good', which he's a bit stuck in right now, especially if and when he realizes she's in deep as well.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Kirti is just about to cross into the territory- shame, because she was one of my favorite characters for the longest time. I'd love an Amma-Pallavi-Farhad team up. Farhad is the most level headed person in this show's universe, so definitely see him involved. Plus, he's always gone out of his way to help Pallavi, right from the first week of episodes, so why stop now?

I see Amma managing to keep her sanity as the world goes insane when Mandaar or 'Mandaar' returns, and she's going to be excellent support for Pallavi, and Pallavi's gonna need it. It won't be fair to expect anything from Sharda in that emotional space, when her dead son's back to life, and Raghav really is too caught up in his own head, and it's only going to get worse.

Raghav's withdrawal symptoms- I guess the night he's confessing to a passed out Pallavi about how desperately he needs her is a good indication that withdrawal is not going to be pleasant, but it'll shock him out of his mode of 'letting her go for her own good', which he's a bit stuck in right now, especially if and when he realizes she's in deep as well.

Honestly, I wouldn't want Kirti to cross into vile territory just for a guy. What is with jealous crazy sisters in this show. First Mansi, now Keerti. I mean the supposed men - Rahul and Sunny don't give two hoots about the girls, and both make Pallavi's life hell. What morbid examples of women they showcase sometimes.

Coming to mothers, well if you ask me, Sharda Deshmukh hasn't done much in terms of supporting Pallavi against Vijay Deshmukh. She was quite when VD tormented Mandaar, and she is quite in case of Pallavi too. Unlike Mandaar, Pallavi knows when to take a stand for herself. So, IMO, Sharda ka hona aur na hona ek barabar hai. Amma is solid support for Pallavi and solid as a woman. Won't really say as mother, cause how much ever I love Raghav and Keerti, both siblings have suffered concussions in their head bro, both are deranged in varying degrees to be honest.😆

Exactly, Pallavi is Raghav's habit, something which he cannot let go anymore. His need for her support in a drunk state says a lot. Once Mandaar enters the scenario and Pallavi offers that same support, warmth and kindness to him, Hyderabad ka Don will awaken from his slumber. And as we all know that side of him always gets what he wants and no one takes what belongs to him. Ye sacrifice ka devta banna iske bas ka lag nahi raha mujhko😆

Originally posted by: Diya2021

So nice to see you here after so long. I used to always think where you left after Raghav’s redemption track started. You have said it all. Although they have come a long way and it is his intentions to give a closure to her pain as well to save Kirti, even I feel he still doesn’t give her the priority in his life which she deserves. Her capacity to love and care for every one is amazing. I admire Raghav for always being there for his family but I am waiting for the day he tells Pallavi that she is his priority. yes, I would love to see him choose her above every one.

I hover around the forum darling. Just don't post on a regular basis. Just sometimes when topics serve some food for thought.😊

Raghav needs to lose Pallavi to realise what place she has in his life. Pallavi has been very lenient with him cause she is like that. And since she has feelings for him, it has just made her more tolerant of Raghav's antics. But I genuinely feel she needs to back off. Cause unlike the Deshmukhs who are just baaton ke babaseer making tall claims of love, support, family, trust, they only have selfishness flowing in their veins. After Pallavi backed off, none of the morons attempted to win her back, because they don't need her anymore. She was fine as long she was a doormat. Jab se jhaadu banke sabko jhaad diya, sabko mirchi lag gayi. That is not the case with Raghav. Raghav is slow, but he will attempt to win her over because he wants Pallavi in his life as his friend, partner, lover, wife everything.

Originally posted by: libran90

Honestly, I wouldn't want Kirti to cross into vile territory just for a guy. What is with jealous crazy sisters in this show. First Mansi, now Keerti. I mean the supposed men - Rahul and Sunny don't give two hoots about the girls, and both make Pallavi's life hell. What morbid examples of women they showcase sometimes.

Coming to mothers, well if you ask me, Sharda Deshmukh hasn't done much in terms of supporting Pallavi against Vijay Deshmukh. She was quite when VD tormented Mandaar, and she is quite in case of Pallavi too. Unlike Mandaar, Pallavi knows when to take a stand for herself. So, IMO, Sharda ka hona aur na hona ek barabar hai. Amma is solid support for Pallavi and solid as a woman. Won't really say as mother, cause how much ever I love Raghav and Keerti, both siblings have suffered concussions in their head bro, both are deranged in varying degrees to be honest.😆

Exactly, Pallavi is Raghav's habit, something which he cannot let go anymore. His need for her support in a drunk state says a lot. Once Mandaar enters the scenario and Pallavi offers that same support, warmth and kindness to him, Hyderabad ka Don will awaken from his slumber. And as we all know that side of him always gets what he wants and no one takes what belongs to him. Ye sacrifice ka devta banna iske bas ka lag nahi raha mujhko😆

Oof, if only I had words to express how much I hate seeing Kirti go down this route. Especially if it turns out that Sunny was behind the wheel- she's happy to pin it on an innocent person just to cover for him, yikes. And the animosity against Pallavi, I fail to understand. This show was once making such a nice point that a bhabhi-nanan relationship doesn't have to be strained and bitchy (with both Kirti and Mansi), but that ship seems to have sailed now. I'd love a return to the original Kirti we saw, but no clue how they'd swing it at this point- probably by pinning it all on Sunny, and forgetting the fact that she's clearly complicit.

Sharda, I am on the fence about her. I spent a long time hating her character, because her love seemed so empty- for all her affectionate words, she was probably the one burdening Pallavi the most, with her constant refrain of "I know you'll handle this". I was especially pissed off at her anger after the marriage for Pallavi not sharing her problems, because Sharda never really created a safe space for Pallavi before. But ever since, I do believe that while her actions fall short time and time again, her intentions are in the right place, and she truly wants to see Pallavi be happy. As we've learned more and more about Vijay, his abusive nature has become quite evident, and I find myself sympathetic towards her for being married to such an abusive man for decades, and her inability to take action or speak out becomes easier to understand and forgive. She appears to be near her breaking point right now, so I feel they could go either way with her. If she doesn't though, then you're right- her support or lack thereof will mean nothing.

Amma is not a great mother. Her trauma was extremely severe, so I understand why she failed, but she's been unfair to both Raghav and Kirti in her choices in the last decade. She has however, been a flawless mother-in-law and friend to Pallavi, and I hope that continues. Please, TV gods, let some women retain their strong bonds.

Raghav's finding it easier to consider all these sacrifices since it's all hypothetical right now. Plus, whether he acknowledges it or not, he's able to take comfort in the fact that Pallavi's going to hold on for dear life no matter how much he tries to let go, so he is pretty secure. All of that will disappear as soon as there's an indication that Pallavi may be done fighting to hold on, whether for Mandaar or any other reason.

Originally posted by: libran90

I hover around the forum darling. Just don't post on a regular basis. Just sometimes when topics serve some food for thought.😊

Raghav needs to lose Pallavi to realise what place she has in his life. Pallavi has been very lenient with him cause she is like that. And since she has feelings for him, it has just made her more tolerant of Raghav's antics. But I genuinely feel she needs to back off. Cause unlike the Deshmukhs who are just baaton ke babaseer making tall claims of love, support, family, trust, they only have selfishness flowing in their veins. After Pallavi backed off, none of the morons attempted to win her back, because they don't need her anymore. She was fine as long she was a doormat. Jab se jhaadu banke sabko jhaad diya, sabko mirchi lag gayi. That is not the case with Raghav. Raghav is slow, but he will attempt to win her over because he wants Pallavi in his life as his friend, partner, lover, wife everything.

Keep visiting frequently 😄 I get what you are saying. Seeing the precap I have less hope of her getting upset with Raghav anytime soon. She is all set to save him as usual. She is always that selfless soul who will never think of her hurt. Looks like the only way is Mandar’s entry. I wasn’t looking forward to it at all but now looks like if this is what it takes to make Raghav realise Pallavi’s importance, then let’s have Mandar back. @bold, true. Can never compare Raghav with Deshmuk’s. They just used her for their advantage but Raghav really cares for her but like you said he is slow in realising how much important she is in his life. Until we have something with us, we wouldn’t know the value of it. The fear of losing her will only make him realise what her place is in his life. Pallavi is so sweet, she wouldn’t otherwise leave him for anything irrespective of however he behaves. Waiting to see how it is going to unfold. The writers really have succeeded in showing this relationship in a slow and steady way.

Yeah Ashu Raghav still doesn't consider that Pallavi important in his life. She is important to him but she comes after Amma and kirti 😭 Pallavi's priority is Raghav but that's not the case for Raghav as of now. He is taking her trust and support for granted 😔

I think Pallavi is hurt because he is siding with wrong over right She knows he loves his family unconditionally and i don't think she has a problem choosing his sister over her. Its more of wrong over right.

Its hard for him she understands that and she said it in precap too. I don't think she will ever put him in that situation where he needs to choose from his family or her. That's not the Pallavi. She is selfless in that manner.

Raghav's point about giving Pallavi closer holds no value anymore because she knows who the real culprit is. That was valid until she was unaware of the truth.

Now he is only making her choice difficult by putting her in tuff spot. Someone died because of his sister's mistake and that's not a small thing and it wasn't just that person died but his family suffered along with his death.

Raghav will protect kirti this time but what is the guarantee she won't do that again??

Its very easy to say its past and lets move ahead from it but will Raghav be able to apply same logic when Krishna Rao reappears?

Will he be able to let him go because his father and brother died long ago and he should move on from that?

Main har baat bolta nai

Raghav needs to open up he needs to express himself he needs to say what is truly in his heart

Raghav needs to know that

Kabhi kabhi unkahi unsuni ho jaati hai

Pallavi tum sunny aur Keerti ka affair ke baare mein jaanta tha

Haan

Pati angry

Chose friend over husband

Baccha moonh phulakar baith gaya

Raghav you are hiding the truth about Mandaar's accident

Affair jaisi chhoti baat nahi hai

She is so prpud of you that you are changing sudhar rahe ho and you go and support the wrong

When you know the kind of a person she is not now but from the beginning you know

She would have let to if Keerti would have caused her accident and left her to die She is that self sacrificing person but not with someone else

She is hurt and disappointed in him

For her its not just about Mandaar the past its about Raghav her present and future

Contact your lawyer get anticipatory bail for Keerti make her surrender

Just like Pallavi wanted to do everything for her family all alone

Raghav is the same

Now you are not alone youbhave a partner Both need to realize this They are a team

Keerti is screaming I don't know how to drive

He is not thinking that she might be telling the truth

I had seen her why is she lying

Raghav aankhon dekha humesha sach nai hota

Thoda investigate kar

But as He said he is impatient

Urgency of matter is to save his baby sister

If Keerti gets arrested it affects Amma too

Has he thought once how it will affect Pallavi personally socially and her relation with Tradhmukhs

if he is arrested for Mandaar's hit and run causing his death

Duniyadaari kab seekhega he ladka

But I'm still hoping Raghav surrender is part of his plan

Sadharan manus ki mentos se dimag ki batti balti hai Vede manus ki daru se