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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apudip

Sorry to say but senior T are not wrong .None can accept this ,guys be real and introspect.

T family never behaved like a normal family that's why it's very hard to digest this much hashness from them ..they always said Imlie is their beti but they flipped the moment their son is Imlie's pati..they were shocked but their reaction were to OTT..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

I also think. His first concern was to kept imlie his side. Yesterday’s bts I think imlie give her his hand . But in episode b4 she gave he take it after waiting few secs . About forgetting marriage also he make sure imlie will not forget . While the pleading Aparna also he said like that.

I earlier felt he must have explain first then go through. But T’s before hearing his words and in magic of didi’s request no way to pave ear to Adhi. So now I feel this is the best treatment Adhi can give .

Nishanth seems to be very proud and happy. Rupi and Pallavi supported.

I so wished Imlie will give her hand..but poor girl was so shaken couldn't do it ..😭

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


Bingo!!

Families cannot accept if their child marries someone outside of their community and acceptance is hard to come by in many cases, the cultural differences being one, then comes the financial/oonch neech and all that... practically this happens in a family as there are long standing repercussions.

Society is changing but still has a long way to go.

T's reaction is true n in line with reality imo.

Yes! T's reaction is partially in line with the stigmas around and more on venting their frustration about the truth being kept them from so long. Just because thats "normal" and they are feeling wronged doesnt mean that they should lash out this viciously to Imlie even after knowing the truth. Then what is the difference between Ts and Malini?

Was she not the one who lashed out at Imlie for her frustrations about her dysfunctional marriage, jealousy and her delusions?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Yes! T's reaction is partially in line with the stigmas around and more on venting their frustration about the truth being kept them from so long. Just because thats "normal" and they are feeling wronged doesnt mean that they should lash out this viciously to Imlie even after knowing the truth. Then what is the difference between Ts and Malini?

Was she not the one who lashed out at Imlie for her frustrations about her dysfunctional marriage, jealousy and her delusions?


The anger is on their son who betrayed their trust and made a mother question her upbringing. Also who was responsible for changing her son so much, Imlie. So it is easy to target her as many have in the past + Anu and lash out at her. Plus her status in their eyes is that of a help, however much they sugarcoated it etc in the past, ki ghar ki beti.. today the T's true colors are shown.. all talk only..

Malini should have lashed out against her pati Adi but instead picked on Imlie as she was a soft target..

There can be many perspectives on the above, it is all in the eyes of the beholder.

Imo, those who are closest to us or we love the most have the power to hurt us the most. Like how could they say that.... this is exactly what apu is doing today by lashing out at Adi n Imlie whom she cared for deeply. There was that bond between them that caused her to say those things today.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


Bingo!!

Families cannot accept if their child marries someone outside of their community and acceptance is hard to come by in many cases, the cultural differences being one, then comes the financial/oonch neech and all that... practically this happens in a family as there are long standing repercussions.

Society is changing but still has a long way to go.

T's reaction is true n in line with reality imo.


Thank You to both if you..good to se some sense prevailing..amazing how the intent isn't being seen..they are shocked imagine yourself in a place where your kid_)/family member randomly says oh yeah right right married to the household which you do not know was his wife all along kya karoge naachoge lol🤣 trust naam ki cheez hoti hai

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


The anger is on their son who betrayed their trust and made a mother question her upbringing. Also who was responsible for changing her son so much, Imlie. So it is easy to target her as many have in the past + Anu and lash out at her. Plus her status in their eyes is that of a help, however much they sugarcoated it etc in the past, ki ghar ki beti.. today the T's true colors are shown.. all talk only..

Malini should have lashed out against her pati Adi but instead picked on Imlie as she was a soft target..

There can be many perspectives on the above, it is all in the eyes of the beholder.

Imo, those who are closest to us or we love the most have the power to hurt us the most. Like how could they say that.... this is exactly what apu is doing today by lashing out at Adi n Imlie whom she cared for deeply. There was that bond between them that caused her to say those things today.

@Bold- The way she manipulated her "Maa" saying shes just heard her mom's side of the story, but please listen to their "story" as well. I was like, its not a "story" lady, thats the truth! 🤔

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Thank You to both if you..good to se some sense prevailing..amazing how the intent isn't being seen..they are shocked imagine yourself in a place where your kid_)/family member randomly says oh yeah right right married to the household which you do not know was his wife all along kya karoge naachoge lol🤣 trust naam ki cheez hoti hai

Exactly ,koi to sensibly soche ki unki pov bhi keya hai!! We can't deny Aadi's hand in this raita 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apudip

Exactly ,koi to sensibly soche ki unki pov bhi keya hai!! We can't deny Aadi's hand in this raita 😆


wohkhud nahi deny kar raha aur kya kare.. the sheer fact that he acknowledges his mistakes so candidly mkaes hims abse alag and best

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Posted: 4 years ago

At the end of the epi when PT said Malini hai tumhare patni ..Adi's expressions changed ..he realized that aree ye divorce Wali baat to hum bhul hi gaye the ..ab ye niptana padega😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


The family never gave him a chance to explain his side of the story.. he started and was given a thappad... then his anger/ego/zidd call it what you want, took over and he did thodphod table ki shaadi.

His fear that she will leave him is all too real for him or that they will get separated... he took the steps to tie Imlie to his side.

Again... this is all based on single viewing, may get a diff view on repeat.

I like your take on that - he wanted to tie Imlie to his side. I did not think of that...these pheras in a house with no priest no matras ,,, is it really considered a valid wedding? T family did not even give it the slightest regard. Seemed more like drama quotient to me...but if that was his thought process and that was communicated well - I would jhave liked seeing that

Edited by PPak - 4 years ago

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