Marrying kids without having some work

This is I think the first serial or among those serials where children are getting married without earning sufficiently for their family. Parents are more worried about their marriage than their children jobs.

Initially toshu and kinjal got married when none were working. Then Samar and Nandani were getting engaged… and now again we will see Samar and Nandani getting married without Samar earning anything or having strong financial stability…. Shahs don’t have a business still want to marry their children in grand way and welcome new member of the family when they are having financial crunch 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

In other serials at least they do have businesses but here no job no business… regarding Samar we have just seen him going to competition or helping Anupama in her classes… I don’t think he earns something or some good amount that he can bear his or Nandanis expenses…. Similar was the situation with toshu… he ran away and got married to kinjal without having some job or background of handling kinjals expenses….

How are makers showing parents marrying their children without any strong base or background 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Toshu and Kinjal's case was little different. They were already married and the family couldn't do much. Also both of them were qualified and got a job almost immediately after their wedding. But with Samar and Nandini, it is different. First, Samar is really young to think about marriage. Also he doesn't have any high qualification that a job is ensured. He will need to struggle more to establish himself as a successful dancer. And Nandini also doesn't have any permanent job. So it is really stupid to get them married in a rush. Let the two of them enjoy their dating period and once they are well settled, family can think about marriage.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Toshu and Kinjal's case was little different. They were already married and the family couldn't do much. Also both of them were qualified and got a job almost immediately after their wedding. But with Samar and Nandini, it is different. First, Samar is really young to think about marriage. Also he doesn't have any high qualification that a job is ensured. He will need to struggle more to establish himself as a successful dancer. And Nandini also doesn't have any permanent job. So it is really stupid to get them married in a rush. Let the two of them enjoy their dating period and once they are well settled, family can think about marriage.

Toshu and kinjal ran away only when Rakhi created the issue otherwise talk between families was already started….

that is what i have been saying from a long time but his mother and him are amendment on it mere bete ka peal par hai . had she not learn a lesson from her life that she got married when she was still studying if she had a chance her life would have been a lot better then why she wants to do the same mistakes again and again ?

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

Toshu and kinjal ran away only when Rakhi created the issue otherwise talk between families was already started….

Yes the talks were going on. Like I said, in Toshu and Kinjal's case, they were going to get jobs soon. If Rakhi hadn't interfered, the marriage would have happened after they had secured a job. But with Vanraj's affair and Rakhi's interference, things went sideways. Even then, Toshu & Kinjal did manage to sort out their lives and aren't dependent on anyone. But that isn't the case with Samar and Nandini. It is going to take a long time for these two establish careers as dancers. Also they are really young. So what's the hurry to get them married. Why not just let them enjoy the dating period and be sure of their relationship.

Shaadi hone jaa rahi hai kya samar and nandini ki.? I think anupama will only take permission of baa . I dont think samar and nandini abhi shaadi karenge

Samar himself told nandini ki woh nandini se tabhi shaadi karega jub samar and nandini dance academy mein career bana lenge . He told such thing to nandini when samar saw dream of dance academy during shivaratri

Waise samar abhi part time job kar raha hai he might be taking 2 hrs dance class as he himself told to bapuji main thoda earn karta hoon might be earing rs 2000 to 5000 so he must be doing part time job

Samar himself told to bapuji main bhale hi thoda kamata hoon but main bhi ghar ke kharche mein apni kamaai ke 20 percent contribute karoonga

Btw paras aka samar ko dance nahin aata isliye samar ka dance aaj tuk anupama serial mein nahin dikhaya

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Shaadi hone jaa rahi hai kya samar and nandini ki.? I think anupama will only take permission of baa . I dont think samar and nandini abhi shaadi karenge

Samar himself told nandini ki woh nandini se tabhi shaadi karega jub samar and nandini dance academy mein career bana lenge . He told such thing to nandini when samar saw dream of dance academy during shivaratri

Waise samar abhi part time job kar raha hai he might be taking 2 hrs dance class as he himself told to bapuji main thoda earn karta hoon might be earing rs 2000 to 5000 so he must be doing part time job

Samar himself told to bapuji main bhale hi thoda kamata hoon but main bhi ghar ke kharche mein apni kamaai ke 20 percent contribute karoonga

Btw paras aka samar ko dance nahin aata isliye samar ka dance aaj tuk anupama serial mein nahin dikhaya

I think after getting permission they will show marriage track or atleast engagement…. And serials main toh 2-3 mahine main career bana dete hai yeh log jabki bahut time lagta hai and zyada hi jaldi ho rakhe hai serial main sabke shaadi ki 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Ghar ki halat kabhi thik hote nahi already itne complex aur inhe shaadiyan karne hai….

Love marriage mai aise he hota hai . Either baccho ko bhag kar shaddi karna padta hai or Maa-baap tangggg aa kar shaddi kara dete hai like kya pata kal ko kuware he pregnant ho jaye so better shaddi kara do 😆😆

Indian society other countries jaise baby out of wedlock allow nahi Karti hai and family ka jina haram ho jayega woh alag so it’s better high hormones wale baccho ki shaddi kara do 😆😆india mai sirf celebrities ke out of wedlock bacche dekhne milte hai , common people ke itne cases dekhne nahi milte hai😆

Toshu and kinjal love marriage was different because they were just 1 step away from good job /career and rakhi escalated matter so shaddi ho gaya.

In arrange marriage cases, usually parents unke baccho ko financially independent ho Jane ke baad engagement /marriage prefer karte hai and of course people do see ladka kitna padha likha hai, Kya karta hai and all.

In Nandini’s case, uske parents hai nahi kuch dekhne ke liye like ladka kitna padha likha hai, kya karta hai etc and in arrange marriage setup nandini can also face limitation of good profiles because of her no uterus issue so for nandini also love marriage is better chance of good marriage.

Arrange marriage mai humare gujarati society mai parents and grandparents agar kuch serious health issue ho toh ladki ho yah ladka, profile reject ho jate hai.

So Samar nandini ka engagement ho jayega and zyada masala chahiye toh shaddi bhi dikha denge 🤣🤣🤣

i got married while i was doing FSC because my father in law kept pushing other wise my dad said my daughter always wanted to be the doctor but my father in law promised my dad that we will not stop her study so as soon as my youngest started the nursery i joined the collage fo to do the O LEVEL THEN A LEVEL then teaching in maths ,social worker and done the book keeping but i always said i am not going to get my kid until they do not get successful and they also never wanted to get married at the early age and stayed at the right path as well i personally think it is your house hold upbringing that kids do not go wayward you have to work heard to wards their thinking its not mater of east or west .

Btw i know one family where a son around 22 or 23 . He is officer son. Us son ki kahin pe job nahin lagi thi to father mother ghar pe hi apne bete ke liye general store ki shop khulwa di unka beta ghar pur hi khule general store mein saaman sell karne laga. Uski mother father bhi saman bechne mein help karte hain

Uske bete 22 23 ki age se general store mein saman bechana shuru kiya aur ek year baad apne bete ki shaadi kar wadi

Ab uski biwi bhi general store ke bagal usne Ladies kurti sell karne ka business karti hai

Woh beta aur uski biwi dono business karte hain aur unka shaadi ke ek do saal baad beta bhi ho gaya aur teeno apni theek thaak zindagi gujaar rahe hain

Matlab bahut acha bhi nahin toh bahut kharaab bhi nahin