Band bajne k muhrat mein serf 4 ghante baki ~ Review - Page 3

Originally posted by: sparklep

@ bold ..this is hillarious🤣🤣

and I completely agree with you on performing stupid rituals for family's happiness..

I am so glad you highlighted this amidst all heavy words 😆 ❤️

Originally posted by: kinu17

If I am ishki ..then what would have i done..?

First of all i wouldn't fall for this lalla type of guy..as I dont agree that a man doesn't have his own back bone to speakup truth, does not respect others except his family ..forget that man..but still some how ,if i fall for him then definitely won't agree to marry a tree or chicken.. my foot 😡.. but if my guy agrees ,supports with my decision toh theek hai will marry him if he doesn't respect my decision then definitely not ..if a man can't able to support, safe his partner from others taunts then who would go with him..? Nope not me sorry 😊.it's my life,my future so i have to take care of it .sorry guys my thoughts abt this u guys might not like but this is the way I am , and I have learned from my education ,culture, above all from my loving family 🥰

Please don't say sorry for stating your opinion. I have asked for others opinions and you have given yours respectfully ❤️

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I have my principles and I would never do that . If I do not believe in something I would not do it.

I agree with Ishqi about self respect.

Older generation is not always right and we do not have to always do what they want just because we respect them .

Age is not what you respect, knowledge, wisdom and experience is what you respect. So if you find a decision based on lack of knowledge and foolishness and evil mind, please feel free to disobey .

If older generation believes that Sati ( burning on husband's pyre) is right , you would agree with that?

If older generation thinks your female fetus should be aborted just because it is female you would do that?

If older generation thinks girls should not be educated and you would agree?

If older generation thinks women should not work , you would agree?

If older generation thinks your son should have all good things to eat and daughters should be treated with leftovers - you would agree?

The question was only about marrying a tree not about doing everything older generation says 😆Anyways got the tree wala answer as well so thank you, point noted 😳

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Main Ishki k jagah hoti to bolti, main shaadi karungi but Ahaan k mare hue dadaji k photo k saath. Dadi k sautan Banne ka usse achha mauka kaha mile

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

"Rhea k band bajne k muhrat mein serf 4 ghante baki hai" ~ ✋

Precap : The confidence on Ahaan's face tells a different story which obviously the super smart Rhea can't read 🤪

Aaj date kya hai? 24th right? Hmmmm may be sonyooo ko habit hoga Kisi k maut se pehle hi logo ko ushke aantim Sanskar mein Bula Lene ka as Kya pata kab lockdown ho Jaye so act in advance. No I am not insane, I am saying this because this can be the ONLY explanation behind inviting the nation on 24th June for IshqAan wedding. 🤔

Anyways coming back to what matters.....

Betaaaaa Ishqiiiiii everyone on earth is getting your point but if Ahaan is ready to marry the pool for you why on earth you can't marry a tree? Obviously self respect Zindabad ✋ but what about respecting the feelings of others. I am sorry but this is my genuine opinion. Even I don't support a bulshitt ritual like this but if you ask me to do something because that's the wish of my mother or grandmother I will do that. Often we don't like to visit some relatives but when mom or grandmother says chalo beta, woh log bura man Jayenge, bas thodi der bethke aajana we do agree to go right? It's not about 1921 or 2021 🤪 It's about your family Jo Kal bhi important Hai aur Aaj bhi important Hai aur 2050 mein bhi rahenge ✋ Modern sooch k Naam pe Har emotions ka dhajjia nehi uda sakte hum. 😡

Ok sorry.... I got carried away... But I genuinely believe this. May be I belong to old school but that's not a crime I believe 🤓

I know we should NOT encourage such rituals but there is a reason behind customs prevailing over law in our law books. Why both can't co-exist... You take one step, I will take another. Ultimately marriage is all about adjustments and compromises.

Ishqi's dialogues were hilarious but Ahaan's dialogues were his reality. We often blame the man who is a sandwich between SaaS-Bahu but we don't try to understand how difficult it is for the man to balance.

SONU ✨ For a change, she talked sense.

Kartik will tell Ahaan and show him the CCTV footage

Ishqi will get married to him

But this is going to be the beginning of the real conflict and I am curious to know how they deals with it.

Aaj tho kuch jaida hi serious ho geya post 🤔

Sorry if I have ended up hurting sentiments 🙏

However I would like to have a healthy Discussions on "Agar aap Ishqi Ki jagah hote tho Kya Karte?" (Answer this keeping in mind that Dadi is not faking this because Ishqi has no idea about Dadi faking it) 😆

Maaaasiiiii aap ne suna hai Kabhi kuch "Giving Privacy" karke? 🤔

Thanks for reading this super boring post 😳

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I have my principles and I would never do that . If I do not believe in something I would not do it.

I agree with Ishqi about self respect.

Older generation is not always right and we do not have to always do what they want just because we respect them .

Age is not what you respect, knowledge, wisdom and experience is what you respect. So if you find a decision based on lack of knowledge and foolishness and evil mind, please feel free to disobey .

If older generation believes that Sati ( burning on husband's pyre) is right , you would agree with that?

If older generation thinks your female fetus should be aborted just because it is female you would do that?

If older generation thinks girls should not be educated and you would agree?

If older generation thinks women should not work , you would agree?

If older generation thinks your son should have all good things to eat and daughters should be treated with leftovers - you would agree?

These aren't the same thing as getting married to a tree as a ritual. I am not saying dt it is ryt but it's not nearly the same as all the examples you hv stated .

Also noone is saying older generation is ryt. I hv myself many times stated that they can be very wrong and we should correct them. Question here was would you do an harmless adjustment for the sake of someone's peace / happiness.

I respect your opinion and it is one's choice completely what dey would do in a situation like dis .

Just wanted to point out a few things .

From the surface this marrying tree ritual seems to be harmless but it is not . Behind this idea of marrying a tree is the patriarchal society which does not want to blame men for anything . If the husband dies then blame the wife , torture or kill her . Why the opposite never happens ? If we keep encouraging such things then our society will never be able make real progress.

Tbh i feel gul making fun of hindu rituals. Its like any other rituals. No tree is going to come alive and tie mangalsutra. U can call ped ki pooja for that they name it ped se shadi. I feel that way.

Agree with every single point Arpita. I also find Kartik taking Ishqi side today baseless.

This time Ahaan was logical. It was about a small harmless ask from him or his family. Noway this was about her self respect.

I also didn't like the fact that she couldn't see everybody was understanding her POV about the stupidity of this Upaaye but at the same point it was about a 'Mann ki tassali' for older generation people.

We know dadi planted it but for AVM she was real, have I been in place of Ishqi would happily do this ritual because the moment Ahaan said I would do anything for your safety and this was for his safety (maybe superstitions) but it could've given tassali to his grandmother.

And yes kundli milana etc is something I find non sense too but I still agree our stars, planets configuration play a vital role in our life.

I think if she would've said yes she would've become a bigger person if not Mahaan.

Originally posted by: sumaishu

Tbh i feel gul making fun of hindu rituals. Its like any other rituals. No tree is going to come alive and tie mangalsutra. U can call ped ki pooja for that they name it ped se shadi. I feel that way.

Nehi nehi it's not Gul's invention 😆 I have heard about this. It's a custom still prevailing in various places and people call it marriage only not Puja however it's more like a Puja only.