Imlie ka Imlinder.. - Page 6

Originally posted by: Lodestar

There can never be any comparison of level of transparency & emotional support of Adi-Imlie to Adi-Didi. There was just no emotional connect beyond the token you are my selected life partner.

Let's take example of Adi being worried for Nishant only after he fainted suddenly on V Day. Adi was shook by the incident. He was supportive & calm in front of the family but he was vulnerable on his own. It was not as if he didn't try to tell Didi his feelings about it. Yes he was not as vulnerable as he is with Imlie but he was not shutting Didi off. He actually was trying to seek some emotional support by letting her know how shook he was after Nishant suddenly fainted & mann main negative thoughts hi aa rahe the. But Didi as usual was on her own trip about getting negative thoughts about seeing the clothes ka receipt😆. That line of talk then suddenly forced Adi to close off about his fears for Nishant. Coincidentally it was Imlie who was also thinking about Nishant's condition during the same time. I mean all fam members must have been worried about Nishant's condition only but Didi was on some another suspicion tangent altogether😆.

There are many other incidents where Adi was genuinely seeking emotional support from Didi but she could never give it. Like when he revealed to her the truth of being forcefully married off to Imlie before his & Didi's marriage. Didi herself fainted & his hope for support from her also went down the drain.

Didi was always too involved with herself to look beyond herself & give any sense if support to Adi or anyone else. That is why Adi & her relationship could never transition into a more stronger bond after the marriage. They were stuck at the baseline due to Didi's inability to give understanding & support to Adi beyond the token everything will be OK.

Adi-Imlie on the other hand just grew strength to strength in their emotionally transparent bond & became each others safe place.

LOL that V-day waali convo feels like EONS ago, man😆

I think hum sab ke baal safed ho gaye hain given all the things that have happened since....lol such simpler times back then jab bas HINT hota tha Didi ki psycho side ka over a random receipt😆.....we all noted her self-absorbed tendencies then also ki Nishant ke fainting episode ke bawajood bhi yeh apna suspicion guilt trip unload karne mein busy hain.....lol

I've forgotten the details of what all she said to Adi back then but yeah vaguely yaad hai that she was trying to act guilty over suspecting him over the receipt😆.....I just remember laughing over Adi ki CHOP over his so called bharosa and understanding with Malini.....phir bhi nahin sudhra yeh Bailbuddhi aadmi😆.....she gave him clear proof of ghanta trust and he's like oh no, yeh toh sab normal hi hai, humne toh bas simple gift diya tha Imlie ko, MOON samajh jaayengi😆.....dikhaa diye iski Moon ne taare.....jab he was already reeling over the Nishant fainting bit😆.

Phir bhi the writers insist on forcing Didi ka mandir on us like we all don't very well remember all her MANY episodes of self-absorption, delusion, selfishness, pettiness, nasty taunts to Imlie.....the list is LONG....but sure sure, banaayiye aap Didi ka mandir, writer log😆

I will note that Adi tried to share thoda bahut as a partner with Malini but he never got a reciprocal response that his emotions were being understood or accepted....that is why he pulled back from her more and stayed in his general robotic guilt mode......so it's not like he never tried....but aage se response hi self-absorbed hota tha......they are so insanely incompatible as people but sure, please peeto dosti ka dhindora😆.

Imlie ke saath instinctual connect tha ek toh, then he unloaded his most visceral frustrations, his rawest emotions on her and she still gave him understanding.....obviously you will develop attachment to the person who gives you understanding even when you show your unpleasant sides to them.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh yeah, I did notice that too....he was trying to pull back also cuz he felt like he was burdening her too much toh he needs to sambhaalo himself na cuz she also let go for a bit in that moment to share that pain/grief with him....ek mutual moment of pain tha........but wohi toh instinctual feel tha scene mein that he was trying for her sake but failing to sambhaalo his emotions and she totally soothed him reassuringly ki koi baat nahin, you can let it all out.....I'm here, everything will be alright :)

Amazing ki jo ladki 2 din pehle ek English exam ki wajah se apni duniya khatam karke baithi thi, us mein life and death ki hopelessness se cope karne ki zyada capacity hai😆

Haha as she told him too ke sab jhel legi but english nahi hoti usse waise toh yeh bhi amnesia tha on makers part caz I saw the old clipping from the patangbaazi scene and usme she specifically says ke she can talk in English too bas karti nahi haj 😆 but chalo.khair we let it pass caz we get such good stuff out of it.. she is more capable of handling the severe topics like this the bichadna the breaks ups she can hold herself so well but babusahib ke matter main phir ho jaati hai yeh bhi carried away adi ko dekh ke zyada bikharti hai apne tak ho toh toh pee jaati hai and we have seen that pehle bhi apne se zyada isko adi ki hoti hai fikar .

Word about it being so instinctive it is such a brief moment but one sees the samjhdaar bada adi taking over the kiddo adi who cannot help but wanting the comfort from her and goes nahi karna chahiye usko so he pulls back cracks a line about angrezi bakaiti tries to look at the random.space basically not milaooing nazar but it still doesn't work and he breaks down again aawww

Made a few gifs on the hug scene:

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Made a few gifs on the hug scene:

Aww thankooooos for this❤️ I just find it so adorable that her adding her own quip of pyar Jung aur bewakoofi in her try to make him feel better to get him to correct her and distract caz pata hai usse ke he can't help but do that and call out on her bewakoofiyan ya paagalpanti but yahaan it work mildly with his ok tell me what next purpose achieved but not to the extent she wanted but still only she knows how to get him to put himself together

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Aww thankooooos for this❤️ I just find it so adorable that her adding her own quip of pyar Jung aur bewakoofi in her try to make him feel better to get him to correct her and distract caz pata hai usse ke he can't help but do that and call out on her bewakoofiyan ya paagalpanti but yahaan it work mildly with his ok tell me what next purpose achieved but not to the extent she wanted but still only she knows how to get him to put himself together

You're welcome, ji😆.....aaj ka epi pakaaoed me so figured I'd go back to rewatching kal ka😆....phir nikal hi aaye gifs.

Aww good point about how Imlie knows ki if she points out her own galtiyaan and bewakoofiyaan, yeh instantly distract ho jaayega😆.....it's been working since the Pythagorus Theorem times....haha and she even tried it out that time she imagined him in PD ki yeh galat karegi ki kuch toh Babusahib aayenge correct karne😆

Wohi apply ho jaata hai in a different way now as their dynamic is settling into deeper comfort....it shows in the way she smiles at him before making the quip about her own bewakoofiyaan....woh smile comfort and acceptance waali hai....

Waise I was thinking ki last 2-3 epis se yeh dono aaraam se corridor mein hug kar rahe hain, Imlie ke sleeping corner ke saamne fancy dress khel rahe hain😆 and family waalon ke saamne miyaan-biwi waali nok jhonk kar rahe hain but they have become even more invisible to the Ts conveniently enough😆......not that I'm complaining.....lol but this whole Nishvi milaap has deffo made them more relaxed with each other than usual in terms of being expressive physically😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You're welcome, ji😆.....aaj ka epi pakaaoed me so figured I'd go back to rewatching kal ka😆....phir nikal hi aaye gifs.

Aww good point about how Imlie knows ki if she points out her own galtiyaan and bewakoofiyaan, yeh instantly distract ho jaayega😆.....it's been working since the Pythagorus Theorem times....haha and she even tried it out that time she imagined him in PD ki yeh galat karegi ki kuch toh Babusahib aayenge correct karne😆

Wohi apply ho jaata hai in a different way now as their dynamic is settling into deeper comfort....it shows in the way she smiles at him before making the quip about her own bewakoofiyaan....woh smile comfort and acceptance waali hai....

Waise I was thinking ki last 2-3 epis se yeh dono aaraam se corridor mein hug kar rahe hain, Imlie ke sleeping corner ke saamne fancy dress khel rahe hain😆 and family waalon ke saamne miyaan-biwi waali nok jhonk kar rahe hain but they have become even more invisible to the Ts conveniently enough😆......not that I'm complaining.....lol but this whole Nishvi milaap has deffo made them more relaxed with each other than usual in terms of being expressive physically😆

Yes that is what it is .. she herself said ke agar kuch galat ksreinge toh babusahib aayenge hi to correct her in her super desperate attempt to have him around or feel him around her in her dream too so she goes along with it.. we have seen it so many times now everytime he gets angry gives him silent treatment gets mad she does something purposely to get the connect going and get him to react be it ingore, this , Pythagorus ya her even Imagini g him.. and that is such a lovely quality to have to not let that communication channel break..even if not directly she goes in a roundabout way to have themselves express what they feel and what they should and to distract and normalize the situations ..😳 it is rather cool to see she has her ways and in how many ways she can use her bewakoofis and mistakes to get him to do what she wants be it starting to talk again to her to stop him from crying or to stop him from leaving.. it is always a different reaction she gets out but the best part is she knows what buttons to push if I may say so... and that comes from their deep understanding of each other.

Word about woh physical communications nd Co.fort increasing they are truly settling into that oati patni zone it is rather good to see how organically that has been progressing and how at ease tbey both are now that they are totally cool to reveal too..if you see this new ease is even more apparent post nish's reveal where they are taking more liberties and I guess that's cause imlie actually meant to go and accept as the bday gift and now only delaying from nish but she is totally chill now in being more the wifey.. the possessiveness the haq the shikayatein biwiyon wali woh banter has Increased 10 folds since then

Originally posted by: Lodestar

There can never be any comparison of level of transparency & emotional support of Adi-Imlie to Adi-Didi. There was just no emotional connect beyond the token you are my selected life partner.

Let's take example of Adi being worried for Nishant only after he fainted suddenly on V Day. Adi was shook by the incident. He was supportive & calm in front of the family but he was vulnerable on his own. It was not as if he didn't try to tell Didi his feelings about it. Yes he was not as vulnerable as he is with Imlie but he was not shutting Didi off. He actually was trying to seek some emotional support by letting her know how shook he was after Nishant suddenly fainted & mann main negative thoughts hi aa rahe the. But Didi as usual was on her own trip about getting negative thoughts about seeing the clothes ka receipt😆. That line of talk then suddenly forced Adi to close off about his fears for Nishant. Coincidentally it was Imlie who was also thinking about Nishant's condition during the same time. I mean all fam members must have been worried about Nishant's condition only but Didi was on some another suspicion tangent altogether😆.

There are many other incidents where Adi was genuinely seeking emotional support from Didi but she could never give it. Like when he revealed to her the truth of being forcefully married off to Imlie before his & Didi's marriage. Didi herself fainted & his hope for support from her also went down the drain.

Didi was always too involved with herself to look beyond herself & give any sense if support to Adi or anyone else. That is why Adi & her relationship could never transition into a more stronger bond after the marriage. They were stuck at the baseline due to Didi's inability to give understanding & support to Adi beyond the token everything will be OK.

Adi-Imlie on the other hand just grew strength to strength in their emotionally transparent bond & became each others safe place.

As Adhithya said in the confession session to Amma & Sathyakam life before 1st pd trip was somewhat easy for him. And at that time he may not need much support from anybody else. In the case of his Job also he had a good mentor like his editor. First time may be he seeked emotional support from Malini is after his forced marriage. Maybe he have a presumption that Malini being a strong lady … obviously everyone thought may be like that educated women who works as a professor may have strong will. But his hope was totally shattered after seeing her fragile nature. Irony is that at that time also imlie becomes his support system. He was open to imlie even at that time even he expressed his fears openly to her about how hard the truth will hit his family & all. (Unfortunately this had a reverse effect now what is holding back imlie from revelation of truth) . Only after the marriage every couple may got a complete view about their relationship.

Malini is always in her wonderland even single statement goes beyond her wish makes her frustrated… there are many examples for this . Adhithya cannot open to her regarding a general matter also. This is very evident when he said imlie can get admission into any college Malini expected he will always be her obedient puppet.

Where as imlie becomes his strength in every tough situation even without expecting anything from him. There is no wonder Adhithya fall for imlie.

Actually Malini all her needed was a husband material who can showcased as perfect … As her mother suspected her fathers fidelity she thought adhithya’ s values and upbringings will have a perfect material she needs.

Also when Adhithya tried to cover bridge incident she doesn’t even make simple understanding…. She completely neglects the fact that he is doing his work.

When he tried to left to pd she only affected by fact that he is leaving…and as before he doesn’t give a proper explanation it is other family members who worried about his safety. (Pankaj)

I really wonder this lady even not bothered about safety of adhithya , she only fear of losing her comfort zone .

Even 3rd pd track she even said to Aparna don’t worry your son will return safe but I afraid he will be not my life partner.

Even when he makes call she even doesn’t ask how is he… only part hit is he is lying.

Even when imlie calls Adhithya asked first is ‘Tum teekh ho na’

Malini’s character reminds me the character ‘kalpana ‘ in Malayalam movie directed by Shyama Prasad based on the short story by Sunil Gangopadhyay film name : Arike (so close) .

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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Word about woh physical communications nd Co.fort increasing they are truly settling into that oati patni zone it is rather good to see how organically that has been progressing and how at ease tbey both are now that they are totally cool to reveal too..if you see this new ease is even more apparent post nish's reveal where they are taking more liberties and I guess that's cause imlie actually meant to go and accept as the bday gift and now only delaying from nish but she is totally chill now in being more the wifey.. the possessiveness the haq the shikayatein biwiyon wali woh banter has Increased 10 folds since then

Yes, I think it's a combination of factors.....ek toh yes, she did seem to mean it genuinely when she accepted his request to go tell the truth on his birthday - she was scared/hesitant but was otherwise ready to face the truth.....and then baaki she seems to have started to believe KM to be a legit couple toh her fixation on Didi ka ghar basaana has also receded a bit for now......and that has freed her up to be more relaxed in her feelings and affection for Adi. The Nishvi milaap plan has provided a nice reprieve for both her and Adi to fixate on something other than Didi and the divorce drama.

That said, I do feel it's the calm before the storm.....Imlie will likely flip over something again😆....in logon ko zyada der khush rehna allow nahin karte writers.

As has been discussed before, the Dev truth revelation will likely shake Imlie up a bit again (no, I don't expect her to push Adi away over that....but kuch toh emotional setback hoga for a bit I think).....and baaki major flip will come after the shaadi truth revelation. Imlie ka sabse bada phobia is T family ka reaction and them berating her after the truth revelation, not being able to accept her as their bahu etc. etc.....so usi ke around koi drama build kar denge for Imlie trying to leave Adi for the 100th time😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I think it's a combination of factors.....ek toh yes, she did seem to mean it genuinely when she accepted his request to go tell the truth on his birthday - she was scared/hesitant but was otherwise ready to face the truth.....and then baaki she seems to have started to believe KM to be a legit couple toh her fixation on Didi ka ghar basaana has also receded a bit for now......and that has freed her up to be more relaxed in her feelings and affection for Adi. The Nishvi milaap plan has provided a nice reprieve for both her and Adi to fixate on something other than Didi and the divorce drama.

That said, I do feel it's the calm before the storm.....Imlie will likely flip over something again😆....in logon ko zyada der khush rehna allow nahin karte writers.

As has been discussed before, the Dev truth revelation will likely shake Imlie up a bit again (no, I don't expect her to push Adi away over that....but kuch toh emotional setback hoga for a bit I think).....and baaki major flip will come after the shaadi truth revelation. Imlie ka sabse bada phobia is T family ka reaction and them berating her after the truth revelation, not being able to accept her as their bahu etc. etc.....so usi ke around koi drama build kar denge for Imlie trying to leave Adi for the 100th time😆.

Oh i do not doubt that ke yeh sab temporary hi hai abhi ke liye 😆 and flip would be just around the corner .. imlie ko kab 2 secs lagte hain in wanting to give up but jab tak le liye hai acha hai naya hai.. DC ke liye nahi hona isse .. shayad bhaith ke ro Peet le ke bai meri didi toh meri didi hai jisko maine hi dukh de diye by breaking her home and don't ask me how caz this girl is silly like that even though woh stupid didi should be sorry about that but apni imlie dayavaan hain remember 😆 and then truth toh hai hi uska fear toh isko laga hi rehta hai so most likely if they do itni se bhi sakshti ya dikhao coldness again isse na ho paayega phir and yeh aone aap ko hi har problem ka reason batayegi but hopefully until then we can keep getting more partnership more bonding and these 2 continuing to strengthn their bond baaki up and down laga hi rahega in flipping them 😆

You are right ke the fact ke ab iska dhyan batt gaya hai and isko sach nain didi and KC sache lagne lage hain iska aona guilt kam ho gaya hai and she has gone to accept her own roshta more wholeheartedly thinking ke isne kisi ko dukh nahi dia ya yeh Karan nahi ban rahi but that is also for time in caz pata hi hai didi ne moonh utha ke aana hi hai ke I jhelooed so much to give you khushi uhhh did they ask nope khud mahaan banana hai brownie points chahiye didi ko and aoni galtiyan sheere main daboegi yeh sochte huye ke shayad woh jalebi ban jaaye aise.. that is didi