Episode Spoiler - 19 June 2021 - Page 14

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Ditto...Jean and Misty and Aye-Masakali, Mihika - beautiful writers in this forum. I absolutely love reading your views. And then tons of friends to chat with as well. That's what makes this show unique for me.

Thanks, dear. I also feel my viewing pleasure increases because I keep in mind all the great discussions on this forum.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Not sure how he could be financially better off than Vijay. Never seen him work for a living. Free loader hai.

Also, I finally saw the scene between Amrutha and Sulo in the previous episode and to me it seemed like she was frustrated that her Ayi has been spending so much time plotting amd scheming for nothing, because her plans inevitably fail ..not only that it actually led to Raghav and Pallavi getting married.. so basically she has not had any sudden change of heart but only frustrated that the plans didnt have the desired result.

It doesn't seem to make sense, but seems to be what we're canonically told na? Because when Vijay gave DSE to Pallavi, Milind's money was running the house. Even when Vijay was ill, Milind funded the medical expenses. Karta hoga kuch 🤷🏻‍♀️

Haan, Amrutha is definitely selfish. But I got the sense that maybe she is realizing that being so vile will not help in life, and her mother's ways are not only disgusting, but also ineffective, so she'll move out of Sulochana's shadow a bit.

Originally posted by: Doc

i wish to cup his face whith her cute hands..as raghav doent know she is seeing her..and suddenly the moment break..

Uff ye FL male k looks aur attraction pe mar.ri.hai..

Sai acted.so well.in this scene

Feel.ari hai.expressions dekh ker..

@bold yes, I love it! If she didn't then she wouldn't be normal.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

True! Abhi ke liye staying optimistic.

Sach bolun, the part I loved about the promo the most was that they gave us a date. Kam se kam last time ki tarah we won't keep wondering ki yeh kaanton ki bediyan aur paison ka ghamand shuru kab hoga?? 🤣

Date? What date lol what did I miss? Kaato ki bediyan ka to aisa hai, I saw a video someone posted on the forum in which they start with kaato ki bediyan wala promo line and follow it up with Anna getting beaten up by jhadoo🤣 Iske baad kon promos ko seriously lega? This recent one is an indication that Mandhar related drama is up next.. There will be MU for sure, because like you said, its needed to juice up the plot.. I am actually looking forward to entry of all the villains- Ved, Sunny (maybe?), Sulo's brother and ofcourse Krishna Rao.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

Ok this is something i have been feeling about raghav lately everytime pallavi went “mera pati” , there was always a reaction to this particular term. am not really sure how to put it but what i meant re. husband vs lover thing is that..Raghav has always craved to belong to someone. Raghav wants to be the “main tumhara hoon” types more than the “tum meri ho” types is what i feel.. The husband tag gives him just that..being a husband is a much more tangible term for an insecure loner like him than being just her lover.
During the abortion fiasco, pallavi takes out his kerchief and wipes the dirt off her hands and puts it back on him.. something about the act probably moved him cuz he actually looks at the kerchief and decides to investigate the issue and clear her name. Although he said that he couldnt bear the disgust in her eyes, i thought it was the kerchief act that made him react that way. In restrospect, it was may be the haq that she exerted over him through the act. In several other instances, raghav has done her bidding when she has demanded from him .. be it to extend the mall payment deadline or sth as inconsequential as holding the saree high up.

Also, i dont mean he doesnt want to be her lover. But he wants to be the husband first.. the way he categorically denies love when his amma or farhad asked tells me he is not in that headspace at all. But he is aware of the pull he feels towards her so ya, he will get there eventually. Going by the latest promo, the angst, the feels are all hoing to amplify.. but
the pull.. It has always been there na since their first highway meeting where he wipes her sweat away or fixing the pallu from falling.. Ah the feels.. got carried away..

Ah! I get what you mean now. Thanks for elaborating. I totally agree.

I like how you put it, that he wants to belong to someone more than having someone belong to him. I think the last 10 years has cemented this feeling of insecurity and I think it's quite realistic that he will continue to feel this way. Just because Amma and Pallavi are in his life now doesn't mean this feeling will suddenly disappear.

@bold, I think so too, and yes he wants to be a husband first. The role is so important to him because I guess somewhere in his mind, he knows/feels marriage is forever and that gives him the framework within which he can ensure she will always be in his life. Amma and Keerti are his blood relations so no matter how many arguments or issues they have, they will always be connected to him in some way. With Pallavi there is no such guarantee. Also, he is fully aware how tumultuous things have been between them since day 1 and he wants to ensure that by having the right to be her husband he gains some permanence in her life. Even when he was trying to stop her going to Kolhapur, he gave her all the rights of a wife and didn't expect anything from her but now he wants her to fully accept him as her husband, which is why that term 'mere pati' triggers these emotions in him now. That's why the haq jataana makes him so happy and proud, because people only do it with those they consider their apna.

Oh that highway scene, he had gone there hellbent on scaring her but the way he looked into her eyes, something stirred in him and he was never the same again. He bent his rules for her the first time and has been doing so ever since. 😉

I am so loving the nuances in the writing.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, while Raghav can act at extremes, so can she. In such matters, she's quite an all or nothing person. She grabbed his hand and walked out a couple of times for goodness sake and the way she was shaking the whole time after that confrontation shows how affected she was not just by her feelings for him but by seeing to what extent he was willing to go for her and what it must have cost him to make that decision.

We talk about Raghav wanting to belong but so does she. She's always looked for an anchor and she found it in him. I think as he learns more about her past he will be able to understand how he affects her.

@bold- Absolutely.. Pallavi's past is yet to be revealed to the audience and to Raghav and once that happens he will know her better.. her reactions, her reasons..everything like she knows him..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Date? What date lol what did I miss? Kaato ki bediyan ka to aisa hai, I saw a video someone posted on the forum in which they start with kaato ki bediyan wala promo line and follow it up with Anna getting beaten up by jhadoo🤣 Iske baad kon promos ko seriously lega? This recent one is an indication that Mandhar related drama is up next.. There will be MU for sure, because like you said, its needed to juice up the plot.. I am actually looking forward to entry of all the villains- Ved, Sunny (maybe?), Sulo's brother and ofcourse Krishna Rao.

The promo said "khulasa 28 june se" or something. Toh fixed schedule hai track ka.

I want the villains too! Ved and Sunny are the ones I can't wait for. I'd rather Krishna Rao comes after a while though. I don't want to know more about Raghav's childhood and past immediately, want slightly more clarity on Pallavi's first- so far, we know some things about Raghav, but Pallavi is a blank slate. I want more context.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

What's off about Sunny is not the live-in thing, it's the commitment thing. Whether you want to marry someone or just live with them for the rest of your lives, both are big commitments. It's not ki shaadi nahi ki toh relationship mein commitment nahi hogi, and if he wants to keep commitment out of it, why is he making plans for life?

Infact, it's his take on marriage vs live in that's a little insulting to people who choose to live together, with the implication that the responsibility and commitment is less. I have friends who've been living happily with their partners, and I couldn't dream of telling them that their relationships have less of a commitment to each other than it would if they were married.

Also, on the flip side, how many marriages have we seen that are in name only, just a legal/social formality with no sense of emotional or spiritual commitment between the couple? They are just living together for the sake of it but there's no real relationship there.

For people like Sunny, the commitment itself is problematic, regardless of the way the couple chooses to live.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I would love to see a scene where Raghav comes back from work and opens his closet to find Pallavi's sarees nicely arranged alongside his clothes. He will obviously be happy and when he turns around, he sees Pallavi standing behind looking at him completely playing it down, and casually going, " kya hua? Tumhe mere sath room share karne me problem hai to tumhara samaan guest bedroom me shift kara du? ( Like she did with the train ticket thing)

Lol, waise even in the Hyderabad house, she was the one staying in his room. Usse guest room mein shift kara diya tha, Hindu Marriage Act dikha ke 🤣

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Hii inlieu (Your name is jean right?) and MistyDawn. I love these meaningful discussions you usually have. They give me such better insight about Raghvi and the bond they share. ❤️ I loved loved reading this particular thread. Absolutely beautiful.

Can you please tag me whenever and wherever you make such posts? Pleaseee😳😳I would love to read from you both.

Thanks dear. My name is Jean, yes. What's yours? Will try to tag you but IF issues usually makes that impossible. 😡

Always look out for Christobelle's episode spoiler threads. I come here everyday. Look forward to reading your posts too.