Maid or no maid

Oh my god, why are you all thinking that a 24 hour maid is the best option. I live in Canada was raised here, my mom is a working women. There is absolutely no maids in Canada, we go to work and then on the weekends we all come together to clean the house. Not just us, this is literally how everyone lives. There is no luxury like that. It is not a big deal that Anuapama works and also does the housework. We literally live Anupama's life and we are not Mahaan by any means. Think about it, if Vanraj was the only one earning, Anupama was the one running the house. I have seen it that men can work hard and bring home money. But it is the wife that manages it. That is exactly how Vanraj was able to maintain this Shah home and get a car, educate his kids. Also in the current situation, who is working and earning money? Toshu and Kinjal. I dont expect Kavya to contribute to the family income at all, but is it fair to burden these kids with the responsibility of a family with 9 members. Are they not going to wanna secure their own future and plan their baby eventually. If there is going to be a 24 hour maid, they need to have a family discussion because there will be a financial hit. Maid is not going to work for free. The maid will only do what she is told, you need to tell her what to do.

Making achar papad and washing cloth of hersef as well of three children plus washing utensil of total 7 member cooking three time for 7 member plus school bhi jaana saath dance academy bhi chalana phir uske saath marketing jhaadu pochha dusting kapde ironing phir interior cleaning aur bhi kaam matlab jahaan pur 7 member ka kaam ho aur saath mein job then how can anupama and kinjal do all work of 7 member with out maid

7 member ka kaam bina maid ke possible nahin hai

Ganimat hai ki abhi mama ji nahin hai nahin to 8 member ho jaate to pata nahin bina maid kaise subManage karna possible hota?

Aur maid ke paas kaun har time khada rehta hai.mere ghar bhi maid aati hai hum to nahin khade rehte har time maid ke paas. Hum to apna kaam karte hain bus jaa ke maid ko beech beech mein check karte hain phir apne kaam mein lag jaate hai aise hi hota hai ghar mein hum log maid ka ek ek bartan maajte hue ya uska ek ek ek inch jhaadu pochha check nahin karte

Kaam bhi karwane ka tarika hota hai

yes you are right in many ways when i use to go back home always used to think these peoples are living a luxury life while we used to work 7/24 and used to go to bed at 11pm and wake up early and same routine carried away , but there is one thing different between my families back home and into shah family ,shah family have not got all the facilities ,like automatic washing machine ,vacuum cleaner, all the facilities because of one man earning who have to provide every thing towards his parents his children education and running the house . here i started using the cleaner now when i cant do it and is only weekly no one can afford it on the daily basis, shah family needs cleaning every day because so many peoples are living in the house and plus we can not deny that the dust which we dont have it normally plus all the kids are spoilt .

yes you will be surprised. Women actually go to work, make food, clean the house, drive their kids to school, dishes, and some of them even go to college in the evening because they want to get a better job for their kids. Indian society is more privileged, fir kahengay ke foreign mein to paisa hi paisa hai. Paisa hai nahi bachaya hai yaar.

Anupama couldn't do all of this on her own, go back to when she started working again. Even she had to hire a maid. If you hire a maid, you have to understand they also have a life and may have to manage. I personally wouldnt trust a maid in my house 24 hours. What if koi churi karjae. It is good to know how much what costs, she can charge you extra and keep the money for herself.

like baa said, they do have a maid. you need to adjust when the maid the gone for a few days.

Why should anupama children should not do work. Bache bhi kaam nahin kare. Maid bhi nahin rakho then 7 member ka kaam kya itna easy hai khai do member kinjal aur anupmaa ke liye nipatana

yes to save the money to avoid the maid they have to invest into vacuum cleaner steam mop dishwasher and i think they already have the washing machine they can spend the money to the house hold items which can reduce their work and makes the lives easy a bit .

because the bachchey have never been asked to do any house hold chores .

if the husband had been providing everyone and every thing in the house then who is responsible to train the kids ?

I said maid se kaam nikal wale ka tareeka hota hai . Humare ghar maid aati hai toh hum log ghar mein valuable item ko almirah mein lock karte hain ya bank mein rakhte hain

Yahan india mein aur foriengn ke situation mein farak hai

Wahaan super market mein frogen kati hui sabji mil jaayegi yahan india mein aisa nahin hai

I have gone toh Mauritius wahaan frozen bele hue parathey mil jaate hai

To jahaan pur itni facility ho to bina maid ke kaam chal jaayega

Maid rakhne koi problem nahin hai subah 6 baje bulaao. Kabhi kinjal thodi der ke liye kabhi anupama thodi der ke liye kabhi samar kabhi paritosh dekh lega maid ko kya 7 member ek maid ko Observe nahin kar sakte

Kya vanraj maid nahin dekh sakta