Originally posted by: shalini1323
I agree, just gave me a thought - Wonder how Kareena has managed to nail this. She married Saif, (slightly bigger star than her) but has still managed to remain relevant and has kept working. She hasn’t hesitated to take up a mix bag of roles even now. And even with two babies, nothing seems to be stopping her.
The thing about relevance - yes, “who” you marry can help to an extent. But mostly it’s really about your work - how versatile you are as an actor, how open you are to taking up new kinds of Roles (not just leads) and how passionate you are about your work.
With Aishwarya, her beauty kept her in the news all throughout her 20s till her 40s. Right now, people want more than good looks. Unfortunately, she doesn’t seem as interested and I don’t think she is that versatile as an actress. And that’s the problem with being a star > actor. It’s short-term.
But for actresses like say Tabu, Vidya or even Rani for that matter - they will not be as much in the news for their stardom but will keep relevance through their work.
Kareena is an anomaly. She got dealt great cards.
Almost all of the Bollywood relationships are unbalanced...but then Saif and Kareena seem equalized with a good combination of give and take. That helps the both of them a lot. They were/are both big stars, successful on their own, and still are relevant and working. Their stars don't overshadow each other's, even when their individual careers are going upwards or downwards (like I don't see Saif throwing jealousy tantrums when his career slumped and hers kept going). They're both good actors, attractive, well connected. Saif got a young, hot wife and that boosts his ego, makes him look like a stud (def in the beginning years of their relationship). Kareena married a rich prince who comes with a good lineage and a stable family, and though he is divorced with two kids, it hasn't affected her worth. Saif has been loyal and devoted to her ever since they got together, likewise Kareena to him. There's a balance in their coupling that keeps them afloat personally and professionally.
Ranveer and Deepika might be the only other pair that have that kind of balance.
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