Slow acceptance of Maami is disconcerting - Page 2

Beautiful post❤️

Of course Mami is great comic relief. But the truth is even though makers have toned her down, she hasn't changed at all. She is still that evil, vile lady who is responsible for the death of Pandya Brother's father. The whole family will live their whole lives knowing that their father's death was caused by someone else, and it could have been prevented. That's a big thing. So for me, until Mami genuinely realizes her mistakes and changes, I personally won't be accepting her anytime soon.

Shiva's misplaced hatred towards Raavi is also somewhat understandable to me, not correct, not justified, but understandable. Its when that hatred comes out as aggression towards Raavi, it gets too much. I don't know when makers will understand they need to stop this manhandling thing going on with Shiva, and Dev. Even with Mami also, I don't think so at all that Shiva needs to respect her, but he needs to stop being so aggressive towards her as well, because we've seen how Shiva tends to forget right and wrong when angry.

Nice Post ❤.

I can only speak for myself. I personally find it easier to forgive those who are not portrayed as perfect - mami, suman, anita and rishita are a few examples. That doesn't go to say I have forgiven them. But I do enjoy some of their scenes irrespective of what they've done. I'm somehow able to cut off some of their character and enjoy what's in front of me. I appreciate things like mami caring about Raavi, making me laugh with some of her actions, Suman's endless funny dialogues, her bond with her son's, her giving it back to GauRa, Rishita speaking back to Dev etc. But in no way is that forgiving or ignoring their past mistakes or current ones. Until they have changed completely and we see growth in their characters I don't think I'll be fully behind them. What I do have is an open mind, I'm waiting for them to turn it around in some way.

But like I said this is easier because they're not shown as being perfect, their actions are not shown as perfect, the audience themselves don't see them as perfect. For some reason this really helps me.