Appreciation for TOSHU

Financial responsibility:

In today’s time grown up sons are not ready to take financial responsibility of mother-father.

I am seeing in the society, jaha beta bahu apne maa-baap ki bimari par ek paise kharch karna pasand nahi karte hai .

Kuch bacche maa baap ko sirf emotional support de sakte hai and kuch bacche financially dhal bann sakte hai and value dono ka ek barabar hota hai.

This is not the first time I am seeing TOSHU is invested financially for the family. He did same when matter was paying about resort bill and he had given his credit card to pay everyone’s bill.

Kinjal toh hamesha se aisi he thi BUT the way TOSHU is financially invested in the family is good to see.

Kuch bacche mummy-mummy kar k mummy mai invested rehte hai and kuch bacche apni responsibilities waqt aane par utha kar apni samajdari dikhate hai.

Waise toh normal mothers apne bête ko kabhi aisa nahi bolti ki tum mere operation ka kharcha matt Uthao main khud dugi! And aisa kabhi bolna bhi nahi chahiye.

Humare yaha aisa culture nahi hai ki bimar maa apni surgery ka paisa bête ko na dene de but she is THE anupama so let’s see.

Agree, jab sabse zyada zaroorat hai responsibility lene ki its Toshu and Kinjal who have taken up. Yes he was not a perfect son, he did many mistakes, but atleast he has realised it and is rectifying it, thats what is more important.

There are kids who may not always keep on going mummy, papa and showering love on them, but their love is reflected through their actions when it is needed the most.

Toshu is flawed like normal humans, but he is truly taking up the responsibility of the family, which once Vanraj took.

Samar on the other hand is just bol bacchan, bas bolta rahega, karta kuch nahi hai, Anu was taking extra classes to earn more money, why didn't he take up extra classes? Bas mummy ke aage piche ghumne se kuch nahi hota.

Originally posted by: neo7

Agree, jab sabse zyada zaroorat hai responsibility lene ki its Toshu and Kinjal who have taken up. Yes he was not a perfect son, he did many mistakes, but atleast he has realised it and is rectifying it, thats what is more important.

There are kids who may not always keep on going mummy, papa and showering love on them, but their love is reflected through their actions when it is needed the most.

Toshu is flawed like normal humans, but he is truly taking up the responsibility of the family, which once Vanraj took.

Samar on the other hand is just bol bacchan, bas bolta rahega, karta kuch nahi hai, Anu was taking extra classes to earn more money, why didn't he take up extra classes? Bas mummy ke aage piche ghumne se kuch nahi hota.

Technically I am seeing in shah house Vanraj has no job, Pakhi is student , baa-bapuji buzurg , Samar struggling whose earnings are like stipend at this point of time so only 2 person is has well to do earning I.e. toshu and kinjal.

I am not counting anupama because she is no more shah and she is also struggling. Definitely anupama is not having that much earning to stay in resort and pay for her surgery. She can pay in installments but can’t count her doing well to do at this point of time.

So story vise only kinjal and toshu is well to do and can pay for resort and surgery.

Toshu is flawed character like real human but he is growing as a person, trying to act better than yesterday and happily shouldering responsibility along with his wife.

On other hand what is samar’s growth as a person ? Neither character growth no career growth. Jaise kal bhi sirf mummy mummy karta tha waise he Aj bhi sirf mummy mummy karta hai , no dedication for career or no responsible behaviour. Neither helps anupama in the kitchen nor working hard for career.

Samar has no capability to pay his own resort bill.His father is jobless , sister is school student and his mother is also struggling. Samar ka kharcha bhi bada bhai/bhabhi he uthate hoga.


Do you know anything about his education? Is he graduate?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Technically I am seeing in shah house Vanraj has no job, Pakhi is student , baa-bapuji buzurg , Samar struggling whose earnings are like stipend at this point of time so only 2 person is has well to do earning I.e. toshu and kinjal.

I am not counting anupama because she is no more shah and she is also struggling. Definitely anupama is not having that much earning to stay in resort and pay for her surgery. She can pay in installments but can’t count her doing well to do at this point of time.

So story vise only kinjal and toshu is well to do and can pay for resort and surgery.

Toshu is flawed character like real human but he is growing as a person, trying to act better than yesterday and happily shouldering responsibility along with his wife.

On other hand what is samar’s growth as a person ? Neither character growth no career growth. Jaise kal bhi sirf mummy mummy karta tha waise he Aj bhi sirf mummy mummy karta hai , no dedication for career or no responsible behaviour. Neither helps anupama in the kitchen nor working hard for career.

Samar has no capability to pay his own resort bill.His father is jobless , sister is school student and his mother is also struggling. Samar ka kharcha bhi bada bhai/bhabhi he uthate hoga.


Do you know anything about his education? Is he graduate?

I think he is not graduate, he left the studies in between. Koi toh episode main dikhaya tha.

Exactly Toshua and Kinjal are the ones who are actually capable of taking financial responsibility now and they are taking it. Isse farak nahi padta baat pehle kisne boli Toshu ya Kinjal ne, farak ye padta hai ki dono ki soch same hai and are actually taking that responsibility that also without show off.

Whereas Samar ek chiz karega apni mummy ke liye toh itna show off karta hai, first salary pe itne badi badi baatien boli thi. Bhale Toshu ya kinjal ne directly salary jaake ANu ke haath main na di hun, but finally unki hi salary kaam aa rahi hai.

Frankly, maine bhi apni mummy ko meri first salary haath main laake nahi di thi, gift leke diya tha and jitna mummy ne bola utna ghar kharche ke liye diya tha, because mummy also want ki hum apne liye bhi save kare. But today I am taking care of financial responsibility of whole house, because I don't want my father to use his pension money, we don't know kab zarrorat pad jaye, main aaj hun, kal shayad na hu.

So ye first salary haath main dena is bas filmy thing aur kuch nahi.

you said it all v true Sammar is only there to creat fights me and my mummy or his girl friend ,i dont know his mother never incuraged him to study make a career just wanted to get him married mere bete ka pehla pyar hai is he going to rely on his brother and sister inlaw all his life .

and who gets the salary in hand now a days it goes straight to bank ,and yes if Anupama worked hard in the house and Vanraj in the office that what Toshu and his wife are standing up for them and for all the family .

Originally posted by: neo7

I think he is not graduate, he left the studies in between. Koi toh episode main dikhaya tha.

Exactly Toshua and Kinjal are the ones who are actually capable of taking financial responsibility now and they are taking it. Isse farak nahi padta baat pehle kisne boli Toshu ya Kinjal ne, farak ye padta hai ki dono ki soch same hai and are actually taking that responsibility that also without show off.

Whereas Samar ek chiz karega apni mummy ke liye toh itna show off karta hai, first salary pe itne badi badi baatien boli thi. Bhale Toshu ya kinjal ne directly salary jaake ANu ke haath main na di hun, but finally unki hi salary kaam aa rahi hai.

Frankly, maine bhi apni mummy ko meri first salary haath main laake nahi di thi, gift leke diya tha and jitna mummy ne bola utna ghar kharche ke liye diya tha, because mummy also want ki hum apne liye bhi save kare. But today I am taking care of financial responsibility of whole house, because I don't want my father to use his pension money, we don't know kab zarrorat pad jaye, main aaj hun, kal shayad na hu.

So ye first salary haath main dena is bas filmy thing aur kuch nahi.

Hehehe I am also same, first salary mummy ke hath mai nahi diya tha but yes mummy ke liye kuch na kuch karti rehti hu. The thing is mummy pappa ki responbility utha sako utni mehnat karna and kaam karna chahiye. Atyar ni situation ma Kaam to atyare toshu/kinjal ni earning j avi ne! Toshu was so happy to see how kinjal is thinking about his mother and finance.

Samar toh like bade bade vaade and seems like khali vasan khakhde ghanu 😆

Originally posted by: kooki07

you said it all v true Sammar is only there to creat fights me and my mummy or his girl friend ,i dont know his mother never incuraged him to study make a career just wanted to get him married mere bete ka pehla pyar hai is he going to rely on his brother and sister inlaw all his life .

A part from doing mummy mummy , I am not seeing any growth of Samar.

He dropped the education for hobby and now no dedication for it either! Anupama ki kuch chalti he nai thi ghar mai 😆

Originally posted by: kooki07

you said it all v true Sammar is only there to creat fights me and my mummy or his girl friend ,i dont know his mother never incuraged him to study make a career just wanted to get him married mere bete ka pehla pyar hai is he going to rely on his brother and sister inlaw all his life .

I am toh against this concept only of getting married before you are financially stable. Apne kharcha uthane ke kaabil nahi ho aur shadi karni hai. Being financially stable should be of utmost important. Pehla pyaar hai toh bhaaga nahi jaa raha, pehle pero pai khade toh ho jao. Phir karte rehna shaadi, kaunsi tumhari umar nikli jaa rahi hai 22 ke toh ho sirf. Aaj kal toh 22 ki age main log shaadi ka S bhi nahi sochte.

Even when Toshu and Kinjal got married, I felt they did wrong, bcoz they were also not earning that time, though they were always shown very serious and committed towards their career, so definately, it fell in place now and its their job which the saving grace for family right now.

Originally posted by: kooki07

and who gets the salary in hand now a days it goes straight to bank ,and yes if Anupama worked hard in the house and Vanraj in the office that what Toshu and his wife are standing up for them and for all the family .

Hehehe our salary goes straight to bank account 😃

The thing is Samar over hype ho gaya hai doing mummy mummmyyy jaap otherwise iska koi role nahi hai.