Adi-Imlie and that sense of a unit building again - Page 23

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

This was why I hope that before the ultimatum, she gets such a conversation which will reassure her that to move ahead you need to shed the previous baggage. That for a frest start to her marriage, she needs to choose her partner and walk with him hand in hand to face the world rather than just nibhao the rishta from her end and say that this is all I can do. Without that, Imlie's proposal to Adi will just seem like band aid thrown hin to give him what he wants rather than being a decision they both want and will commit to for life.

LOL there aren't going to be any such conversations before the ultimatum....whatever Imlie has to realize, she will realize AFTER the ultimatum cuz the ultimatum will force her to make a choice and get out of this indecisive limbo.

Anyways, I still am not hinging everything on that ultimatum as the "end all be all" like it will solve all issues in one go😆.....it just seems to be a case of switching gears again. Adi will feel encouraged now that the KC news is out in the front of the family and divorce almost finalized so he will start to want to plan ahead for life with Imlie......but Imlie will throw him for a loop again with her Malini confusions so he will stalk off in frustration, bas itna hi😆.

You are expecting Imlie to propose to Adi? 😆.....I don't think aisa kuch hoga.....and she's never done anything just to give him what he wants regardless of surface appearances....as I said before also, her marzi has been involved in its own way all along😆.....if she really had given Adi everything he wanted all along, you think he'd be floundering around in frustration for so long?😆 Imlie kahaan maanti hai Adi ki baat.....lol off late toh aur bhi kam maanti hai....isliye toh itna dukhi ghoomta hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL yes, even I got that feel briefly. Imlie looked pissed with Didi for upsetting her Choti Kaaki so much😆.....warna toh majaal ho ki Imlie Didi ko itna sternly kuch bole😆.....but kaise bol ke gayi ki aap itni badi JHOOTI hain😆....

But it won't last very long.....lol precap mein Imlie was again sort of giving sad/pleading looks when Malini was expanding her KC lie to the whole T family😆. When I rewatched the precap, it did look like Imlie is still not going to believe this KC thing.....but Aparna looked stricken enough that she might.

Thing is, Imlie might want to tell everyone that Malini is lying about KC but agar woh puchhein ki why would Malini lie about such a thing, tab Imlie will be stumped😆....cuz she can't reveal to them na that KC lie is for Didi is trying to hide her dard about Adi loving Imlie, not her😆.....isliye I think Imlie ko family ke saamne toh is baat pe haar maanni padegi, even if temporarily😆

The reactions of the T men were amusing me....especially BK - he lowered his eyes awkwardly on hearing this from Malini😆.....Pankaj just had a "ab yeh kya hai" look on his face.....lol

I'm also braced for Aparna finding a way to blame Adi for Malini's EMA regardless😆....it's likely she's going to say that Adi's neglect of Malini led to this.....lol but I think overall the levels of golden bahu ki bhakti will likely take a hit on learning she's got another man in her life and that's what I'm intrigued to see😆.....an Aparna who isn't desperately pleading with Malini all the time

Btw I feel the biggest jhatka for Aparna was likely hearing Malini calling Adi her EX🤣.....divorce abhi complete hua bhi nahin aur already EX ka label mil gaya Aparna ke laadle ko....kaise bardaasht karegi woh🤣

🤣🤣 hahaha aparna ji ka sadma ke the one they think is the only person who can handle him ditching him is sureshot a bigger sadma for her 🤣 oh poor aparna

Agreed ke imlie will be stuck to mano it due to her own sach toh majboori main shayad chup reh le and 😆 at somehow family finding a way to blame adi but I have pakka vishwaas they will do exactly that

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

🤣🤣 hahaha aparna ji ka sadma ke the one they think is the only person who can handle him ditching him is sureshot a bigger sadma for her 🤣 oh poor aparna

Agreed ke imlie will be stuck to mano it due to her own sach toh majboori main shayad chup reh le and 😆 at somehow family finding a way to blame adi but I have pakka vishwaas they will do exactly that

Exactly😆....and this is what I'm enjoying about this situation unexpectedly right now😆.....Imlie is going to now feel trapped by her own condition that she kept in front of Adi😆.....She wants to hide her marriage truth from the family na? Toh ab she will have to go along with Didi ka KC lie too😆.....nahin bachaa sakti Didi ki "image" aur nahin rok sakti Didi ko KC produce karne se😆.

Adi ka point unexpectedly getting proven ki sach bataa deti toh aise trapped nahin feel karti.....ROFL😆.

Yes, Ts will deffo blame Adi for Malini ka EMA also😆.....but Adi ko ghanta farak padega cuz he'll be busy breathing a sigh of relief that sabko divorce ke baare mein pata chal gaya and they can stop shipping him with Malini😆......

Aparna ki saari fantasies collapsing😆.....jis ladki se saari umeedein lagaayi to jhelo her "paapi" beta, wohi ladki usko EX banaake jaa rahi hai🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL so we shouldn't "expect" Malini to ever stand up to her mother for anyone, but otherwise we should give Malini credit for the bare minimum acknowledgement of her mother being wrong "sometimes"? 😆 Waah.

Her mother is literally going around physically assaulting people and all Malini can muster up is some half-assed "Meri maa ke saath bhi bahut galat hua hai" bakwaas? Gimme a break. Yeah I know every child will defend their mother.....but then OWN it na.....I have no respect for this lame wishi-washiness ki in the same breath, you defend your mother's vile behavior by saying she has had bad done to her and then saying ki you doesn't condone her actions......lol can't have it both ways, Malini madam.

I also will not forget the many times Malini has bristled at her Mom's vile behavior with Imlie being pointed out by others....tab toh badaa uchhal uchhal ke Malini has defended her mom's bakwaas as just her "protectiveness for her daughter".....lol so pardon me if I don't buy her half-assed attempt to explain her mom to Imlie.

That was a token convo in the car, bas....aur kuch nahin.....Didi ki life mein waise bhi sab token hi hota hai....she has all the strength to do tamashas with everyone else in the world...but apni mom ke saamne bas ek "Stop it"? lol convenient cowardice😆

Rofl + just caz didi hasn't stood up for T's caz well she doesn't find them her family or even adi I that case and we have multiple examples of her her high attitude and putting herself above them and herself treating them like they are below her matlab she won't do that for the girl she is now claiming is her actual choti behan with the DNA ka added evidence either .. I mean she did claim.in air about choti behan too.and we saw it was just baatein only actual main what she thought about that choti behan jo cute nahi lagti thi jo mannerless thi yada yada..

She is a freaking coward who is only baaton ki peer the fact that she feels her mom is justified in assaulting imlie based on an assumption just caz uske saath bura hua hai is bullshit.. even if her assumption is correct then too how the hell can she raise her hand and didi just be mom mom... and then be Khao kasmein of badi behan and haq when she can't do the bare minimum of restraining her mother from physical assault

Edit: plus let's not forget that AC ji doing all this tamasha in a public place and didi has no consideration of apni khandaan ki ya kisi aur ki bhi izzat.. dare AC jo it and with so many witnesses landing in jail I wish laga deti haath and imlie bull.leti police maza aa jaata.. the women has no sense of decorum and general manners but didi ji deduces inlie as mannerless * taaliyaan*

Which is why as token as it was I like adi ka I hope aaj jo bhi ho imlie chup na rahe and walking away in full swag..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl + just caz didi hasn't stood up for T's caz well she doesn't find them her family or even adi I that case and we have multiple examples of her her high attitude and putting herself above them and herself treating them like they are below her matlab she won't do that for the girl she is now claiming is her actual choti behan with the DNA ka added evidence either .. I mean she did claim.in air about choti behan too.and we saw it was just baatein only actual main what she thought about that choti behan jo cute nahi lagti thi jo mannerless thi yada yada..

She is a freaking coward who is only baaton ki peer the fact that she feels her mom is justified in assaulting imlie based on an assumption just caz uske saath bura hua hai is bullshit.. even if her assumption is correct then too how the hell can she raise her hand and didi just be mom mom... and then be Khao kasmein of badi behan and haq when she can't do the bare minimum if restraining her mother to physically assaulted

Which is why as token as it was I like adi ka I hope aaj jo bhi ho imlie chup na rahe and walking away in full swag..

Basic q when she returned from hospital after the suicide kand she was like this house belongs to Imlie and all and all and knew her mom yet she did not make an attempt to go and get her back home ...I knw she was still hopeful that things may get sorted between her and bbsb .. there itself I felt her hollow mahanta

Originally posted by: AreYaar

As for the Haq ki Ladaai stance from Imlie.....lol I did feel amused when she said she's tired of everyone telling her to fight for her haq.

But at the same time, Imlie's stance is also not sustainable.....there is no scenario in which everyone will stay happy even if Imlie doesn't fight for her rights.....that is what she's not getting.

Everyone keeps pitching it to her as a justice thing for her....that is why Imlie is not getting it.....what she isn't getting is that if she doesn't step up to take her rightful haq, all the people she cares about won't be happy either.....starting from Adi and all the way to the whole T family and then her own Amma-Dadda as well.

Imlie is living in a utopia in her head if she thinks something can grow without the ground being cleared first.....yeh toh nature ka rule hai....you have to clear the field, make space before you can grow something in it.....and there is no scenario in which moving something out of the way won't cause some form of hurt to something.....you can't forever be in limbo over something like that. The cycle of life has to keep going.

I also found it funny that hospital mein random line maar di ki hum apna haq chheen ke bhi le sakte hain and baad mein she was back to her defeatist "Haq ki ladaai mein koi bhi khush nahin hoga"....lol .....toh phir kis haq ko chheennne ki baat ki pehle? Does she think when her Dadda goes about fighting for his rights, that makes the government happy?😆.....Grow up, child😆.....you can't keep the whole world happy all the time.

Anyways, she's going to run out of excuses once the divorce happens.....lol.....as Adi rightly pointed out....this is a world built on lies and it's meant to collapse one day.....Imlie is fearing that collapse but its inevitable.

I think her main fear is losing the family that she has got after so many years. Truth revelation is going to bring a change of dynamics in all the relations and Imlie currently is only focusing on the negativity. I think one reason is because everyone adores Malini and thinks she is perfect for Aditya. To their defense they do not know Imlie’s equation with Aditya, hence nobody brings that up because no body knows. Hence all Imlie keeps hearing is that how Malini is perfect and how she handles Aditya. So, in her mind, how can so many people be wrong. I do wish that Rupi Di shows her the mirror and point the difference in Aditya behavior with her vs Malini for her to get that little bit confidence.

I think if they show Aparna blaming Aditya which I, like you, think might very well happen, that is again going to play to her insecurities as indirectly Imlie will blame herself as she is the reason Adi went far from Malini. that will make her more adamant to see Malini settle or meet this imaginary KC.

For Imlie, more than haq, it’s about everybody happiness. If she fight for her haq than she is being selfish and if she does not fight than everybody is happy. But Imlie is forgetting the happiness of the most important person here. For some reason she keeps forgetting that rishta is of two people and this haq also involves two people and by not fighting for it, she is doing a big injustice to the person who is most involved here. I guess thats where the promo plays it’s part.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

As for the Haq ki Ladaai stance from Imlie.....lol I did feel amused when she said she's tired of everyone telling her to fight for her haq.

But at the same time, Imlie's stance is also not sustainable.....there is no scenario in which everyone will stay happy even if Imlie doesn't fight for her rights.....that is what she's not getting.

Everyone keeps pitching it to her as a justice thing for her....that is why Imlie is not getting it.....what she isn't getting is that if she doesn't step up to take her rightful haq, all the people she cares about won't be happy either.....starting from Adi and all the way to the whole T family and then her own Amma-Dadda as well.

Imlie is living in a utopia in her head if she thinks something can grow without the ground being cleared first.....yeh toh nature ka rule hai....you have to clear the field, make space before you can grow something in it.....and there is no scenario in which moving something out of the way won't cause some form of hurt to something.....you can't forever be in limbo over something like that. The cycle of life has to keep going.

I also found it funny that hospital mein random line maar di ki hum apna haq chheen ke bhi le sakte hain and baad mein she was back to her defeatist "Haq ki ladaai mein koi bhi khush nahin hoga"....lol .....toh phir kis haq ko chheennne ki baat ki pehle? Does she think when her Dadda goes about fighting for his rights, that makes the government happy?😆.....Grow up, child😆.....you can't keep the whole world happy all the time.

Anyways, she's going to run out of excuses once the divorce happens.....lol.....as Adi rightly pointed out....this is a world built on lies and it's meant to collapse one day.....Imlie is fearing that collapse but its inevitable.

+ 1 again but I blame it on her being too idealistic and her inexperience on it that she feels bas chuo reh lene se she can make everyone happy and kono jeet nahi sakta bullshit.. as you said nature ka rule hai yeh and har koi khush nahinreh sakta Fact hai hurt is inevitable 😑 jitna bhi imlie try kar le koi na koi tih hoga hi and that includes her too agar koi aur na ho toh khud toh ho rahi hai so how is it feasible ? Her theory fails right there.. basically point is she has to prioritize herself over the other it is as simple as that.. baaki jo Hoga ho jaayega ... she can't be in limbo for the sake of the one's who can't even give her basic regard as human * read C's* . Tokenism ki jai ho all that was bullshit convo essentially

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

She is a freaking coward who is only baaton ki peer the fact that she feels her mom is justified in assaulting imlie based on an assumption just caz uske saath bura hua hai is bullshit.. even if her assumption is correct then too how the hell can she raise her hand and didi just be mom mom... and then be Khao kasmein of badi behan and haq when she can't do the bare minimum of restraining her mother from physical assault

Edit: plus let's not forget that AC ji doing all this tamasha in a public place and didi has no consideration of apni khandaan ki ya kisi aur ki bhi izzat.. dare AC jo it and with so many witnesses landing in jail I wish laga deti haath and imlie bull.leti police maza aa jaata.. the women has no sense of decorum and general manners but didi ji deduces inlie as mannerless * taaliyaan*

Which is why as token as it was I like adi ka I hope aaj jo bhi ho imlie chup na rahe and walking away in full swag..

Aur yahin pe privilege prove ho jaati hai na Didi ki😆.....her cowardice comes packaged in the polish of education, looks, "sweetness"😆....so everyone continues to make allowances for her no matter what she does. Yehi sab agar Imlie ne kiya hota.....aisi cowardice dikhaayi hoti ki bas hawaa mein baatein aur karne mein nithalle, toh usko toh usi waqt put down kar diya hota as gaaon ki gawaar jiski aukaat hi aisi hai.

Let's not forget, pretty much every convo in this story keeps coming back to how Malini is so padhi likhi, sundar, samjhdaar etc. etc.....samajhdaari ka koi proof in action toh dikhta nahin Malini se but packaging ke basis pe saare benefit of doubt sirf inke liye hi bane hain😆......meanwhile Imlie lacks polish so her every small mis-step is also highlighted as her doing "tamaashe", her being paagal, her being jhalli......that is the difference in privilege in a nutshell.

Unless Didi or anyone else calls out her privilege in this show, pardon me for not feeling any sympathy for these khokhli nautankis of hers. Aage her mom is obviously going to try to get Imlie killed at some point, tab bhi Didiya bas "stop it, stop it" se aage kuch nahin karne waali....useless woman😆.

That way I feel Adi calling her "gadbad" is also too mild a term for AC😆.....maybe he will get more candid once she's no longer his token MIL....ghatiya is the only word for AC....say it on repeat, Babusahib😛

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly😆....and this is what I'm enjoying about this situation unexpectedly right now😆.....Imlie is going to now feel trapped by her own condition that she kept in front of Adi😆.....She wants to hide her marriage truth from the family na? Toh ab she will have to go along with Didi ka KC lie too😆.....nahin bachaa sakti Didi ki "image" aur nahin rok sakti Didi ko KC produce karne se😆.

Adi ka point unexpectedly getting proven ki sach bataa deti toh aise trapped nahin feel karti.....ROFL😆.

Yes, Ts will deffo blame Adi for Malini ka EMA also😆.....but Adi ko ghanta farak padega cuz he'll be busy breathing a sigh of relief that sabko divorce ke baare mein pata chal gaya and they can stop shipping him with Malini😆......adi ki kismat ke meherbaani toh dekho yahan bhi bacha gayi isse from being the newsbreaker small mercies😆😆 but yes what a meherbaani by kismat that he now doesn't have to feel burdened on that front and he can breathe easy even with all the accusations that the family will find a way to thopo on him adi ko ghanta farak nahi padta as long as he can feel light

Aparna ki saari fantasies collapsing😆.....jis ladki se saari umeedein lagaayi to jhelo her "paapi" beta, wohi ladki usko EX banaake jaa rahi hai🤣

aparna ji needed to see unki devi bahu is actually insaan too and she kinda deserved it for putting ear son last and not prioritizing him.. so ab bhugto bhaith ke.. kinda lesson hai inke liye one can only hope we will get the bare minimum of concern from.her but knowing them and Aparna saara concern will be for malini and unka KC hi they will not spare a thought again for adi ka mental state again ke he needs them and he might be more volatile..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL there aren't going to be any such conversations before the ultimatum....whatever Imlie has to realize, she will realize AFTER the ultimatum cuz the ultimatum will force her to make a choice and get out of this indecisive limbo.

Anyways, I still am not hinging everything on that ultimatum as the "end all be all" like it will solve all issues in one go😆.....it just seems to be a case of switching gears again. Adi will feel encouraged now that the KC news is out in the front of the family and divorce almost finalized so he will start to want to plan ahead for life with Imlie......but Imlie will throw him for a loop again with her Malini confusions so he will stalk off in frustration, bas itna hi😆.

You are expecting Imlie to propose to Adi? 😆.....I don't think aisa kuch hoga.....and she's never done anything just to give him what he wants regardless of surface appearances....as I said before also, her marzi has been involved in its own way all along😆.....if she really had given Adi everything he wanted all along, you think he'd be floundering around in frustration for so long?😆 Imlie kahaan maanti hai Adi ki baat.....lol off late toh aur bhi kam maanti hai....isliye toh itna dukhi ghoomta hai😆

Yaar not fair. Your practical statements ne meri puri in depth analysis ki dhajiya udasi.. And here I thought u was being very intelliwomaniya and saying logical things, but your post gave me a good reality check.

But jokes aside, I understand that expecting any mature conversation in the near future is futile, especially since this is ITV and their quota for character progression kinda stoped at Adi. I wanted this opportunity to understand what Imlie honestly thought throughout this journey, especially how she dealt with Adi changing from being her protector, to friend, to life partner. We got Adi's viewpoint of his transition, but what about Imlie. I want to understand her growth from a girl who could not even fathom marriage to someone will to give up everything to be with someone for life. Kya yeh meri ichcha kabhi purna hogi is janam mein?