Adi-Imlie and that sense of a unit building again - Page 21

Originally posted by: countryapple

Malini is feeling bad for Imlie because right now Imlie do not have rights on both husband and father. But once Imlie settles down with Adi and the truth about her biological Dad revealed, there will be a token acknowledgment between Imlie and Dev. Then Malini will start feeling jealous that Imlie has everything.

One strange thing I observed was that Adi did not deduce that Malini knows truth about Dev even after Anu mentioned property share. May be he thinks it is unnecessary to think unnecessary things.

He listens to what he wants to listen 👂 🤪

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh ROFL right, he's already kinda given them a little demo of his restlessness for Imlie during the gunshot time also which he has never done for anyone else before and after that😆......but yeh Ts hain, man....that was still too "subtle" for them😆.

They literally need to see an Adi holding Imlie in his arms and crying that he can't live without her😆.....then it might break through their bailbuddhis warna inko har cheez ka short term memory loss hota rahega or they will keep considering that to be Adi ki "zimmedaari waali feeling" for Imlie😆.

Apu will say “yeh kya tha” 😂🤯

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

After hearing that "Adityaaa" i really could only picturize that BTS where Gashmeer dances kathak steps to Malini calling him "Aditya Aditya Aditya"🤣

My only issue with Adi & Malini's relationship at this point is the amount that Adi is still involved with her. My concern is that she will mistake it to be more than what it is - which is pure friendship and them knowing each other for 7 years, but she may assume that he still has hidden feelings for her which e is not accepting. Before anyone says anything, I am again reiterating - Adi has never given her any indication to fuel this misunderstanding, but we know didi's character sketch. She is so self obsessed, that she will never want to look beyond her nose to understand what is actually going on. What actually is just friendship and some guilt for involving her in this mess from Adi's side, will be misconstrued by her to be something else altogether, which may add to Imlie's guilt in the future as well.

Pata nahin kya misconstrue karegi didi. She is so capricious ki I doubt Aditya is out of her headspace in the first place anyway for her to form newer delusions.

We will always see Aditya being involved with Malini. Her presence is like gorilla glue jo jitna marzi try karlo it will take your hair if it is stuck to your hair; the only way out is growing new hair and hoping that the glue does not stick this time around. But that complete removal is not something that interests the makers I guess. So my hopes are low on Aditya being any less involved in Malini’s self-inflicted problems.

However, once Imlie comes squarely into Aditya’s corner, we should be ok even if Malini thinks Aditya loves her more or something else equally bizarre.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I am also curious about how the makers want to show the Tripathis accepting Imlie as their bahu.

I hope they do not flip the sasumaa's when they come to know about Adi-Malini divorce. They have been brought back to Imlie camp in a more firm manner than before. So now them once again going into ema angle should not be done. Whatever they may want with regards to Adi-Malini marriage, they should not be against Imlie.

I feel as if after they get to know that she is their actual bahu, all their sympathies will be for Imlie. But they might be against Adi. They might feel that Imlie should not be in a relationship with Adi. Adi may have to win over his own family to be with Imlie. That would be something new.

My two cents on this - this maybe like the Satyakam Aditya bit that happened previously. Even though their sequence was much less stretched than the T ladies and Imlie. I do not think the Ts will now go to the other end of the spectrum that easily or rather not at all.

I also think Aditya and Imlie EMA suspicion is not going to happen because Didi is hell bent on bringing up KC in every dialogue with Aditya already. It will not be too long before she starts doing the same to the aam junta.Which means that this bit might tick them off a lot more than giving them time to gin up controversies related to Aditya and Imlie. No one listens to ACs rants anymore anyway.

They maybe angry with Aditya once they learn the truth but I doubt he will have to put in anything more after explaining.

I just hope Anu and Malini are sent packing soon. I couldn't believe their outburst when M told Anu about her misbehaving papa. I mean, sobbing on each other's shoulders an all, I thought 'wait a minute - the culprit is standing right there in front of you, why don't you both go for him?' And Anu always seems to hate the lying b*****d yet when in hospital she threatens Imlie with death if anything happens to him? I mean, make up your mind woman! If you suffered him for 20 years why decide now that he matters?

I went off Dev the moment ages back when he swore angrily to Anu that 'nothing happened' in PD - which was not only a cowardly blatant lie - and he is STILL lying - but what an insult to poor Meethi - that what happened with her was nothing! I think all three of them should just go and get lost somewhere. As for the stupid accusation that Imlie is after their status - what status? The show-offness that they have money-but-no-character status - the I've-got-lots-of-stuff-and-servants-just-to-show-how-wealthy-I-am status, with her even shallower empty-headed friends? Who in their right mind would be chasing after that? The woman is a nut-case. [V]

Just saw the episode. Decent epi in terms of story movement.

I was impressed by Imlie today a lot. Not only for standing upto AC but more for resisting Didi ke mahanta attempts of Papa lelo, ring lelo. I loved that she promised to never see DC & giving that promise as a bheek to AC👏. Both mother & daughter will always live with Imlie's bheek only however they may want to twist the facts to come out as the one doing the charity😆.

Also they gave an insight into Imlie's thought about haq ki ladaai. She is plain tired of it. And though she does feel some emotional connect with DC & Didi, it is not enough for her to start a new haq ki ladaai. This stance of her is not going to change even after she comes to know about DC being her father. In fact it may have the opposite effect & she will oppose the Loservedis even more. The compromise to her self respect is not worth it for Imlie.

And frankly it sheds even more light on the fact that her BS is the only person for whom she compromises her self respect. She may respect & feel an emotional connect with Didi alone & loser DC but not to the extent of blindly obeying their orders. Imlie's Didi bhakti is also on her own terms.

Glad that Imlie refused to take Didi's ring. There was no hesitation & no change even after Didi's zabardasti ring lelo jaap. That ring belonged to Didi & she has no interest in getting her utaran. Whatever Imlie feels about Didi having haq on BS, she subconsciously has always felt the right on him.

Didi just cannot let anyone think that she is a chodi hui aurat. She is the one who should be leaving the guy. All of this Imlie ki haq ki ladaai is to fuel this image subconsciously. She is just twisting the narrative to project that she is the one who is fighting for Imlie's rights as a wife to Adi & a daughter to DC. We all are just supposed to conveniently forget that Didi was thinking that Imlie is a sly gold digger & homewrecker who was seducing Adi behind her back. We are supposed to forget that it was Adi only who told her the truth that he is love with Imlie & now wants to leave her & be with Imlie despite the glaring hints given by Adi. We are supposed to forget that she invented KC to manipulate Adi into revealing his affair with Imlie & not so that Imlie moves on in her life.😆

But sorry writers, audience memories are not like Didi's. We remember everything & cannot digest Didi's fake concern & mahanta. All of it is an exercise to control the narrative & come out on top as a martyr who sacrificed everything for Adi-Imlie. What a delusional loser pathetic woman🤢.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Just saw the episode. Decent epi in terms of story movement.

I was impressed by Imlie today a lot. Not only for standing upto AC but more for resisting Didi ke mahanta attempts of Papa lelo, ring lelo. I loved that she promised to never see DC & giving that promise as a bheek to AC👏. Both mother & daughter will always live with Imlie's bheek only however they may want to twist the facts to come out as the one doing the charity😆.

Also they gave an insight into Imlie's thought about haq ki ladaai. She is plain tired of it. And though she does feel some emotional connect with DC & Didi, it is not enough for her to start a new haq ki ladaai. This stance of her is not going to change even after she comes to know about DC being her father. In fact it may have the opposite effect & she will oppose the Loservedis even more. The compromise to her self respect is not worth it for Imlie.

And frankly it sheds even more light on the fact that her BS is the only person for whom she compromises her self respect. She may respect & feel an emotional connect with Didi alone & loser DC but not to the extent of blindly obeying their orders. Imlie's Didi bhakti is also on her own terms.

Glad that Imlie refused to take Didi's ring. There was no hesitation & no change even after Didi's zabardasti ring lelo jaap. That ring belonged to Didi & she has no interest in getting her utaran. Whatever Imlie feels about Didi having haq on BS, she subconsciously has always felt the right on him.

Didi just cannot let anyone think that she is a chodi hui aurat. She is the one who should be leaving the guy. All of this Imlie ki haq ki ladaai is to fuel this image subconsciously. She is just twisting the narrative to project that she is the one who is fighting for Imlie's rights as a wife to Adi & a daughter to DC. We all are just supposed to conveniently forget that Didi was thinking that Imlie is a sly gold digger & homewrecker who was seducing Adi behind her back. We are supposed to forget that it was Adi only who told her the truth that he is love with Imlie & now wants to leave her & be with Imlie despite the glaring hints given by Adi. We are supposed to forget that she invented KC to manipulate Adi into revealing his affair with Imlie & not so that Imlie moves on in her life.😆

But sorry writers, audience memories are not like Didi's. We remember everything & cannot digest Didi's fake concern & mahanta. All of it is an exercise to control the narrative & come out on top as a martyr who sacrificed everything for Adi-Imlie. What a delusional loser pathetic woman🤢.

Arre yaar she can try but she can never become mahaan am just glad yeh khud apni izzat Gira rahi hai apni ego main nobody asked her too but she wants to do it let her do it. Am so happy ke iske apne moonh se sach nikla warna kisi aur ki baat pe yakeen na aata and sach as in her jhoota sach and now hopefully T 'a can stop hounding adi to fix.. mujhe to aaj bohat optimism feel ho raha hai but me AY ,sandy and MB are the minority

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Arre yaar she can try but she can never become mahaan am just glad yeh khud apni izzat Gira rahi hai apni ego main nobody asked her too but she wants to do it let her do it. Am so happy ke iske aone moonh se sach nikla warna kisi aur ki baat pe yakeen na aata and sach as in her jhoota sach and now hopefully T 'a can stop hounding adi to fix.. mujhe to aaj bohat optimism feel ho raha hai but ne AY and MB are the minority

Ooh dont worry, I definitely agree with all of you on this one. I am actually glad that the KC truth came out to the Tripathi family in this way by Malini herself confessing, as isses 2 baaton hongi (Hubby watche Office office reruns, toh dialogue seemed a perfect fit here as well) - 1. Aditya will finally be able to convince Imlie that he fulfilled his promise of waiting till she settled with KC to get married, so his utavalapan of making Imlie "Mrs Imlie Aditya Tripathi" duniye ke saamne now makes sense more than ever. 2. Like you all have reiterated, it will help the T family to come to terms with Adi-Malini separation reason not being Adi not giving Malini time & affection, but because their golden bahu was in love with someone else. Maybe because of that they may reduce this sautela type behavior they do towards Adi. I just want to see how will Adi & Imlie convince them that they need to get married. I mean I know unfortunately Didi will try her best to insert herself into this situation and make it as if uske support ke bina Imlie will not be able to marry Adi, but is Adi actually having a plan on how is he going to break it to the family. If he tells the whole truth & mentions that Malini knows this, then Aparna's spidey senses may spring up with Malini ne jhoot bola to get these 2 together, which again may become a problem later. Right now I just want to see Adi recognizing that just convincing Imlie is the least of his problems, his family will be another ball game altogether.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh ROFL right, he's already kinda given them a little demo of his restlessness for Imlie during the gunshot time also which he has never done for anyone else before and after that😆......but yeh Ts hain, man....that was still too "subtle" for them😆.

They literally need to see an Adi holding Imlie in his arms and crying that he can't live without her😆.....then it might break through their bailbuddhis warna inko har cheez ka short term memory loss hota rahega or they will keep considering that to be Adi ki "zimmedaari waali feeling" for Imlie😆.

Yahaan I feel NDE ki bhi zaroorat nahi hai. Just let go missing and this guy looses it. NDE toh bahut door ki baat hai. I mean these guys have already seen that whenever Imlie leaves the house, Adi uske peeche peeche chale jata hai. Do they really need an more proof that for Adi Imlie matter more, coz woh toh kabhi Malini ke peeche toh gaya nahin, and that woman toh left their house at the drop of a hat, yet he never went to get her unless compelled, while for Imlie, he had to convince them that let him go.

Just see when she gets sick or faints, Adi is always around to catch her. What else do they need to understand how important she is to him.

So finally caught today's episode, and as Lodestar mentioned, I found the overall movement forward on a few points that we regularly discuss on the forum -

1. Haq ki Ladaai - I think many of the forumwasis feel that Imlie right now is so focused on didi that she is stuck in the same place. I feel not just us, but also Adi thinks the same, where he mentioned that they are back to square one when they came back to T house. Today I feel we got a small insight in Imlie's mind as well. When she said that this Haq ki ladaai that Malini & Adi are asking her to fight, she is already doing that in her head. The conflicted emotions, guilt and resolve to take the next step is constantly playing in her mind, but she believes that the conclusion of this "ladaai" is going to make everyone unhappy in some way and no one will be a winner. I kind of agree with her there, coz the shadow of Adi's decision to marry Malini will always loom over Adilie's relationship in some way or the other, even after the whole world knows the truth.

2. Malini's mother - The entire episode also had a common arc of AC. From the hospital where she got a dose from Imlie (maybe dil se I am a TRP aunty, coz that was satisfying to watch), to the car where Malini tried to give a reason to her mother's thinking, but accepted that it does not justify her behavior towards Imlie and others as well, to finally at the T house where it looked almost like a shared secret between Imlie and Malini about the incident. Malini has somehow resigned herself to her mother's behavior, and we have to understand, Malini doe not know how to stand up to her mother, because she does not have that in her to do so. She will support anyone who will put her mother in her place, but will not be able to openly and fiercely come out in the person's defense against her mother like Adi or Imlie do. She has never done it for Adi in the 7 years they were together or after marriage, or even for the T family during the marriage preparations or after marriage, so expecting her to do it for Imlie seems a bit too much to me, even if she has "pledged to give Imlie her rights".

3. Behenchaara - Today I somewhat saw the chemistry between Malini and Imlie. Though a part of it was shown yesterday as well, it was very saccharine and fake and not digestible. Today their interaction felt more realistic to me. I agree the entire "ring wapisi" was just weird as hell, but Malini felt that doing that will help her show to Imlie that she is also trying to move on from the relationship and "giving Aditya back to her". I am neither condoning her thought process which is very cheap to me, but I feel that for her this act is needed for her to feel like she has done what is needed from her to pay back Imlie for her sacrifices. AC ki beti hai, so hisab ke pakki hi rahegi bandi. But apart from that weird scene, what struck me during their car conversation and the interaction with the T family is that somewhere Malini is moving towards accepting Imlie as her sister and is trying to reach the point that Imlie already is today. While for Imlie thinking about Malini comes second nature to her because she has truly accepted her as a "badi behan", Malini will take some more time and try to be "mahaan" with her sacrifices to level the playing field. Malini feels that Imlie is way ahead of her in this race, and she is trying to play catchup by playing all the cards she has - father, ring, Adi, KC. She is trying to grow as a person, but is clueless on how to go about doing so with her actions, which is why makes her look smaller than Imlie, whose selflessness is instinctive rather than something that needs to jataoed. Still I feel if they try to build this relationship in the right direction, there may be still hope for Malini.

Also, I am happy that the reason for Adi's ultimatum became clear to me in a sense with Imlie's conversation in the car & the precap. Somewhere I understand that this will only help her get out of her confusion rather than force her to do something she does not want to do.