The misogynistic dislike for Pallavi - Page 3

Originally posted by: Muktchand

I think you are highly mistaken this forum never known as blind pankhi of any character be Raghav or Pallavi

One two members might show their displeasure but what I see from two three months most sane fandom of IF

No fan war no off-screen gossip nothing

Most rational fans of characters and show. I never saw any biased views

Originally posted by: Mihika

I thought of giving a detailed reply but I am running short of time right now

Point no. One

1. This FD has no hatred for any character....we have fans for even BWA and Rambo....Pallavi to lead hai.

2. Both Pallavi and Raghav come to conclusion way too easily but there is one big difference between them....Raghav if trusts someone he would try investigating even though at the end he ended up talking to a bhoot and did that nonsense kaand

But Pallavi never tries investigating. She jumps to conclusion. However is a character, one should always try getting to the bottom of the problem. Which she doesn't do ... And this she will learn from Raghav only.

3. Kindly go through all the threads in this forum right from the beginning of the show before accusing the fanbase here to be biased.

4. Which fanbase doesn't have majority in girls? But here we have boys too but I won't expose the names here because privacy is everyone's right.

5. I am glad that we could discuss on this point as well.

6. For me I am a sadist for both. Both have committed equal number of mistakes and both need to go through redemption.

7. Saying so...chilli powder stunt is not that a serious issue but if it is life threatening then yes it is a big issue. But considération she was unaware of it.

8. Violence .... Oh please don't even get me start on it....Raghav is the of Thappar exam (with/without fault).

PS: I won't come back to this thread. This will be my first and last post in this topic.

Abhi jaate hai meeting chal raha...was feeling sleepy to aa gaye😆

Oh BTW nice to have you here.

I agree with slaps and all.. dont want that but Pallavi never investigates? ..sorry Mihika but when has Raghav investigated? The two big MUs he had, one Anjali MMS case and then Keerthi, both times he jumped to conclusions and literally wrecked havoc in her life. Compare that to mirchi..it was silly and for Raghav its lifethreatening but fact remains she was unaware of his allergies and now when she will know she will obviously repent and do whatever she can to ease his pain..

I’m really disappointed with way she is being bashed by Show’s fans today 🤔

This forum is still not that toxic but Twitter is being very toxic to her

Her Trashmukhs jaap is of course off putting but that’s part of character. Raghav did worse things for his Amma but that was over looked so much( rather people were celebrating that wedding 🤪 which is ofc good thing but hypocrisy here is 👎🏼)

but once Unknowingly Pallavi harms him she is being bashed right and left

Raghav forced her into marriage , insulted her infront of her family knowing it will hurt her to extreme

Today Pallavi wasn’t aware Mirchi is like poison to him 🤔

She just did a small prank type revenge

Doesn’t deserve so much of hate

People tried to maintain positivity in FD when RR was wrong but the minute Pallavi goes wrong they forget about not fighting Fl vs ML FD fights 🤔

So disappointing!!

Raghav getting slaps is sad but that’s on Trashmukhs not on Pallavi , she is not even aware of those slaps 🤔

I feel some people are taking that anger on pallavi too 😵

Writers wrote Raos better than trashmukhs , everyone in that fam is negative , weak or suspicious, useless people 😡

i understand they’re frustrating 🤔

But people shouldn’t unload that frustration on pallavi

but seriously makers should show pallavi showing them their place otherwise it will be shame to see her accepting a father who didn’t take a second to throw her out 🤔

VD is ungrateful He really doesn’t deserve pallavi

I will be so disappointed if Pallavi reunites with D fam just to complete redemption arc 😵 And to start Mandar track

There will be no growth of pallavi at all if That happens 😡

They are growing Raghav’s character which is so nice 👍🏼

But pallavi’s character is still all about Trashmukhs 😵

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

I’m really disappointed with way she is being bashed by Show’s fans today 🤔

This forum is still not that toxic but Twitter is being very toxic to her

Her Trashmukhs jaap is of course off putting but that’s part of character. Raghav did worse things for his Amma but that was over looked so much( rather people were celebrating that wedding 🤪 which is ofc good thing but hypocrisy here is 👎🏼)

but once Unknowingly Pallavi harms him she is being bashed right and left

Raghav forced her into marriage , insulted her infront of her family knowing it will hurt her to extreme

Today Pallavi wasn’t aware Mirchi is like poison to him 🤔

She just did a small prank type revenge

Doesn’t deserve so much of hate

People tried to maintain positivity in FD when RR was wrong but the minute Pallavi goes wrong they forget about not fighting Fl vs ML FD fights 🤔

So disappointing!!

Raghav getting slaps is sad but that’s on Trashmukhs not on Pallavi , she is not even aware of those slaps 🤔

I feel some people are taking that anger on pallavi too 😵

Writers wrote Raos better than trashmukhs , everyone in that fam is negative , weak or suspicious, useless people 😡

i understand they’re frustrating 🤔

But people shouldn’t unload that frustration on pallavi

but seriously makers should show pallavi showing them their place otherwise it will be shame to see her accepting a father who didn’t take a second to throw her out 🤔

VD is ungrateful He really doesn’t deserve pallavi

I will be so disappointed if Pallavi reunites with D fam just to complete redemption arc 😵 And to start Mandar track

There will be no growth of pallavi at all if That happens 😡

They are growing Raghav’s character which is so nice 👍🏼

But pallavi’s character is still all about Trashmukhs 😵

Damn , they are doing that on Twitter ? Thankfully, I haven't come across too many posts here bashing her .

Agree. The problem is Pallavi always forgives people easily. Phir usske baba ho ya kaaku... And hence people are expecting that she must forgive Raghav too... Par itne jaldi? Apni family ko ussne maaf kiya because usske liye woh usski FAMILY hai.. Raghav kaun hai usska? Deal waala pati?

See, deshmukh ho ya Raghav, sabne usske saath ghalat kiya hai. But people are missing the point that these are the same Deshmukh's who gave her that happiness and support after her husband's death. Woh khush thi. But, I'll never justify VD for what he did to her. I'm expecting a gradual growth in her character. Par itne jaldi?😆 Infact today, I was shocked to see her ghussa. It was so thanda😆

Also, I'm not happy with people saying deshmukh house me woh naukraani ki tarah, gadho ki tarah kaam karti thi and Rao's ke yaha rani hai etc... Apni family ke liye kaam karna gadha-majdoori nahi hai. Please.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

People forget that she is not going to view Deshmukhs for what they are or what they have done( talking about Vijay Deshmukh here) because for her they are her family. She doesnt have the wholistic,neutral and unbiased view of the audience who know both sides of the story. For her, Deshmukhs are the only family she got, Ayi Baba are the only parents she can ever have and no matter what they have done now the fact that they gave her a family when she had none, especially after Mandhar's death, uts not uncommon in our society to blame the bahu and abandon her..Deshmukhs (mainly Ayi,Nikhil and even Baba for whatever reason) did not outcaste her.. I know it seems like no big deal but for Pallavi it is a huge deal because before that except for her brother, she never had an idea of what family can be like so she latched on to that happiness like some lifeline..People need to understand where her bias is coming from..

Maine abhi yahi likha😲

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I agree with slaps and all.. dont want that but Pallavi never investigates? ..sorry Mihika but when has Raghav investigated? The two big MUs he had, one Anjali MMS case and then Keerthi, both times he jumped to conclusions and literally wrecked havoc in her life. Compare that to mirchi..it was silly and for Raghav its lifethreatening but fact remains she was unaware of his allergies and now when she will know she will obviously repent and do whatever she can to ease his pain..

Also she trusted her family (in her eyes ) not some stranger

So might not have considered investigating whole story

Raghav believed total stranger In keerti MU

Which was 10x serious than this one

I hope pallavi learns from this and asks Farhad next time for unbiased story

Originally posted by: Neha054

Damn , they are doing that on Twitter ? Thankfully, I haven't come across too many posts here bashing her .

Most of them are being very negative and disappointing 👎🏼

Originally posted by: -RoadsideRomeo-

Agree. The problem is Pallavi always forgives people easily. Phir usske baba ho ya kaaku... And hence people are expecting that she must forgive Raghav too... Par itne jaldi? Apni family ko ussne maaf kiya because usske liye woh usski FAMILY hai.. Raghav kaun hai usska? Deal waala pati?

See, deshmukh ho ya Raghav, sabne usske saath ghalat kiya hai. But people are missing the point that these are the same Deshmukh's who gave her that happiness and support after her husband's death. Woh khush thi. But, I'll never justify VD for what he did to her. I'm expecting a gradual growth in her character. Par itne jaldi?😆 Infact today, I was shocked to see her ghussa. It was so thanda😆

Also, I'm not happy with people saying deshmukh house me woh naukraani ki tarah, gadho ki tarah kaam karti thi and Rao's ke yaha rani hai etc... Apni family ke liye kaam karna gadha-majdoori nahi hai. Please.

You very rightly put about her forgiving people so easily . Everyone wronged her except Ayyi and Nikhil . I would love to see her ditching everyone including Raghav lol

Pallu was put under too much pressure especially during Mansi's wedding .Then again she lied about the shops finances so I will cut D family some slack .

Raghav gets a loads of free pass, because woh toh aisa hi hai. Personally more than the paisa throwing part and izzat uchhalna part on her, I found his offering money and deal part for marriage so insulting, because that wasn't something out of anger or revenge, it was how his character was, and it got free pass because woh toh aisa hi hai... Not to forget when he got her to sign the papers for shop...All of these can make you hate that person for life, because it's manipulation preying on your weaknesses, how easily can one trust that person? So I get it when Pallu is sceptical about his intentions... And chilli powder was just a silly prank gone wrong, nothing more... I was amused by her reaction to it, it's a progress from before.. This time she even thought Raghav would eat it, if she served it with sweetness, that itself is a progress. 😆😆

I like how Raghav Rao as a character is written, and the same cannot be said for Pallavi.. I loved her when used to be spunky, and so dedicated towards her saree shop and being the anchor of the family. But then came the abortion track, and then came the absurdity. Then they threw her out and then came the forceful marriage. 🤣🤣

Who can relate to such things? 🤣

There are so many times when one lead gets blamed in a love story, because of poor writing and because of enormous expectations from characters. It's totally okay if the people are not on same page in a love story. It's okay if one's love is more passionate than the other. Characters are characters, not wish fulfilling fairies.. If Pallavi is blind in her family love, that is what it is... You cannot do anything about that. It's an imperfect show with non relatable characters..Raghav was estranged by his own blood family for years, but in the end the family remains family... The same goes for deshmukhs.. Vijay wouldn't have been so hurt or so angry, if Pallavi was nobody to him... He is a toxic character, but he can have his own shades.. He gave his saree shop as a gift to Pallavi, even though in ego, he wouldn't have done that if she was nobody to him. He wouldn't have stopped talking about how Pallavi is, if she was nothing to him. And his mistakes are out there, as mistakes. There is no justification for them, period.

But relationships are complex and much beyond 'they-don't-deserve-her' and he-doesn't-deserve-her.. It's not about algorithm of who deserves whom, it's about your attachment to people. What's the point of life if you don't have people to share the joy of achievements with? You can't be too dependent on them, you need to have self respect, in that aspect Pallu is ready to sideline herself, because she puts relations before herself, I get that. However in today's age, such characters are hard to relate to, because you do get angry at people, you taunt them sometimes, you complain to them sometimes...Pallu hardly does any of that, to her in-laws.. Because she has made them sort of godly... Because they gave her something she craved for. She needs to understand that even parental relationships need understanding, trust and friendship, not just blind obedience and respect. If Vijay was like a father to her, he would have thought about her for a moment at least, why is she not disappointed in him? Why doesn't she expect anything from him? That's where her problem as a character lies, she doesn't have any bad feelings, even of small magnitudes towards deshmukhs... How is that possible? How can she not confront her own family members about the lack of trust, attachment from their side? How can she not ask them why they have given Sulo and Amrutha free pass in their home? But then, that would mean giving time to Pallavi as a character, which CVs are not able to. Right now she is just the female part in a love story, nothing more... Man why do I get so serious about characters ?🤣

Pallu as a character was always meant to be criticised with the labels like doormat, typical ITV FL and all.. It's part of the package for such characters.

It's just a show. People should just chill and enjoy the ride. Even I don't like Pallu when she goes on her idealism spree.. I would have loved her to not give a shit about the Raos or Deshmukhs and just get the f*** out of there.. 🤣🤣

I would have lodged a police complaint or made a media scandal out of the marriage if I was her.. Or rather I would have demanded compensation for ruining my life.. But she just put it mildly.. Because she is not me.. 😆 Chill hai bandi, second chance bhi de diya, ghamandi Rao ko apna bhi liya subconsciously.. Aur kya chahiye?? Agar Deshmukhs ke liye self respect side ki hai, toh Raghav ke liye bhi ki hai... People don't see that. Because Raghav said he was sorry, doesn't mean what he broke in her comes back. He did break her inner self. I mean that was epic humiliation for her from all sides.. To give that person a chance in marriage is a big deal... People don't see that.

Chalo, end of the rant. 😆