Virat is the Victim...

Note: This is not about Neil; as far as I am concerned what Neil chooses to do in his real life is solely his descision.This is about Virat the character and I would request to keep this discussion to characters only.

The alleged victim (Virat) has time and again been given the opportunity and has not come clear.

Do you not agree that after marriage when Pakhi went home he fought with Sai and told her how he feels about Pakhi..

And there are many other instances that has led Sai to believe that he still harbours feeling toward pakhi.

And I know and understand that from then to now..

SaiRat has covered this whole journey and what he feels for Sai is legit.

But, for Sai she is time and again shown or made feel that she is the third wheel; it was started by Virat and continued by Patralekha.Actually; if we see the earlier days after Marriage; Patralekha was understanding and accepted their marriage.. but Virat kept given that extra rope to Patralekha to enter there room anytime ,to interfere in husband wife matters..later patralekha was so comforted by Virat that she started abusing Sai as she thought Sai is third wheel ...and Virat still kept mum..to the point where Sai started believing that she is actually a third wheel..

From the point where she asked Pakhi not to come in their room ; to walking out of the room to give them privacy.

The other question that begs attention is qhen Virat has shown so many gestures and overtures how Sai can still blame Virat:

Well how many times before has Virat supportrd Sai ; only to lash out at Sai later Pakhi manipulated him.

Why it is so easy for Patralekha to manipulate Virat?

Be it Amay track, Masala grinding track,Devyani track, Food track..

Now because Virat's feeling is changed he wants Sai to acknowledge there relationship

But how Sai can rest assured that Virat will not change the sides again..

Todays episode also; when Sai was not there he was insulting Patralekha but once Sai is back he is back to the original being nice to Patralekha..has he forgotten that in absence of Sai the women has tried for an illicit relationship with him!!

He repiramended Sai almost immediately; but when Patralekha started spewing the insults at Sai he did not repiramended her..

And I want to tell the people who says thia a copy of KD; No it is not ; yes the scenarios match but Rono was no Virat..

He did not went to and fro...he insulted Rupkotha and he did it without mercy..

Rono did not asked imon for Ice to rub in Rupkotha hands; he insulted rupkotha when he came to diaturb their private moment and you felt his rage.

But coming back to ghum, Sai needs an assurance, which she is not wrong in seeking considering the past trend and why Virat cannot tell the truth??

What is wrong in telling the truth ,that once he harboured a feeling of attraction towards the women; that was before even she got married to his brother and after that he has never felt a thing for her and he loves Sai...

If there is nothing wrong in what Virat has done/ doing than why can't he come clean.

Its not about care or anything its simple; he knows very well that the other party is still very much interested in him and he is avoiding that confrontation.

He himself knows how much it hurts Sai; but he won't do the right thing because it put him under the blade..so Sai should suffer.

Tell me onething if roles were reversed ; and Sai had a best friend who time and again would have made it clear that he is interested in Sai despite Sai being married..What would have Virat had done??would he had played happy family like he is playing now..??

We all know the answer don't we; he cannot even bear if Sai talks to someone nicely on phone; flirts with someone; dances on someone's tune...

But she should understand and not blame Virat for a mess that he created himself and refuses to clear it.

According to me; as I mentioned before cheating / affair is not only physical it is emotional as well ; when you keep a soft spot in your life for your ex: with your spouse being continously insulted by your ex..It' an insult to your spouse snd institution of marriage.

I totally agree with this post, and yes people say Virat is better than Rono but in Pakhi’s case Virat isn’t , Rono always gave Roopkotha a fitting reply but Virat doesn’t

And yes it’s Virat who gave Pakhi the liberty to behave the way she does

Pakhi was kind of okay with Sai in the beginning and was mad at Virat, she did see Sai as his wife

I would just add, in today's episode I could understand Sai's irritation at Patralekha barging in unannounced ..because its actually too much ..Sai has too many times directly/indirectly mentioned how she does not like Pakhi coming in , in their room at night...like that.. Both Virat and Patralekha are aware of it clearly.. But then none of the two understand it, Patralekha keeps coming in unannounced as if its her room and Virat never asks her to knock the room when she comes it..Ulta he gives a shocking look to Sai when she taunts her for not knocking the room.. When both husband and wife together would say to not enter without knocking, how would she do that? She does not take Sai's words seriously because she is Virat's deal wife and right now a Mehmaan..

The monster Pakhi is today was created by Virat himself.

Thank you for saying this. I am so done seeing people making a Virat a victim here and bashing sai for minute/ insignificant reasons. The way they twist words and make Virat a victim and nitpicks on Sai is so disappointing. Its so tiring. She’s the victim here in all sense. Virat gets criticised more because of his actions ppl. If Sai was shown as a man-handler and abuser she would have been called out in the same way. Sai is innocent party as far as Virat- Pakhi is concerned. He got her into the mess, he should clear it. Even today after all Pakhi’s revelations when she called Sai Khudgharz he didn’t flinch. But at the same time asked Sai why is she doing Pakhi’s beizzati? What do we make out of it. Ronno/ Vikram was way better than Virat in dealing with Pakhi.
I am not saying sai is always right. She has her own set of faults but Virat crosses the line most of the times. And please he’s not the victim. He gave Pakhi the leverage to behave like this to Sai. He should own up to his mistake and stand firmly against Pakhi.

He went after Pakhi and explained the arranged marriage/ deal soon after his marraige. In the terrace scene Pakhi even asked him why not make it a real marraige? He insisted its deal. That was so stupid. Pakhi was his SIL then. Why would you give wrong signals to her even if his intentions were pure? She did take it in the wrong way. Hence Virat should clear it to Sai asap

Originally posted by: Sairat

Note: This is not about Neil; as far as I am concerned what Neil chooses to do in his real life is solely his descision.This is about Virat the character and I would request to keep this discussion to characters only.

The alleged victim (Virat) has time and again been given the opportunity and has not come clear.

Do you not agree that after marriage when Pakhi went home he fought with Sai and told her how he feels about Pakhi..

And there are many other instances that has led Sai to believe that he still harbours feeling toward pakhi.

And I know and understand that from then to now..

SaiRat has covered this whole journey and what he feels for Sai is legit.

But, for Sai she is time and again shown or made feel that she is the third wheel; it was started by Virat and continued by Patralekha.Actually; if we see the earlier days after Marriage; Patralekha was understanding and accepted their marriage.. but Virat kept given that extra rope to Patralekha to enter there room anytime ,to interfere in husband wife matters..later patralekha was so comforted by Virat that she started abusing Sai as she thought Sai is third wheel ...and Virat still kept mum..to the point where Sai started believing that she is actually a third wheel..

From the point where she asked Pakhi not to come in their room ; to walking out of the room to give them privacy.

The other question that begs attention is qhen Virat has shown so many gestures and overtures how Sai can still blame Virat:

Well how many times before has Virat supportrd Sai ; only to lash out at Sai later Pakhi manipulated him.

Why it is so easy for Patralekha to manipulate Virat?

Be it Amay track, Masala grinding track,Devyani track, Food track..

Now because Virat's feeling is changed he wants Sai to acknowledge there relationship

But how Sai can rest assured that Virat will not change the sides again..

Todays episode also; when Sai was not there he was insulting Patralekha but once Sai is back he is back to the original being nice to Patralekha..has he forgotten that in absence of Sai the women has tried for an illicit relationship with him!!

He repiramended Sai almost immediately; but when Patralekha started spewing the insults at Sai he did not repiramended her..

And I want to tell the people who says thia a copy of KD; No it is not ; yes the scenarios match but Rono was no Virat..

He did not went to and fro...he insulted Rupkotha and he did it without mercy..

Rono did not asked imon for Ice to rub in Rupkotha hands; he insulted rupkotha when he came to diaturb their private moment and you felt his rage.

But coming back to ghum, Sai needs an assurance, which she is not wrong in seeking considering the past trend and why Virat cannot tell the truth??

What is wrong in telling the truth ,that once he harboured a feeling of attraction towards the women; that was before even she got married to his brother and after that he has never felt a thing for her and he loves Sai...

If there is nothing wrong in what Virat has done/ doing than why can't he come clean.

Its not about care or anything its simple; he knows very well that the other party is still very much interested in him and he is avoiding that confrontation.

He himself knows how much it hurts Sai; but he won't do the right thing because it put him under the blade..so Sai should suffer.

Tell me onething if roles were reversed ; and Sai had a best friend who time and again would have made it clear that he is interested in Sai despite Sai being married..What would have Virat had done??would he had played happy family like he is playing now..??

We all know the answer don't we; he cannot even bear if Sai talks to someone nicely on phone; flirts with someone; dances on someone's tune...

But she should understand and not blame Virat for a mess that he created himself and refuses to clear it.

According to me; as I mentioned before cheating / affair is not only physical it is emotional as well ; when you keep a soft spot in your life for your ex: with your spouse being continously insulted by your ex..It' an insult to your spouse snd institution of marriage.

My GOD @Sairat, You have jotted down every single point I would want to bring and so articulately. Thank you for putting all the actions in almost timeline manner to understand that Sai is still where she was and how Virat pushed Sai to her actions from asking Pakhi to leave the room in initial days to Sai leaving the room herself. How he gave the rope to Pakhi who was more respectful in initial days to feel that she was the one and Sai was the third wheel. Also, WHY can't he come out clean rather then let Sai suffer? Very well brought out points!!

Mine is a different perspective. I don't know anyone like it.

Patralekha is elder to virat in terms of relationship so according to his nature there is a respect from his part.He only reacted strongly when she tried to cross her limits.Secondly from his expression it is sure that this woman can gets nothing into her head even if he say something she will make a mountain out of a mole.Virat is a calm natured person basically but out of control when in rage.No one will shout at SIL like wife.

The intial damage in sairat relationship is done by virat himself. I agree. But he has no courage to face confrontations. I think he himself doesn't want to fall in the eyes of his family members. That's why she acts as a confused guy while he cleared everything with pakhi. He also knows if he talk against pakhi whole family with attack sai.This is the other reason for his silence. Virat himself know sai doesn't pay attention to pakhi's words.There are lot other things to do than quarrels He warned her in room,hospital and even in front of family.but nothing matters so just ignore now a days sai is also like that

Coming to his jealousy he loves sai and he express it indirectly and she doesn't gets it.She is the first one after the intial days of marriage who talk about deal marriage. He has a fear of losing her and he knows if he loss her to a guy he won't get her back since she is sincere in a relationship. That's why he want to know the specialty in the guy at college.

And he is also afraid to tell the truth to sai because once she accused him for cheating pakhi. If she ask if you can cheat any girl once who loved (it is not love according to me)you can cheat me also then he doesn't have any answer.

All these are flaws in virat which is a result of his upbringing but actually there is now no soft corner of pakhi according to me

That's what pisses me off about Virat and I keep mentioning in my posts. People might think I actually don't like him but it's because I love him that such things actually annoys me. Why the hell would he stop Sai and let Pakhi misbehave with her ? Either stop both from the catfight or don't at all. Had I been Sai it would have pissed me so much that I would have lashed out at Virat instead. 😆 If he felt like Sai was kind of insulting his brother then he needs to realize that Pakhi is insulting him more by coming in his room in the middle of the night and he too is insulting him by not stopping her. Now people will say he stops her because he doesn't want her to waste her time behind Pakhi's nonsensical taunting but how long can one keep quiet and not retort ? 😡

Only question why topic name is virat is victim ? Why not virat is culprit ?

Is it to mock virat's fans ?

Let me answer regarding Sai's bf question.

Virat don't play double game like head or tail both r his, it was he who left pakhi once he knew about samrakhi , I can guarantee u virat would had left sai to get her reunite with her so called past lover or bf & never would had taunted her or keep bringing her past b/w them just to get back to sai.

I feel like laughing when people make Virat into some sort of abla mard. 😆 That guy has done so many objectionable things and get rightfully called out for it. If anything, the backlash he is receiving is much less compared to his actions. So why in the world are people dragging Sai to justify Virat's wrongs. As far as I remember Sai has not done anything wrong to the level of Virat's actions. And yet she is made into the wrong one and Virat is the victim. What sort of rubbish is that. Bechara Virat is being tortured by two cruel women. Let's just conveniently forget that he is the one who kept encouraging one of them and insulting the other. 🤪