SAAKK|Episode Discussion Thread #60 - Page 32

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Btw dekha jaaye to Anokhi wasn't right in putting Astha's condition..You can't force someone to love or accept someone..

Originally posted by: md410

Arrey Was about to watch but tabhi friend ka call aa gaya. Then dinner karna tha. Just dekha. It’s Amazing . But I am sad for shaaki re.

I love Anokhi. Way too good to be true.

I’m hoping professor comes at night to check on his Mrs. Maybe anokhi may melt a little by that time. 😉😉

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Arre you sure wo Astha ko sunayega??

I feel bolega yahi shift ho jaao.. 🤣🤣

Abhi bhi wo itana bhi pagal nahi hua..

BM ke pyaar ka andhapan 1 ghante mein nahi jaega but i guess he will consider what Anokhi said..

Originally posted by: kin8

Loved your take. And I agree with every single point you made.

I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who felt that this way about anokhi’s condition. I mean she could have used astha as an example and it could have been that shaurya himself took initiate to find out what went wrong with astha. We can guide someone but can’t force someone to fix relationship. Shaurya can find out what went wrong with astha 30 years ago and he might be able to sympathize with Astha but that doesn’t mean he will change overnight. Also anokhi also needs to change certain things about her it may not be as major as shaurya but she is not perfect either.

Anokhi could have denied this marriage by saying how he didn’t stand up for her and how her family won’t accept her. She could have used any other reason than this condition.

Right! We are seeing from last episode, she's not talking about the family drama at all. Maybe she's just not bothered about them or she has believed that shaurya has fought for her, otherwise he couldn't have come to meet her. Her entire issue is with women's independence and career only. I was in fact surprised on Saturday that she didn't question him about his family's acceptance. Maybe that fear is still there in her subconscious mind, can't say and she is not able to articulate it properly, so much is happening with poor girl. But whatever it may be, that condition is not right. I will just give anokhi a leeway considering the situation she is in, just how we forgive a lot of rash actions of Shaurya coming out of his insecurities. But how shaurya comes around after some time, I hope anokhi does too. It's fun to see joru Ka gulaam in light scenarios, but where such heavy emotions are involved, I wouldn't like to see shaurya being a joru Ka gulaam. I hope writers have planned something for him too. It should be barabar ki takkar.

And yes, shaurya would have definitely caught the hint and worked on it. Let alone now, he has changed a lot since his birthday night itself after astha went missing because of his hurtful words. At that time, anokhi suggested he should apologize, he pondered upon it and he did. Tab se, he has not been disrespectful towards astha the way he used to be before. Be it the episode where he came to stop them from leaving Chandigarh or the post accident episode when astha was in his room and told him about anokhi coming there. After anokhi's kidnap scene as well when she was insisting him to drop her at the corner as astha ma'am would be there at home and it may spoil his mood, he was okay with astha's presence...he was like kha thodi jaegi wo mujhe! The way he told astha that he is apologising for his hurtful behaviour, but that doesn't change their relation...he has kept his words and has never been disrespectful there after. I would have loved it this way...shaurya was giving her example of his parents love, so she could have said even your dad loved your mom n was ok with her work, yet she had to leave, what happened with them?...I don't want to be another astha. Shaurya would have definitely got the hint. Remember the initial episodes when he had visited astha at kapurthala or during their birthday confrontation...when astha had said she was thrown out of the house, she didn't want to leave him...those words would ring in his mind for some days. Same would have happened now too if anokhi had something like that...n paired it with his desperation to get anokhi's acceptance, he would have himself taken the right steps.

Chalo Khair...let's cut anokhi some slack for now and wait for upcoming episodes.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

It is not force...

Arre mai nahi bol rahi she is forcing him.. Mai ye bol rahi ki Anokhi ke condition pe SS jaake Astha ko ghar le aaye ya maa bulaye tab waha kaunsa relation strong hoga!! SS loving or accepting Astha should be independent of Anokhi's condition to become his wife..

Originally posted by: AK_2010

It is not force...

Dekh bola thaa na she will be mad and furious on him. Openly accept nahi karegi bhale hi heart mein maanegi.

But good she showed him a mirror shurya gaandhari ki devi ki patti will slowly come

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Originally posted by: mesravz

I written up this immediately after seeing episode

But I saw some post written up, aish, rumee and some one. They layed out their posts perfectly

If anokhi wouldn’t have kept that condition he never gets into root cause of the damage has done to his mom

I felt they were right. When she said accept her means he will start digging it, then he will know actual reason and here force baath hi nahi rahega

Though I am not okay with the condition part. But if will see the other side of coin sometimes a person needs a push. Anokhi's condition is kind of push. Astha tried to talk to shaurya on his bday but he didn't listen. She told everything how she was forced to leave him but shaurya's blind trust or indebtedness to devi didn't allow him to think of her words. Even two episodes back when kanchan said tai ji he immediately wore the ring. Even in precap astha fighting for him I think he is quite because of anokhi's condition or else he would not have allowed astha to say anything to his bm. And this also show how anokhi also having flaws. She is also not perfect. But still never wanted astha and shaurya's relationship to be developed on the basis of someone's condition.

Originally posted by: Ashx

https://twitter.com/Uroojs123/status/1396635271702196224?s=20

Anokhi be like - Who are you to allow it?? Maine permission maangi kya?? Main bata rahi thi never asked for your permission...

N Shaurya be like..

Meri sherni mujhi par dahaad rahi hai.. 🤣

Originally posted by: kin8

I’m hoping professor comes at night to check on his Mrs. Maybe anokhi may melt a little by that time. 😉😉

Woh BTS hai na. I think after SH drama he will come back. It was looking like roof. So interesting to see kya ho sakta hai

Jiggy.

Decode karna hai Ab BTS ko woh with out blazer vaala

Originally posted by: mallukumari

But she’s not forcing him....

Her fear is that he’ll eventually resent her and she will become another Aastha in his life. He just gets to prove that that’s not true and prove that he will actually support her. It might feel manipulative but she was walking away when he married her without her permission....so she gets to be selfish about her future too.

As much as i agree with everything she has said (everything everyone has said here as well), i cannot entirely digest the concept of that one condition.

She could have said this is what I see in our future - go back and think about this, think about what you would do if you were faced with a similar dilemma. think of what may have happened for a woman to stay away and alone without her family for so many years. think of when I go to college or work post-marriage will he be staunchly able to support her or not. Including Aastha in his life is a personal thing for him, because his life was deeply affected by it. He wont be able to forgive his mother that easily. Now that she has asked him to consider it as a condition for them to be together, anything he does to repair his relationship will not be from his heart for his mother. It will be for Anokhi. Yes, it will kickstart the process (and i would love to watch his dilemma, his pain, his reflection hopefully) but it won't be from his own observations but because of an external nudge. And Aastha wouldn't like it either. If she gets to know about it, she wouldn't agree to it either.

Actions speak louder than words. Anokhi needs an assurance from him to know he will agree to everything is saying right now. but in that respect, he could openly accept this marriage in front of his family, he should tell his BM this is what i have done, these are her conditions and I accept those because I love her the way she is and her dreams are important for me as well. And i will support her in that. He won't be able to let go of the parvarish he has gotten but it will be a start and he can go ahead from there. He has fought for her before in her absence, its his turn now to show the same support in front of her.

I don't mind her drawing the analogy because it is 100% accurate, my only thing is that, it should not be the base of a new married life.