Haii Raghavs promises today. - Page 7

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

are darling ap bilkul pagal nhi ho kiski himmt hue apko ye bulane ki🤔... hum toh hmesha hi apko pdhke khush hotey hai apke pas hmesha deep thought rehta hai always in good positive direction .. swal hi nhi hai ki apko vote na kare.. 🤗... sach me sahi bola hai apne stage is setting for raghu’s most wanted past haunt

🤗 Dil khush kar diya aap ne to.

I am eagerly waiting to see how they reveal more and more about Raghav and his growing years. They have written the character so well that there's a whole store room of layers of Raghav that they can fetch and explore as required in the story. Can't wait!

This show deserves to be in the top 5 on ITV, dammit! ❤️

Originally posted by: inlieu

🤗 Dil khush kar diya aap ne to.

I am eagerly waiting to see how they reveal more and more about Raghav and his growing years. They have written the character so well that there's a whole store room of layers of Raghav that they can fetch and explore as required in the story. Can't wait!

This show deserves to be in the top 5 on ITV, dammit! ❤️

and i m sure when that things actually unbox ll gonna say our wait is worthy🥳

Originally posted by: Bee222

Tell me about it! 🤣

Saato janam ki shaadi bas saat misunderstandings clear karne mein lag jaati hai

+ 7 shaadiyan, 7 khoon, 7 baar jail ke chakkar, 7 baar kidnapping, etc.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, because angst doesn't make sense right now. He's not in love with her and those feelings aren't strong enough to create that angst.

Yes... I liked the fact that they are not forcing romance between Raghvi out of no where.. he still feels that she is his responsibility just as it happens in arranged marriage.. and he has to make her happy... Romance dheere dheere hojayega before 30 days...

Originally posted by: Ranjali

Yeah

If it was Ekta's show it would have taken almost one year to clear same Misunderstanding.

But I still wonder how those shows gets trps

Originally posted by: inlieu

Sorry, I didn't mean to break anyone's heart. 😔 I was just presenting another perspective.

An absent Mandaar is more powerful and problematic than a present one because how can Raghav fight against memories? He's never even met the guy so he doesn't know what he's up against. Plus, the tragic way he died would always mean he's remembered fondly by everyone. From Pallavi's words it was clear that she put him on a pedestal, and that's going to be a tough act for Raghav to follow. It's easy for us to say she shouldn't compare the two men, but that's not normal. Pallavi has already been comparing the two subconsciously, and yesterday explicitly, which is perfectly understandable. That's going to hurt him eventually.

Even before Mandaar arrives though, I want Raghav to reflect on her widowhood and how she struggled after her Mandaar's death, not just in terms of social challenges but her emotional turmoil. We never get to see or hear about that because she bottles it all up, but I hope that Raghav will be the one to peel away the layers in his own way, without hurting her. It doesn't matter how strong you are as a person, but losing your spouse on your wedding day must be painful, especially if you've known him for a while and had a courtship period before the wedding. Raghav's courtship with Pallavi is after the wedding and as part of that he'll learn more about who she is as a person. Learning that she was a widow previously was an eye opener that there is much more to her than meets the eye. I know we complain about lack of character development in Pallavi, but frankly, this is probably the last major chance the writers have to reveal to us who she is, even if it's through Raghav's lens.

Perhaps Raghav bonding with Ayi or some of his words and actions will trigger conversations where she will reminisce about the times spent with her son and how much she misses him. I feel that just like Pallavi doesn't bring Mandaar up that much in front of D-fam so as not to hurt them, they've been doing the same so that she doesn't keep feeling sad. Something tells me they never mourned long enough because the need of the hour was to protect Pallavi and give her that assurance that she wasn't all alone. She in turn, made them, especially Sanki and Ayi, feel as if she was there as Mandaar's better half and would do for them what he would have. That equation hadn't changed until Raghav came in and became the distraction that would force her to prioritize not just herself but now another family too, the Raos.

I really really want Mandaar to be a good guy through and through because it will make the story so much more powerful. That would mean Pallavi would choose Raghav not because Mandaar was a bad guy to be avoided but because Raghav with all his quirks and imperfections is her soulmate and the one for whom her heart beats. Raghav in turn will and should accept her as a complete package, with her past and her memories of Mandaar. He will have to respect that and the fact that you cannot wipe memories away (without having amnesia).

Oh my heart breaking was figurative 😄

@bold I’m absolutely with you on what you have written. And I don’t want Raghav to fight against Mandar’s memories. Why should he ? For me it will always be Pallavi’s battle and Raghav to support her. She needs to start a new life with him clearing and accepting that Mandar was her past. I feel Raghav doesn’t have any problem with her past, it’s as if he has accepted it already but if the past is a barrier for his love then we will have to see how he is going to react. I still feel he will let go & it will be her decision to accept him. I agree with you, her breakdown on her past is needed to start the closure and I think we will get it. Otherwise how will we know what relationship she had with him & how will Raghav understand her. You are right, Deshmuk’s have always stopped discussing Mandar, maybe Aai & Baba trying to protect Pallu & she in turn protecting them but some day we will have the breakdown. Even I don’t want Mandar to be bad, always hated those tracks. He can remain a memory but when you start fresh with someone, it will mostly be a clean slate where you try to create fresh memories & adapt to the new life. I want her to have that life with Raghav.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Sorry, I didn't mean to break anyone's heart. 😔 I was just presenting another perspective.

An absent Mandaar is more powerful and problematic than a present one because how can Raghav fight against memories? He's never even met the guy so he doesn't know what he's up against. Plus, the tragic way he died would always mean he's remembered fondly by everyone. From Pallavi's words it was clear that she put him on a pedestal, and that's going to be a tough act for Raghav to follow. It's easy for us to say she shouldn't compare the two men, but that's not normal. Pallavi has already been comparing the two subconsciously, and yesterday explicitly, which is perfectly understandable. That's going to hurt him eventually.

Even before Mandaar arrives though, I want Raghav to reflect on her widowhood and how she struggled after her Mandaar's death, not just in terms of social challenges but her emotional turmoil. We never get to see or hear about that because she bottles it all up, but I hope that Raghav will be the one to peel away the layers in his own way, without hurting her. It doesn't matter how strong you are as a person, but losing your spouse on your wedding day must be painful, especially if you've known him for a while and had a courtship period before the wedding. Raghav's courtship with Pallavi is after the wedding and as part of that he'll learn more about who she is as a person. Learning that she was a widow previously was an eye opener that there is much more to her than meets the eye. I know we complain about lack of character development in Pallavi, but frankly, this is probably the last major chance the writers have to reveal to us who she is, even if it's through Raghav's lens.

Perhaps Raghav bonding with Ayi or some of his words and actions will trigger conversations where she will reminisce about the times spent with her son and how much she misses him. I feel that just like Pallavi doesn't bring Mandaar up that much in front of D-fam so as not to hurt them, they've been doing the same so that she doesn't keep feeling sad. Something tells me they never mourned long enough because the need of the hour was to protect Pallavi and give her that assurance that she wasn't all alone. She in turn made them, especially Sanki and Ayi, feel as if she was there as Mandaar's better half and would do for them what he would have. That equation hadn't changed until Raghav came in and became the distraction that would force her to prioritize not just herself but now another family too, the Raos.

I really really want Mandaar to be a good guy through and through because it will make the story so much more powerful. That would mean Pallavi would choose Raghav not because Mandaar was a bad guy to be avoided but because Raghav with all his quirks and imperfections is her soulmate and the one for whom her heart beats. Raghav in turn will and should accept her as a complete package, with her past and her memories of Mandaar. He will have to respect that Mandaar would always be in her heart as a fond memory and that you cannot wipe memories away (without having amnesia).

Please makers please, read this.

Mere dil ki baat ❤️

This is what we originally signed up for. The first promo showed that Pallavi is hesitent to re-marry. Why? Because she was afraid to lose her life-partner again. It was not because of soceity, but her ownself. I too feel that they didn't mourn which is why there are unresolved feelings in hearts of Aai, Baba and Pallavi. They need a closure to truly move on. Maybe they can show that Mandar had a mysterious accidental death say, he was killed in an accident (say, drunk and drive case) but police could not catch the culprit. Raghav then uses his resources to reach the real culprit and punish him/her (legally). This will give them a chance to mourn Mandar's death and finally get a closure. Only after that, Pallavi will become true Beti of VD and Sharda, and Pallavi will accept her marriage to Raghav whole-heartedly and then fall in love with him. Raghav may be her second husband, but he will be her love of life. Pallavi will choose him, not because they are married and Mandar was/is a bad guy who cheated on her, but because she will fall in love with him, regardless of Mandar. They both should accept each other with their past baggages and build a beautiful future together.

Jean, 🤗 why don't you write stories here? Please, do that if possible. You have amazing understanding of characters

Originally posted by: inlieu

+ 7 shaadiyan, 7 khoon, 7 baar jail ke chakkar, 7 baar kidnapping, etc.

7 plastic surgeries bhool gayi aap 😆

Originally posted by: Ranjali

I am surprised at these promises. Raghav has suddenly become a Patnivrata Guy 😅

I think Raghav was always made to be a patnivrata guy. He lives and dies for his family, and even his staff is like his extended family whom he cares a lot about. I have no doubt that the original promises he made to Pallavi while proposing his marriage deal... he would've kept them all, even if she hadn't expected him to. The comfort, the respect, the luxuries... he would've given them all. Even during the marriage, he toned down his impatience and tried to be more respectful in his approach. When she fainted, he got worried immediately — even though the mms misunderstanding hadn't been solved — and cared for her like a hubby. When she had the pox, he did it again. Amma might've sent him there, but the care and concern was his own, as well as the idea to start pressing her feet 😳

From day 1 of the marriage, he has been treating her with the respect of a wife. How can he not be patnivrata now, when the truth has been revealed? 😳

Originally posted by: Diya2021

Oh my heart breaking was figurative 😄

@bold I’m absolutely with you on what you have written. And I don’t want Raghav to fight against Mandar’s memories. Why should he ? For me it will always be Pallavi’s battle and Raghav to support her. She needs to start a new life with him clearing and accepting that Mandar was her past. I feel Raghav doesn’t have any problem with her past, it’s as if he has accepted it already but if the past is a barrier for his love then we will have to see how he is going to react. I still feel he will let go & it will be her decision to accept him. I agree with you, her breakdown on her past is needed to start the closure and I think we will get it. Otherwise how will we know what relationship she had with him & how will Raghav understand her. You are right, Deshmuk’s have always stopped discussing Mandar, maybe Aai & Baba trying to protect Pallu & she in turn protecting them but some day we will have the breakdown. Even I don’t want Mandar to be bad, always hated those tracks. He can remain a memory but when you start fresh with someone, it will mostly be a clean slate where you try to create fresh memories & adapt to the new life. I want her to have that life with Raghav.

@bold, and this is the main point.

Marrying each other was not their choice but staying with each other should be. I want Raghav to tell her he loves her and will wait for her but won't hold her back out of obligation. He needs to let her feel 100% at ease with making the right decision for herself and for them. If he lets her go without expressing his feelings then her decision to go back to him will seem as if it's because she feels obliged to, not because she wants to be with him because she loves him back. I don't see her saying that I want to live with him because I love him, even if I know he doesn't love me back and is just doing his duty as a husband.

Ah, these two are so made for each other.