Haii Raghavs promises today. - Page 10

Originally posted by: Bee222

Suraj Raathi, yes. Used to watch that show on and off, so I know about him. Very progressive ML. My favourite was Neil from NK, but even his character was slightly butchered in the middle. Not enough to get me uninterested, but enough to make me go

And I so agree with you, a spouse should always be your best friend! Physical intimacy is nothing if emotional intimacy doesn't exist. If you cannot share your little day-to-day problems and tidbits with this person, how can you possibly share your entire life with them? And it's also about faith... like you said, I need to know that I count on him when the time arrives. I need to know that he will nurture the relationship just the way I am. That assurance itself makes everything much easier. Without it, the relationship might just become a load for you to bear alone. Raghav really is a perfect partner in that regard. He is so fully invested in his relationships, I'd count on him instantly. Pallavi is so lucky

@bold: I loved that too! The way he accepted it so humbly and directly... no beating around the bush, no twisting of words. He knew he had made a mistake, he knew he was being silly in his approach, he made it clear that he would work in the right direction henceforth. How refreshingly genuine!

And like you, I'm also seeing this as an arranged marriage... and it's giving me all the feels! ☺️ Here are two almost-strangers who will learn to navigate their way around each other's lives... slowly getting to know more about the other one and falling just a little, every day. Starting to notice the little things, forming little habits together... all the little awkward moments they will share... aghh, this is too cute!! ☺️

I think they way Raghav and Pallavi are going is better than the typical ITV way. They have all the misunderstanding and trust issues at the beginning but as these begin to clear and they understand each other better, they will lay a strong foundation. Lovey dovey stuff can come later and would just be the cherry on the cake. Other couples tend to have the romance and love first, then a small twist or outside influence comes in and the whole building collapses. What's the point?

I don't mean to offend anyone, just sharing my observations.

@bold, glad I'm not the only one who sees it this way. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just imagining things, LOL. I like the fact that the writers aren't throwing this in our faces but the spirit of an arranged marriage is there throughout, you only need to look closely. It's this slow journey towards each other that is fascinating, peppered with all kinds of incidents and twists. I like it that they keep things unpredictable and not just because of our EK-influenced viewing habits. It shows that as in real life, things can happen in ways and at moments you least expect and you have to adapt, deal with them, and move on. Our couple is doing that slowly, but surely.

It's such a pleasure exchanging ideas with you, Bee. You always seem to get what I'm trying to say and are far more articulate than I could ever be. Thanks, dear.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

But Keerthi herself has moved on from that incident. That whole MMS fiasco served only one purpose- create MU from Raghav's end for this wedding to happen. When BWA was exposed, one slap from Amma was all she got. Keerthi had the same constant expression she always has.. and most surprisingly Raghav let her off the hook rather easily. Since then no reference to that kaand..Keerthi is back to normal, happily dating that Sunny guy. So I am not sure what an apology from Pallavi's side is gonna achieve? Keerthi also knows that its not Pallavi's fault at all so I dont think anyone including Keerthi is looking for an apology from Pallavi in that matter.. Raghav's redemption is for the mistakes he actually committed. What should Pallavi be apologetic for? Living in the same house as BWA? By that logic, Keerthi, Amma, Farhad should apologise to Pallavi for Raghav's wrong doings. But that's not fair right?

I am not saying that Pallavi should say apologies to Keerthi but atleast feel apologetic towards her... When you feel apologetic you will atleast try to mend the past happenings that are under your control... Here mending includes only punishing BWA... Thanks to CVs BWA got free hand and is not in jail... I was hoping Pallavi atleast after knowing will talk to Keerthi just like how Raghav said sorry to her and why Pallavi should say sorry to Keerthi is because she was the one who literally forced Keerthi to model for the catalogue shoot but not for living under the same roof as BWA... Even if she is happy with Sunny doesn't mean everything is ok with her just like how marriage didn't solve all of Pallavi's problem.. I am not saying what Raghav did to pallavi is something good but I am saying going by the logic how she held Raghav responsible for Mansi wedding breaking and Amrita character assassination, she should be feeling the same towards keerthi.. Keerthi never owned her brother as Pallavi owned BWA & co. to say sorry to Pallavi

Originally posted by: subbuappu

I am not saying that Pallavi should say apologies to Keerthi but atleast feel apologetic towards her... When you feel apologetic you will atleast try to mend the past happenings that are under your control... Here mending includes only punishing BWA... Thanks to CVs BWA got free hand and is not in jail... I was hoping Pallavi atleast after knowing will talk to Keerthi just like how Raghav said sorry to her and why Pallavi should say sorry to Keerthi is because she was the one who literally forced Keerthi to model for the catalogue shoot but not for living under the same roof as BWA... Even if she is happy with Sunny doesn't mean everything is ok with her just like how marriage didn't solve all of Pallavi's problem.. I am not saying what Raghav did to pallavi is something good but I am saying going by the logic how she held Raghav responsible for Mansi wedding breaking and Amrita character assassination, she should be feeling the same towards keerthi.. Keerthi never owned her brother as Pallavi owned BWA & co. to say sorry to Pallavi

Yes sure they could have added a scene where after Pallavi comes to know about the MMS scandal, she talks to Keerthi and tells her that she had no idea Keerthi had to go through so much because of what her Kaku did and she feels extremely sorry. But this cannot be equated to Raghav's redemption and him saying sorry to Pallavi because he is repenting for his mistakes that he did knowing what catastrophic effects his actions are going to have on Pallavi's life.. Pallavi, on the other hand, had insisted (won't say forced) on Keerthi being a model for exhibiting their sarees without having the slightest idea of what her kaku was planning behind her back. I hope you can see the difference.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I am still recovering from the episode ❤️

Raghav - He's become my favorite ML of all times now! The redemption we were denied of in the past has been compensated here. The guy has no problems saying sorry. THANK YOU!!!! Finally a realistic non-brooding male who is quite simple. Raghav was never a complicated character. Yes, he has several shades because he's only human but the best part is that he is so vocal about his emotions, he cries freely, he hardly goes down the self pity road. He takes action. I LOVE THIS CHARACTER!!!!

I have always said Raghav is a deep sea ...which was polluted with time one can understand him fully if she goes deep ..and pallu is the who will able to take out the real Raghav and that's what happening here ..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yes sure they could have added a scene where after Pallavi comes to know about the MMS scandal, she talks to Keerthi and tells her that she had no idea Keerthi had to go through so much because of what her Kaku did and she feels extremely sorry. But this cannot be equated to Raghav's redemption and him saying sorry to Pallavi because he is repenting for his mistakes that he did knowing what catastrophic effects his actions are going to have on Pallavi's life.. Pallavi, on the other hand, had insisted (won't say forced) on Keerthi being a model for exhibiting their sarees without having the slightest idea of what her kaku was planning behind her back. I hope you can see the difference.

I am not saying Raghav is saint...In fact I am strongly expecting that Pallavi should dump Raghav after the MUs are cleared and he should go to extremes for redeeming himself.. but CVs gave this track too soon.. i even wrote an OS (my first attempt) but never posted as the redemption track already started even though I don't feel it's out of love but more out of guilt.. i don't like when MLs go free hand after what they did to FL.. i stopped watching IPKKND just because I never felt that the ML has any respect towards the FL. He might have loved her but never respected her (sorry if any one got hurt or offended by this) ... Kisise maafi maangne se the man doesn't become less than who is he now.. but some how i never liked the fact that Pallavi is just blaming Raghav and giving free hand to Kaku.. she knows that he was dragged in her family mess by her own people... now any ways she can't declare war on kaku so I was expecting an apology to Keerthi on behalf of her family that too because she is the flag bearer of D family... Had she not interfered between kaku and kaki when kaku was shown her way out, she might dare not do this with keerthi... Keerthi pain is no less than Pallavi ... She got in jail and pallavi got into another jail named marriage as any normal person would never marry a sanki like raghav without knowing who he is. But Keerthi name went all over internet and even upto jail in the name of racket...

I agree! He has a certain depth in him that can only be explored by the right people. The good part is that yes this character was well etched out, but the actor is really playing it with his heart and soul. If it weren’t for him, Raghav could have come across as confusing but Sai is doing amazingly well with all the shades and his acting has conviction. I’m glad for this character and now can’t wait to see how Pallavi forgives him and accepts him. It’s difficult not to forgive him given his extent of efforts. Im truly glad we don’t have a brooding male.

Originally posted by: Kavila

I have always said Raghav is a deep sea ...which was polluted with time one can understand him fully if she goes deep ..and pallu is the who will able to take out the real Raghav and that's what happening here ..

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Fantastic Raghav today.

"Sorry mein telegu mein chala gaya 🤣"

"Mein acha dost ban sakta hai"

"Youll be my priority"

"Ill make sure your happy"

"Forget the white"

"Youll never be alone"

👏👏👏

Naturally pallu will have a hard time believing it but shell finally get to see a true partner with actions.

Anyways,

Im done with people hating Pallu but people need to understand her character better over the blind love for raghav. I love raghav too but dude screwed up majorly and this is part of his repentence.

Tune in MhRw 630 please. ☺️

I think raghav's current favourite word is "I PROMISE"

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I am still recovering from the episode ❤️

Raghav - He's become my favorite ML of all times now! The redemption we were denied of in the past has been compensated here. The guy has no problems saying sorry. THANK YOU!!!! Finally a realistic non-brooding male who is quite simple. Raghav was never a complicated character. Yes, he has several shades because he's only human but the best part is that he is so vocal about his emotions, he cries freely, he hardly goes down the self pity road. He takes action. I LOVE THIS CHARACTER!!!!

Yes!! All the love to Raghav Rao!! ❤️❤️

I was trying so hard to keep my expectations low bcz this is ITV and I've been disappointed too many times in the past 🥺 But seeing the way they are handling Raghav, I can't help but get my hopes up This guy is the best kind of ML I could've dreamt of! 😍

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, there you go, perfect description.

We often tend to think in absolutes, but the fact is that emotions can cover an entire range, especially when there are transitions. He is in a phase of transition and time will tell where he lands.

@bold: Very true 😳 This is why those transitions are so beautiful, aren't they... because it's not about getting from one point to another, it's about the journey ❤️

On a completely unrelated note, this is reminding me of the "emotional range of a teaspoon" line by Hermione 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think they way Raghav and Pallavi are going is better than the typical ITV way. They have all the misunderstanding and trust issues at the beginning but as these begin to clear and they understand each other better, they will lay a strong foundation. Lovey dovey stuff can come later and would just be the cherry on the cake. Other couples tend to have the romance and love first, then a small twist or outside influence comes in and the whole building collapses. What's the point?

I don't mean to offend anyone, just sharing my observations.

@bold, glad I'm not the only one who sees it this way. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just imagining things, LOL. I like the fact that the writers aren't throwing this in our faces but the spirit of an arranged marriage is there throughout, you only need to look closely. It's this slow journey towards each other that is fascinating, peppered with all kinds of incidents and twists. I like it that they keep things unpredictable and not just because of our EK-influenced viewing habits. It shows that as in real life, things can happen in ways and at moments you least expect and you have to adapt, deal with them, and move on. Our couple is doing that slowly, but surely.

It's such a pleasure exchanging ideas with you, Bee. You always seem to get what I'm trying to say and are far more articulate than I could ever be. Thanks, dear.

Yes, which is why I'd have been okay even if they'd taken some time to clear up their misunderstandings. Because when the trust actually forms, I want it to be absolutely solid between them. I don't want it faltering for any reason later on. I'm so tired of seeing ITV leads go through so much together to form a bond, and then it all crumbles in the blink of an eye What was the point, then? 🤔

I feel like they're keeping a middle ground between the drama needed for the trp audience and the organic factor needed for the quality audience. That's why we did get a "hate" shaadi, but it's still got an unconventional "courtship" period going on right now, with them getting to know each other more 😛 Their feelings will progress just the way it does for a natural couple 😳 And muft mein chutkara bhi mil gaya from Deshmukh atyachaar on Pallavi 😆

@bold: Oh, that's high praise coming from you, Jean! 🤗 Considering that you're one of the most articulate people in this forum... I love how eloquently you put your words 😳 And I also love how similarly we think about things, it gives me the assurance that I'm not some delusional idiot 😆