Haii Raghavs promises today. - Page 9

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thank you for your kind words, dear. I don't know how to write stories, never tried it. I think I'm only fine with analysis, not with creative/imaginary stuff.

As for sharing with the makers, I've been thinking about it too. Perhaps letting them see our thought process would help them write more creative tracks, but I don't know how to do it. Also don't want to offend the team.

You deserve those words dear 🤗

Maybe you can try writing someday. I am pretty sure that you will rock it.

I really don't know how these back stage things work. Do they take suggestions from audience or not, how do they react to the audience suggestions etc. But yes, it may be offensive to them since it may come out as 'teaching' them their work.

Originally posted by: Shri_12

I will see if I can write it, probably 4-5 chaps. Don't know you much I can do justice to it. But after my first OS has received so much love from all of you, I think I should attempt this. But mid-June me hi milega

Please do Shri 🤗 I feel like taking a plunge too hehe 😆 But I think I'm better off writing OS or TS now... ff zyada ho jayega 😅

Originally posted by: Bee222

I think Raghav was always made to be a patnivrata guy. He lives and dies for his family, and even his staff is like his extended family whom he cares a lot about. I have no doubt that the original promises he made Pallavi while proposing his marriage deal... he would've kept them all, even if she hadn't expected him to. The comfort, the respect, the luxuries... he would've given them all. Even during the marriage, he toned down his impatience and tried to be more respectful in his approach. When she fainted, he got worried immediately — even though the mms misunderstanding hadn't been solved — and cared for her like a hubby. When she had the pox, he did it again. Amma might've sent him there, but care and concern was his own, as well as the idea to start pressing her feet 😳

From day 1 of the marriage, he has been treating her with the respect of a wife. How can he not be patnivrata now, when the truth has been revealed? 😳

Patnivrata Guy is not a common thing on itv which is mostly dominated by shows like saathiya so that's a nice thing but I felt this happened too soon though.

I didn't get clarity is..... are these feelings of love or just care?🤔 when he said woh khushiyan wo pyar dena chahta hu and safed rang mitana chahta hu..... And then he added pati na sahi ek dost hi sahi....

Originally posted by: Ranjali

Patnivrata Guy is not a common thing on itv which is mostly dominated by shows like saathiya so that's a nice thing but I felt this happened too soon though.

I didn't get clarity is..... are these feelings of love or just care?🤔 when he said woh khushiyan wo pyar dena chahta hu and safed rang mitana chahta hu..... And then he added pati na sahi ek dost hi sahi....

He realizes that she's lonely, just like he is. They both need a friend to talk to, and siblings or secretaries don't cut it. Dard ka rishta and all.

Originally posted by: Bee222

Please do Shri 🤗 I feel like taking a plunge too hehe 😆 But I think I'm better off writing OS or TS now... ff zyada ho jayega 😅

FF mere Liye bhi jyada ho jaayega. 4-5 hi think hai

Originally posted by: inlieu

+100000000000

Like you, I also fell in love with his protectiveness over Harish and the way he didn't waste a second to find out who caused trouble for him and, by extension, for Keerti.

Don't even get me started on MLs... Suraj Rathi came close it but after a few years, the writers ran out of track options so they turned him blind for a bit.

Also, I know it's cliched but I believe a spouse should be your best friend and I see Raghav Rao as the kind of husband who would be your best friend above all else, always in your corner, always having your back. Most importantly, he would do this because he wants to, because he believes in it and he believes in the relationship, not because he has to.

I also want to stress again, that love may or may not be there but a sense of responsibility and respect for one another cannot be substituted by chocolate and flowers. I also loved the fact that Raghav admitted that he was trying those silly things to appease her because he didn't really understand what she needed or wanted, and now that he does, he'll change his approach. That humility and flexibility is a big quality. It also makes it realistic that our partners aren't perfect. As I said in another post, think of this as an arranged marriage, where the spouses don't know each other well and are trying to navigate this new phase in their lives. They are bound to make mistakes, but as long as they have the right intentions and spirit in mind, things will improve with time. That's what Raghav is trying to do. Sure, he's talking about a 30-day challenge, but deep down he's playing the long game, one milestone at a time. That shrewd businessman in him is very much alive but he's playing his cards cautiously now.

Suraj Raathi, yes. Used to watch that show on and off, so I know about him. Very progressive ML. My favourite was Neil from NK, but even his character was slightly butchered in the middle. Not enough to get me uninterested, but enough to make me go

And I so agree with you, a spouse should always be your best friend! Physical intimacy is nothing if emotional intimacy doesn't exist. If you cannot share your little day-to-day problems and tidbits with this person, how can you possibly share your entire life with them? And it's also about faith... like you said, I need to know that I count on him when the time arrives. I need to know that he will nurture the relationship just the way I am. That assurance itself makes everything much easier. Without it, the relationship might just become a load for you to bear alone. Raghav really is a perfect partner in that regard. He is so fully invested in his relationships, I'd count on him instantly. Pallavi is so lucky

@bold: I loved that too! The way he accepted it so humbly and directly... no beating around the bush, no twisting of words. He knew he had made a mistake, he knew he was being silly in his approach, he made it clear that he would work in the right direction henceforth. How refreshingly genuine!

And like you, I'm also seeing this as an arranged marriage... and it's giving me all the feels! ☺️ Here are two almost-strangers who will learn to navigate their way around each other's lives... slowly getting to know more about the other one and falling just a little, every day. Starting to notice the little things, forming little habits together... all the little awkward moments they will share... aghh, this is too cute!! ☺️

Originally posted by: Ranjali

Patnivrata Guy is not a common thing on itv which is mostly dominated by shows like saathiya so that's a nice thing but I felt this happened too soon though.

I didn't get clarity is..... are these feelings of love or just care?🤔 when he said woh khushiyan wo pyar dena chahta hu and safed rang mitana chahta hu..... And then he added pati na sahi ek dost hi sahi....

It's a little more than just care, I think, but a lot less than love. He admires her as a person, feels guilty for bringing about such misfortune to her. He genuinely wants to give her a better life, shower her with everything she deserves. At this stage, he is... a genuine well-wisher, I'd say? As he starts understanding her more, he'll become her friend. He's well on the path now 😳

I am still recovering from the episode ❤️

Raghav - He's become my favorite ML of all times now! The redemption we were denied of in the past has been compensated here. The guy has no problems saying sorry. THANK YOU!!!! Finally a realistic non-brooding male who is quite simple. Raghav was never a complicated character. Yes, he has several shades because he's only human but the best part is that he is so vocal about his emotions, he cries freely, he hardly goes down the self pity road. He takes action. I LOVE THIS CHARACTER!!!!

Originally posted by: subbuappu

The reason for nit liking pallu character (i won'tbsay hating) is because she ia just thinking of her losses her pain but what about Kirti's who genuinely cared for her... Pallavi atleast for once didn't thought if saying sorry or tried to talk with Keerthi regarding it... If pallavi has a past, Kirti had her present ruined because of her family... Is it because she still believes BWA or CL couldn't do this????? Yehin5oh problem hain... When they are showing redemption from Raghu side, they aren't showing her apologetic for Kirti side...

But Keerthi herself has moved on from that incident. That whole MMS fiasco served only one purpose- create MU from Raghav's end for this wedding to happen. When BWA was exposed, one slap from Amma was all she got. Keerthi had the same constant expression she always has.. and most surprisingly Raghav let her off the hook rather easily. Since then no reference to that kaand..Keerthi is back to normal, happily dating that Sunny guy. So I am not sure what an apology from Pallavi's side is gonna achieve? Keerthi also knows that its not Pallavi's fault at all so I dont think anyone including Keerthi is looking for an apology from Pallavi in that matter.. Raghav's redemption is for the mistakes he actually committed. What should Pallavi be apologetic for? Living in the same house as BWA? By that logic, Keerthi, Amma, Farhad should apologise to Pallavi for Raghav's wrong doings. But that's not fair right?

Originally posted by: Bee222

It's a little more than just care, I think, but a lot less than love. He admires her as a person, feels guilty for bringing about such misfortune to her. He genuinely wants to give her a better life, shower her with everything she deserves. At this stage, he is... a genuine well-wisher, I'd say? As he starts understanding her more, he'll become her friend. He's well on the path now 😳

@bold, there you go, perfect description.

We often tend to think in absolutes, but the fact is that emotions can cover an entire range, especially when there are transitions. He is in a phase of transition and time will tell where he lands.