My understanding on Sai's next mission - Page 6

Originally posted by: CRAZYCUTEE

Yes her intentions always good but every time this not going help her , she need to change her this habit , she give herself first priority and virat if she want stay with him forever bec raj babu want lots of attention from his baiko .

I hope they show how Sai and Virat improve. She cannot be always stubborn/impulsive and he cannot always wallow in self pity due to his insecurity. He has to learn to voice out his emotions, his nature can't be an excuse for everything. She has to give first priority to Virat at the moment and there is no doubt about it. She can't do as per what she feels is right. What she feels may he right but it always don't have to be done when she feels that it is the right time. I am not for her to do this Devi Chavans milaap now.

But honestly raja babu expecting a lot of attention from her is also not something I would approve of. He apologised, yes but he needs to give her a little time because though she has forgiven him and has returned with him to take care of him, all the wonunds are still fresh in her memory. It is not going to be an easy thing for her to forget whatever happened. I honestly didn't like him asking her not to remind him of those things when she told him that she had expected he would have thrown her things. It is natural for her to feel all of these and he seems to be having too high expectations by asking her to not bring it up. Instead he could have apologised again saying that he would never throw her things and whatevet he did was a mistake, he shouldn't have. That should only show him that she is not over whatever had happened. He should think how much it would have affected her and how can he earn her trust again.

Right or wrong, I think at the moment due to this stupid Devi think that she has taken up, both won't have too kany awkward moments, both will have something that they will do together, she will be distracted from what he did to her for the moment.

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

I love your posts for a reason❤️ you always prove me right 🤗

See, your first para is what troubles me. I know and I can understand her reasons behind her actions. But all I have a problem is with the timing. I love her for being the way she is, but even she needs a break right? After seeing her through all this shit, I want a break for her, i really do😒

All i can say is, i hate CVs' obsession with drama😡😪😭

Sorry, I seem to have missed this comment. In fact I just noticed that I had not replied to a few other's comments too.

The timing is just not right and I agree with you. We have had this discussion in the other thread anyway, so not going to go in details. But I have just replied to Crazycute if you want to have a loook at that.

The break that you are talking about, I just wrote this in my other reply. I think this Devi assignment that she has taken up will kind of distract her atleast from the the bitter memories of the ousting. We noticed how even a few things of hers on the desk reminded her of how he had thrown her out and thought that he would have thrown those things too. Somewhere or the the other, their topic could end up to that incident, may be this track will give them something else to discuss about like how we saw yesterday. The state that she is in, what other break can she have? She is not going to indulge in romance with Virat or go out for a trip with him after whatever happened. Ashwini and Devi are the only two people whom she loves now. UM is at GC, she won't be able to trust Virat. So even though the timing is wrong, this task itself is going to be a big distraction for her indirectly. I wish they had not brought his mission track and made her return to the house when her wounds are still fresh. She has definitely not come out of it and is not able to express it to Virat too due to his health.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Hey lakshami

Amazing post, and perfect analysis of the scene, where Virat was sad sai dint cared about her, she have her doubts intact, the problem is that Virat need to be vocal, whatever he told Pakhi he needs to tell sai too,

Whenever Virat have asked sai upfrontly she have never denied, be it sleeping back In there room, asking her to come to ladak for him coz he will like it, after hand holding fight telling her his doubts, he wanted to take her out, spend some time with her, she has always liked that, the thing is Virat needs to clear her, needs to clear her doubts, May be one by one, tell her why he wants what he wants,

How will sai understand what Virat is saying after all, think about the poor soul, she has gone through so much, from the day her father has died she is going on and on with something or the other, and this devkit marriage has been really hard on her, from taking the 1st step all alone towards her dream to forgiving Virat yet not forgetting, hospital drama and wapis aa kay bhi she has face the same shit Wahi tana, Wahi drama.

She needs to feel comfortable, Virat has to approach her in different way May be more vocal, she have realised that virta is her only family, but she needs that reassurance from Virat also

Sorry yaar, couldn't reply that night and I needed sometime to reply to this.

Very, Virat has to be vocal and his nature of not being able to express cannot be an excuse all the time, that cannot be a reason to have expectations that Sai needs to understand him. Even though Ashwini had said this once, she will also have to tell her son to start gettinf expressive. As you have said, whenever he had asked her to stay back in the room or asked her to accompany him to Ladakh, she had agreed with him not only because she also wanted the same, but only after knowing that he wants it. She doesn't want to be an unwanted person in his life.

About Virat being Sad and Sai not able to understand him or didn't pay much of an attention to his words, it will all look very strange to her at the moment. Last time after the hand holding incident, he had asked her to think of him as a family but he failed to show that in his actions. How will any of his words make an impact on her now?

Most important thing is that Sai has actually not recovered from the incident to be honest.

To tell the truth, Sai missed Virat and she is hiding her feelings. She is acting as if she never missed him when he asked her if she missed him. Yes she missed Devi but I think she also wants to hide her own feelings by thinking about something else? She wants to distracting herself.

There can be many reasons for her not letting him know that she missed him.

She doesn't understand why she missed him even after he behaved that badly with her.

She doesn't want him to know especially after what he had done to her.

She also doesn't want to let such feelings surface because she thinks Virat is committed to Pakhi. So she wouldn't want to tell.

Him thinking that him missing her and her missing him are different as per her? She might be thinking he missed her because they used to live together but he wouldn't know that she missed him for some reason which she herself doesn't know. She is only thinking that Virat might not understand if she had said that she too missed him or if she had started to indulge in his talks. She must be apprehensive about what he would think if he comes to know she missed him, she would only think that he might not even like it. She will only think that he might not like her developing any feelings for her.

I just replied the below to Crazycutee too.

Him expecting a lot of attention from her is not something I would approve of. He apologised, yes, but he needs to give her a little time because though she has forgiven him and has returned with him to take care of him, all the wounds are still fresh in her memory. It is not going to be an easy thing for her to forget whatever had happened. I honestly didn't like him asking her not to remind him of those things when she told him that she had expected he would have thrown her things. It is natural for her to feel all of these and he seems to be having too high expectations by asking her to not bring it up. Instead he could have apologised again saying that he would never throw her things and whatevet he did was a mistake, he shouldn't have. That should only show him that she is not over whatever had happened. He should think how much it would have affected her and how can he earn her trust again.

Also, he saw that Sai said Mohit and her relationship is not same as his Virat Pakhi's. He could have clarified that he only thinks Pakhi as his brother's wife and nothing else right after comin to the room right? Is that not one would do? Clarify immediately when we have some private time? There can be nothing that should stop him from clarifying about the relationship he actualls sharea with Pakhi. He should open up and share about his oast too before trying to start his journey with Sai. If not, he will keep facing rejections ans he will keep drowning in insecurity. Baat karo aur kissa khatam karo bas. She is capable of loving him the way one should love their spouse and if she/he fails, they should be able to help each other correct their mistakes and grow together. It is high time the makers show us some growth in them as individuals too.