My understanding on Sai's next mission

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Warning : A long post.


A friend of mine asked why should Sai do the Devi CN family milaap, especially when they have never been nice to her and are criminals.


Have shared my understanding below.


Personally I never liked or is liking what Sai is doing. I am not against her taking this task up, I am against her taking it up now. She has come to take care of Virat and I believe that her only priority should be that. He has just returned from the hospital, has just gone through so much with his family members, this should be the last thing that she should engage in because that would mean adding pressure to Virat, adding another headache and inviting bhookamp to the house. Virat needs rest. Period. Even after whatever I have written below, I still think that she should let some days pass and then do it if it really has to be done.


I gave it a thought and tried to look at it from Sai's POV.

I think when Virat said that he didn’t know for whom he should return to this house, she asked him if he wasn’t happy to return to his family.

I think by mending Devi Pulkit’s relationship with Chavans, by sorting out the unfinished business of getting Chavans to acknowledge their daughter’s marriage, she is paving way for Devi to enter CN. There are many reasons for that.


Sai saw how Devi was crying before she left the house saying that she will miss Ashwini Virat a lot and how she loves them a lot. Devi had even asked if she can ever visit her maayka again with tears in her eyes. Sai has got Devi Pulkit married but I think that she feels that it would only be right if Devi Tai can visit her family when she wants, meet Virat, Ashwini and Mohit who loves her a lot.


Virat had said the below

"Tumhare bina yeh ghar ghar nahi lag raha tha"

"Mission mein jaate waqt bhi mein yahi soch raha tha ki main iss ghar mein lautoon toh kisliye lautoon"

"Tum yeh ghar waapas aayi ho toh yeh ghar waapas ghar lag raha hai"


She couldn't understand as why would he feel that way especially when the arrangement was for her to leave the house one day or the other. Even before she had left CN, when she was getting Devi dressed up, she was thinking that one day or the other she anyway have to leave the house. So she has that insecurity, she believes that Virat has only taken her responsibility and would expect her to leave once he fulfills his responsibility.

The ousting only proved that she was his responsibility and not family because people don't oust a family member from a house from what she understands. To her, if she really meant anything to him, why would he even ask her to leave the house? She would have only thought if that is how a person would punish their family member, forget wife or not.


She is now strongly made to think that she is not that important in his life and that is why he could do what he did, to drive her away from his life.

That is why she was confused when he said all the above. So she asked

"Kyun aapko apne parivaar ke paas waapas aakar khushi nahi huyi?"

His answer

"Tumhare bina mera yeh parivar adhura hai Sai"


And she looked at him but her instant thought was that the family did look incomplete.

"Waise mujhe bhi kuch adhoora adhoora laga"

Ever since Sai has been in CN she has always seen Devi in the house. The last time when she got her married was the first time she wasn't there but for obvious reasons.

But this time, she also missed Devi. So she thought that Virat would also have felt that.

"Main Devi Tai ki baat kar rahi thi"

"Koi shaq nahi hai ki Pulkit Jeeju ke saath woh bahut khush hongi lekin aaj na mujhe unki bahut yaad aa rahi hai"

"Mere liye parivar tabhi poora hoga jab Devi Tai aur Pulkit Jeeju aayenge"

"Agar Tai hoti toh woh mujhe ghar mein waapas dekhke itna khush hoti"


When he said parivar adhura hai, I believe the first person whom she feels the family incomplete is actually Devi because she is the daughter of the house. She is Virat's sister whom Virat loves a lot, with whom he usually feels very happy, with whom he looks forward to spend time.

I think when Virat said the house didn't look like how it always used to be, she would have thought that Virat is probably missing Devi because it didn't make sense to her that her absence would make that much of a difference to Virat, so the answer was that he must be missing Devi and not her. She felt that way because she herself missed Devi in the house on the very first day she has entered the house. Devi used to make the house lively and would have thought that Devi would have happily invited Virat, would have asked him about his health. Is it not true?

Also, Devi was a supporter of Sai and Virat's marriage always. Sai would have missed her support today, when people were questioning why should Sai take care of Virat. She knows that if Devi was there she would have fought with all saying Virat is not keeping well and he needs to rest. She would have also said that Sai is Virat's wife and who else will take care of him if not for Sai. She knows that Virat gets happy seeing and hearing his Tai too.


Just a while back Sai had hugged Aai and said that she missed her a lot. She knows that even Devi loves Ashwini and they both must be missing each other. Uniting Devi Tai to these people means uniting Ashwini, Virat with Devi. She knows how imporant they are all to each other, how much strength they get from each other, how much of a positive vibes they get from each other. Sai wants to restore that. She knows that just like her even Devi would want to eat food from Ashwini's hands, just like her even Devi would want that motherly love from someone. She was here for just a few months and if she has missed Ashwini so much, wouldn't Devi miss her? As I have said above Devi even said that and cried before leaving the CN on the day of holi while looking at Ashwini.


She might be thinking Virat's adhoora parivaar feeling would go away if he gets to meet Devi in their house. If things were all fine, Devi would have welcomed them today along with Pulkit.

And she wants that to be the case in future, so that if Virat returns from some place, Devi can visit these people to welcome him. If the doors for CN are opened for Devi Pulkit, they will be there with Virat during any family occassion like puja or festivals. So that he doesn't feel that adhoorapan.


She would have wanted to do it before she leaves the house because she knows that no one can initiate this or fight this or even win this. Virat can do it, can bring his sister back but her knowing the background of these kidnappers is always going to be handy, she will be at an upper hand to use that and win these people easily than Virat spending his energy yet again to make them accept Devi. She has seen the battle he had to fight to bring his own wife back, so going to bring Devi back and going to make these people accept Pulkit isn't going to be an easy task. She is just going to ease his task by taking the responsibility on her shoulders since she has many cards that she can play which Virat cannot. She wants to lessen one responsibility of Virat by doing so I guess.


Her doing it didn't make sense to me at first. However, after whatever I have written above, her doing this has made some sense to me, but even then I would want her to wait. I believe her need to push it now or hurrying it up is because as she has already said she has to resume her college too, she said that the next day is Sunday and she has got a day off. But I would still say that there are many sundays and she could do it the next Sunday too and need not been doing it right away.


May be she is feeling insecured, she is unsure as how long she would be staying in this house, knowing the people of CN, they will be creating a bhakeda everyday in the house, they will be plotting and scheming to send her away from the house anytime soon. So, she is probably planning to get this task done Asap.

Again, I only feel that she should wait and let Virat rest and recover. I am completely against it.

Her intentions might be right but not her planning. Virat, his healthy and his recovery is what she has come here for and should be her top most priority. May be she thinks that she can do all together, which is where she is wrong.


Even if she takes the responsibility of uniting a brother and a sister, giving Devi what she rightfully deserves, Virat will be put through some stress if she takes it up now. I want to see if she can try to do it without giving him any stress, without the family members pulling him for Panchayat or without them firing bullets on him for her work. I feel she may be able to achieve since she can always shut them up by reminding them of their khaand (kidnapping), just like how she shut Ninad at the hospital.


P.s This is not a justification to what Sai is doing. Have only shared my understanding by trying to look at it from Sai's POV.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Maybe you are right. But, I think it's still too early to get Pulkit and Devyani at Chavan Niwas. Even though Virat might not ask her to back off and he too will agree to stand by her, he will have lots of stress since he knows his so called family very well. Instead she should focus on Virat's health right now. His health should be of utmost importance to her. But, Sai always takes impulsive decisions and I just hope everything goes according to her plan.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well haven't seen the episode yet🙈🙈

But what a beautiful analysis of the pov she is going through.👏

But, do agree to one point here, as much as she is right ,all due to her love and her emotions, her same emotions should revolve around Virat as well. I am not bashing Sai here, just a point based on what you told.

Sai is ,how should I place it, ambitious with something or anything if we need to say in one way. As in, karna hai ,karna hi hai. I guess we all wanted the apology for this. Cuz, again ,this will first creep insecurity in Virat, this time he will support her, that's not the discussion, but in general, if it is only Sai and Virat at the end, Virat is such that, along with happiness, insecurity will also creep in him.

And he won't put it in words that 'Sai ,share with me,pls' ,instead he will go 'Sai, why did you do this'way. And this will cause more assurity problem with the realtionship in Sai, and instead of saying 'How can I when you have not cleared Virat sir', Sai will go, 'Why should I for you when this is deal, Who are you in true sense'. One will lead to another, and opportunity for Didi in all this.

Words matter highly here instead of silence.

But, with respect to one relation, a beautiful relation that Sai has with Tai, this is justified. Cuz, along with this all, Sai is one who knows value of relationships, value and importance of a person who loves you,who cares for you, so she wants to rightfully give devi tai everything which she deserves, but she needs start thinking from everyone's angle, how all might feel. As in not kaku gang, she knows them, and even we know their dil ka pyaar, but what about others. As they also love devi, unka pyaar bhi devi tai ka bhala hi hoga. ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Maybe you are right. But, I think it's still too early to get Pulkit and Devyani at Chavan Niwas. Even though Virat might not ask her to back off and he too will agree to stand by her, he will have lots of stress since he knows his so called family very well. Instead she should focus on Virat's health right now. His health should be of utmost importance to her. But, Sai always takes impulsive decisions and I just hope everything goes according to her plan.

I know, that is what even I feel. I want her to wait for him to recover.

Also, this time it isn't out of impulsiveness I believe. It is more of an urgency, she is under pressure too since she doesn't know how long she will be let to stay here even after they have won. She knows that the win is a short lived one, it is momentary and these people cannot be trusted. Anyway, there are many Sundays, whether she is able to do it or not doesn't matter too. Let her do it but after he recovers, without giving him any stress. As an audience, it looks to me that she will come up with something instantly, some atrangi when they create a scene. Like how she solved the issues on the first rasam or reception. Marriage is anyway over, this is not going to be as ugly as getting to accept them for the marriage.

Anyway only as long as Virat is not put into stress.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

I know, that is what even I feel. I want her to wait for him to recover.

Also, this time it isn't out of impulsiveness I believe. It is more of an urgency, she is under pressure too since she doesn't know how long she will be let to stay here even after they have won. She knows that the win is a short lived one, it is momentary and these people cannot be trusted. Anyway, there are many Sundays, whether she is able to do it or not doesn't matter too. Let her do it but after he recovers, without giving him any stress. As an audience, it looks to me that she will come up with something instantly, some atrangi when they create a scene. Like how she solved the issues on the first rasam or reception. Marriage is anyway over, this is not going to be as ugly as getting to accept them for the marriage.

Anyway only as long as Virat is not put into stress.

@bold

It won't be her intention buddy.

But, she thinks it with only tai and tai's part of happiness, which in current scenario is almost unacceptable for CN gang. And since this family will get involved, they will try to degrade Sai, and automatically, Virat will get dragged here.

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Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Well haven't seen the episode yet🙈🙈

But what a beautiful analysis of the pov she is going through.👏

But, do agree to one point here, as much as she is right ,all due to her love and her emotions, her same emotions should revolve around Virat as well. I am not bashing Sai here, just a point based on what you told.

@bold haan yaar, that is why I have already mentioned that he should be her priority. But when I look at it from this angle, it looks like this is revolves around Virat. It has come up because Virat said adhoora. It has all started for him is how I can see it. She didn't have this plan before he spoke that.

Sai is ,how should I place it, ambitious with something or anything if we need to say in one way. As in, karna hai ,karna hi hai. I guess we all wanted the apology for this. Cuz, again ,this will first creep insecurity in Virat, this time he will support her, that's not the discussion, but in general, if it is only Sai and Virat at the end, Virat is such that, along with happiness, insecurity will also creep in him.

@bold This time it is not that. Have explained above.

I understand Virat's insecurity but I gave it a thought too, he needs to handle it in a better way. Cannot wallow in self pity, has to get into action and not remain silent and expect Sai to understand I feel. Be more open and frank, problem is solved. So what if she rejects him? He will atleast be able to let her know what he feels and try from his side which is the most important thing in any relationship. This is the efforts he should put. I feel that he shouldn't let his insecurity win.

And he won't put it in words that 'Sai ,share with me,pls' ,instead he will go 'Sai, why did you do this'way. And this will cause more assurity problem with the realtionship in Sai, and instead of saying 'How can I when you have not cleared Virat sir', Sai will go, 'Why should I for you when this is deal, Who are you in true sense'. One will lead to another, and opportunity for Didi in all this.

Donon pagal hain 🤣🤣

Words matter highly here instead of silence.

But, with respect to one relation, a beautiful relation that Sai has with Tai, this is justified. Cuz, along with this all, Sai is one who knows value of relationships, value and importance of a person who loves you,who cares for you, so she wants to rightfully give devi tai everything which she deserves, but she needs start thinking from everyone's angle, how all might feel. As in not kaku gang, she knows them, and even we know their dil ka pyaar, but what about others. As they also love devi, unka pyaar bhi devi tai ka bhala hi hoga. ❤️

@bold As I have already mentioned, it is not thought of for Devi Tai alone, she has thought about it mainly for Virat and somewhere for Ashwini too. She knows they 3 need each other during their good and bad times. She missed Devi so according to her it is obvious that Virat would also be missing Devi, her chirpiness, a sister's love, care and support.

Thanks for commenting. How are you feeling now? Hope you are taking enough rest ❤.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Thanks for commenting. How are you feeling now? Hope you are taking enough rest ❤.

I feel sleepy alot. I have been given an inhaler, it affects my mental stability a bit🤣

Well, I do agree she might be keeping Virat ahead, but I don't think Sai would be having only for Virat in this direction, cuz maybe I don't find Sai that naive I guess, or maybe in this case she is.🤔

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Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

@bold

It won't be her intention buddy.

But, she thinks it with only tai and tai's part of happiness, which in current scenario is almost unacceptable for CN gang. And since this family will get involved, they will try to degrade Sai, and automatically, Virat will get dragged here.

I am sorry but I disagree with this. It is not just done for Devi Tai's happiness. Have just replied to your reply 🤣🤣.

Virat will get dragged but she bas her carda which she can play with and she is very much aware of it. We have to watch the next episode to get some insight of her plans or something.

Again, I have wanted her to wait and would like it that way. Even if makers are going to show this, looks like it is going to be interesting. Sai will do a lot of atrangi things and force them to accept 🤣. I wish we get to see something like the first rasam wala scene.

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