My understanding on Sai's next mission - Page 4

Originally posted by: laksh

Lol. A friend had tagged me asking if I have any idea, so had replied to her. Will go offline shortly.

Planning to withdraw from the forum slowly since that is the only way to withdraw from the show too. I don't know if I should watch it or not and if any amount of effort is needed to analyse or discuss anymore. I am losing interest in it, there seems to be no progress. I know the storyline too, but these people are dragging it way too much for my liking. I am happy go person, usually have no interest in too much of a negative or serious show. I stop watching if they bring in something negative and I think it is the time now since Pakhi will start her games.

Have some shows on Netflix or can find some other ITV if someone suggests one 🤣🤣. Don't have time too and I seem to be stretching myself way too much due to this. So even if I don't say bye, take it as a bye because I will be slowly withdrawing from the forum. You can pm me always once I quit. Might very soon let others know through a post.

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Originally posted by: maahi11

Hey lakshami

Amazing post, and perfect analysis of the scene, where Virat was sad sai dint cared about her, she have her doubts intact, the problem is that Virat need to be vocal, whatever he told Pakhi he needs to tell sai too,

Whenever Virat have asked sai upfrontly she have never denied, be it sleeping back In there room, asking her to come to ladak for him coz he will like it, after hand holding fight telling her his doubts, he wanted to take her out, spend some time with her, she has always liked that, the thing is Virat needs to clear her, needs to clear her doubts, May be one by one, tell her why he wants what he wants,

How will sai understand what Virat is saying after all, think about the poor soul, she has gone through so much, from the day her father has died she is going on and on with something or the other, and this devkit marriage has been really hard on her, from taking the 1st step all alone towards her dream to forgiving Virat yet not forgetting, hospital drama and wapis aa kay bhi she has face the same shit Wahi tana, Wahi drama.

She needs to feel comfortable, Virat has to approach her in different way May be more vocal, she have realised that virta is her only family, but she needs that reassurance from Virat also

I do agree with you he has to be vocal about his feelings.

Had written something on this to a friend, will get back home and share that with you. Will reply to this by today Vaani. Have got to go now. I am sorry. Bye, catch you later.

Beautiful analysis ❤️
There’s one more thing that I would like to say. See, Sai has always lived with her Aaba, just the two of them, but since she got married to Virat she came to Chavan Niwas. The Chavan family is a big joint family, and Sai kind of likes that, because she’s always only lived with her Aaba she like the whole concept of a big joint family and ever since she has entered Chavan Niwas she has seen all the family members together even though all the relationships here are not cordial but they’ve always been speaking terms and since Pulkit and Devyani got married, Devyani has kind of been cut off, that is why she felt “adhoora”, and she wants to complete the family. All the fights, taunts are kind of a regular thing in Chavan Niwas but the Chavans even after all this stay together and that’s why Sai can’t really see the family broken because she has always seen the family together.

Laksh

Agree with your reasoning and it is quite Sai like that she just jumped into another task by impulse.

I am with you for not personally supporting her move. I also think it is too early to attempt it. Apart from Virat’s health I would like to point out Sai’s state also at this moment. She faced a lot within a short period and got exhausted mentally and physically. On top of that she has to attend her college. It is stressful for her already and now she is trying to get Devi reunite with Virat and Aswini.

I really felt so frustrated and tired when CGang attacked her and treated her like trash before Virat who repeatedly asked them to behave properly with his wife. Sai’s desperation on seeing them spill venom is visible on her face. Now she is ready for a second round.

I hope she will win by being smart without getting too much into verbal arguments.

Thanks for tagging me.

I don’t know whether this is working to the other versions timelines or because of Covid the schedule of events is changing.

If the schedule has had to change then fine...but I agree that the priority should be Sai focusing on Virat getting better.

I do wish Sai was not so impulsive with trying to sort out everybody else’s problems. However as we know Sai is going to invite Devi for dinner.

First there will be a clash over who is cooking - which we know from the pre-cap and then the 💣 when they turn up. I feel the most for Devi as they will most likely be awful to Pulkit which will have an impact on her😭

Very beautiful post

Sai's top notch priority should be virat at time when she here to look after him but she is ready to enter another battle with CN , in this all virat will stay with her knowing his family members.

But why she is taking this step right now ....

1) sai knows devi will miss her family i.e mostly Ashwini who is mother figure to her ,She want to unit these two , she knows Ashwini also miss daughter.

2)sai wants return CN daughter them , who is separated by her as she help her elope and married off to pulkit without their consent.

3)she wants CN acknowledge devik marrige , And bless them and give respect to pulkit as CN son in law.

4)she misses devi in CN when she second time after virat throwing her out, first time she enter its devi tai who welcome her wholeheartedly after ashiwini and shivani bua , so she want unite these beautiful people once again

5) virat doest not tell her he miss her lot during her absence, how can she catch his jelabi when she know she will leave him one or other day and she is here only take care of him only once he fine she will go away

6) she planning way before virat mission bec when she visit devi home pulkit had mentioned her he wants take devi to her home as he don't want to separate her for her family .

And she don't to miss this opportunity unit devi to her family , once she went away she will not get any chance after this and she knows she will stay strong against bk and gang as she knows their crime, she will use them against them .

I personally against sai taking this step now but I can understand her as she is having less time in her hand .

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Well haven't seen the episode yet🙈🙈

But what a beautiful analysis of the pov she is going through.👏

But, do agree to one point here, as much as she is right ,all due to her love and her emotions, her same emotions should revolve around Virat as well. I am not bashing Sai here, just a point based on what you told.

Sai is ,how should I place it, ambitious with something or anything if we need to say in one way. As in, karna hai ,karna hi hai. I guess we all wanted the apology for this. Cuz, again ,this will first creep insecurity in Virat, this time he will support her, that's not the discussion, but in general, if it is only Sai and Virat at the end, Virat is such that, along with happiness, insecurity will also creep in him.

And he won't put it in words that 'Sai ,share with me,pls' ,instead he will go 'Sai, why did you do this'way. And this will cause more assurity problem with the realtionship in Sai, and instead of saying 'How can I when you have not cleared Virat sir', Sai will go, 'Why should I for you when this is deal, Who are you in true sense'. One will lead to another, and opportunity for Didi in all this.

Words matter highly here instead of silence.

But, with respect to one relation, a beautiful relation that Sai has with Tai, this is justified. Cuz, along with this all, Sai is one who knows value of relationships, value and importance of a person who loves you,who cares for you, so she wants to rightfully give devi tai everything which she deserves, but she needs start thinking from everyone's angle, how all might feel. As in not kaku gang, she knows them, and even we know their dil ka pyaar, but what about others. As they also love devi, unka pyaar bhi devi tai ka bhala hi hoga. ❤️

Remember what Sai said to Barkha , for her more than love , trust and respect is important. I don’t think she trusts Virat as yet and doesn’t want to have hopes at this point because she has lived alone even if it’s for a day or two and she knows that she can be weak and fall for him as yet ( I think she already has but hasn’t realised and doesn’t want to )

So whatever Virat is trying to tell her is not getting to her in the way he wants her to understand

Her taking up the task, how is she not focused on his recovery? She feels she can do it alone without any help ( wrong approach but that’s her thought) and she feels she can take care of him , and handle this on her own. She doesn’t realise how emotionally attached Virat is become for her and will need her to be by his side for not just his physical recovery but he would need her emotionally too.

I dislike this next jump to mission and they could have eased in to this track but we know the makers can’t do without drama and give us some peace

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Remember what Sai said to Barkha , for her more than love , trust and respect is important. I don’t think she trusts Virat as yet and doesn’t want to have hopes at this point because she has lived alone even if it’s for a day or two and she knows that she can be weak and fall for him as yet ( I think she already has but hasn’t realised and doesn’t want to )

So whatever Virat is trying to tell her is not getting to her in the way he wants her to understand

Her taking up the task, how is she not focused on his recovery? She feels she can do it alone without any help ( wrong approach but that’s her thought) and she feels she can take care of him , and handle this on her own. She doesn’t realise how emotionally attached Virat is become for her and will need her to be by his side for not just his physical recovery but he would need her emotionally too.

I dislike this next jump to mission and they could have eased in to this track but we know the makers can’t do without drama and give us some peace

@bold

Totally acceptable point.

Maybe she herself is thus stressing that she will leave as soon as he recovers, cuz she is still mentally prepared for the worst and for the most part, might be influenced by the worst which has happened to her.

Now, Virat is her zimmedari, yikes, bolne mein hi ab ajeeb lagta hai, zimmedari😕

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

@bold

Totally acceptable point.

Maybe she herself is thus stressing that she will leave as soon as he recovers, cuz she is still mentally prepared for the worst and for the most part, might be influenced by the worst which has happened to her.

Now, Virat is her zimmedari, yikes, bolne mein hi ab ajeeb lagta hai, zimmedari😕

She is hiding behind big words. We know she considers him to be the only family she has when she was praying to Bappa. Everyone’s walls will be high up after what’s happened. And it’s just my opinion, if I were in her place, as much as I would have liked to believe his words , I wouldnt. Because even before during shivratri he assured her something but that all got nullified when he threw her out. So trust is something that will take time. sad for Virat and the audience who wants romance but I think in the moment she won’t be able to control his bold advances if he tries any.

Virat is like she forgave him so let’s forget about the past and move on. If I were him I wouldn’t want to be in constant reminder about the horrific thing I did. Her forgiveness cancelled the space he was willing to give her to come back to him. But it doesn’t work that way. If they were normal couple who expressed their love before all this , it makes sense for that expectation but here there is a sticky deal marriage situation, nothing was directly clarified and everything is open to interpretation. ONLY audience knows each other’s stand and boundaries drawn, and not the characters in the show,

I sort of get both their POV at this point. All this MUS will let kaku and gang play with their feelings .

We know we are gonna get drama at this point. I don’t want Sai to be the one woman army she has always been and share things with Virat and both of them work as a team.