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Loved your post as always. Whatever you said about Sai Virat makes sense. I also felt that Sai had too much confidence on Virat to give that challenge to Pakhi 👍🏼. And yes they are so vulnerable to each other but strong with others when it comes to their relationship. :)

Coming to one stark difference between Pakhi and Virat and their choices of moving on in life, I have few observations. Today's discussion around Pakhi's advances/feelings towards Virat also prompted me to take a look at their dynamics from the beginning days of their marriages.

Lets agree that even Pakhi's concern is genuine because afterall she loves him! Because she cannot change her feelings towards the person she loves. Fair and square...let's say Virat also understands that. But, but..his concern is the relationship dynamics that SHOULD exist between them once they are married to different people in the same family. BIL-SIL relationship in Indian family system has several dynamics. Over several generations and different cultures it evolved and devolved. It could go wrong or misunderstood very easily. Virat's repeated requests or Ashwinis repeated admonition is only stressing these facts to Pakhi. She fails to understand that given their past connection and present relationship status and being in the same family they have to be extra careful with their behavior. Virat, even in the beginning days of his marriage with Sai and during his supposed confusion over his feelings towards Pakhi, was very well aware of this LINE between them. His words were always careful and calculated. This can be observed right from the very day of his marriage with Sai. One beautiful scene that shows his character is here.

Please watch the epsiode on Dec 2nd! to know Virat's character in depth. The conversation on the terrace with Sunny, Pakhi and then Sai show the best of Virat's traits. With Sunny, he opened up how worried he was for his wife and her rights in the house. He is mature enough to understand the concept of marriage (deal or no deal). Once he is in it, he respects it fully and wanted his wife to get her rightful place. Then with Pakhi, he was trying to pacify her as a friend, never going overboard, never referring to their past relationship in any romantic way, but yet explaining her to understand his decision of marrying Sai. When he said to her in the end that he wants to ask her 'one' more thing, Pakhi was 'expectant' to hear something related to their forbidden relationship, Sai was 'anxious' to know if he says something about their past relationship. But Virat, speaks about Pakhi grooming Sai to make her acceptable for his family! Whatever feeling he might have had for Pakhi, he never allowed himself to cross the line of respect in their relationship. Any matured person would do the same. And with Sai, he gave her complete freedom to be herself in the same traditional family he wants Sai to be accepted. He knows that Sai cannot take abuse and he doesnt want her to sit and accept any misconduct towards her. And even now he accepts it, when she is not ready to forgive him. 👏

So Virat's expectation from Pakhi is also the same. Whatever her feelings for him, it does not matter now. She has to show restraint and honor their respective relationships with their spouses. The strict adherence to line of respect will force the person to step back and disentangle from the emotions. May be the same happened with Virat. If only Pakhi could slowly let go of these emotions by sticking to the line, it will be easy for her to move on. Thats where her mind should come in and restrain her heart...but when your mind is already taken over by jealousy, possessiveness and delusion it takes no time to swirl down into derangement and. Pakhi is in that situation, so she does not heed to any advice. The line does not appear to her.

Disclaimer: This analysis is only to give fair chance to Pakhi's feelings towards Virat and why she is still wrong. :) I believe that Virat never truly loved Pakhi and Sai is a wonderful human so it was easy for him to move on!

Janki, lovely post. I agree with everything you've mentioned. Virat not addressing BBB as Vahini is justified. If he does call her Vahini a relationship will be created. She has not accepted Samrat as her husband so how can she become a Vahini? And, today Virat brushed off the friendship tag too. And, he clearly said she's his elder brother's wife so she shouldn't cross her limits. Time and again he asked about Sayi but it went on deaf ears but then I was surprised when she said the truth. But, she was caught off guard when he accused her of not letting Sayi meet him. Virat has come a long way. He's able to see the true faces of his family members. And, as far as Sayi is concerned she knows that Virat will always choose her over Pakhi. So, rest assured she took up the challenge and tomorrow we'll see another set of insults hurled by husband and wife to the third person.

And, what's this drama about standing on one feet and looking after Virat? Seriously? What did she do to a patient who was in ICU and in unconscious state? She's lost her mind. And, her audacity when she told Virat that instead of praising her he's thinking of Sayi. Gosh, this woman is getting on my nerves. Anyway, tomorrow she will get a huge jolt when both Virat and Sayi will throw her out of the hospital.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Loved your post as always. Whatever you said about Sai Virat makes sense. I also felt that Sai had too much confidence on Virat to give that challenge to Pakhi 👍🏼. And yes they are so vulnerable to each other but strong with others when it comes to their relationship. :)

Coming to one stark difference between Pakhi and Virat and their choices of moving on in life, I have few observations. Today's discussion around Pakhi's advances/feelings towards Virat also prompted me to take a look at their dynamics from the beginning days of their marriages.

Lets agree that even Pakhi's concern is genuine because afterall she loves him! Because she cannot change her feelings towards the person she loves. Fair and square...let's say Virat also understands that. But, but..his concern is the relationship dynamics that SHOULD exist between them once they are married to different people in the same family. BIL-SIL relationship in Indian family system has several dynamics. Over several generations and different cultures it evolved and devolved. It could go wrong or misunderstood very easily. Virat's repeated requests or Ashwinis repeated admonition is only stressing these facts to Pakhi. She fails to understand that given their past connection and present relationship status and being in the same family they have to be extra careful with their behavior. Virat, even in the beginning days of his marriage with Sai and during his supposed confusion over his feelings towards Pakhi, was very well aware of this LINE between them. His words were always careful and calculated. This can be observed right from the very day of his marriage with Sai. One beautiful scene that shows his character is here.

Please watch the epsiode on Dec 5th! to know Virat's character in depth. The conversation on the terrace with Sunny, Pakhi and then Sai show the best of Virat's traits. With Sunny, he opened up how worried he was for his wife and her rights in the house. He is mature enough to understand the concept of marriage (deal or no deal). Once he is in it, he respects it fully and wanted his wife to get her rightful place. Then with Pakhi, he was trying to pacify her as a friend, never going overboard, never referring to their past relationship in any romantic way, but yet explaining her to understand his decision of marrying Sai. When he said to her in the end that he wants to ask her 'one' more thing, Pakhi was 'expectant' to hear something related to their forbidden relationship, Sai was 'anxious' to know if he says something about their past relationship. But Virat, speaks about Pakhi grooming Sai to make her acceptable for his family! Whatever feeling he might have had for Pakhi, he never allowed himself to cross the line of respect in their relationship. Any matured person would do the same. And with Sai, he gave her complete freedom to be herself in the same traditional family he wants Sai to be accepted. He knows that Sai cannot take abuse and he doesnt want her to sit and accept any misconduct towards her. And even now he accepts it, when she is not ready to forgive him. 👏

So Virat's expectation from Pakhi is also the same. Whatever her feelings for him, it does not matter now. She has to show restraint and honor their respective relationships with their spouses. The strict adherence to line of respect will force the person to step back and disentangle from the emotions. May be the same happened with Virat. If only Pakhi could slowly let go of these emotions by sticking to the line, it will be easy for her to move on. Thats where her mind should come in and restrain her heart...but when your mind is already taken over by jealousy, possessiveness and delusion it takes no time to swirl down into derangement and. Pakhi is in that situation, so she does not heed to any advice. The line does not appear to her.

Disclaimer: This analysis is only to give fair chance to Pakhi's feelings towards Virat and why she is still wrong. :) I believe that Virat never truly loved Pakhi and Sai is a wonderful human so it was easy for him to move on!

Yes, I remember that episode so well. It was a beautiful scene. And, yes from the time he came to know about Samrat and Pakhi’s marriage he maintained a distance and never once thought about their relationship. He accepted the reality and now Pakhi too has to do the same. But, sadly she won't. She's turned into a psycho.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Loved your post as always. Whatever you said about Sai Virat makes sense. I also felt that Sai had too much confidence on Virat to give that challenge to Pakhi 👍🏼. And yes they are so vulnerable to each other but strong with others when it comes to their relationship. :)

Coming to one stark difference between Pakhi and Virat and their choices of moving on in life, I have few observations. Today's discussion around Pakhi's advances/feelings towards Virat also prompted me to take a look at their dynamics from the beginning days of their marriages.

Lets agree that even Pakhi's concern is genuine because afterall she loves him! Because she cannot change her feelings towards the person she loves. Fair and square...let's say Virat also understands that. But, but..his concern is the relationship dynamics that SHOULD exist between them once they are married to different people in the same family. BIL-SIL relationship in Indian family system has several dynamics. Over several generations and different cultures it evolved and devolved. It could go wrong or misunderstood very easily. Virat's repeated requests or Ashwinis repeated admonition is only stressing these facts to Pakhi. She fails to understand that given their past connection and present relationship status and being in the same family they have to be extra careful with their behavior. Virat, even in the beginning days of his marriage with Sai and during his supposed confusion over his feelings towards Pakhi, was very well aware of this LINE between them. His words were always careful and calculated. This can be observed right from the very day of his marriage with Sai. One beautiful scene that shows his character is here.

Please watch the epsiode on Dec 5th! to know Virat's character in depth. The conversation on the terrace with Sunny, Pakhi and then Sai show the best of Virat's traits. With Sunny, he opened up how worried he was for his wife and her rights in the house. He is mature enough to understand the concept of marriage (deal or no deal). Once he is in it, he respects it fully and wanted his wife to get her rightful place. Then with Pakhi, he was trying to pacify her as a friend, never going overboard, never referring to their past relationship in any romantic way, but yet explaining her to understand his decision of marrying Sai. When he said to her in the end that he wants to ask her 'one' more thing, Pakhi was 'expectant' to hear something related to their forbidden relationship, Sai was 'anxious' to know if he says something about their past relationship. But Virat, speaks about Pakhi grooming Sai to make her acceptable for his family! Whatever feeling he might have had for Pakhi, he never allowed himself to cross the line of respect in their relationship. Any matured person would do the same. And with Sai, he gave her complete freedom to be herself in the same traditional family he wants Sai to be accepted. He knows that Sai cannot take abuse and he doesnt want her to sit and accept any misconduct towards her. And even now he accepts it, when she is not ready to forgive him. 👏

So Virat's expectation from Pakhi is also the same. Whatever her feelings for him, it does not matter now. She has to show restraint and honor their respective relationships with their spouses. The strict adherence to line of respect will force the person to step back and disentangle from the emotions. May be the same happened with Virat. If only Pakhi could slowly let go of these emotions by sticking to the line, it will be easy for her to move on. Thats where her mind should come in and restrain her heart...but when your mind is already taken over by jealousy, possessiveness and delusion it takes no time to swirl down into derangement and. Pakhi is in that situation, so she does not heed to any advice. The line does not appear to her.

Disclaimer: This analysis is only to give fair chance to Pakhi's feelings towards Virat and why she is still wrong. :) I believe that Virat never truly loved Pakhi and Sai is a wonderful human so it was easy for him to move on!

Nice analysis

I feel sai can never take pakhi's place in virat's heart coz it's not love place , it place of person for whom virat first time felt something special ( atleast it is shown in serial pakhi is first grl in Virat's life 😆)virat respect that but that place can never overpower Sai's place in his heart for sure coz he is falling in love with sai.

I know people might not agree to it but virat is definitely emotional but he is practical or mature 2 . He knew there was no point on sitting & crying over person who decided to marry his brother , yes he made an impulsive vaada but he had always tried to push pakhi towards samrat, so he decided to move on with time luckily he got sai with her it became easier. If he had not been mature & practical then he would had created a huge hungama on pakhi's haldi , would be still stuck at one point . He respected life decision for himself.

Virat actually never got time to deal with his pain Coz no doubt he was hurt by samrakhi's wedding

Beautiful analysis of sairat janki ji

My problem with vedi vaini , in which Plante she come from, virat clearly said her go to home and not compare sai and her still in her thick head register anything

Her concerns for virat fake bec she want to win against sai ,if she really have concerns for virat she never stop sai to meeting virat

She think she own virat that it and she not love with virat in first place ,if she love him truly she should happy for him seeing he moving on life with sai

Thank you for Beautiful post

Great analysis wrt Sai and Virat's feelings for each other. Also totally agree that the family is not promoting an EMA, they are just being the dysfunctional weird family they are. Pata nahi kya purane zamaane ki soch lekar bathe hain 21st century main.

BBB ne DKD (dimaag ka dahi) kar ke rakh diya hai. Why would she have so little self-esteem? She really needs help. Watching her is like watching a train wreck. She's a mess. I almost want Sai to shove her aside and go in. It's her man in there. He wants to see her. She wants to see him. BBB needs to get a grip and move on ffs.

Looking forward to today. Hopefully this insult will finally din it into her skull. If not, we will soon have a track where she tries to murder Sai or something. 🤦‍♀️