Jitna Mehsoos Karoon tumko, utna hi paa bhi loon...

Good afternoon Sisterhood!! 🌺🌷🌺🌷🌺

Aaishappat, aaj Ka episode do din se shooting BP levels ko Kam Karne ka beta-blocker ban Ke Aaya... Or should I say Bhabhi-blocker 😅

But hamari Beizzati ki Bhookhi Bhabhi (BBB*) will not show her Sooj boojh and take the point that Virat has clearly made and she has obviously understood because it is not jalebi anymore. (*can also mean Bade-Bhai-ki-Biwi, Badi-Besharam-Bhabhi, Bail-Buddhi-Bhabhi, Big-Boulder-Block, ... and whatever else🐍🦎👹)

In fact BBB will continue her pyscho-rant in front of Virat tomorrow, asking Sai to leave with the biggest joke of a dialogue "Virat didn't ask you to wait"... jab ki, he almost told her to "Get Out" despite being on the O2 bed in ICU without giving his left little toe to her 'saari Raat ek pair par khade hoke" Dekh bhaal ki... 🙄😑🙄 First of all, is anyone allowed to stand inside an ICU on one or two legs, as the expertise be 😅😅 upar se, kya Dekh bhaal Karna hota hai of a patient in a fully equipped ICU? BBB ko apni tareef Karni hi thi toh Kuch believable jhooth bolti. Upar se Dekh bhaal Karne ke liye she should have forced him to put back his O2 mask but no, she wanted him to start singing praises for her one-taang posture she claimed to have maintained through the night 😂😂😂

Surprisingly, Virat didn't need blood Nahi toh doctor would have taken Sai Ka khoon since their blood groups match 😂😂😂

Khair, let's leave BBB in her delusions and enjoy the beizzati sessions...🤯🤯

**********

Coming to the one thing that has stood out for me over the last couple of episodes: the FAITH that Sai and Virat have in each other, despite the fact that they have had a bitter fight and estrangement. There is no doubt in their minds that it is "Their" space and "Their" fight, no matter how many third persons try to interrupt it. Without even hearing one another, they mouth the same retorts to those trying to meddle in between them. Yes, there is a drastic room for improvement in their chain of action-reaction that allows people to interrupt, but one can't deny that both of them, once calm, know that the issue has to be addressed by them alone.

There is a reason why Sai challenged BBB to leave it to Virat to decide who he wants by his side. Of course, Sai knows Virat would choose her, even if she's trying to tell herself in between that she will not meet him again if he tells her to leave -- in her mind, she knows that Virat will NOT ask her to leave. She knows how earnestly he wanted to talk to her before he went on this near-fatal mission. In fact, even BBB knows this fact and she's trying all her might to escape hearing that choice Virat will make-- he has already made it clear in no uncertain terms that he does not want the 'bade bhai ki wife' by his side -- and she knew it even before the morning that if Virat were to choose between Sai and her, he would choose Sai to stay with him without battling an eyelid. Leaving BBB here for now 🤥🤥

Sai has never doubted Virat's intention and her reaction to the entire situation has been proof of it. Like we discussed during the separation, the "Grace" that true love brings is not for everyone, definitely not for the likes of BBB. If Sai wanted -- and Mohit and Pulkit would have supported her completely -- she could have called the police staff and thrown every one of the family members out, including that douchebag of a Baba. She could have created a scene that BBB claimed she would create and "humein sambhalna padega" (Look who's talking🤥🤥🤥) and turned the entire hospital by its roof for being blocked from staying with her husband. But no, she left after rightfully catching a glimpse of Virat, breaking down mometarily, gathering herself, praying over him and promising to be back and even saying SORRY for being stubborn in her rage -- Wow, what an evocative apology that was. It came from the fear of losing someone closest without getting a chance to say 'Goodbye' and she was almost there for the second time in her life 🥺

Regardless of what she she says aloud over Virat preferring BBB to tend to him and get him his meals, in her mind, Sai has not an iota of doubt of the choice Virat would make. It's such a complicated feeling -- the awkwardness of the 'deal' prevents her from acknowledging his leanings, yet she knows she can be "confident" about the challenge she has thrown at BBB.

Just like Sai, it was also Virat's FAITH that Sai could not have ignored him at such a time. His hallucination of Sai being by his side was from the depths of his heart that knows that when Sai has to care, she will leave the entire world aside and be there for the person she cares about. Of course, he does not know yet that he is the "World" himself for her. But it was such a touching moment that the first thing he wanted to know was "Sai kahan hai?" Not his family, but Sai. In his mind, he knows: It is impossible that Sai would not have rushed to be with him, wanted to wait with him and care for him. "Aisa ho hi Nahi Sakta ki Sai Nahi aayi hogi... she fought with me for even Devyani tai so wouldn't she come when I am dying?"

He knows how affectionate Sai is and how susceptible also to the bullying by his grudging family -- it was just a matter of moments before he knew that she came, as his heart expected, and had been driven away. That tear in his eye when his heart was crushed at realising that he was only hallucinating about Sai being around as he kept looking across the room to see if she's there... That immediate rection of soothing the ache in his heart at realising that she came but had to leave, was poignant -- wish he also sees the larger picture of how she has been bullied and charged for being the instigator by a the majority gang. And of course, the importance of the communication that needs to begin between them cannot be emphasized enough.

Sai and Virat probably don't even realise how inseperable they have been since the moment they met and how gradually drawn they were into one another, living in the denial of the bond that existed between their souls. Can't think of better lyrics than this:

Kis tarah cheenega, mujhse yeh jahaan tumhe

Tum bhi ho main... Kya fikar, ab humein

Bandishein na rahi koi baaki... Tum ho

Tum ho paas mere, saath mere ho tum yoon...

Jitna mehsoos karoon tumko, utna hi paa bhi loon

******

Today, for a fleeting moment, the Chavan family seemed actually like a "family" -- in the moment where Sonali gets Ashwini to break her nirjal upvaas--- even Bhavani and Ninad had a second of soft expression on their faces. But uske before and after, it goes back to being this utterly bewildering family that wants to put the eldest "Bhabhis" of each of the generations of the house on a pedestal that no other relationship can upstage. Their 'love' for allowing the "lonely Bhabhis" to mess with everyone's life is beyond logical explanation.

But despite the hideous dialogues mouthed by Ninad to BBB while Mohit heard with must loathing, I do not feel that the family is consenting to an extra-marital affair between the Vedi Vahini and the Diffident Devar. It is more about allowing the "chosen, hamara khoon aur aukaat" wali Bahu to have more power and say in every matter. It is so inexplicable and exaggerated in this drama, but there is always one "favourite" bahu in many households where there are others who are not seen as the 'ideal choices' that their sons have made. To make matters worse, the entire clan is aware of the status of Sai and Virat's deal marriage and the lack of conjugal relationship between them, so far. It makes it even easier for the grudging and controlling members to have their way in between them. Hopefully, their notion that Sai is a "bojh" for Virat will change when they actually enter the house as husband and wife after his return from the hospital.

Also, had another thought through the discussions that have been going on here -- We all have been waiting for Virat to address BBB as "Bhabhi/Vahini". I feel there is a reason why he chooses to not call her Vahini. It is not out of his hesitation as a former potential-suitor, but because the expression "Vahini" automatically conveys a kind of a bond that one shares with the sister-in-law. Virat, actually, does not feel any kind of bond with BBB anymore, not even of a "dost". Even when she mentioned, "Dost hone ke naate itna toh haq banta hai mera...." he royally ignored her comment about dosti. He sticks to reminding her about "Bade Bhai ki Biwi-Patni-Wife" to make her register the reality of her actual relationship and the honour of her "husband" (his brother) that she has no regard for. For him to be able to call her "Vahini", she has to first become "Wife" to Samrat at least from some aspect -- practically, if not mentally, emotionally, physically. But she is in denial of her actual relationship - clutching her mangalsutra during her hospital stay for Virat, instead (oh how repulsive can she be)... So, I actually prefer him throwing that "Mere Bade Bhai ki Biwi" reality into her face all the time instead of giving it the name of a "relationship" between them.

Would love to hear your thoughts - I am not tagging anyone because I can't remember all the names and somehow I fail in tagging in most posts and because: "Tum ho pass mere, ho tum Yoon, khud ko main haar Gaya tumko, tumko main jeeta hoon..."❤️❤️❤️

Apni hasi ki hifazat karna, stay protected, safe and cheerful through these gloomy times. It shall pass!

Lots of love!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗☕☕☕☕🍵🍵🍵🍵

J

Originally posted by: janhav

Good afternoon Sisterhood!! 🌺🌷🌺🌷🌺

Aaishappat, aaj Ka episode do din se shooting BP levels ko Kam Karne ka beta-blocker ban Ke Aaya... Or should I say Bhabhi-blocker 😅

But hamari Beizzati ki Bhookhi Bhabhi (BBB*) will not show her Sooj boojh and take the point that Virat has clearly made and she has obviously understood because it is not jalebi anymore. (*can also mean Bade-Bhai-ki-Biwi, Badi-Besharam-Bhabhi, Bail-Buddhi-Bhabhi, Big-Boulder-Block, ... and whatever else🐍🦎👹)

In fact BBB will continue her pyscho-rant in front of Virat tomorrow, asking Sai to leave with the biggest joke of a dialogue "Virat didn't ask you to wait"... jab ki, he almost told her to "Get Out" despite being on the O2 bed in ICU without giving his left little toe to her 'saari Raat ek pair par khade hoke" Dekh bhaal ki... 🙄😑🙄 First of all, is anyone allowed to stand inside an ICU on one or two legs, as the expertise be 😅😅 upar se, kya Dekh bhaal Karna hota hai of a patient in a fully equipped ICU? BBB ko apni tareef Karni hi thi toh Kuch believable jhooth bolti. Upar se Dekh bhaal Karne ke liye she should have forced him to put back his O2 mask but no, she wanted him to start singing praises for her one-taang posture she claimed to have maintained through the night 😂😂😂

Surprisingly, Virat didn't need blood Nahi toh doctor would have taken Sai Ka khoon since their blood groups match 😂😂😂

Khair, let's leave BBB in her delusions and enjoy the beizzati sessions...🤯🤯

**********

Coming to the one thing that has stood out for me over the last couple of episodes: the FAITH that Sai and Virat have in each other, despite the fact that they have had a bitter fight and estrangement. There is no doubt in their minds that it is "Their" space and "Their" fight, no matter how many third persons try to interrupt it. Without even hearing one another, they mouth the same retorts to those trying to meddle in between them. Yes, there is a drastic room for improvement in their chain of action-reaction that allows people to interrupt, but one can't deny that both of them, once calm, know that the issue has to be addressed by them alone.

There is a reason why Sai challenged BBB to leave it to Virat to decide who he wants by his side. Of course, Sai knows Virat would choose her, even if she's trying to tell herself in between that she will not meet him again if he tells her to leave -- in her mind, she knows that Virat will NOT ask her to leave. She knows how earnestly he wanted to talk to her before he went on this near-fatal mission. In fact, even BBB knows this fact and she's trying all her might to escape hearing that choice Virat will make-- he has already made it clear in no uncertain terms that he does not want the 'bade bhai ki wife' by his side -- and she knew it even before the morning that if Virat were to choose between Sai and her, he would choose Sai to stay with him without battling an eyelid. Leaving BBB here for now 🤥🤥

Sai has never doubted Virat's intention and her reaction to the entire situation has been proof of it. Like we discussed during the separation, the "Grace" that true love brings is not for everyone, definitely not for the likes of BBB. If Sai wanted -- and Mohit and Pulkit would have supported her completely -- she could have called the police staff and thrown every one of the family members out, including that douchebag of a Baba. She could have created a scene that BBB claimed she would create and "humein sambhalna padega" (Look who's talking🤥🤥🤥) and turned the entire hospital by its roof for being blocked from staying with her husband. But no, she left after rightfully catching a glimpse of Virat, breaking down mometarily, gathering herself, praying over him and promising to be back and even saying SORRY for being stubborn in her rage -- Wow, what an evocative apology that was. It came from the fear of losing someone closest without getting a chance to say 'Goodbye' and she was almost there for the second time in her life 🥺

Regardless of what she she says aloud over Virat preferring BBB to tend to him and get him his means, in her mind, Sai has not an iota of doubt of the choice Virat would make. It's such a complicated feeling -- the awkwardness of the 'deal' prevents her from acknowledging his leanings, yet she knows she can be "confident" about the challenge she has thrown at BBB.

Just like Sai, it was also Virat's FAITH that Sai could not have ignored him at such a time. His hallucination of Sai being by his side was from the depths of his heart that knows that when Sai has to care, she will leave the entire world aside and be there for the person she cares about. Of course, he does not know yet that he is the "World" himself for her. But it was such a touching moment that the first thing he wanted to know was "Sai kahan hai?" Not his family, but Sai. In his mind, he knows: It is impossible that Sai would not have rushed to be with him, wanted to wait with him and care for him. "Aisa ho hi Nahi Sakta ki Sai Nahi aayi hogi... she fought with me for even Devyani tai so wouldn't she come when I am dying?"

He knows how affectionate Sai is and how susceptible also to the bullying by his grudging family -- it was just a matter of moments before he knew that she came, as his heart expected, and had been driven away. That tear in his eye when his heart was crushed at realising that he was only hallucinating about Sai being around as he kept looking across the room to see if she's there... That immediate rection of soothing the ache in his heart at realising that she came but had to leave, was poignant -- wish he also sees the larger picture of how she has been bullied and charged for being the instigator by a the majority gang. And of course, the importance of the communication that needs to begin between them cannot be emphasized enough.

Sai and Virat probably don't even realise how inseperable they have been since the moment they met and how gradually drawn they were into one another, living in the denial of the bond that existed between their souls. Can't think of better lyrics than this:

Kis tarah cheenega, mujhse yeh jahaan tumhe

Tum bhi ho main... Kya fikar, ab humein

Bandishein na rahi koi baaki... Tum ho

Tum ho paas mere, saath mere ho tum yoon...

Jitna mehsoos karoon tumko, utna hi paa bhi loon

******

Today, for a fleeting moment, the Chavan family seemed actually like a "family" -- in the moment where Sonali gets Ashwini to break her nirjal upvaas--- even Bhavani and Ninad had a second of soft expression on their faces. But uske before and after, it goes back to being this utterly bewildering family that wants to put the eldest "Bhabhis" of each of the generations of the house on a pedestal that no other relationship can upstage. Their 'love' for allowing the "lonely Bhabhis" to mess with everyone's life is beyond logical explanation.

But despite the hideous dialogues mouthed by Ninad to BBB while Mohit heard with must loathing, I do not feel that the family is consenting to an extra-marital affair between the Vedi Vahini and the Diffident Devar. It is more about allowing the "chosen, hamara khoon aur aukaat" wali Bahu to have more power and say in every matter. It is so inexplicable and exaggerated in this drama, but there is always one "favourite" bahu in many households where there are others who are not seen as the 'ideal choices' that their sons have made. To make matters worse, the entire clan is aware of the status of Sai and Virat's deal marriage and the lack of conjugal relationship between them, so far. It makes it even easier for the grudging and controlling members to have their way in between them. Hopefully, their notion that Sai is a "bojh" for Virat will change when they actually enter the house as husband and wife after his return from the hospital.

Also, had another thought through the discussions that have been going on here -- We all have been waiting for Virat to address BBB as "Bhabhi/Vahini". I feel there is a reason why he chooses to not call her Vahini. It is not out of his hesitation as a former potential-suitor, but because the expression "Vahini" automatically conveys a kind of a bond that one shares with the sister-in-law. Virat, actually, does not feel any kind of bond with BBB anymore, not even of a "dost". Even when she mentioned, "Dost hone ke naate itna toh haq banta hai mera...." he royally ignored her comment about dosti. He sticks to reminding her about "Bade Bhai ki Biwi-Patni-Wife" to make her register the reality of her actual relationship and the honour of her "husband" (his brother) that she has no regard for. For him to be able to call her "Vahini", she has to first become "Wife" to Samrat at least from some aspect -- practically, if not mentally, emotionally, physically. But she is in denial of her actual relationship - clutching her mangalsutra during her hospital stay for Virat, instead (oh how repulsive can she be)... So, I actually prefer him throwing that "Mere Bade Bhai ki Biwi" reality into her face all the time instead of giving it the name of a "relationship" between them.

Would love to hear your thoughts - I am not tagging anyone because I can't remember all the names and somehow I fail in tagging in most posts and because: "Tum ho pass mere, ho tum Yoon, khud ko main haar Gaya tumko, tumko main jeeta hoon..."❤️❤️❤️

Apni hasi ki hifazat karna, stay protected, safe and cheerful through these gloomy times. It shall pass!

Lots of love!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗☕☕☕☕🍵🍵🍵🍵

J

Absolutely loved it, awesome as i always say.

@Bold - You just wrote what was on my mind, its good that he does not refer to her as Vahini as they dont share that bond Additional it has a different feeling to it, whereas he keeps on referring to her as bade bhai ki biwi, she needs to accept that first. Which aint happening.

Sai and Virat are toh inseparable, but the problem at times is the vacuum in them. Lets see ab kal kya hota hain.

I think Sai's challenge that if virat makes her leave she will is genuinely 2 folded. She prays/hopes and kinda "knows" that virat will pick her but its also about hearing that from the horses mouth. Instead of all these uninvolved people and their vishesh tippani she is leaving it upto him to clearly state his intentions. And i think there is genuinely a small fear in her that maybe because she didn't pick up the phone and because pp spent all night "taking care", he might not need her anymore....yet she wants to hear that straight up from virst himself. I think despite virats apology, at this point for Sai that was only an expression of regret for his harsh words and actions but that doesn't guarantee to her that this marriage is no longer a deal or that he has let go of his prior commitment. Putting this challenge to pp about having virat decide who stays is a way for Sai to have virat make a choice. And if he chooses her, its still only the first of many steps he will need to take to reassure her of her place in his life. Pp's constant meddling and interference will necessiate that virat needs to reassure Sai and continue to speak to pp the way he did today- in clear no nonsense way, not falling for her sympathy gaining tricks.

Absolutely agree with what you said janki!!!

The way the relationship of SAIRAT has shaped up shows what they mean to each other.... the yearning is applicable on both sides..

Sai clutched her mangalsutr while walking towards Virat's room, a beautiful moment indeed!!

i don't even want to talk about BBB or whatever anyone wants to call her, she is beyond any redemption and any sympathy!!

As for virat not calling her bhabhi/vahini I agree to what you sais, today he ven brushed off the dost wala relationship and stuck to bade bhai ki biwi ka tag..... he even saw through her chuppi of not saying if sai had come and when she told him, he without even flinching or thinking said and you must have sent her back!

he is seeing through her and knows she will go to any level now....

As for what you pointed out on EMA, when i read your point of view, it actually makes sense.... ninad and omkar support Pakhi because they see bhavani their vahini in her, and for them, there is no one greater than their vahini....

The dynamics of this family are insane and we know it....

Originally posted by: janhav

Good afternoon Sisterhood!! 🌺🌷🌺🌷🌺

Aaishappat, aaj Ka episode do din se shooting BP levels ko Kam Karne ka beta-blocker ban Ke Aaya... Or should I say Bhabhi-blocker 😅

But hamari Beizzati ki Bhookhi Bhabhi (BBB*) will not show her Sooj boojh and take the point that Virat has clearly made and she has obviously understood because it is not jalebi anymore. (*can also mean Bade-Bhai-ki-Biwi, Badi-Besharam-Bhabhi, Bail-Buddhi-Bhabhi, Big-Boulder-Block, ... and whatever else🐍🦎👹)

In fact BBB will continue her pyscho-rant in front of Virat tomorrow, asking Sai to leave with the biggest joke of a dialogue "Virat didn't ask you to wait"... jab ki, he almost told her to "Get Out" despite being on the O2 bed in ICU without giving his left little toe to her 'saari Raat ek pair par khade hoke" Dekh bhaal ki... 🙄😑🙄 First of all, is anyone allowed to stand inside an ICU on one or two legs, as the expertise be 😅😅 upar se, kya Dekh bhaal Karna hota hai of a patient in a fully equipped ICU? BBB ko apni tareef Karni hi thi toh Kuch believable jhooth bolti. Upar se Dekh bhaal Karne ke liye she should have forced him to put back his O2 mask but no, she wanted him to start singing praises for her one-taang posture she claimed to have maintained through the night 😂😂😂

Surprisingly, Virat didn't need blood Nahi toh doctor would have taken Sai Ka khoon since their blood groups match 😂😂😂

Khair, let's leave BBB in her delusions and enjoy the beizzati sessions...🤯🤯

**********

Coming to the one thing that has stood out for me over the last couple of episodes: the FAITH that Sai and Virat have in each other, despite the fact that they have had a bitter fight and estrangement. There is no doubt in their minds that it is "Their" space and "Their" fight, no matter how many third persons try to interrupt it. Without even hearing one another, they mouth the same retorts to those trying to meddle in between them. Yes, there is a drastic room for improvement in their chain of action-reaction that allows people to interrupt, but one can't deny that both of them, once calm, know that the issue has to be addressed by them alone.

There is a reason why Sai challenged BBB to leave it to Virat to decide who he wants by his side. Of course, Sai knows Virat would choose her, even if she's trying to tell herself in between that she will not meet him again if he tells her to leave -- in her mind, she knows that Virat will NOT ask her to leave. She knows how earnestly he wanted to talk to her before he went on this near-fatal mission. In fact, even BBB knows this fact and she's trying all her might to escape hearing that choice Virat will make-- he has already made it clear in no uncertain terms that he does not want the 'bade bhai ki wife' by his side -- and she knew it even before the morning that if Virat were to choose between Sai and her, he would choose Sai to stay with him without battling an eyelid. Leaving BBB here for now 🤥🤥

Sai has never doubted Virat's intention and her reaction to the entire situation has been proof of it. Like we discussed during the separation, the "Grace" that true love brings is not for everyone, definitely not for the likes of BBB. If Sai wanted -- and Mohit and Pulkit would have supported her completely -- she could have called the police staff and thrown every one of the family members out, including that douchebag of a Baba. She could have created a scene that BBB claimed she would create and "humein sambhalna padega" (Look who's talking🤥🤥🤥) and turned the entire hospital by its roof for being blocked from staying with her husband. But no, she left after rightfully catching a glimpse of Virat, breaking down mometarily, gathering herself, praying over him and promising to be back and even saying SORRY for being stubborn in her rage -- Wow, what an evocative apology that was. It came from the fear of losing someone closest without getting a chance to say 'Goodbye' and she was almost there for the second time in her life 🥺

Regardless of what she she says aloud over Virat preferring BBB to tend to him and get him his meals, in her mind, Sai has not an iota of doubt of the choice Virat would make. It's such a complicated feeling -- the awkwardness of the 'deal' prevents her from acknowledging his leanings, yet she knows she can be "confident" about the challenge she has thrown at BBB.

Just like Sai, it was also Virat's FAITH that Sai could not have ignored him at such a time. His hallucination of Sai being by his side was from the depths of his heart that knows that when Sai has to care, she will leave the entire world aside and be there for the person she cares about. Of course, he does not know yet that he is the "World" himself for her. But it was such a touching moment that the first thing he wanted to know was "Sai kahan hai?" Not his family, but Sai. In his mind, he knows: It is impossible that Sai would not have rushed to be with him, wanted to wait with him and care for him. "Aisa ho hi Nahi Sakta ki Sai Nahi aayi hogi... she fought with me for even Devyani tai so wouldn't she come when I am dying?"

He knows how affectionate Sai is and how susceptible also to the bullying by his grudging family -- it was just a matter of moments before he knew that she came, as his heart expected, and had been driven away. That tear in his eye when his heart was crushed at realising that he was only hallucinating about Sai being around as he kept looking across the room to see if she's there... That immediate rection of soothing the ache in his heart at realising that she came but had to leave, was poignant -- wish he also sees the larger picture of how she has been bullied and charged for being the instigator by a the majority gang. And of course, the importance of the communication that needs to begin between them cannot be emphasized enough.

Sai and Virat probably don't even realise how inseperable they have been since the moment they met and how gradually drawn they were into one another, living in the denial of the bond that existed between their souls. Can't think of better lyrics than this:

Kis tarah cheenega, mujhse yeh jahaan tumhe

Tum bhi ho main... Kya fikar, ab humein

Bandishein na rahi koi baaki... Tum ho

Tum ho paas mere, saath mere ho tum yoon...

Jitna mehsoos karoon tumko, utna hi paa bhi loon

******

Today, for a fleeting moment, the Chavan family seemed actually like a "family" -- in the moment where Sonali gets Ashwini to break her nirjal upvaas--- even Bhavani and Ninad had a second of soft expression on their faces. But uske before and after, it goes back to being this utterly bewildering family that wants to put the eldest "Bhabhis" of each of the generations of the house on a pedestal that no other relationship can upstage. Their 'love' for allowing the "lonely Bhabhis" to mess with everyone's life is beyond logical explanation.

But despite the hideous dialogues mouthed by Ninad to BBB while Mohit heard with must loathing, I do not feel that the family is consenting to an extra-marital affair between the Vedi Vahini and the Diffident Devar. It is more about allowing the "chosen, hamara khoon aur aukaat" wali Bahu to have more power and say in every matter. It is so inexplicable and exaggerated in this drama, but there is always one "favourite" bahu in many households where there are others who are not seen as the 'ideal choices' that their sons have made. To make matters worse, the entire clan is aware of the status of Sai and Virat's deal marriage and the lack of conjugal relationship between them, so far. It makes it even easier for the grudging and controlling members to have their way in between them. Hopefully, their notion that Sai is a "bojh" for Virat will change when they actually enter the house as husband and wife after his return from the hospital.

Also, had another thought through the discussions that have been going on here -- We all have been waiting for Virat to address BBB as "Bhabhi/Vahini". I feel there is a reason why he chooses to not call her Vahini. It is not out of his hesitation as a former potential-suitor, but because the expression "Vahini" automatically conveys a kind of a bond that one shares with the sister-in-law. Virat, actually, does not feel any kind of bond with BBB anymore, not even of a "dost". Even when she mentioned, "Dost hone ke naate itna toh haq banta hai mera...." he royally ignored her comment about dosti. He sticks to reminding her about "Bade Bhai ki Biwi-Patni-Wife" to make her register the reality of her actual relationship and the honour of her "husband" (his brother) that she has no regard for. For him to be able to call her "Vahini", she has to first become "Wife" to Samrat at least from some aspect -- practically, if not mentally, emotionally, physically. But she is in denial of her actual relationship - clutching her mangalsutra during her hospital stay for Virat, instead (oh how repulsive can she be)... So, I actually prefer him throwing that "Mere Bade Bhai ki Biwi" reality into her face all the time instead of giving it the name of a "relationship" between them.

Would love to hear your thoughts - I am not tagging anyone because I can't remember all the names and somehow I fail in tagging in most posts and because: "Tum ho pass mere, ho tum Yoon, khud ko main haar Gaya tumko, tumko main jeeta hoon..."❤️❤️❤️

Apni hasi ki hifazat karna, stay protected, safe and cheerful through these gloomy times. It shall pass!

Lots of love!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗☕☕☕☕🍵🍵🍵🍵

J

thank you babe for such a lovely post

Bbb was hilarious and definitely what is required to be called, reading ur post the smile I had on my face I wish I could show you,

the confidence of sai was also seen when openly she said to BBB Bahut shauk hai na aapko Virat sir kay sath rhene ka, Aaj ki puri raat hai aapke pas kar lijiye shauk pura,

coz she knows Virat will chose her, Virat will not let her go any where, regarding EMA I mentioned yesterday it’s a different terms and big one with complicated emotions let’s not tag that here, coz what ever the case was ninad did not meant EMA he said the sees kaku in her, the way he obliges kaku the same he thinks Pakhi is for her devars,

only if he knew that the shusheel bahu has different intentions and affections foe the devar,

you are right I wanted Virat to call her bhabhi but I agree to what u say, for that Pakhi needs to be one, when she doesn’t accept Samrat, reference is immaterial,

And the best part today was when he was searching for sai for quite a long time he dint even care that Pakhi was there, he dint even acknowledge that she is standing there

thank you babe for this post

Awesome analysis as always Janki ji.

All your points are beautiful, and agreed,seeing the CN,EMA is difficult. Cuz,here Vaini power plays.

And everthing is beautiful, especially the moments. I stated in another post.

Virat returned to Sai when she was on her deathly situation and they were bound by marriage, now Sai ignoring all odds came back to Virat in his deathly situation and they will be bound by love

Amazing analysis 💗💗

Hi Janaki I so so love ur analysis today

From BBB is the word for pakhi .. for me it is badi besharam bhabhi

what kind of icu is this .. people are allowed entry all the time without mask n slippers ..

abd when virat woke up .. bbb did not call the doctor to check on him ..maybe PH did not want to bring another actor in the bubble .. they could have made one of the police man a doctor ..aise kaise she started giving him details of what she has done for him ..😳 I was angry when I saw the same precap .. when I saw Sai n Virat had still not met .. but BBB ki beizaati is as much fun as romance ..🤣🤣🤣

Not getting in this physical harassment or concern KS Mumbo jumbo .. for me it was harassment..

I am glad Virat is seeing how his wife is being kept away from him .. now that we know she’s going to come back .. will he do something to ensure her safety ..

if nothing else .. make her meet his work colleagues .. so that she has a ready support group .. next time CN goons throw her out .. I really hope Sai does not do the same as Virat has imagined her in his dreams . She has forgiven him lightly like last time ..

this time the scars are too deep it cannot be brushed under the carpet .. I hope they have a conversation like he has had with BBB about the way they can go ahead in marriage . If Sai has to come back ..

another idiocy BBB was giving Virat medicines .. thank goodness Virat asked her are u a doctor or nurse

Ashwini was mocked again by Kaku .. and then she raised the question of bbb staying back with Virat

I hope Virat is not released immediately.. in real life it definitely takes some time .. but since Sai is wearing the same dress it can be he’s released the same day but icu se general ward me shift also is a a protocol

why can’t they show .. Sai changing suits 2-3 times and he coming back in a week .. that will look little normal

anyways it seems audience like this prolonged days stretched in weeks .. this week this show on no 1 😀..

masta hi mast

Amazing as always I❤️.

I felt so sad for both Sai and Virat. Both are drowning in their own bubble of thinking the other person does not want them! Both yearning to be with each other yet fearing rejection and hurt.

I really hope they talk about at least one thing - that the marriage is no longer a deal. Declaration of love can follow much later. Their marriage deserves a booster shot!!

All the extraneous factors from Sai's side binding them are no longer valid. Sai has her scholarship, she has freed him from her father's vaada. In Virat's mind, his own vaada has been long forgotten or is no longer valid. He needs to summon up the courage to tell her that much. he is committed to her and to the marriage - tan se aur man se. Dhan has been handled😆

About Patralekha, less said the better. So I will not say anything at all. Vaise bhi, after a point, I feel she gets all the attention anyway😆

Nice analysis 👏

Sai and Virat understand each other and also believe each other in their own way..

My heart was Virat when he felt happy surprisingly happy knowing Sai was crying for him..Poor guy has no clue that he is her world.. He thinks that he is a mentor to her and that's it.. I actually felt bad for him in that scene...He longs for Sai in ways that cannot be put in words.. The last thought...the last face he had in his mind while going unconscious was Sai and a dream with Sai in it forgiving him and starting fresh got him back to consciousness . How beautiful..