I'm getting scared for Virat. Is he becoming a victim of harassment? - Page 6

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Posted: 4 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Svt611

What I’m glad about is that the fandom is speaking up for the consent of men!!!
People are questioning the content we are being shown in the name of entertainment and that is a start. we need to make them understand this is not acceptable and in no way will we support it!

I agree this is so gross , like how can we accept such content , it's sexual harrasment that too when he is in such state , makers really need to think before showing these stuff , honestly speaking I just can't stand such things and take it as entertainment it's no where near entertainment it's torture
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aditi_MM

Is it truly saddening that men don’t get the same protection as women against sexual harassment. We as a society really need to fix this.


Society can't. Parliament and courts can -- former has the power to pass new laws, latter to actually deliver justice.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinafans

Exactly it should be called out ... Not everytime a victim is a woman,there are thousands of case of man being the victim. Here she is harassing or emotionally blackmailing him to restart the relation which is lost long back.


A quote I found recently-"

I couldn't do anything other than try and hold her off. It was very difficult, you are judged by people like the police as if you were the one who was causing everything.

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I condemn this type of behavior towards men even in the serial.


@italics: This is a fact. Since law is lopsided, most male victims would back out of even publicly calling out such a woman for the fear of being booked in a case themselves... Men do not have any provision in law to report psycho lovers harassing them until an actual crime is conducted which is booked as a separate case

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Posted: 4 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: Svt611

What I’m glad about is that the fandom is speaking up for the consent of men!!!
People are questioning the content we are being shown in the name of entertainment and that is a start. we need to make them understand this is not acceptable and in no way will we support it!


But I'm appalled at the makers playing that forlorn music for this psycho woman looking at the Moon. It should have only featured Sai and better still, been totally avoided. The lyrics were so forcefully fit into that tune. 😖

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhav


But I'm appalled at the makers playing that forlorn music for this psycho woman looking at the Moon. It should have only featured Sai and better still, been totally avoided. The lyrics were so forcefully fit into that tune. 😖

The makers are themself in delusion what they want to portray

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aditi_MM

You bring up such valid points that I didn’t even think of. Virat is not only a victim, but he also has no way to escape. His family supports Pakhi, and as the son of the house and an IPS officer, he doesn’t get the privilege to express his fears or discomfort openly.


Pakhi didi is somewhere like jagtap only infact jagtap jaisa bhi vo samne se hai he never pretend .

Cgang r also criminals only .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes, its harassment only. Today she showed all the colours of cringe and as creep as she can be. And the audacity of this girl of again stopping Sai after Virat clearly said he wants her. She is degrading herself in worst way possible. 🤢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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My 1st post on this forum since it was very disturbing to watch today's episode


Hope the makers raise the issue of consent for men through Virat or Sai after today's episode. It was extremely disturbing to watch her with the sad back ground music to portray her as a victim 🤢. Hope people don't get inspired by her character and call it one sided love

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhav


Yes but like I had said and even quoted a few sections of law last time during the discussion when someone started a similar topic, the law clearly defines sexual harassment as being of a 'woman' from a 'man'. So, men cannot approach the police to book a woman who's making such advances of disrespecting the choice of the man.

Consent is an operative word to decide sexual harassment. Unless it is explicitly conveyed, it is not sexual harassment. This time, Virat has actually done it -- not once but twice in clear words that he doesn't want any other private relationship with her except the one they have by the actual relation in the family.

For anyone who is interested, you could google Sections 354 and 376 of the Indian Penal Code and read. Then there is section 377 but it is not used for a man's harassment by a woman but for man from man or woman from man, again. Essentially, law in India (which is based on British law) believes that women are biologically incapable of sexually harassing men simply because by nature, it is a man who can 'violate' a woman and not vice versa --so law believes, "woman can't rape".

I suppose this law was heavily loaded in favour of women deliberately. Since :-

1) There is a taboo against women reporting against sexual harassment. If there was a leeway for guilty men to shift the blame on women - no woman will ever report.

2) In our country, 95% victims would be women. So in order to protect more victims, law has accepted male victims as collateral damage.

It is vexing and complicated. How do we protect women without punishing innocent men?

I think if one goes to the root of the problem, it is society's veneration of women's chastity. It is one thing to be conservative, and totally another thing to be fake-moral, hypocritical and insensitive. If not for this nonsense, women will be more willing to file a complaint and lop-sided laws will not be needed.

I don't know if my viewpoint is correct.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhav


@italics: This is a fact. Since law is lopsided, most male victims would back out of even publicly calling out such a woman for the fear of being booked in a case themselves... Men do not have any provision in law to report psycho lovers harassing them until an actual crime is conducted which is booked as a separate case


I can feel that bcz recently someone very close went through it. She was his gf tortured him to such extreme that he attempted to suicide. And the guy when try to protect himself she started blaming him and trying to even molest him in public and in public eye it looks opposite. Sad case but this is reality.


We tried to help him but we also know the case of justice is very low but with god grace now he is well.

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