I'm getting scared for Virat. Is he becoming a victim of harassment? - Page 5

Originally posted by: archanan14

Of course he is being harassed.

Not only is she going against the boundary lines he has set clearly now (e.g. saying she shouldn’t be alone with him in the absence of Samrat and Sai) - she is not respecting his words also, when he said he wants Sai there, and blocking her access to meet Virat today. The comparison she keeps making “agar Sai meri jagah hoti” is absolutely disgusting 🤮

“Mujhe pata hai mujhe karna hai, mujhe kya chahiye” - literally this line could have been said by a man molesting a woman and it wouldn’t have been out of place.

To be honest, I am not able to stomach her character. I feel disgusted just seeing her. Her whole attitude and body language is just so horrible and she does not keep to her boundaries. It makes me as uncomfortable as watching a man who creeps out a woman.

exactly!!!

The audacity she has to constantly break his consent and say such things...

So they even read what they write.... this is not acceptable

He is being harassed and it’s not a joke!

Originally posted by: Aditi_MM

This fandom is one of the reasons why I find keeping up with the show tolerable (along with NeilSha). This forum is an amazing place and I have had the privilege of meeting such good people. ❤️❤️

me too!! And it’s not only here I see Twitter is also upset with this and I’m glad they are tagging the makers and the channel and voicing this out (I know they go through all the tweets) it’s high time they show some sensible content

Originally posted by: archanan14

Of course he is being harassed.

Not only is she going against the boundary lines he has set clearly now (e.g. saying she shouldn’t be alone with him in the absence of Samrat and Sai) - she is not respecting his words also, when he said he wants Sai there, and blocking her access to meet Virat today. The comparison she keeps making “agar Sai meri jagah hoti” is absolutely disgusting 🤮

“Mujhe pata hai mujhe karna hai, mujhe kya chahiye” - literally this line could have been said by a man molesting a woman and it wouldn’t have been out of place.

To be honest, I am not able to stomach her character. I feel disgusted just seeing her. Her whole attitude and body language is just so horrible and she does not keep to her boundaries. It makes me as uncomfortable as watching a man who creeps out a woman.

They way she compared herself to Sai in today’s episode was incomprehensible. Virat asked her to leave because it wasn’t right for her to be there in Sai and Samrat’s absence. He even mentioned that she is his big brother’s wife. The next moment she asks, “would you ask Sai to leave too if she were here?” LIKE OF COURSE NOT YOU DIMWIT!! THAT’S THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS CONVERSATION! SAI IS HIS WIFE! SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO STAY THERE! NOT YOU, HIS BHABHI!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Yes he is getting sexually harassed ..

I hope this exact remake thing doesn’t continue beyond a point. Online popularity will drop, and maybe TRPs also. The lack of acting skills of the actress playing Pakhi and her offscreen antics also don’t help much and cause further negativity. I am glad the forum is quite sane most of the time, and I think it’s a very balanced set of people! But I am sure if people are pushed also beyond a point, they will just stop watching, not even care enough to complain.

As it is the original seems to be full on trash....these guys copy the episodes while smoking weed...

Originally posted by: Aditi_MM

They way she compared herself to Sai in today’s episode was incomprehensible. Virat asked her to leave because it wasn’t right for her to be there in Sai and Samrat’s absence. He even mentioned that she is his big brother’s wife. The next moment she asks, “would you ask Sai to leave too if she were here?” LIKE OF COURSE NOT YOU DIMWIT!! THAT’S THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS CONVERSATION! SAI IS HIS WIFE! SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO STAY THERE! NOT YOU, HIS BHABHI!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Exactly. Matlab how so you really not get this? Are you that dumb? He was literally looking at her like WTF. I am waiting for when he asks her to leave. Her dialogues to Sai in the precap are making my blood boil. Who is khudgarz - her or Sai? At every stage, like Mohit says, she speaks only when it is to her advantage. Then calls Sai, who has done so much for the family “khudgarz”. Mast ha mast. Pakhi is next level delusional.

Where did she even get these views about khudgarz and gold digging the other day? Sai is the most selfless character who does not hesitate to put herself in trouble or danger to help others. Did I miss something?

It's pure sexual harassment because pakhi clearly said even though he consider her as his bhabhi she can't change her feelings and today she touched him when he was unconscious..

Like many said if the role is revered a jiju forcefully send his saali's husband away, stayed with her entire night, touched even the finger tip of his saali when she is unconscious.. i can imagine the virtual earthquake which may happen then.. but since this is a man it's just dusted off.. the so called pativrata stuff is not just for woman..

And the worst thing is the actress playing is promoting the sequence as one side love and poor pakhi's pain in her stories.. That's the limit man... huh.. i can only blame myself for expecting a bit maturity from that lady even after all the stunts she pulled till now..

Originally posted by: Svt611

that is the point.... we talk about womens safety when there are men who are also being harrassed exactly like virat is being harrassed...

its do disgusting!

Consent is so important between anyone even a husband and wife

Yes but like I had said and even quoted a few sections of law last time during the discussion when someone started a similar topic, the law clearly defines sexual harassment as being of a 'woman' from a 'man'. So, men cannot approach the police to book a woman who's making such advances of disrespecting the choice of the man.

Consent is an operative word to decide sexual harassment. Unless it is explicitly conveyed, it is not sexual harassment. This time, Virat has actually done it -- not once but twice in clear words that he doesn't want any other private relationship with her except the one they have by the actual relation in the family.

For anyone who is interested, you could google Sections 354 and 376 of the Indian Penal Code and read. Then there is section 377 but it is not used for a man's harassment by a woman but for man from man or woman from man, again. Essentially, law in India (which is based on British law) believes that women are biologically incapable of sexually harassing men simply because by nature, it is a man who can 'violate' a woman and not vice versa --so law believes, "woman can't rape".