I'm getting scared for Virat. Is he becoming a victim of harassment?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The way that Pakhi walked out saying that no matter what Virat says, she'll always be after him because she knows what she wants was extremely repulsive and creepy. She's venturing into criminal territories now. She has the tendencies of an obsessive abuser/stalker. Virat has repeatedly said no to her advances, reminded her of the fact that both of them are married AND that she is his big brother's wife, and has mentioned clearly that he loves and wants Sai. Still, Pakhi is after him. Reverse the genders in this situation and this is classic sexual harassment. What if a jeeja was after his saali in the absence of his wife? That is the recipe for a Saavdhan India or Crime Patrol episode.

P.S. Huge shout out to Neil Bhatt and Ayesha Singh (the only two people who make watching this show worth it)! Neil's acting chops are getting better day by day! In one shot, the camera zoomed in on his eyes and I could feel and identify every emotion in them! I think it was when he hallucinated Sai and he expressed awe, surprise, joy, and a tinge of regret/angst all at once! Ayesha too has been growing with every episode. Her turmoil as a wife in the past few episodes combined with her hesitance to completely forgive and forget was splendidly portrayed! I might rant about every aspect of the show, but I'm so glad we have Neil and Ayesha playing SaiRat! No one could have done it better!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes he is now. Because he has called her out and made it clear that he doesn't want her to pursue him . There was a similar discussion a few weeks back but at that point, he had not set the boundaries and made it explicitly clear that he does not like her advances. Unfortunately, law for sexual harassment is only for women protection against men. The men do not have a legal remedy against female stalkers.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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he is vocalizing his stand and she is not taking his CONSENT!!!!

he clearly says i want sai here and you need to leave...


she is harassing him, and it is not funny!


this woman gets no sympathy and there is no redemption for her

this is not love it is obsessive behavior and she needs help

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhav

Yes he is now. Because he has called her out and made it clear that he doesn't want her to pursue him . There was a similar discussion a few weeks back but at that point, he had not set the boundaries and made it explicitly clear that he does not like her advances. Unfortunately, law for sexual harassment is only for women protection against men. The men do not have a legal remedy against female stalkers.


that is the point.... we talk about womens safety when there are men who are also being harrassed exactly like virat is being harrassed...


its do disgusting!

Consent is so important between anyone even a husband and wife

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Svt611

he is vocalizing his stand and she is not taking his CONSENT!!!!

he clearly says i want sai here and you need to leave...


she is harassing him, and it is not funny!


this woman gets no sympathy and there is no redemption for her

this is not love it is obsessive behavior and she needs help


Not help. She needs to go to jail. She has committed crimes- fabrication of evidence and now harassment.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Svt611

he is vocalizing his stand and she is not taking his CONSENT!!!!

he clearly says i want sai here and you need to leave...


she is harassing him, and it is not funny!


this woman gets no sympathy and there is no redemption for her

this is not love it is obsessive behavior and she needs help

Seriously, somebody needs to write to the channel to not glorify such behaviour as "passionate love". This is serious.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is an imp post, thanks for raising this point. I hsve never seen any other show normalise criminal conduct to this extent as Ghum. Even more shocking, with a Police officer as the lead!


And yet the makers will project stalker-harasser Pakhi as a ‘lead’ & legitimise her criminal behaviour. The actress herself will be permitted to do that on social media. If it was any other man he would have got a personal protection order against Pakhi by now.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Seriously, somebody needs to write to the channel to not glorify such behaviour as "passionate love". This is serious.

I’m not sure if it is being glorified. Everywhere I see people are repulsed and grossed out by Pakhi’s behavior.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhav

Yes he is now. Because he has called her out and made it clear that he doesn't want her to pursue him . There was a similar discussion a few weeks back but at that point, he had not set the boundaries and made it explicitly clear that he does not like her advances. Unfortunately, law for sexual harassment is only for women protection against men. The men do not have a legal remedy against female stalkers.

Is it truly saddening that men don’t get the same protection as women against sexual harassment. We as a society really need to fix this.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Svt611

he is vocalizing his stand and she is not taking his CONSENT!!!!

he clearly says i want sai here and you need to leave...


she is harassing him, and it is not funny!


this woman gets no sympathy and there is no redemption for her

this is not love it is obsessive behavior and she needs help

THIS! Consent applies with every gender!

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