Who is to be blamed for Raavi’s present suffering?

Though Raavi and Shiva will have a blissful marriage later, her current suffering is not less.. Being a girl and bride myself can’t imagine a life with a husband without love and respect. I can guess how she is lost in dark with no hope for future with a constantly bickering husband who she hates to the core.. Who do you blame for her current pain?

Dhara- Just by looking at R on Dev’s phone hastily convinced Baa, Mama, Mami and finalized everything

Dev - who thought of letting go of Rishitha for family & Janardhan but leaving Raavi alone in Mandap after Rishitha ended up there in the last minute.

Mausaji/Mamji - who emotionally blackmailed Raavi into this forceful marriage

Gaumbhi/Baa - Who silently watched the drama and didn’t give her a choice to decide

Shiva -Marrying her and entering into a loveless marriage for the family though he hated her

Though I don’t route towards Shiva wanted to see others opinion:) Sorry if this poll was already taken..

You missed the mErA dEv option!!!!!!

I already knew who the landslide victor of this poll was before opening 🤣

But in all seriousness, I think all of them have contributed to her misery in one way shape or form. Shiva never talked to her like Gaumbi talked to Dhara about expectations for the wedding (wish I kind of wish he did) which I think is Shiva's only mistake. The talk could have allowed Raavi a way out of the marriage, or understanding that it wasn't done for revenge.

DevTa couple, though, cannot stop showing off their romance, which certainly rubs the salt in the wound further

Though Rishitha’s attitude and smile annoys me , I felt she just fought for her love till the end and not at fault for Raavi .. But thanks let me add her

Originally posted by: HanaKB

You missed the mErA dEv option!!!!!!

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I already knew who the landslide victor of this poll was before opening 🤣 I know too, LOL

But in all seriousness, I think all of them have contributed to her misery in one way shape or form. Shiva never talked to her like Gaumbi talked to Dhara about expectations for the wedding (wish I kind of wish he did) which I think is Shiva's only mistake. The talk could have allowed Raavi a way out of the marriage, or understanding that it wasn't done for revenge.

Exactly though Dhara quotes that she and Gaumbi were married in the same way, they had mutual respecr for each other and they got a chance to decide unlike Raavi and Shiva

DevTa couple, though, cannot stop showing off their romance, which certainly rubs the salt in the wound further

Missed Rishita/Devta option and now it doesn’t let me edit

I think first Dev is to be blamed. and then Dhara-Gaumi for hiding the truth from Raavi.

I don't think maami and mausa are to be blamed much. What they did was because of fear and pressure.

But Dev is main

I don't know if I've missed this, but did Raavi ever speak to Dev directly about her liking for him?

All of them, but dev and dhara mostly. I don't blame shiva because he worships dhara like a mother and he couldn't say no to her.

Raavi is responsible! You missed that option too. 😳

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

I don't know if I've missed this, but did Raavi ever speak to Dev directly about her liking for him?

This is a point that is overlooked mostly.. Raavi just had ice cream with Dev and gave gifts to him and assumed that Dev likes her as much as she likes him. She approached Dhara and her Mausa/mami saying they both like each other ( this was without knowing Dev's true feelings or ever directly having a one on one) . The Mausa then Approached Dhara saying they both are in love with each other ( again just by taking Raavi's assumptions) Unrequited love mostly has a painful outcome

But at the end of the day Dev had multiple occassions to come clean but he did not. Shiva even told him that "ghar oe teri aur Raavi ke rishte ki baat chal rahi hai" but still Dev ignored. So taking that into account. Dev made an already bad situation worse.