I am confused!! Why is Raavi nice to Rishitha? - Page 2

I think that Raavi is lost right now, she doesn't know who to trust and she is struggling. She loves Dhara but right now she is hurt and basically has no one she thinks is on her team. Maybe that's why she's doing things that are seemingly weird but also inherently Raavi is a good person and wouldn't be cruel to Rishita ever like Rishita is to her.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

At bold- respectfully disagree, IMHO

When you are on a family trip with two days old family, you have to follow the elders (here gautam and dhara ) until you know each other very well.

Gaura planned/managed the trip - dhara managed/cooked food - she must had counted raavi and rishita, too.

It is not about independence, it is about giving respect and not disturbing plan/hard work done by others for you.

Gaura knew how many rooms they have there, quality and conditions of those rooms... - they may planned already who is staying where - I don't mind if they give raavi first choice knowing her condition / trying to make her feel better / pamper a bit.... etc.

Rishita's attitude is I do not care of dhara or any other family member...- will not follow anyone's lead (understand...) - while her own father kept her prisoned .... she wants all those freedom here... in a middleclass join family !!!!!!!!!

while kicking out raavi's things from room in house, she did not think once... If she was kind hearted/caring / understanding, would think of raavi's status (will not show off how much her and dev love each other)... and try to console her... will ask for forgiveness... for ruining her wedding... and give her that room with respect ... in efforts to repent what rishita and dev did to raavi...

Raavi still knew pandyas from childhood, rishita is not aware of the family conditions/status/traditions /likings....

In general, new daughter in law takes a while to observe and know new family before opening her mouth or giving any opinions/taking decisions.

Well true that.

I was going mostly by Rishita's expressions which never seems conniving to me at least. Absolutely uncaring of other's yes but not conniving.

Yeah she did completely rail road over Raavi earlier, I get what you meant.

Originally posted by: Irshita

Raavi is unreal. I can't understand how she can be so normal with Dev. Granted she always fought with Shiva and she was infatuated with Dev, even then she should show more reaction. Not just Shiva-Dev conversation is needed but also Raavi-Dev. She needs to close the loop.

We as fans justify Raavi's behavior as normal because we are eager to have her move on with Shiva. 🤪

I dunno it's normal or not but I think that's the way to go !dev really didn't deserve her , and raavi, why mourn for a man who loves another woman ?like..dev didn't even care to tell raavi that he loves rishita but things didn't work out as planned so she should decide if she still wants to marry him. He let raavi live in lala land right till the last moment.

Raavi by nature is very cheerful and a positive minded girl. The fact that she forgave dev and rishita , she has my respect for it.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I dunno it's normal or not but I think that's the way to go !dev really didn't deserve her , and raavi, why mourn for a man who loves another woman ?like..dev didn't even care to tell raavi that he loves rishita but things didn't work out as planned so she should decide if she still wants to marry him. He let raavi live in lala land right till the last moment.

Raavi by nature is very cheerful and a positive minded girl. The fact that she forgave dev and rishita , she has my respect for it.

If she was angry towards Dev, I can understand. She doesn't care.. that for me is weird.

Bachpan ke pyar ko 2 din mein bhool gayi toh Shiva ko bhoolne mein 2 ghante hi lagenge after she fall for him.

Raavi is hurt but her basic nature is being positive and understanding. She always wanted to be a part of their family. I am not sure if there was a scene in hindi version where Raavi tells Dhara the next day or so after marriage, if you had given me one hint about Dev being in love with another girl, I would have forgotten that I ever fell in love with him and moved on in life, why would I want a man who is in love with another girl. I remember watching this in the Tamil version. I think this was when Dev tries to apologize to her and Rishitha creates a scene saying Raavi is trying to make Dev feel guilty, after which Dev sternly asks her to apologize for her allegations as he was the one who tried to speak to her. Their relationship(Raavi and Rishitha) then grew gradually as they started speaking to each other as two new students in a classroom.

Originally posted by: scarlet23

Raavi is hurt but her basic nature is being positive and understanding. She always wanted to be a part of their family. I am not sure if there was a scene in hindi version where Raavi tells Dhara the next day or so after marriage, if you had given me one hint about Dev being in love with another girl, I would have forgotten that I ever fell in love with him and moved on in life, why would I want a man who is in love with another girl. I remember watching this in the Tamil version. I think this was when Dev tries to apologize to her and Rishitha creates a scene saying Raavi is trying to make Dev feel guilty, after which Dev sternly asks her to apologize for her allegations as he was the one who tried to speak to her. Their relationship(Raavi and Rishitha) then grew gradually as they started speaking to each other as two new students in a classroom.

In tamil version they have shown the guilt of jeeva(dev) and he genuienly wanted Kathir Mullai (shiva raavi) to be happy. But here they are not showing a guilty dev which makes me to skip dev rishita scenes. Dev was romancing rishita without even a guilt that because of him his brother and childhood friend is in a forced relationship. Atleast he should have asked apology from shiva but no instead of asking apology he is fighting with him. i liked gaumbi's advice to dev but after that advice also he is fighting. At first i thought rishita is irritating but now i am irritated with Dev

Raavi i couldn't judge her as after a life changing incident we cannot expect her to act sane.

Originally posted by: Joppa

In tamil version they have shown the guilt of jeeva(dev) and he genuienly wanted Kathir Mullai (shiva raavi) to be happy. But here they are not showing a guilty dev which makes me to skip dev rishita scenes. Dev was romancing rishita without even a guilt that because of him his brother and childhood friend is in a forced relationship. Atleast he should have asked apology from shiva but no instead of asking apology he is fighting with him. i liked gaumbi's advice to dev but after that advice also he is fighting. At first i thought rishita is irritating but now i am irritated with Dev

Raavi i couldn't judge her as after a life changing incident we cannot expect her to act sane.

Yes, that’s so true! It does seem like Dev is not at all guilty. He should apologize to both Shiva and Raavi. Like you said, Jeeva was really guilty that Kathir had to make a big sacrifice for him.