Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 77

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Tum logo ke liye 🤷‍♀️ Haye re ab hum mein tum nahi? BB ne yeh din bhi dikha diya?

Yahi to kara rahe na..BB has turned to be GW in diving and ruling over us

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Well Nora no one here supports child marriage. I think you are not getting the context. The bitter truth of those dark times and still prevalent today is that female children are not always welcomed by their families more so in rural areas. So the next best thing that most parents liked to do with their little girls is marry them off. Now I am not saying that this is a great idea but in some of these cases it actually turns out to be better than being sold off, led into sex working, working as slaves or child labour, begging etc etc. Not everyone wants to adopt a child from a village. No one here is for child marriage all we are saying is that in Bondita’s case there was no other option if at all there was another way to save her am sure Anirudh would have done that.

We might be selective here by saying allow Bondita to decide for herself that is solely because the kid has got a family she is attached too. She too is terribly scared of leaving them and it’s right in quite a few ways. You snatch her away from Anirudh take her and hand her over to Sumati villagers come tie her and throw crowding on her just because now her husband has left her for her own good? Banning of child marriage is definitely a boon but what do you do about the mentality of the then society? Do they accept it and start sending their girl children to school? Let’s not forget the dark society that we once lived in where Sumati for being a widow was ostracised and thought of as a bad omen.

When you say why Sumati can’t live with Bondita the answer is simple it is because of the same society. If Bondita came from a influential background I don’t think any of this would have ever happened.

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you said it all right

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Originally posted by: faja

Sabah..❤️

you said it all right

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Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Well Nora no one here supports child marriage. I think you are not getting the context. The bitter truth of those dark times and still prevalent today is that female children are not always welcomed by their families more so in rural areas. So the next best thing that most parents liked to do with their little girls is marry them off. Now I am not saying that this is a great idea but in some of these cases it actually turns out to be better than being sold off, led into sex working, working as slaves or child labour, begging etc etc. Not everyone wants to adopt a child from a village. No one here is for child marriage all we are saying is that in Bondita’s case there was no other option if at all there was another way to save her am sure Anirudh would have done that.

We might be selective here by saying allow Bondita to decide for herself that is solely because the kid has got a family she is attached too. She too is terribly scared of leaving them and it’s right in quite a few ways. You snatch her away from Anirudh take her and hand her over to Sumati villagers come tie her and throw crowding on her just because now her husband has left her for her own good? Banning of child marriage is definitely a boon but what do you do about the mentality of the then society? Do they accept it and start sending their girl children to school? Let’s not forget the dark society that we once lived in where Sumati for being a widow was ostracised and thought of as a bad omen.

When you say why Sumati can’t live with Bondita the answer is simple it is because of the same society. If Bondita came from a influential background I don’t think any of this would have ever happened.

Child Marriage is tried under POCSO Act in India, one of the few crime where capital punishment (death) is sentenced by the Court

I don't think when you say @Bold 2 you actually understand why Child marriage is wrong, thousands of child bride die every year. Child marriage is a better alternative for women? Do you realize that young girls can't give consent therefore it is rape? You are telling me, "Rape" is a better alternative for women? Are you even thinking about what these girls have to through?

This is not even for the greater good, just for a show, child marriage is the best thing

Mentality of society is not good Today, doesn't mean we should let these young girls bear the brunt of being born in the society

Don't use society as an excuse, please

Society was against her education too, but did you say the same to protect Bondita? Don't send her to school because society will be mean to her?

Why do they want to show reforms if they are afraid of society? LOL

@Bold 1

You are supporting and giving reasons to justify child marriage

Anyway, Let it be

It's been 90+ years, no wonder Child marriage is gets the support it has in India

Originally posted by: NoraSM

So A law against Child marriage made life harder for women?

This society was getting Bondita married to an old man, think about her life or life of other young girls in this situation

The society was going to burn her alive

You want Anirudh and Bondita to remain together but don't make statements like @bold These laws have never ended up making lives harder for women, Just because the show has glorified Child marriage doesn't mean it is remotely similar to this in real life.

Calm down dear. A law against child marriage never made life harder for women. The statement is wrong and unethical, whatever the case be.

But then in this particular show there are two divisions - some people do not find child marriage wrong while some do not find polygamy wrong. One who find only 'either' of them wrong should not rebuke the other one finding wrong in 'either' of them only.

@UL - No dear. There are some who want Anirudh and Manorama to remain together. Like me 😎. Bondita should live an independent life (how is it possible 'now' doesn't matter 👍🏼)

@Bold - Why watch the show then? Not supporting child marriage, yet watching a show "glorifying" child marriage, how? 😕

Originally posted by: Indira12

Calm down dear. A law against child marriage never made life harder for women. The statement is wrong and unethical, whatever the case be.

But then in this particular show there are two divisions - some people do not find child marriage wrong while some do not find polygamy wrong. One who find only 'either' of them wrong should not rebuke the other one finding wrong in 'either' of them only.

@UL - No dear. There are some who want Anirudh and Manorama to remain together. Like me 😎. Bondita should live an independent life (how is it possible 'now' doesn't matter 👍🏼)

@Bold - Why watch the show then? Not supporting child marriage, yet watching a show "glorifying" child marriage, how? 😕

I follow law of the land both child marriage and polygamy are crimes in India therefore no support for anyone

I have come to realize that the show has managed to turn people against the Child marriage restraint act by showing the child bride as a victim of this act instead of presenting her as a beneficiary of it, most people think Bondita should remain a Child bride when they could have shown Bondita and Anirudh actually being happy with first step towards end of this "Kupratha", when the show says that the man who filed a petition in court is unhappy that Child marriage is illegal and Child bride, herself is unhappy, if this is not glorification of child marriage then what is?

The show says it is against Child marriage and so far it was, suddenly they have changed their tunes

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Child Marriage is tried under POCSO Act in India, one of the few crime where capital punishment (death) is sentenced by the Court

I don't think when you say @Bold 2 you actually understand why Child marriage is wrong, thousands of child bride die every year. Child marriage is a better alternative for women?

Mentality of society is not good Today, doesn't mean we should let these young girls bear the brunt of being born in the society

Don't use society as an excuse, please

Society was against her education too, but did you say the same to protect Bondita? Don't send her to school because society will be mean to her?

Why do they want to show reforms if they are afraid of society? LOL

@Bold 1

You are supporting and giving reasons to justify child marriage

Well Nora if you truly believe that it’s only you who understands why child marriage is wrong then congratulations 👏 dwell on

As for me I was trying to explain that sometimes it depends on the situation (situational) specifically in Bondita’s case.

Society would have made her life hell if Sumati sent her to school considering it being an all boys school but it couldn’t do anything because the RC’s were behind it (influential family)

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Well Nora if you truly believe that it’s only you who understands why child marriage is wrong then congratulations 👏 dwell on

As for me I was trying to explain that sometimes it depends on the situation (situational) specifically in Bondita’s case.

Society would have made her life hell if Sumati sent her to school considering it being an all boys school but it couldn’t do anything because the RC’s were behind it (influential family)

No, I don't think that and I sincerely hope and pray that people actually understand that when your Apex court is trying a case under POCSO Act then the action is not "Good" under any circumstances

Bondita and Anirudh's marriage happened in difficult circumstances, did anyone object to it? I never did, because it was an impulsive decision from Aniruddh to protect a life, "The greater good"

But this is not the correct thing in today's India because it is a crime, no situation should be supported which leads to child marriage

Why are you bringing the circumstances of beginning in this discussion? None said "Why did they get married?" We are not even discussing it

We are talking about the recent track where one poster said that such reforms end up being bad for women

When she is getting a chance to get out of Child marriage, why are people against it? Isn't it because the show is presenting child marriage act as something wrong in Bondita’s life? When it should have been celebrated by this show

Did you hear sad music when reformer was talking about how women will be out of shackles of Child marriage?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

The show is about reforms, Society was going to burn her alive, "Sati Pratha", with her husband, Child Marriage, the show is not about using name of society to promote Child Marriage

Any law which ends these cruel practices should be supported, There are millions of young girls who die every year, the effects of facing this in young age lead to anxiety and depression, where none understands them because people think about society and hope that they remain with their husband

Child marriage is not a good thing for a Child, Anyone in his or her right mind wouldn't want a Child to remain married to her husband

Reforms are not a one day thing, here you say one Child marriage couple should stay together because society will call them names, do you know this reason is real nightmare of young girls today?

Reforms is an every day process, we are still not free from this evil practice, the last thing we need is people supporting it

You are saying Bondita should be given a chance to decide but Bondita is a 12 years old, we had to ban Child marriage because a child of age 12 cant consent to anything, how can she decide?

When she grows up then she can decide, they give her big dialogues and there's no representation of the innocent Child in her but other 12 years old are not even considered old enough to own a Sim card in their name

If I am not wrong, there were adoption laws back then moreover Bondita's mother can live with RCs, she is her mother and legal guardian so Bondita can live wherever her mother lives

Was society happy with Bondita going to school? I don't recall anyone saying she shouldn't go to school because society will call her names, why all these excuses when it is about ending Child Marriage?

@bold1: It it ever happen I think there are legal bodies to handle it, because child marriage is an abolished and an illegal practice now. Anything promoting child marriage, women abuse etc has to be called out. There are shows which were put off aswell, if I am right

(But BB is showing an era where all this existed. So to show idealistic scenario, something unrealistic to that era cannot be shown right. If it is shown all the society welcoming divorce, Bon staying in mansion studing, that would not be true to the era.One need not show it ideal, ut real for the era and how to tackle it)

Any law which ends these cruel practices should be supported

I said the same, with the right provision to protect the victims too

(Same should be with child labor and similar issues too.Simply abolishing wont serve justice was my point, no that it should not be abolished)

@bold2: not just girl child but true with women too.women stay in toxic relationship even the change.changes are happening..movies like Thappad are a recent change, Rememere this is 2021, BB is a centuray back story.So all we expect in the day, if shown for that backdrop, would be unrealistic

ul: My focus was not on calling names..My focus was on how can he still be her support system.How will she stay .iF she has to go who will support her and make her independent in that society, who will give wings to her dreams

"I think you what I said about rehailitation and law for protection was not noticed "

@bold3: If by anyway it sounded to you hat my post was a support for such a practice, I wanna clear it out that No and NEVER.I was pointing out how the loopholes of such a law need to e rectified too for the betterment of woman

You are saying Bondita should be given a chance to decide but Bondita is a 12 years old, we had to ban Child marriage because a child of age 12 cant consent to anything, how can she decide?

OK!! You got it wrong, I meant an assurance to Bon by Anirudh and a clarity to himself that Bon would be protected and safeguarded the same way as now in a nameless relationship, to make her understand moving out of marriage, considering her deep sense of attachment with him and family

** If possible, kindly read what I said my post again without prejudices that I have raiced voice in favour of child marriage.I think, What I meant is not what reached you

Bondita's mother can live with RCs, she is her mother and legal guardian so Bondita can live wherever her mother lives

I am not sure if you followed show from beginning, both of your queries are answered in the tracks former in their marriage track and later in chodi hui awrat track

@bold4: I didn even explicitly say I am against ending their marriage, I just showed a broad picture of what child marriage act can also lead to, unless the necessary supporting laws are implemented

I would take a simile here regarding what I feel for Ani-Bon separation

Say,I have a teenage child (Anidita)who wants to pursue her higher studies after schooling by going to a far off institute, As a mother I would be sad for leaving her..I am so attached, But for her good I will let her go to study, ensuring the circumstances are safe for her. Eventually good and right must prevail

But if she wants to go to a place where violence and terrorist attack or similar to pandemic threats dominate. Anything not good for her life and health, I may convince her to stay at home and get the best of opportunity she could have from around.

This is what Anidita feels to me and their separation.

I think I have cleared my stand here..

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Kyun maang bhare wo idiot, let him stay as far as possible. Aur bon pati babu Jaap bhi band kare aur barrister babu bolaye.

In this video too bon is calling him pati babu😆

he is going to regret very badly now.. Can't wait to see that🤪