And so the break begins - Page 5

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly.

A major part of the problem will remain until Adi does not have a convincing response to Imlie saying, "Aap pe pehla haq Malini didi ka hai", "Saat saal ke rishte ko kaise khatam kar sakte hain" etc. etc.....he never gives her a dhang ka response to these statements but just keeps repeating his standard sach bol denge toh sab theek ho jaayega line.

Also, I guess they think it's too hairy for them to get into the timeline for "when" Adi fell in love with Imlie😆.....he obviously didn't "change" simply in those 4 days in PD....but that's what Malini/family keep harping about ki Adi woh ek trip ke baad badal gaya......and Adi doesn't bother clarifying to anyone, heck not even to Imlie when he fell in love with her.....lol...realization happened in those 4 days, yeah but clearly falling in love was happening since much before....while he was continuing to lie to himself and to everyone else that Malini is the only one he loves....and wohi hairy part it seems the writers currently lack the courage to touch or they are just dragging for drama😆.

So yeah, then Imlie will stick to the basics she knows....that he's loved Malini for a looong time and bas Imlie beech mein aa gayi warna sab mast chal raha tha😆

I guess it is hard to answer .. and the usually good with words patrakaar struggles to actually format his actual thoughts he mostly goes tum samjh rahi ho na🤣 it is like he wants her to ghusso on her mind and understand his exact feeling of suffocation but imlie cannot do that so she keeps going around with damn but you have to be with her and he gets more fursutrated ke main toh samjha raha hoon imlie nahi samjh rahi. It is exhausting but it is so Aditya.. sirf imlie ko yeh keh dene se ke samjbjao olz hum samjha rahe hain problem khatam nahinhoga you will have to doh tok baat karni hogi ke aisa hai .. also imlie ko thoda sa khulna padega I get her belief but sadly iss waqt she is also forcing him to suffocate himself with her dhamki too I understand where she came from and I have no shikayat from her or grudge but it only makes sense for her to push so much if she is not seeing how she is making him suffer or if she feels he is happy he isn't so plz girl take a step back and give him space you too from malini caz all this pushing will make him more irrational and you are unknowingly being part of the problem here by so much pressure.. *sigh* I get it our jhalli is jhalli and comes with purest of neeyat but bachi ko sach main samjh nahi aa raha not everyone is as strong willed as her on mental side

Like I totally see why she is thinking she is becoming the curse and woh jayaaz bhi hai uska sochna but ohir bhi plz itna push back na karo is all am saying

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Didi ke sangat mein Babusahib ka bhi one track mind ho gaya hai...he's so hung up on telling his Imlie wala truth that he overlooks the full scope of the problem he is in. Your problem is multi-faceted Babusahib, so you need to tackle it accordingly.

He has successfully convinced everyone how right Malini is a partner for him, so it will seem jarring for them na that how all of a sudden their marriage is crumbling? He has introspected that he has never loved Malini, he needs to have this conversation with Imlie too. Because he has drilled into her mind for so long that he loved Malini and how she was the best partner for him, toh Imlie might think that he has fallen out of love with Malini because of her. Perhaps that's why she thinks she has come between them? Adi needs to explain to her clearly that Imlie didn't come between them...and explain his feelings for Imlie v/s Malini as AY said already. Well at least today he told her firmly not to interfere between him and Malini, that's a start!

He's already introspected that his relationship with Malini was based on comfort and convenience but he needs to introspect also on the fact that he never knew Malini at all, and she didn't know him either. They were always incompatible... He needs to understand all this and explain it to his family and Imlie. I understand that right now his only agenda is telling his family about Imlie truth and he's laser focused on that, but he needs to wake himself up to the full scope of the problem he is in. Otherwise, this will bite him in the behind later too like his decision to bring back Imlie did. It's also very important that he has this conversation with his family because if he doesn't, Didi will use this point as ammunition later to play victim that she was always devoted and loyal to him and he strung her along for 7 years and then fell out of love with her overnight. Which simply is not true, the truth is he didn't understand his feelings for both Malini and Imlie for so long and that's why he made so many mistakes. He needs to explain this to his family before outing the truth, otherwise Imlie will have to bear the brunt of Didi's ghatiyapanti.

But even then, I don't think Imlie's guilt will go away....Malini needs to insult her Mom & SK for something to click in her. I hope truth is outed before it is revealed that Malini is her half sis, because after that...well let's not try to imagine what happens after that.😆

@bold: +1....This....very much needed.

I'm hoping that them showing Aparna now actively wondering what went wrong/changed between him and Malini, may initiate some convo between her and Adi about it and he atleast gets it a little bit that this isn't just about blurting out his Imlie wala truth but also explaining to his family why him and Malini were always wrong for each other but he didn't realize it till just recently.

Imlie may seem like she is imposing on him about this but in her own tedha medha way, she is trying to make him see the full scope of the problem too....that this is bigger than just blurting out the truth and thinking that will be the end of it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: +1....This....very much needed.

I'm hoping that them showing Aparna now actively wondering what went wrong/changed between him and Malini, may initiate some convo between her and Adi about it and he atleast gets it a little bit that this isn't just about blurting out his Imlie wala truth but also explaining to his family why him and Malini were always wrong for each other but he didn't realize it till just recently.

Imlie may seem like she is imposing on him about this but in her own tedha medha way, she is trying to make him see the full scope of the problem too....that this is bigger than just blurting out the truth and thinking that will be the end of it.

Aditya is aware of the big picture. He is aware that it will cause his family pain. He admitted it himself yesterday. But he still thinks truth needs to come out. Imlie is not seeing the whole picture. She is guilt ridden and thinks Aditya should be with Malini no matter what is happening right in front of her eyes. When Aditya told imlie he loved Malini, it was so easy for her to believe him. Now Aditya is telling her that he just cannot be with Malini, he is dying a slow death, why is it so hard for Imlie to believe him? Because she feels guilty.

Lol, it seems I am against Imlie today. But i really hated it when she interfered between Aditya and his mom and then later blackmailed him.

Imlie Imlie Imlie😔 To quote BK- lekin Kyun betaaaaaa? (holding head in hands)

WHAT is it about Malini didi? Like Dev, do you also 'sense' the O negative khoon surging in you? Writers, please please - I know Imlie doesnt care 2 cents what others think of her or her actions, but please donot make her fall at Malini's (or for that matter anyone else's )feet again. It was so painful to watch. Imlie, pls. Don't be a 'bailbuddhi' over Adi-ni's relationship- you have seen that it is not going to get any better. Or is it so hard for you to believe still that Adi really loves you- or is it that you just want the Tripathis to love you even if it means hiding your marriage forever? Or are you subjecting Adi to some sort of agnipareeksha? I guess now the biggest puzzle in this story is what it would take for Imlie to finally accept Adi.

Frankly- the precap was the most exciting thing in this episode.

I second you on this,instead of this sach jhoot ki ladayi n revelation now after seeing irritated Adi today I believe they need to sit n listen to each others feelings,arrive on a consensus then talk to gharwala people together,else Adi bol bhi de,Imlie step back hi karegi saath rehne se to we are back to square one!Also Imlie needs to realize k banda nahi hai khush with Malini abhi to the point k he isn't affected by her leaving the nivas.Instead of forcing him let him live thoda,de-stress ..usse bhi to samjha jaaye ..Maa se share nahi karne diye aap,jhoot ka bhoj utha raha banda kamse kam force nahi karo bcz even If he brings malini back under pressure the unhappiness will continue..Banda bada hai aapse nhi roka malini ko thoda to iski maturity ka sammaan dedo isse🤣

Super exhausting episode. The turmoil between the characters seem to have reached a point where we will hv to see some concrete outcome of the situation.

I will go in the reverse order of what I felt

Ts - I mean just too sham performances. Malini didnt do anything wrong??Aditya bura hai?? t Did they just blanked out all yesterday saga? they are just too engrossed in getting Malini back.

i think we get little bit answer in the flashback of Aparna. Aditya has been avoiding marriage for a long time and when they saw malini i think they thought she was a great match for him cos of his serious nature. By saying it again again they they r ideal couple they made Aditya also feel that he loves her.

no one is still thinking straight and finding that when a 7 year lon relationship falls apart they way it is then the base / foundation for that was never strong.

Imlie - Well she is just 19 year old trying to handle mess of a situation. Only way she knows to do is to sacrifice her love. But she is so blinded by this that she is not able to see what is in front of her. A relation formed on fake emotions will never survive test of time. Marriage can be anything but it is never easy. the way Malini and Aditya has made joke out of this beyond her. She needs someone to drill it in her that this is not her problem to solve. This is not her place.

Aditya - Well BS apke achche karmo ka fal sab hi bhugat rahe hai.

Malini - Well i called her a coward in some other thread and she just proved me right by playing victim in front of whole family and placing blame in entirety on Aditya.

Mithi - excellent

Prakash - mehhhhhhhh to power of infinity.

Its a fresh beginning for a lot of things. This is going to get very ugly before it will get better. This drama quotient is going to o even higher.

Awesome analysis AY! always look frwd to your post and this thread.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I guess it is hard to answer .. and the usually good with words patrakaar struggles to actually format his actual thoughts he mostly goes tum samjh rahi ho na🤣 it is like he wants her to ghusso on her mind and understand his exact feeling of suffocation but imlie cannot do that so she keeps going around with damn but you have to be with her and he gets more fursutrated ke main toh samjha raha hoon imlie nahi samjh rahi. It is exhausting but it is so Aditya.. sirf imlie ko yeh keh dene se ke samjbjao olz hum samjha rahe hain problem khatam nahinhoga you will have to doh tok baat karni hogi ke aisa hai .. also imlie ko thoda sa khulna padega I get her belief but sadly iss waqt she is also forcing him to suffocate himself with her dhamki too I understand where she came from and I have no shikayat from her or grudge but it only makes sense for her to push so much if she is not seeing how she is making him suffer or if she feels he is happy he isn't so plz girl take a step back and give him space you too from malini caz all this pushing will make him more irrational and you are unknowingly being part of the problem here by so much pressure.. *sigh* I get it our jhalli is jhalli and comes with purest of neeyat but bachi ko sach main samjh nahi aa raha not everyone is as strong willed as her on mental side

Like I totally see why she is thinking she is becoming the curse and woh jayaaz bhi hai uska sochna but ohir bhi plz itna push back na karo is all am saying

I totally get your point, man....but@ bold....Imlie is doing all this out of a sense of panic....Malini leaving the house is too huge a deal to her....cuz she hasn't seen the previous iteration from this from Didi na😆....waise that reminds me ki thodi der baad Aparna was also like haan ok Malini tum jaao, bas yeh bataao waapis kab aaogi😆....

So yeah, for Imlie, Malini walking out like this is a big sign of a breaking of the relationship....and that is the one thing that she has been consistent on saying she can't bear cuz she will feel it's happening cuz of her. Think of the turn of events....Malini deliberately used Imlie to escalate the fight yesterday in such a way ki Imlie ko toh yehi lagega ki uske upar ladte ladte baat itni badi ho gayi ki Malini left.....so guilt na kare toh kya kare? And that is why she is doing extreme things like cutting off Adi from trying to tell others or poking at him ki abhi waapis lekar aao Malini ko and then going the distance of threatening him with leaving also😆

I get it....we are all feeling bad seeing Adi kaise trapped and suffocated feel kar raha hai....but Imlie bhi apne character ke hisaab se reaction de rahi hai.....lol it's not that she isn't concerned for Adi or doesn't feel his pain....but she cannot get over the way the breaking apart of relationships is happening before her eyes.

A lot of what Imlie is thinking about the current plight can be linked to her reaction when the Ts tried to come close to her during yesterday’s confrontation. She did not want her sindoor stained hands smudging their clothes. But in reality it was just a metaphor for how she thinks Aditya’s love for her is tainted to such an extent that the repercussions from that love can tear apart a family that she considers her own. A lot of this is Aditya’s mistake. He used Malini as a shield effectively for so long that when he decided Imlie was actually the right companion, he could not articulate why Malini was wrong.

While we all get frustrated with Imlie’s didi jaap, we should try not to overlook the fact that she is merely 19 although more battle worn than a 90 year old. She has a lot to learn and she will. But right now, she is doing what she thinks needs to be done so that she can sleep at night without any guilt. Sleep that is unfortunately not coming easy.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly.

A major part of the problem will remain until Adi does not have a convincing response to Imlie saying, "Aap pe pehla haq Malini didi ka hai", "Saat saal ke rishte ko kaise khatam kar sakte hain" etc. etc.....he never gives her a dhang ka response to these statements but just keeps repeating his standard sach bol denge toh sab theek ho jaayega line.

Also, I guess they think it's too hairy for them to get into the timeline for "when" Adi fell in love with Imlie😆.....he obviously didn't "change" simply in those 4 days in PD....but that's what Malini/family keep harping about ki Adi woh ek trip ke baad badal gaya......and Adi doesn't bother clarifying to anyone, heck not even to Imlie when he fell in love with her.....lol...realization happened in those 4 days, yeah but clearly falling in love was happening since much before....while he was continuing to lie to himself and to everyone else that Malini is the only one he loves....and wohi hairy part it seems the writers currently lack the courage to touch or they are just dragging for drama😆.

So yeah, then Imlie will stick to the basics she knows....that he's loved Malini for a looong time and bas Imlie beech mein aa gayi warna sab mast chal raha tha😆

@bold - Wohi toh mujhe samajh mein nahin aa raha hai. The concept of this show is bold. While I get ITV may not be fully ready for everything that the story has the potential to entail, they should atleast get audacious with the pockets they can. And Aditya/ Malini’s relationship with all its wrongs has the most promise for that right now which directly also leads to the Aditya/ Imlie love story timeline.

I hope it is the latter part of what you said. If it is all for drama and we get Aditya’s clear cut reflection/ conversation at some point it will all be for good.

I thought in the original rupi do only thinks that adi and imli are having an affair at first and I’ll treats imli . After some time she will come to know the truth about marriage and that’s when she starts supporting imli ... is it correct ? I think here she gets to know the marriage truth already ?