And so the break begins - Page 7

Originally posted by: metoyou

Deffo, but I also think that she will be (more) after Adi because he is the one that kept her in the dark for so many years and she will take revenge no matter what ... isliye toh that psycho behavior of hers to manipulate him or the people around her.

Arre woh toh baad ki baat hai. Look at her behaviour right now, without knowing anything. It's so much worse. Jab sach pata chalega then toh she'll literally abuse Imlie

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Adi-Imlie need a confidante on their side too pronto...and that needs to be someone from the Ts'. Whether that is Nishant or Rupi Di, doesn't matter. Left to their own devices, they will keep stalemating after fight over telling the truth and nothing will ever happen.😆 They need some guidance from a third person who is their true well wisher.

Agreed, this is exactly how I feel too. These two need some third person, a well wisher to ask them the right questions, help them navigate this mess. Koi bhi chalega ...anybody interested in applying for this job. Nishanth? Rupi? Aparna? Bk kaka? Audience is desperate to see this stalemate end. 😆

Originally posted by: Josupra

@bold exactly... The day before Imlie left for PD, she saw Adi & Malini having their movie night and Adi saying that Malini is his love of life. After that Adi came to PD, told her he accepts the marriage, told her he loves her and forcefully brings her back. She didn't know all the arguments Adi and Malini had before he left PD, she don't know the drama Malini did while Adi is is PD. After she came back, she saw Malini getting upset during holi and Adi spent that time with Malini, then the drama during the Pooja and the door knock scene, followed by her admission form argument and then yesterday's Sindoor arguement; from Imlie's point of view all these nasty fights happened due to Adi concern and love for Imlie. So, she obviously feels that all these are happening because if her and Adi can go back to being with Malini the way he was during the movie night. Until Adi clearly spells out what changed between then and now, and about his realization, it is very difficult for Imlie to come out of her guilt. Adi should first introspect how he could go from a lovey covey movie night with Malini where he declared his eternal love for her to his realization that be never loved Malini, and explain Imlie, it is very difficult for Imlie to change her stance.

Hope this reply also doesnt become a "Spam contents' not allowed (varna main bhi Adi ki tharah ghoot ghoot ke mar jayenge 😆).

@bold- agree with you 100%. I feel this is exactly what is going on in Imlie's head. Though I was upset with her today. If you see from her POV- the last she saw Adi-Ni was when they were holed up with their 'cinema' and makkai and Adi had 'jhakadlees' Malini😆 She also heard his declaration of eternal love to Malini. Even when he attempted to explain how he felt for her in PD- she was surprised but accepted it just like he said _ "Tumne hamare dil main jagah bana liya". She probably thought - just like the little corner they gave her in Tripathi Nivas. How was she to know that he had moved her, potli and all, to be the queen of his room and home? That she is the first occupant of that jagah? That even Malini and her samsonite or delsey or VIP suitcase never actually occupied that space? I dont think he really explained anywhere that he never really loved Malini. Another thing is she probably thinks his feelings are transient- that whatever he feels for her is not eternal - she was as BK said - wrong place at wrong time and if she is out of the picture- his love for Malini will be re-triggered. I think she is also scared that in the face of the Tripathi family break down- he might turn around and lose his love for her and she probably cannot bear to see that

Oh d Rupi di have heard it for sure just watch her reaction.. she is fully in the frame in the wider shot and haven't moved .. PlZ SM ab itna rehab kar do.. didi ko toh pata lagne hi do🙏🙏🙏🙏 our poor bache would need all the support they can in face of didi ke emotional manipulations

I think people are really misunderstanding that Imlie’sguilt is only related to Malini Didi. The level of guilt that Imlie feels is due to her truly believing that she is the reason for all the unhappiness that is currently in the lives of Adi, Malini, Tripathis & even Chaturvedis.

Imlie holds herself accountable for bringing trouble in Adi’s life as a whole. Because of her NN’s desire to ruin her life, Adi’s life which was going on smoothly got brutally stormed. He was literally forced to get married to Imlie at gun point without any fault of his. Imlie till the last moments before marriage was trying to devise ways to get help to Adi & she failed & they got married. She already knew that he was in love with Malini & they were planning their wedding. So basically she ruined the happy life that he was living. That is why she was the one who came up with the idea to hide the truth of the marriage so that he can go on living his life as planned.

Once she came to Delhi, she saw his family who were so nice to her & immediately included her into their fold. She met Malini Didi who was also very nice to her. Adi kept on blaming her for the forced marriage in anger & kept on repeating that Malini is his love, his perfect life partner & Imlie would never be his wife. He made Malini the focal point of his happiness in front of Imlie. Also she saw how happy the Tripathis were with Malini being their bahu. So Malini basically became the reason of happiness in the lives of the Tripathi family & especially Adi for Imlie. This is where I think she put Malini Didi on a higher pedestal.

After that she made peace with living a life without the title of a wife but she was happy seeing Adi living a happy life with Didi. She felt that at least she had not ruined the life of Adi, Malini & Tripathis.Her guilt of being the reason for forced marriage decreased.

So now that Adi is pulling away from Malini Didi due to her,she sees Malini Didi being unhappy & equates it to everyone being unhappy.She believes since Didi was the reason for their happiness, if Didi leaves then all the happiness will also leave. Thus ultimately making her believe that she herself is the reason for Didi’s life being ruined along with Adi & his family. She is not able to handle this guilt. Hence her insistence on Adi continuing to stay with Didi & wanting to take herself out of the equation.

Yes, she is not understanding that Adi-Malini will not remain happy if they stay together as Adi has completely detached from Malini & cannot fulfil his responsibilities as a husband. But this is in large part due to her belief & naivety that everything will be fine if they both stay together. Its like she can’t see the larger picture because of her guilt of being the reason of everyone’s unhappiness.

Adi tries to make her understand this simple point but the feelings that she has for Adi make her feel that she can’t trust herself that if she takes the decision of telling the truth then it would be because she is being selfish in grabbing her own happiness. That is why she needs an outside perspective from a genuine well wisher who makes her understand the larger picture that she is currently ignoring.

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Agreed, this is exactly how I feel too. These two need some third person, a well wisher to ask them the right questions, help them navigate this mess. Koi bhi chalega ...anybody interested in applying for this job. Nishanth? Rupi? Aparna? Bk kaka? Audience is desperate to see this stalemate end. 😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I think people are really misunderstanding that Imlie’sguilt is only related to Malini Didi. The level of guilt that Imlie feels is due to her truly believing that she is the reason for all the unhappiness that is currently in the lives of Adi, Malini, Tripathis & even Chaturvedis.

Imlie holds herself accountable for bringing trouble in Adi’s life as a whole. Because of her NN’s desire to ruin her life, Adi’s life which was going on smoothly got brutally stormed. He was literally forced to get married to Imlie at gun point without any fault of his. Imlie till the last moments before marriage was trying to devise ways to get help to Adi & she failed & they got married. She already knew that he was in love with Malini & they were planning their wedding. So basically she ruined the happy life that he was living. That is why she was the one who came up with the idea to hide the truth of the marriage so that he can go on living his life as planned.

Once she came to Delhi, she saw his family who were so nice to her & immediately included her into their fold. She met Malini Didi who was also very nice to her. Adi kept on blaming her for the forced marriage in anger & kept on repeating that Malini is his love, his perfect life partner & Imlie would never be his wife. He made Malini the focal point of his happiness in front of Imlie. Also she saw how happy the Tripathis were with Malini being their bahu. So Malini basically became the reason of happiness in the lives of the Tripathi family & especially Adi for Imlie. This is where I think she put Malini Didi on a higher pedestal.

After that she made peace with living a life without the title of a wife but she was happy seeing Adi living a happy life with Didi. She felt that at least she had not ruined the life of Adi, Malini & Tripathis.Her guilt of being the reason for forced marriage decreased.

So now that Adi is pulling away from Malini Didi due to her,she sees Malini Didi being unhappy & equates it to everyone being unhappy.She believes since Didi was the reason for their happiness, if Didi leaves then all the happiness will also leave. Thus ultimately making her believe that she herself is the reason for Didi’s life being ruined along with Adi & his family. She is not able to handle this guilt. Hence her insistence on Adi continuing to stay with Didi & wanting to take herself out of the equation.

Yes, she is not understanding that Adi-Malini will not remain happy if they stay together as Adi has completely detached from Malini & cannot fulfil his responsibilities as a husband. But this is in large part due to her belief & naivety that everything will be fine if they both stay together. Its like she can’t see the larger picture because of her guilt of being the reason of everyone’s unhappiness.

Adi tries to make her understand this simple point but the feelings that she has for Adi make her feel that she can’t trust herself that if she takes the decision of telling the truth then it would be because she is being selfish in grabbing her own happiness. That is why she needs an outside perspective from a genuine well wisher who makes her understand the larger picture that she is currently ignoring.

Lovely post. I think rupi didi may be that external voice that makes constant attempts to help imlie understand the larger picture. I really hope she heard the entire truth and the makers are not pulling a fast one on us.

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

I love reading about their journey.

I think the first time he got knocked over by her post forced marriage was after his family taught she stole jewelry and imlie stopped by at his room to thank him for supporting her. There Aditya went on and on about how his family will trust only him and will throw her out. I think he crossed verbal limits by attacking her character. Imlie’s reply there stumped him. That was the first time Imlie gave him a befitting reply to his taunts after forced marriage. She said that she will hide the truth not because of him but because what her mom taught her. And that she also has a family that she is far away from, she lost everything but he has not lost anything. He is with his family and with his love. I think before forced marriage he enjoyed her company, there was warmth in their acquaintance. He gave her a nickname jhalli just in a couple of days of meeting her. But after forced marriage this was the first time Aditya was stumped, where he had no reply for her and she walked away from him with head held high. 😊

@bold- 'sigh' me too. If serials could be rated by the number of times scenes were rewatched- I think just my repeated views would tick it up to ten thousand 😆 They are just so awesome together. But its not just them- the whole story is so intriguing and fresh and there are so many lovely scenes and so many nuances entwined - its just beautiful.

Yes- I sometimes think that if that PD marriage had not happened- Adi might have gone back and kept looking at her pictures and remembered how cute she was. Prolly further delayed his looming Mun wedding 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oh didi have heard it for sure just watch her reaction.. she is fully in the frame in the wider shot and haven't moved .. PlZ SM ab itna rehab kar do.. didi ko toh pata lagne hi do🙏🙏🙏🙏 our poor bache would need all the support they can in face of didi ke emotional manipulations

I so hope Rupali gets on to their side and it is not what I’m thinking.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I so hope Rupali gets on to their side and it is not what I’m thinking.

I have a positive feeling given how much rups has been with ST in these past few days ke BTS. Let's hope humara chop na ho 🤣