And so the break begins - Page 6

Behno mere dimaag ka more popat head to spoilers thread plz for a surprise.. ab toh main didi ki tarah behish hone wali hoon SM humara acha imtihaan le rahi hai🙏😭😭😭😭😭

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I totally get your point, man....but@ bold....Imlie is doing all this out of a sense of panic....Malini leaving the house is too huge a deal to her....cuz she hasn't seen the previous iteration from this from Didi na😆....waise that reminds me ki thodi der baad Aparna was also like haan ok Malini tum jaao, bas yeh bataao waapis kab aaogi😆....

So yeah, for Imlie, Malini walking out like this is a big sign of a breaking of the relationship....and that is the one thing that she has been consistent on saying she can't bear cuz she will feel it's happening cuz of her. Think of the turn of events....Malini deliberately used Imlie to escalate the fight yesterday in such a way ki Imlie ko toh yehi lagega ki uske upar ladte ladte baat itni badi ho gayi ki Malini left.....so guilt na kare toh kya kare? And that is why she is doing extreme things like cutting off Adi from trying to tell others or poking at him ki abhi waapis lekar aao Malini ko and then going the distance of threatening him with leaving also😆

I get it....we are all feeling bad seeing Adi kaise trapped and suffocated feel kar raha hai....but Imlie bhi apne character ke hisaab se reaction de rahi hai.....lol it's not that she isn't concerned for Adi or doesn't feel his pain....but she cannot get over the way the breaking apart of relationships is happening before her eyes.

@bold exactly... The day before Imlie left for PD, she saw Adi & Malini having their movie night and Adi saying that Malini is his love of life. After that Adi came to PD, told her he accepts the marriage, told her he loves her and forcefully brings her back. She didn't know all the arguments Adi and Malini had before he left PD, she don't know the drama Malini did while Adi is is PD. After she came back, she saw Malini getting upset during holi and Adi spent that time with Malini, then the drama during the Pooja and the door knock scene, followed by her admission form argument and then yesterday's Sindoor arguement; from Imlie's point of view all these nasty fights happened due to Adi concern and love for Imlie. So, she obviously feels that all these are happening because if her and Adi can go back to being with Malini the way he was during the movie night. Until Adi clearly spells out what changed between then and now, and about his realization, it is very difficult for Imlie to come out of her guilt. Adi should first introspect how he could go from a lovey covey movie night with Malini where he declared his eternal love for her to his realization that be never loved Malini, and explain Imlie, it is very difficult for Imlie to change her stance.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

A lot of what Imlie is thinking about the current plight can be linked to her reaction when the Ts tried to come close to her during yesterday’s confrontation. She did not want her sindoor stained hands smudging their clothes. But in reality it was just a metaphor for how she thinks Aditya’s love for her is tainted to such an extent that the repercussions from that love can tear apart a family that she considers her own. A lot of this is Aditya’s mistake. He used Malini as a shield effectively for so long that when he decided Imlie was actually the right companion, he could not articulate why Malini was wrong.

While we all get frustrated with Imlie’s didi jaap, we should try not to overlook the fact that she is merely 19 although more battle worn than a 90 year old. She has a lot to learn and she will. But right now, she is doing what she thinks needs to be done so that she can sleep at night without any guilt. Sleep that is unfortunately not coming easy.

Ofcourse all of this is Aditya’s fault, it is his mess. His wrong decisions, denial, led to the mess all of them are in. No doubt about it. But the thing is, he is trying to clear the mess but Imlie just won’t let him. Imlie is only seeing the whole scenario from 1 person’s POV and that is Malini. Since Malini is not at fault as per Imlie, Malini should not suffer. So that means it is okay if Aditya suffers. This Imlie does not get. That by trying to save Malini some pain, she is causing pain to Aditya. And if Aditya is in pain, he can’t keep Malini happy so Mailini will be in pain anyways. This is what Aditya keeps on telling her that she is not willing to listen out of her own guilt. And round and round goes their every conversation on this topic ending in a stalemate. Today instead of asking Aditya that why the heck is he so easily giving up on a 7 years relationship, is it only because he does not love Malini or is there more to this? She chose to blackmail him to bring Malini back. I understand imlie is only 19 years old but she is unwilling to even consider what Aditya is saying.

Chalo let’s see what happens tomorrow. As per the precap we are going to get another Aditya imlie conversation. I hope this conversation leads somewhere instead of yet again ending in a stalemate

@AreYaar

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Also, I guess they think it's too hairy for them to get into the timeline for "when" Adi fell in love with Imlie😆.....he obviously didn't "change" simply in those 4 days in PD....but that's what Malini/family keep harping about ki Adi woh ek trip ke baad badal gaya......and Adi doesn't bother clarifying to anyone, heck not even to Imlie when he fell in love with her.....lol...realization happened in those 4 days, yeah but clearly falling in love was happening since much before....while he was continuing to lie to himself and to everyone else that Malini is the only one he loves....and wohi hairy part it seems the writers currently lack the courage to touch or they are just dragging for drama😆.

So yeah, then Imlie will stick to the basics she knows....that he's loved Malini for a looong time and bas Imlie beech mein aa gayi warna sab mast chal raha tha😆

@bold- he was definitely intrigued by her before their PD marriage- he couldn't stop clicking pictures of her 😆

The PD wedding pissed him off big time and to him she represented PD- he was so mad at her that he didn't bother to really 'see' her until she completely knocked him out by first refusing his pachaass hazaar and then knocking it into his head that he wasnt the only victim in the tamanche wedding and she had a lot more to lose than him. And I think when she saved him from the bottle bomb- she literally and figuratively swept him off his feet 😆. In the Dil Se scene, after that- where they lie on the ground and look at each other, there is a fire burning between them- I feel that's the moment when he was really wedded to her When he talks to her alone in the hospital after she recovers from the gun shot wound- I feel there is so much regret in his voice when he says- I can never give you the title of my wife. If you notice he is especially devout after that- after all Sitamayya had found him the best girl ever- the one who could make his soul dance and he was the bewakhoof who never appreciated her😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Behno mere dimaag ka more popat head to spoilers thread plz for a surprise.. ab toh main didi ki tarah behish hone wali hoon SM humara acha imtihaan le rahi hai🙏😭😭😭😭😭

didi's nails were traumatizing to watch, especially today when she held onto Imlie who was begging her to not leave and now this 🤢

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: +1....This....very much needed.

I'm hoping that them showing Aparna now actively wondering what went wrong/changed between him and Malini, may initiate some convo between her and Adi about it and he atleast gets it a little bit that this isn't just about blurting out his Imlie wala truth but also explaining to his family why him and Malini were always wrong for each other but he didn't realize it till just recently.

Imlie may seem like she is imposing on him about this but in her own tedha medha way, she is trying to make him see the full scope of the problem too....that this is bigger than just blurting out the truth and thinking that will be the end of it.

One more thing I hope he and Aparna introspect on is how wrong Malini is for the family also...especially after her recent tamashe. She was always a mismatch both for the Adi and the Ts' and how she sucks the life out of everything.

Adi-Imlie need a confidante on their side too pronto...and that needs to be someone from the Ts'. Whether that is Nishant or Rupi Di, doesn't matter. Left to their own devices, they will keep stalemating after fight over telling the truth and nothing will ever happen.😆 They need some guidance from a third person who is their true well wisher.

Originally posted by: prietyp

I thought in the original rupi do only thinks that adi and imli are having an affair at first and I’ll treats imli . After some time she will come to know the truth about marriage and that’s when she starts supporting imli ... is it correct ? I think here she gets to know the marriage truth already ?

Yeah which is why I'm unsure of that precap. Then again who knows this is Imlie maybe writers are planning something else.

Still I don't know why Rupi Di would know so soon, or even if they'd show us all this in the precap itself. It also seems cut together to me, not a full scene per se. We can only know for sure tomorrow. But that would be something, having Rupi Di only hear enough to think they are having an affair. Honestly maybe Imlie can handle more ill treatment but I don't know if the viewers can.

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

TFS ...

didi's nails were traumatizing to watch, especially today when she held onto Imlie who was begging her to not leave and now this 🤢

lol mujhe lga sirf mujhe hi didi k nails dekh k dar lagta hai 😆

Originally posted by: Sunnygrin1

@bold- he was definitely intrigued by her before their PD marriage- he couldn't stop clicking pictures of her 😆

The PD wedding pissed him off big time and to him she represented PD- he was so mad with her that he didn't bother to really 'see' her until she completely knocked him out by first refusing his pachaass hazaar and then knocking it into his head that he wasnt the only victim in the tamanche wedding and she had a lot more to lose. And I think when she saved him from the bottle bomb- she literally and figuratively swept him off his feet 😆. In the Dil se scene, after where they lie on the ground and look at each other, there is a fire burning between them- I feel that's the moment when he was really wedded to her When he talks to her alone in the hospital after she recovers from the gun shot wound- I feel there is so much regret in his voice when he says- I can never give you the title of my wife. If you notice he is especially devout after that- after all Sitamayya had found him the best girl ever- the one who could make his soul dance and he was the bewakhoof who never appreciated her😆

I love reading about their journey.

I think the first time he got knocked over by her post forced marriage was after his family taught she stole jewelry and imlie stopped by at his room to thank him for supporting her. There Aditya went on and on about how his family will trust only him and will throw her out. I think he crossed verbal limits by attacking her character. Imlie’s reply there stumped him. That was the first time Imlie gave him a befitting reply to his taunts after forced marriage. She said that she will hide the truth not because of him but because what her mom taught her. And that she also has a family that she is far away from, she lost everything but he has not lost anything. He is with his family and with his love. I think before forced marriage he enjoyed her company, there was warmth in their acquaintance. He gave her a nickname jhalli just in a couple of days of meeting her. But after forced marriage this was the first time Aditya was stumped, where he had no reply for her and she walked away from him with head held high. 😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I totally get your point, man....but@ bold....Imlie is doing all this out of a sense of panic....Malini leaving the house is too huge a deal to her....cuz she hasn't seen the previous iteration from this from Didi na😆....waise that reminds me ki thodi der baad Aparna was also like haan ok Malini tum jaao, bas yeh bataao waapis kab aaogi😆....

So yeah, for Imlie, Malini walking out like this is a big sign of a breaking of the relationship....and that is the one thing that she has been consistent on saying she can't bear cuz she will feel it's happening cuz of her. Think of the turn of events....Malini deliberately used Imlie to escalate the fight yesterday in such a way ki Imlie ko toh yehi lagega ki uske upar ladte ladte baat itni badi ho gayi ki Malini left.....so guilt na kare toh kya kare? And that is why she is doing extreme things like cutting off Adi from trying to tell others or poking at him ki abhi waapis lekar aao Malini ko and then going the distance of threatening him with leaving also😆

I get it....we are all feeling bad seeing Adi kaise trapped and suffocated feel kar raha hai....but Imlie bhi apne character ke hisaab se reaction de rahi hai.....lol it's not that she isn't concerned for Adi or doesn't feel his pain....but she cannot get over the way the breaking apart of relationships is happening before her eyes.

Oh hello no...I never said that she isn't concerned for him or doesn't feel for him no no.. I just want her to I guess leave him for atleast a bit before continuously hammering him ke jao jao jai jai when he has been telling her ke ab kuch nahi hai that don't interfere.. I totally get she is only trying to solve and eject herself thinking ke woh na reason bane kisi ke ghar todne ka kisi ki curse ka and all that.. isi liye to Kaha mukhe koi shikayat nahi hai..injust feel sorry for her too taking it all on herself too