Pyar ka Bukhaar - Page 7

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Wohi toh imlie is tad lucky in this thus matter ke he is there to guide her and tell her ke denial won't make anything easier and he knows ke what she feels and he wants her to admit.. adi was rather alone in coming to that acceptance isme bhi yeb isko bacha hi raha hai uss hurt se ke better come out and make things easier for us .. he is protecting her from his experience and I found that endearing..and yes isko toh bohat experience hai..

And yes as I also said ke agar dekh leti na paas aa ke toh hil na paati.. she just thought he is resting haha while he was tadpooing for her ke aaye aur delhe mujhe longing for her so acutely.

Isko yeh lagta hi rahega his main problem is acceptance nahi de sakti toh normally safest wala trust do.. 🤣 and it is not like imlie is not giving him that heck I don't think it is about bharosa for her woh toh isko hai hi adi pe.. this is ab holding back to not let herself come.to that point where she can't hold back.. this is self-preservation for her but woh nahi ho paa raha as adi ka khayal bas gaya hai and woh pyar hai iska.. but yeh maanti nahi hai ab.. whole adi ko lagta hai she doesn't trust and thinks he is involved with Malini too iss liye hold back karti hai so he keeps giving safaiyaan.. 😆

@bold: Exactly😆....it really isn't about bharosa. Imlie does trust him....what she doesn't trust is her own resolve to manage to stay away from him😆.....this pain that hits her so hard on seeing him with Malini is not the pain of betrayal....it's the pain of heartbreak....and it hits her very hard in those moments how much she actually loves him and can't be without him, phir yeh bhi yaad aata hai ki being with him means hurting Malini......toh she instantly rushes to tamp it all down, withdraw herself and try not to think about any of it😆.

Adi is presuming it's cuz she thinks there is still something between him and Malini toh he starts giving clarifications😆....which Imlie doesn't bother correcting cuz if she did, toh usko apni bhi puri baat bataani padegi and Adi will seize on the point ki dekha, you can't live without me either😆....that terrace wala scene actually showed pretty clearly ki issue kya hai.....Adi felt hurt that Imlie has withdrawn from him and he thought it's cuz she saw him with Malini and she's still not understanding what he's trying to tell her about making a decision together, while Imlie in her head was like mujhe bas itna samajh aaya hai that I need to stay away from you.....lol

Apni Jhalli is definitely grappling with the avalanche of feelings that she's never felt before....😆...even though she knows she loves him, jab usko is level ka saamne se dard feel hota hai, it overwhelms her and reminds her ki it's easier said than done to think she can be ok with parceling him off to Malini....lol...actually ismein bhi funny hai ki she's kinda mirroring how Adi was in running away from the strength of his feelings....jab emotion bahut zyada feel hone lage toh try to shut down and withdraw....lol he did that for so long in Imlie's case also na.....hid his feelings through deflections and sidestepping. Isliye woh Imlie ko bol raha hai yeh sab doesn't work and you only torture yourself before having to accept the truth of your feelings😆.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I actually liked Aditya’s “humne bhi saat saal diye” dialogue today. Even in that close to delirious state he pushed back at Malini’s one sided accusation. He is saying such big things and didi is on about ok take your medicine

LOL yes, that whole scene actually had Adi saying a bunch of big things that Didi totally dismissed 😕😆

Ek toh yeh, "Humne bhi saat saal diye" line....on the surface it might seem like he was saying ki "I gave you seven years too, now please spare me"😆.....but as you said, it was more about him pushing back against her constant jataana of how she tolerated him for 7 years, how much she invested herself in this relationship.....she always keeps making it sound like she was the only one who was carrying it for 7 years.....so that is why Adi pushed back, even if it was in a weary tone...to say that he also gave 7 years to this relationship.....it's like he has to remind her that he was there too since she insists on spinning it all into only being about herself.

The other interesting bit was him saying, "Yeh sahi hahin hai..." and then quickly amending it to, "Yeh sahi waqt nahin hai"😆....as he tried to extract himself from her clinging....lol you could feel the extreme discomfort in him that was pushing him to start saying pretty explicitly what he was feeling in his mind....that this is all wrong now....her touching him feels wrong and he pretty much said it, even if he tried to cover it up with "waqt sahi nahin hai".....any normal person would have comprehended....but this is Didi😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I guess usko bharose wala assurance de degi ke she has that uski baat nahi hai.. and haq bhi is iska.. adi itne main khush ho jaayega.. heck woh toh sirf 2 ghaadi paas aa ke khadi ho jaaye and yeh theek ho jaayega.. ingues she will talk about the vaada and maybe talk to him why she is so stuck on.. aone kisi twisted theory ke saath samjha degi isko .. and that will be enough for him.. right now he needs to know from her ke woh hai adi ke saath har kadam.. it is a role reversal. Maanga nahi hai but hona toh chahiye na and adi toh do expect that ab dena bhi chahta hai and wants that too.. so de degi yeh isko aisa koi hosla to get him on his feet.

It is rather amazing thay it runs down to communication hi the guy who has no communication with malini for 7 saal barely even realizes that and they both think they are ideal or well thought of that in the past but ab ek din sirf ek.din communication cut hota hai and dil ka rog lag jaata hai . Sadma kills him

WORD😆.....that is really the most amazing part in all this....it really does come down to communication. The guy has not known communication in a 7 year long relationship but Imlie ke saath pehli baar experience kiya hai the connection that comes with communication....and now he just can't live without it.....it's like a lifeline for him.....Imlie ke saath communication, interaction....he needs that more than he needs air to breathe😆.....isliye jaan hi nikal rahi hai iski jab Imlie ne woh nahin diya ise.

As for what Imlie will say to him....lol yes kuch apne Imliya style mein hi coat karke bolegi but some level of assurance she will give to him....he will not get back on his feet otherwise.😆.....he needs that much from her abhi.....so yes, to your point, bharosa is very likely since that was the last thing he was stuck on with her too.

Originally posted by: SelctivMumbaite

Lovely analysis as usual AY.. enjoy reading everyone's analysis and POVs...everyone's already said so nothing more to add except...I m more impressed with the direction, story telling and actors with each episode...GM is exceptional...take a bow and what a character Aditya...kya banda hai ye 😆..as AY aptly says

1 point though...which is disjointed...when they showed Adi taking Imlie to the hospital on the cart they showed him searching his bag...kahan gayi hamari painkiller...and finds the crocin to give to Imlie !...isint that right?

Guess we can overlook the creative liberty ...kuch to dikhana tha Imlie to adi tak pahunchane ke liye 😆

Hey thanks :)

@bold: LOL oh good catch.....but then I don't know if it's that much of a stretch for him to carry a general painkiller in his travel bag for any emergencies versus him resisting medicines while being sick😆.....cuz they made it sound today like he rarely falls sick😆....and usually likes to fight through any illness.....haha

Chalo creative liberty hi sahi, bas Imlie darwaaza toh paar kar le with the special kaadha she made for him😆....lol whole epi they made us wait and wahin khatam kar diya scene😆

Aise toh Imlie herself seemed to hate drinking kaadha but ab aaraam se banaa ke lekar jaa rahi hai for Adi😆

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Hum to bahut late ho gaye aaj...

And AY rightly put...Didi nahi Babu sahib lost his balance today...And as again you pointed out,,that was some damn good make up Gashmeer had put on....😆

Waise I thought you would be naming your thread as "The FARQ is BACK"...

The Farq...then and now...and interesting thread that would be,,,,

But before that I just need to say 2 things that the ladies of the T house said...( Malini is Didi and not lady...so no ...not what she said)

Badki kaki replying to Didi " Pyaar mohabbat ki baatein to isey hazam hi nahi hoti"

And THAT was one master stroke,,,becharey ko Pyaar mohabbat hazam hi nahi hua....bukhar chadha gaya...

And what Mamma Tripathi said " tu de aa...tujhe kucch nahi bolega" ...so however we think that Ts are deaf, dumb and blind, Mumma Tripathi did notice that these days unka Adi is not getting angry on Imaliya....😆

Coming to BS..apparently the two women in his life have got a stronger constitution than him,,,dono going strong and this poor guy has "bistar pakad liya"...Imlie handled his rejection and anger for months and this guy couldnt handle it for a day....

AY...you beautifully analyzed the phases of the Bukhar!!

The scene continued from yesterday...Didi has gotten desperate and frankly, as much as I loathe her she deserves more than "humnein bhi saat saal diye hai" .. but then as soon as you feel sympathy for Didi, she does something that repels you....You see your husband changing sides all night and you do nothing and in the morning after getting all decked up for work you say "Mein chhuti le leti hoon?' Didi tera kya hoga

coming back to Bs..as usual,,uska agenda khatam nahi hua...freeing himself from the deathly clutches of didi he runs towards Imaliya to see her hurt..and that was one beautiful scene...Adi again taking it out on Imlie...ye banda kahi ka gussa kahin nikalta hai humesha..

"Tumhein mahaan banna hai" LOL taunts bhi hai..and finally the pending agenda "Tum ne khud ne form kyun nahi bhara" ...and he manages to offend Imli this time....

and it is this naarazgi which will haunt him through the day...

He comes home straight to Imlie (on the terrace) 😆and asks her about her admission and gets answers in monosyllables which ofcourse irritates him to no bound and that is where her seeming indifference rattles him...BS...she dealt with your indifference and hate for so many months...tumhara thoda to banta hai☺️and to show his Farq he starts collecting clothes like Imlie😆

In this scene actually it was Imlie who sounded more mature...she knows that he is suffering because of that stupid promise....she is trying to keep away but then how can he...he has put a rider to it na...that he cant function like this with her in front of his eyes and he wont let her go either...

So while Imlie tries ot be normal in front of the family, BS fails...or rather he doesnt even bother...eating away with his saddu face ..;poor guy feels so left out as Imlie shares the details of her admission process...something which she had refused ot do with him when he had asked...

and the obvious attempt at attracting her attention with Bhindi ki sabzi...Is this the first time I have seen him sending her on some domestic chore? (except the one time when he sent her away to get biscuits but that was probably to avoid bickering with her) I have never seen Adi asking either Didi or Imlie for that matter to serve him or to make something for him!!

But poor guy doesnt get Bhindi also as Imlie sends Sundar to serve the same...LOL nobody notices that he is denying the sabzi he just asked for...

And then the kitchen convo...his complete surrender in the statement..that he can live through this pain of hiding the truth and living this lie ..but he cannot bear the indifference...

Nishant noticing the awkwarness and then dissing it...ab kya bolein in logo ko!!]

I really wish for a decent conversation between Adi Imlie tomorrow....

Thanks, Srush! And lovely analysis from you as always too :)

Haha loved what you pointed about T ladies ka perception....writers cleverly put in these lines when they want to point to the irony of the ladies unwittingly stating the truth about Adi-Imlie without knowing unka kya haal hai😆

LOL Farak wagairah we already analyzed during the PD track when Adi was chhatpataaoing daily to know ki Imlie ko uske jaane se farak padta hai ki nahin😆.....aaj bukhaar took precedence.....haha

LOL also at you pointing out that both the ladies in his life seem to have a stronger constitution.....haha Didi toh I think mauke ke hisaab se apna beemaari card play karti hain but yes, Imliya is definitely made of a pretty strong constitution....Babusahib se toh bahut zyada jhelne ki capacity rakhti hai😆

Re: the "humne saat saal diye" line....you know any other situation, yeah, I'd have felt she deserved better than having to hear that....but the fact that she herself constantly rubs it in his face that she gave him 7 years is where I've started losing sympathy for her on that front......baat chaahe phir bhi hurtful hi hai bolne ko....but I can understand why Adi ended up saying it in his weariness.

Haha Imlie is trying to be mature in her own way....yes, she does take on that role sometimes jab Babusahib zyada ziddi mode mein jaate hain.....PD mein bhi she was the one in that zone when he was pouting and throwing tantrums about her having left him😆

Chances toh likely hain of a good Adi-Imlie convo in the next epi...but dekhte hain what we get.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thanks, Srush! And lovely analysis from you as always too :)

Haha loved what you pointed about T ladies ka perception....writers cleverly put in these lines when they want to point to the irony of the ladies unwittingly stating the truth about Adi-Imlie without knowing unka kya haal hai😆

LOL Farak wagairah we already analyzed during the PD track when Adi was chhatpataaoing daily to know ki Imlie ko uske jaane se farak padta hai ki nahin😆.....aaj bukhaar took precedence.....haha

LOL also at you pointing out that both the ladies in his life seem to have a stronger constitution.....haha Didi toh I think mauke ke hisaab se apna beemaari card play karti hain but yes, Imliya is definitely made of a pretty strong constitution....Babusahib se toh bahut zyada jhelne ki capacity rakhti hai😆

Re: the "humne saat saal diye" line....you know any other situation, yeah, I'd have felt she deserved better than having to hear that....but the fact that she herself constantly rubs it in his face that she gave him 7 years is where I've started losing sympathy for her on that front......baat chaahe phir bhi hurtful hi hai bolne ko....but I can understand why Adi ended up saying it in his weariness.

I completely get that she has been on that monologue since forever...I guess she is stuck on that since Adi has stopped the attention giving...that is what she demanded as she leeched over him all over...Poor Adi...he was almost bachoing his izzat it seemed....But jokes apart...it is a sad sad situation...And as I said, just when you feel sorry for her...she saunters all dressed up and asks her husband "Karwate badalte rahi ...saari raat tum" and I didnt bother until now🐷

Haha Imlie is trying to be mature in her own way....yes, she does take on that role sometimes jab Babusahib zyada ziddi mode mein jaate hain.....PD mein bhi she was the one in that zone he was pouting and throwing tantrums about her having left him😆

hmmm...and that poor guy is on Bharosa aspect...as if Imlie is doubting him...though he may not be completely off the mark...she WAS disturbed with the nearness of Adi and Didi...But Imli being Imli managed to shrug it off...atleast on the face of it ....But he did take it very dearly...and the fact that Imlie could retain a tough exterior and go on without him bothered him, I think more than anything...He is so damn afraid that if she loses that sensitization of being affected by the events, they may be stuck in this forever,,,,and also the fact that she is distancing herself...getting ready for another flight...He needs her to get rattled by his staying with MAlini...Needs to accept that it affects her...Needs to trust him...Needs to say it out loud to him...It is THEN he can take the matter in his hands and make everything alright...(although HOW is still a big HOW!)

Chances toh likely hain of a good Adi-Imlie convo in the next epi...but dekhte hain what we get.

@ AY...About the FARQ wagairah...I know...I read you older threads( some of them) thats why I know that Farq se tumko, and other members who posted, ko bhi bohot lagaav hai😆hence the reference

Superb analysis AY as usual 👍🏼

Coming to the episode it was fab ...here didi was all desperate to get adi attention but failed to do it ...rather adi has to try to get attention from imlie latter 😆seriously imlie slient treatment is killing adi ..where as moonji after fighting is back with her normal life this surprised me ...after 2-3 she will be again back with her haq jaap 🤢

Here adi too is in bharosa jaap but I don't blame imlie at all due past things and didi pyaar she is herself resisting to stay away from him ....she has that bharosa but adi thinking she doubting him ..but imlie has made her mind to stay away ..but the result was adi babu sick next day ..

It's going to be interesting how she tune him I guess she will just give assurance of bharosa but promise se azaadi nahi milne wali bs ko looking at moons craziness ....😆so abhi aur bhi jhelna hai usko ....bhukhar se bahar ane doh phir dekho phir naya siyapaa..till the time he burst out because aaj bhi he said abhi tak tumhari sui wahin hai ..didi pyaar🤢

Waise bs j with nishu can be seen because he was expecting she should share all her fun with him ..ekdum hubby mode mein tha ..that look on dinning table ..oh so you started ignoring me i feel adi ek chote ziddi bachhe jaisa hai apni baat manvana acche se atta hai 😆

In t house all are attention seekers I feel ...imlie ko chod 😆

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

@ AY...About the FARQ wagairah...I know...I read you older threads( some of them) thats why I know that Farq se tumko, and other members who posted, ko bhi bohot lagaav hai😆hence the reference

Haha yes, hum log toh farak games ke baad DARD games bhi expect kar rahe the but woh dhang se huye nahin😆.....yeh toh waapis farak pe aa gaye😆.....Jaise Imlie ki sui Malini didi pe atki rehti hai, Adi ki sui bhi waapis farak pe hi aati rehti hai😆

Originally posted by: Angel_Shweta

I skipped DC and dadi's scenes like as always. 😛 Adi tried to convince imlie that nothing happened between him and malini. She can trust him. I am not getting this imlie, why all of a sudden started maintaining distance from adi. She always deny her feelings to adi, but deep inside, she does get affected by it. What's the point in ignoring adi like that? Yeh toh khud se jhuth bolna ho gya.

LOL Imlie khud se jhoot nahin bol sakti kya? 😆 Adi akele ka copyright thodi na hai uspe😆

Point is, she's struggling with her feelings....she fears ki agar accept kar li toh aur bhi mushkil ho jaayega to keep Adi away.....isliye even though they both know how she feels, Imlie tries to avoid directly accepting the truth of her feelings for him.....once you accept, it's very hard to step back....as Adi very well knows having just been through it himself😆.

Ignoring Adi is just a short term solution cuz she doesn't know what else to do....lol she feels that she is becoming the reason for their fights, isliye trying to step back.

Oh you should have watched Dev wala scene....uska popat kar diya AC ne even without being there😆.....she smashed the phone he wanted to gift to Imlie🤣.....I was happy cuz I didn't want Imlie to be getting a phone from this guy :P