Pyar ka Bukhaar - Page 8

Originally posted by: ammysamy

I post my views very rarely but love to read every ones analysis and views. but todays Adi's dialogue
" Jab tak hum tumhare aankhon ke samne hai tum humein nahi bhula paogi, aur hum kabhi tumhien apne se dur nahi hone denge" reminded me Sunil shetty's famous dialogue " Hum tumhein bhool jaye yeh ho nahi sakta, Aur tum humein bhool jao yeh hum hone nahi denge" 😆😆

But seriously Adi needs to realize that It was his decision to marry Malini and It should be his decision to end his relation ship with Malini. When he knows that He cant fulfill Malini's expectations why the hell he is asking Imlie's permission to tell the truth to Malini. Imlie is a teenager but Adi is mature enough to do the right thing. Adi should realize that even if Imlie doesnt want to tell the truth he should tell truth to Malini not for his sake but for Malini's sake because she deserves to know the truth

LOL he's not asking Imlie's permission to tell the truth, he's trying to get her on the same page as him so that they can tell the FULL truth in one go together. The truth revelation will impact both of them and he wants to handle it with a united front.

That said, even I feel that he needs to extract himself from Malini regardless of when Imlie makes her decision.....and it's not just cuz Malini deserves to know the truth....he himself is dying daily in suffocation dragging the dead weight of this relationship with Malini....so he needs to end it for his own sanity too even if Malini wants to be deliberately clueless. He has given pretty clear signs to Malini that he doesn't want to be with her, doesn't want her touching him.....after this, anyone would get a clue that it's over but obviously not Malini who will still keep throwing herself at him somehow.

But yeh drama hai toh drag karenge 😆....we have to wait to see when circumstances finally build up to the truth coming out in some form....tab tak sab log tadapte rahenge😆

Adi's dialogue about hum tumhein khud se door jaane hi nahin denge.....lol itne intense aashiqui waale dialogues bhi he says in such a calm tone😆

Agreed proposal acceptance ke baad woh poora chut jayega with no lagaam at all 😆

So kal sirf bharosa session hoga ..😆j

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha yes, hum log toh farak games ke baad DARD games bhi expect kar rahe the but woh dhang se huye nahin😆.....yeh toh waapis farak pe aa gaye😆.....Jaise Imlie ki sui Malini didi pe atki rehti hai, Adi ki sui bhi waapis farak pe hi aati rehti hai😆

Atte ab saath saath honge. Farak ki wajah se dard Hoga😉 and we are getting the sample.. 😆 mere umeed bhadh rahi hai but plz koi mujhe reminder do yahan samuhik chop is the norm😆 so control

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Atte ab saath saath honge. Farak ki wajah se dard Hoga😉 and we are getting the sample.. 😆 mere umeed bhadh rahi hai but plz koi mujhe reminder do yahan samuhik chop is the norm😆 so control

LMAO haan Control Fary, Control :P

Expectations low rakho and hope for the best 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Exactly😆....it really isn't about bharosa. Imlie does trust him....what she doesn't trust is her own resolve to manage to stay away from him😆.....this pain that hits her so hard on seeing him with Malini is not the pain of betrayal....it's the pain of heartbreak....and it hits her very hard in those moments how much she actually loves him and can't be without him, phir yeh bhi yaad aata hai ki being with him means hurting Malini......toh she instantly rushes to tamp it all down, withdraw herself and try not to think about any of it😆.

Adi is presuming it's cuz she thinks there is still something between him and Malini toh he starts giving clarifications😆....which Imlie doesn't bother correcting cuz if she did, toh usko apni bhi puri baat bataani padegi and Adi will seize on the point ki dekha, you can't live without me either😆....that terrace wala scene actually showed pretty clearly ki issue kya hai.....Adi felt hurt that Imlie has withdrawn from him and he thought it's cuz she saw him with Malini and she's still not understanding what he's trying to tell her about making a decision together, while Imlie in her head was like mujhe bas itna samajh aaya hai that I need to stay away from you.....lol

Apni Jhalli is definitely grappling with the avalanche of feelings that she's never felt before....😆...even though she knows she loves him, jab usko is level ka saamne se dard feel hota hai, it overwhelms her and reminds her ki it's easier said than done to think she can be ok with parceling him off to Malini....lol...actually ismein bhi funny hai ki she's kinda mirroring how Adi was in running away from the strength of his feelings....jab emotion bahut zyada feel hone lage toh try to shut down and withdraw....lol he did that for so long in Imlie's case also na.....hid his feelings through deflections and sidestepping. Isliye woh Imlie ko bol raha hai yeh sab doesn't work and you only torture yourself before having to accept the truth of your feelings😆.

Yeah isme bhi role reversal😆 wohi toh I was amused by how they were on the dot with what is happening in that terrace scene in their own heads and then adi voiced it loudly while she stuck with oops I gotta stay out. It is hilarious indeed ke ek dusre ko samjhte hain I mean he isn't wrong in thinking and saying ke she feels bad seeing them together too but then he misses the train a bit with does that mean she doesn't trust me and she is like jo aap samjhein kahein🤣 no safaai at all go with what you think is right caz that means she doesn't have to ponder over the depth of her own feelings which are very troubling and confusing for her right now.. caz isko bhi Manana nahi hai abhi ke she has become so attached to him and itna deeply pyar ho gaya hai caz woh manana means didi se bewafaai in imlie ka head. Real jhallas they are haha

I do not know if I am the only one but I am getting so much of sadistic pleasure seeing Aditya like this especially as he got this on himself and for all his treatment of Imlie in the inital days.

The person I really felt bad for yesterday was Imlie especially when they throw her age at us and then the cute scene where she was so proud of herself for the "Good Afternoon". It really shows how young and innocent she is to be is excited about these small thing but is still so awesomely navigating the huge curveball that life has thrown at her. That girl is so overwhelmed with her own emotions that she is not able to control, Aditya's feelings and care that she never expected and Malini's pain that she finds herself responsible. I think her insisting that Aditya should stay with Malini is her clutching at straws as that is the only thing that make sense to her. It fits with her "rishta hain nibana hain" theory plus she cannot see anyone in pain so being the self sacrificng person she is, she thinks Malini happiness is the only thing important. Hence Aditya staying with Malini is the most simplest solution in her mind. Rest all, especially her feeling and the concept of hurting someone for her own happiness is beyond her scope of understanding so following BBSB own road of the past, her current mantra is ignorance and suppression. BBSB ka kuch to influence banta hain bhale ghalat ho. 😛

Aditya is more matured and more practical of the two and sees things in a different manner. He knows what the right path is but he cannot take the steps without Imlie and hence his struggle to get her on board. But the thing is the journey that he took months to complete from the ambulance scene to PD, he wants Imlie to complete it in couple of days. Hence he throws a new word at her everyday and once she accepts it, he moves on to the next one. First was haq, then was saath and now is "bharaso". Impatient much babusaheb, bechari ko saas to lene do 😆.

Anyways they have got the bharosa word and it is not that Imlie does not trust BBSB. It looks like the big reveal is not far as this bharosa that he is demanding is her belief that irrespective of the circumstances, situation, decision that he might have to take, she needs to believe that he will always love her, be loyal to her and never leave her. I think he knows that once the truth is revealed, circumstances might force him to stay with Malini mostly for her health, family pressure and his own guilt. Loyalties, trust, love will all be tested and hence he wants Imlie at a stage where she completely believes and trust in his love for her and how important she is for him. Right now she is not there and hence his whole struggle with her. Lets see what the kada conversation gives us 😛

Re Malini: I am not sure if the makers are doing this purposely but the moment I start feeling sympathy for her they show her as this queen not at all worried about lowly affairs of people connected to her especially the one that she was fighting for just yesterday.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LMAO haan Control Fary, Control :P

Expectations low rakho and hope for the best 😆

Thanks for bringing expectations down ji🙏🤪

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Hey thanks :)

@bold: LOL oh good catch.....but then I don't know if it's that much of a stretch for him to carry a general painkiller in his travel bag for any emergencies versus him resisting medicines while being sick😆.....cuz they made it sound today like he rarely falls sick😆....and usually likes to fight through any illness.....haha

Chalo creative liberty hi sahi, bas Imlie darwaaza toh paar kar le with the special kaadha she made for him😆....lol whole epi they made us wait and wahin khatam kar diya scene😆

Aise toh Imlie herself seemed to hate drinking kaadha but ab aaraam se banaa ke lekar jaa rahi hai for Adi😆

Hahah yeah I think woh bag wali medicine is not that far a stretch heck woh toh sab rakh lete hain just in case things go bad esp if you are traveling in rural areas.. more like kisi ko bhi zaroorat padh sakti hai kabhi bhi way main they never showed him taking that ..

Hahah mujhe toh khada pe zyada hassi aayi caz thide din pehle isne malini ke.liye bhi zehar pee lia tha thoda bohat and rest imlie ko pila dia tha do much for family going nahi Peete and imlie ka hain face caz she saw him drink that isi liye banaya bhi shayad 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: pamk06

Re Malini: I am not sure if the makers are doing this purposely but the moment I start feeling sympathy for her they show her as this queen not at all worried about lowly affairs of people connected to her especially the one that she was fighting for just yesterday.

LOL waise I think Srushti was also mentioning this point in her analysis ki waise toh Malini bada dikhaati hai that she is dying cuz Adi isn't looking at her, touching her....but phir agle hi minute saj dhaj ke ready bhi ho jaati hai baahar jaane ko ya ghar mein ghoomne ko😆. It is disconnected to say the least....your state of mind reflects in your appearance at some point....Malini for all her claims that she is so upset with Adi right now, barely seems to feel it in her daily routine.....she has all the time in the world to focus on dressing up😆, and then even managing to leave him in such a sickly state after showing some token worry😕....mujhe yeh sab nahin samajh aata....maybe it's just me *shrugs*

As for Adi....lol well we all know patience will never be one of Babusahib ke strong suits😆.....he sees the solution as obvious even more so after Imlie has given him these signs of her feelings for him....PD mein toh isne khud ko manaa liya ki Imlie mujhse door reh sakti hai....lol but ab nahin maanega.....and he has never been one to see the point of beating around the bush when you know the truth😆. But yes, he will still need to give Imlie some time cuz this is all very new and overwhelming for her too.....faith was easy cuz she has lived with it all her life....but the volatility of these feelings and her fear of hurting anyone she cares about like Malini....these are two complicated things holding her back so she's trying to block it all out of self-preservation....focusing on college whatever little she can....but ab life toh complicated ho hi gayi hai, Imliya....kya karein.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I do not know if I am the only one but I am getting so much of sadistic pleasure seeing Aditya like this especially as he got this on himself and for all his treatment of Imlie in the inital days.

The person I really felt bad for yesterday was Imlie especially when they throw her age at us and then the cute scene where she was so proud of herself for the "Good Afternoon". It really shows how young and innocent she is to be is excited about these small thing but is still so awesomely navigating the huge curveball that life has thrown at her. That girl is so overwhelmed with her own emotions that she is not able to control, Aditya's feelings and care that she never expected and Malini's pain that she finds herself responsible. I think her insisting that Aditya should stay with Malini is her clutching at straws as that is the only thing that make sense to her. It fits with her "rishta hain nibana hain" theory plus she cannot see anyone in pain so being the self sacrificng person she is, she thinks Malini happiness is the only thing important. Hence Aditya staying with Malini is the most simplest solution in her mind. Rest all, especially her feeling and the concept of hurting someone for her own happiness is beyond her scope of understanding so following BBSB own road of the past, her current mantra is ignorance and suppression. BBSB ka kuch to influence banta hain bhale ghalat ho. 😛

Aditya is more matured and more practical of the two and sees things in a different manner. He knows what the right path is but he cannot take the steps without Imlie and hence his struggle to get her on board. But the thing is the journey that he took months to complete from the ambulance scene to PD, he wants Imlie to complete it in couple of days. Hence he throws a new word at her everyday and once she accepts it, he moves on to the next one. First was haq, then was saath and now is "bharaso". Impatient much babusaheb, bechari ko saas to lene do 😆.

Anyways they have got the bharosa word and it is not that Imlie does not trust BBSB. It looks like the big reveal is not far as this bharosa that he is demanding is her belief that irrespective of the circumstances, situation, decision that he might have to take, she needs to believe that he will always love her, be loyal to her and never leave her. I think he knows that once the truth is revealed, circumstances might force him to stay with Malini mostly for her health, family pressure and his own guilt. Loyalties, trust, love will all be tested and hence he wants Imlie at a stage where she completely believes and trust in his love for her and how important she is for him. Right now she is not there and hence his whole struggle with her. Lets see what the kada conversation gives us 😛

Re Malini: I am not sure if the makers are doing this purposely but the moment I start feeling sympathy for her they show her as this queen not at all worried about lowly affairs of people connected to her especially the one that she was fighting for just yesterday.

On phone so can't write much...but in italics( can't Bolden them ....don't know why) is really awesome. Word to everything you said