Unpopular opinion - Page 8

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Has Virat ever told Sai, PP is my brother's wife, nothing more? For Sai, that question remains unanswered. She can also think his closeness during Holi was because he was drunk.

Virat has told even recently, she's my friend nothing more than that & stopped her from assuming more in less words.

Sai has conveniently forgotten the Holi part, she was busy planning & plotting.

Originally posted by: basherz

He almost confessed to Sai, he loves her & has always kept Pakhi at a distance - at least since the hand holding episode.

Like I said earlier, Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat & seeing Virat supporting or stopping Pakhi riles her up. She hopes to get a reaction from Virat, whenever she raises Virakhi & being an alpha male - he's not going to cave so easily, her reverse psychology - works in reverse with Virat 😆

Almost confessed in which episode. If its holi, Sai was not there. But I guess more than him confessing to Sai about his love , he needs to tell her he doesnt love Pakhi. He has too many times told her in words otherwise. So she needs it in verbatim. My opinion. Being in her condition, I would want it for myself as well.

@bold I agree, she does that with Virat. Even Virat has done that at times the reverse psychology thing.

Atleast the dialogues are civilised here 😆. I will give this dialogue as a result of blind copy pasting of KD. Bdw how did Devyani got to know about Virakhi love story? 😆. Because in KD, Kumu told that Rono and Rupkotha had some intu-pintu (a term used for an affair not actually love). And about Sai's dialogues to Virat was also copy paste. Here atleast she told best friend, waha toh naam pakad pakad ke insult huwa. "Rupkotha Devi" (we use Devi as a civilized surname for a woman with high regards, and Imon used as a sarcasm). 😆 and the dialogues too was not too good. Yaha toh reaction bohot mild laga. Atleast we got Virat's reaction like kya baat kar rahi ho 🤣. Waha Rono toh didn't even bother to clear the fact.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Exactly!

What does she think neighbors can do other than gossip? This is not only about Devi, she gave them a nice scoop of Bhabhi-Devar EMA, One would think, why is this woman living with a man like Virat?

It took Virat throwing her out of the house to realize that he is doing Kumdi me Sumdi with Dholki, what about when she went all "Virat Sir, a kiss Kiss here an Kiss kiss there" with him? The point here is that even if it came out in anger this is what she thinks about Virat and Dholki, but why she has problems now, not before? Or she was just being petty and thought while she is at it, she can throw some shade of dirt on Virat too

This scene would have looked much better if instead of calling neighbors she would have gone to file a domestic violence complaint in nearest police station, Police would be there and she could have done and said exactly what she did in presence of neighbors, who came there on their own, Sai was just doing petty tamasha

In the end of the track, Will kidnappers and abuser go to jail? Or Miss Sai Joshi the icon of women empowerment will crawl back in bed with someone who is having an affair with his Bhabhi? Or live with family like Chauhans?

Neighbors be like = Kal kon sa show hai, Sai?

As I said "Spitting and licking"

Bold : don't u know she 19 yrs under d effect of bhaang thou sairat both were fully aware what they were doing in compare to sai it was virat was fully drunk sai still was in conscious coz she drank lime water . How can a woman allow a man to kiss her if she think is cheating her.

Sai ma'am already said agar aap maafi mange to koi baat hai, so yes she left d option open to return d house.

I hope neighbor ask to sai , if u had return only why u created d drama ?

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

What Sai was hitting below the belt a big mistake but what Virat did is a bigger wrong throwing a 19 year old on roads who has no support

I would.have preferred that sai convinced Virat to treat taai in a better facility ..rehabilate her Nd help her become sane before marriage drama

There is a child involved so they should have tried to help her first than wedding

I agree with most of u r points.

Character assassination in public was wrong one must not wash dirty linen in public.

But affair need not be physically getting involved but even if u are emotionally involved with someone to an extent that u are trusting that person blindly and not even ready to listen to your partner.

Virat has never made it clear that pp and he do not have a relationship at present. He has let her undergo toxicity and gaslighting behaviour. So she hit him at a spot that she knows will pain him.

Virat is a people pleaser and Sai a rebel so it's basically clash of thinking too

This again is my perspective .

Psabout reversal .. every living has the right to dignity.

Even men are subjected to DV sometimes mental sometimes physical.

Belittle them

making fun for for showing emo or crying

Every one needs respect and care. Dignity if not love

@anju

Bold : virat is not emotionally also involved with pakhi

Aapki saari baatein ko mein agree karti hoon but if sai is a teenager then why she endulge herself in such things.

Trust me if virat will say it then also sai will not stop dragging pakhi in coz she lives in same house & pakhi didi ka aapko pata hi hain

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

It was a well planned revenge . It can be only two things either she was petty or she lacks self respect to romance a man who is cheating on her. It was such an embarrassment to see an educated girl precisely a topper doing tamasha on the streets.

Exactly where was self respect crying when sai ji was busy romancing a two timer .

Vo to caterpillar interrupted varna kiss ho bhi jata .

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I understand what you are saying and I agree to a certain extent. I agree it's TiT fiorTAT but when he realizes his mistake and apologizes for it will Sai also do the same? This is the problem I have with the characterization. I have never seen an educated person washing their dirty linen in public.

For what he has done, there is no apology that works actually. However if you have seen my posts, I have time and again said I have issues with Sai not apologising to Virat. Thats her character.But right now I have more bothered about Virat being turned into an abuser that too being an IPS officer which is not his character. Sai's mistake has been reduced to 0 , in comparison to Virat's. He not only asked his wife to not enter the house at midnight but also insulted his mother in law.. Not the Virat I we were introduced to. Thats my issue with the plot and characterization. Regarding washing dirty linen, well even the Ambanis have done that😆 This is still a fictional show. And Virat himself said to Sai again and again that he doesnt care, what neighbours think , if they see two women being thrown out by the women rakshak IPS officer at midnight, so lo have it on your face then.

If it's done within the four walls of their room, it can be termed as insecurity but time and again doing it in public is questioning his character. Aai was wrong too. If she has concerns she should talk to him in private and Aai should realize she was somewhere responsible for this mess.

Because time and again Patralekha in being with Virat is termed right by the same set of public(the family),because the same set of public abused her, accused her of plotting the trip with her husband where he was to go with his Vehni. Sai was assasinated there and not PP, in normal cases the Vehni would be questioned for cancelling the ticket , just because the wife of the man she is going with is coming along. Sai did she that and was appalled and realised that they actually know and encourage it.

Firstly, I doing believe there is anything wrong if two adults romance with each other. She wasn't intoxicated when the dupatta stupor happened. She immediately hatched the plan to elope Devi. She was in her senses when she almost kissed her husband. They is nothing wrong but if she believes he is having an affair with someone then how could she romance him. Either she says to hurt Virat and knows he is loyal to her in every sense.

Being in stupor doesnt mean that you dont realise or remember thing, you just dont have a control. Just because she remembered about Pulkit doesnt mean she was completely out of intoxication. Thats debatable. I know people who have perfect memory and know what they want to do even when they go in the flow for a moment when intoxicated.

Aap to vahi kar rahi jiske liye mujhe point out kiya tha , every fault of sai is covered by virat's fault to justify her acts . Any way u want to provs sai hain to sahi hain galat hone ka department hi virat ka hain right

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

@anju

Bold : virat is not emotionally also involved with pakhi

Aapki saari baatein ko mein agree karti hoon but if sai is a teenager then why she endulge herself in such things.

Trust me if virat will say it then also sai will not stop dragging pakhi in coz she lives in same house & pakhi didi ka aapko pata hi hain

My perception is that Sai think they are still involved

Sairat cannot read each others mind, best not to assume things.

There is lack of basic trust and respect for each other POV

poor communication another main culprit .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aap to vahi kar rahi jiske liye mujhe point out kiya tha , every fault of sai is covered by virat's fault to justify her acts . Any way u want to provs sai hain to sahi hain galat hone ka department hi virat ka hain right

No Sai is not right, I never said so , she needs to apologize for hiding the truth from Virat. But she is not wrong in calling the neighbors. I am saying after being thrown out in that manner, she can go out and call the neighbours and Chavan deserve that, including the man who was responsible for throwing her out at night. Also when you say Virat's anger in throwing out Sai was instilled by Sai, you need to read my post in your thread itself where I mentioned, how right he is in being angry with Sai, but his actions are not justified. Sai's actions are somewhat justified because she goes on to inform the neighbours about Devi, whose secrecy has been maintained to an extent where neighbours can also think she is dead. She is making sure, Devi is not closed behind the doors next time. Every time Devi goes missing, they would ask where she is. For Chavan izzat mitti mei milna is the worst punishment they can get. Its unfortunate that Virat is also being a Chavan right now.

Aap ye bhi mat bhuliye ki aaphi ke post mei maine hi Sai ko galat kaha tha in professor's episode, ye mat bhuliye ki maine hi Sai ke behaviour ko galat kaha jab usne Virat se badtameezi ki thi VRS ko lekar. Isiliye mujhe us category mei kripya mat daaliye. Aap kripya jakar mere saare posts padhiye Janki ke thread mei jaha maine Sai ko galat kaha hai. I also request you to go through my post , where I have talked about his hurt on Sai's betrayal, ignoring the ghar nikala, just after the ghar nikala. You can read my replies to Muguet as well where I kept saying I feel bad for Virat , for what is to come in her Holi posts.. I have not blindly defended Sai. And I have never tried to prove Sai sahi hai.. Yesterday also I mentioned how she is wrong in making Devi's brother see her marriage this way. I also mentioned how she is rude to Aai and Usha Maushi both. I also mentioned how she had no right to be rude to Pulkit when she assumed Madhuri is his wife, just because he did not fulfil her expectations of remaining single for the last 10years. I re-iterate I have never defended Sai blindly. These are two tracks that I did not want to happen, but if the first happened , the second one was inevitable.

Is post mei yehi kaha hai maine..

Sai's bad action (Devi's marriage) triggered Virat's worst reaction.

Virat's worst action has been answered by Sai's bad reaction, that's what I meant there.

Originally posted by: Roch

Well, i dont know what to say. I guess every one understands Virat's pain and anger. In anger Virat can throw his wife out of the house which is justified stating anger. But a wife cannot create a scene cause she feels humiliated wah, this is the society we live in.

If a man takes a step in anger that's an action out of his underlying love but a woman taking a step for self respect would not go down on anyone. And to judge this action are also female most of the time

Both were wrong and have taken drastic steps, he threw her out for his family. She is pulling down that family but is she doing it for self, well let the entire scene play out.

She is anyways going to walk out of the house, so why is she doing all this thats to be seen.

Waise the man says, he is worried about his sister and wants to go for a jog. Has time to chit chat with his best friend, have dinner talks but is not in a hurry to arrest a fraud man. Matlab ye sahi hain.

If someone really would have been bothered about sister, he would done something years ago or moved mountains within that night to bring his sister back.

Call it a shady writing or screenplay, but that was a shitty dialogue.

For me this show was never of Sai or Virat, it is their journey with too many wrongs and both learning in this phase. Sai is not right at some point and So is Virat.

Respect your opinion, but don't think what she is doing is wrong. And to someone who mentioned no husband would throw his wife out, then you guys are far from reality. There are many cases where a girl is thrown out of her in laws house for stupid reasons (An incident i know, a wife was thrown out because the husband and wife fought over who would change a kids nappy)

Anyways i mentioned to someone this forum has also become toxic just as the series, apologies but i have no interest to connect with this forum going forward.

I agree with u yes d forum is definitely became toxic , sorry this forum don't sympathise with virat they always had bashed him mercilessly very few members like janki , u & some others never critised him without his fault, but other critised him many times without really his fault but gave free pass to Sai.calling her a teenager. Sorry teenager dont behave d way sai Joshi behave.

I will req u if u want to take break from d forum plz do take but do reconsider ur decision of leaving d forum coz forum really need unbiased members.