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Posted: 4 years ago
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The thing that irks me most - is Sai's unapologetic behavior & constant rude behavior. In most families, whether you're right or wrong - if you talk rudely to elders, you will get a nice thappad.


Just because she asked for forgiveness in her mind, does that mean the opposite person knows it unlike our crocodile tears Virat, he at least apologizes for his blunders. Don't play it as a maturity card, I'm now sick of listening to this - each & every character is playing maturity card like there's no tomorrow.


If Sai really wanted to help Devi, the simplest thing she could've done is - contact a Mahila morcha & convey to them, at least they will make ruckus & could even gather media attention.


By calling on neighbors, she has only brought abuse to herself & Chavans. She will be looked up on in pity, not in respect.


Its a gossip time for the neighbors, no neighbor would dare to enter a Police Officer's house - to even question a wrong, forget about standing up - even in the villages, so forget about towns/cities. No one wants to get into the bad books of Police officers, they don't want their lives to be turned upside down.


Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat (not as much as Pakhi), her constant Virakhi rants are a result of that - whenever Virat doesn't support her. May be that's a reverse psychology, that if she keeps taunting them - Virat will dump Pakhi as a whole & accept Sai fully = which he did but as its a jalebi, she doesn't understand it.




As the forum majority is females, its nothing new that - people are more biased towards female characters & tend to understand them better compared to males, lets not sugarcoat this basic fact. I as a male am surprised quite a few times how all of males are put under a same basket where as it doesn't apply to the girls.


I've openly bashed Virat & Pakhi, I take no bias when it comes to bashing 😎

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Posted: 4 years ago
#62

1. True two wrong can't make right but if you have to choose between two wrong only than que arises which option is better one.

2. Wrong both mistakes are not equal...Virat's doing was far more worst than her...yes she did wrong by not informing Virat ab't wrong doings happening around ( before devkit marriage there may be some reservations as he himself proved that some unknown anonymous letter was weighing more than sai's saying but post marriage she should have tried to disclose )

3. Gratitude for what ? For Marrying her, Allowing her for education or buying candyfloss for her or speaking bare minimum in her favour when she was right and she had done so much for this family and even for him too( sorry but don't think one's life can compensate with such basic things obvious except marriage )

4. It is NOT anywhere borderline domestic violence. well ab't character assassination how come she believe that he has still NOT soft spot for pakhi after facing so much partiality by almost everyone including dear husband when matter comes between her and pakhi she has all rights to feel insecure ab't their current status. What he did to prove her that he is over pakhi now...nothing ( that holi incident can be called as infatuation and weak moment )

Role reversal : yes to some extent but why not when most of the times women are real victims

Ab't case file I think it is forgotten that CN belongs to powerful family when comes to law...how can anyone believe her over them and they may turn it against her ( bt still if I was in place of Sai I would have done that without giving any second thought ab't consequences )

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The taunt about Pakhi I felt was not wrong. Pakhi has proved her right again and again. She does provoke people against Sai, now against Aai.

And Virat does give her much more space to justify herself and gives her a long rope.In fact even today, he could've stopped Pakhi when she made that comment about his mom. He had already warned her about it, why did he just glare?! Imagine the impact if he yells at her in front of kaku like he did yesterday!

Has Virat ever told Sai, PP is my brother's wife, nothing more? For Sai, that question remains unanswered. She can also think his closeness during Holi was because he was drunk.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Virat has given enough reasons.. In fact he himself called it pyaar and mentioned how it feels to lose a person after his marriage.In a moment of rage he also said infront of Pakhi that jiske(Sai) wajah se maine apne sabsi pyaari cheez kho di. Did he apologize for that, did he take his words after that? How is Sai to believe that he is over Pakhi?


Virat has given enough reasons to think otherwise as well.


Virat said those things waaay long back, not sure how far the time has progressed in CN as one day is valentines day, next day is Shivraatri 🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: basherz


Virat has given enough reasons to think otherwise as well.


Virat said those things waaay long back, not sure how far the time has progressed in CN as one day is valentines day, next day is Shivraatri 🤪

Exactly, he might not have done things, bt have said enough to make anyone believe that he loves Pakhi..He has almost confessed to Sai in words..

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Posted: 4 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: basherz

The thing that irks me most - is Sai's unapologetic behavior & constant rude behavior. In most families, whether you're right or wrong - if you talk rudely to elders, you will get a nice thappad.


Just because she asked for forgiveness in her mind, does that mean the opposite person knows it unlike our crocodile tears Virat, he at least apologizes for his blunders. Don't play it as a maturity card, I'm now sick of listening to this - each & every character is playing maturity card like there's no tomorrow.


If Sai really wanted to help Devi, the simplest thing she could've done is - contact a Mahila morcha & convey to them, at least they will make ruckus & could even gather media attention.


By calling on neighbors, she has only brought abuse to herself & Chavans. She will be looked up on in pity, not in respect.


Its a gossip time for the neighbors, no neighbor would dare to enter a Police Officer's house - to even question a wrong, forget about standing up - even in the villages, so forget about towns/cities. No one wants to get into the bad books of Police officers, they don't want their lives to be turned upside down.


Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat (not as much as Pakhi), her constant Virakhi rants are a result of that - whenever Virat doesn't support her. May be that's a reverse psychology, that if she keeps taunting them - Virat will dump Pakhi as a whole & accept Sai fully = which he did but as its a jalebi, she doesn't understand it.




As the forum majority is females, its nothing new that - people are more biased towards female characters & tend to understand them better compared to makes, lets not sugarcoat this basic fact. I as a male am surprised quite a few times how all of males are put under a same basket where as it doesn't apply to the girls.


I've openly bashed Virat & Pakhi, I take no bias when it comes to bashing 😎

You have raised some valid points. I agree generally, neighbor dont get involved in others problem And definitely they won't if there is an ACP in that house.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

You have raised some valid points. I agree generally, neighbor dont get involved in others problem And definitely they won't if there is an ACP in that house.


Did you get my PM?

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Posted: 4 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly, he might not have done things, bt have said enough to make anyone believe that he loves Pakhi..He has almost confessed to Sai in words..


Why is sai still continueing with such man who is two timing her ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

She will not apologize. Not just Virat even Sai has turned out to be an abuser 😭but since she is a woman it will be overlooked. This attitude of hers is the main problem,


Apko pata nhi hain aurat kabhi galat nhi ho sakti .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly, he might not have done things, bt have said enough to make anyone believe that he loves Pakhi..He has almost confessed to Sai in words..


He almost confessed to Sai, he loves her & has always kept Pakhi at a distance - at least since the hand holding episode.


Like I said earlier, Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat & seeing Virat supporting or stopping Pakhi riles her up. She hopes to get a reaction from Virat, whenever she raises Virakhi & being an alpha male - he's not going to cave so easily, her reverse psychology - works in reverse with Virat 😆

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