The Facade begins to unravel - Page 5

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

You maybe onto something here sister.. I think they wanted her to see iska Hona na hona makes no difference and I think they will make it more obvious to her now too so she starts asking for her haq too in some capacity and not be so selfless . So far she has only seen didi as bhagwan and I guess they want to her see her flaws the person behind the mask. She was so awkward today even interacting on the minimum in the dinning hall scene and just wanted to run away even before the argument based on her admission started.. she may not voice it out just yet but I could see her I Don't want to be here and interact with this person whatsoever face

LOL arey no, I don't think Imlie is going to realize Didi ka true face so easily😆.

What I meant was ki Imlie will start to see Adi's point about how sab log ghut rahe hain.....she is seeing how Adi is suffocating in these constant fights with Malini and isn't happy, and that Malini isn't happy either.....and yeah, she may realize ki even if she retreats, the issues between Adi-Malini will remain on a fundamental basis.....but phir bhi I guess they will maintain Imlie ka guilt trip for the most part....so dunno kya solution hoga interim bhi.

Dinner table scene tha hi itna awkward....koi bhi uncomfortable hota Imlie ki jagah....problem yeh bhi hai na that most of the time Adi-Malini keep fighting over something related to HER....jaise yeh baat bhi admission form pe start ki aur kahin aur le gaye....that is why I feel bad for Imlie ki AM dono bas apne arguments ka mess failaate rehte hain, us bechaari ka bhi no khayaal😆....

Originally posted by: nim_var

It was a fab episode that I need to digest with all the tension and undercurrents between AdiMun and Imlie.

It was a crescendo today at home.

I must say the scene between Aparna and Imlie was so real n homely, the hug that Imlie got from her saasuma was so warm as were her words.

The dinner scene was again a backdrop for the undercurrents and how visibly upset Adi was when Imlie left without eating her dinner. This reminded me of the puja lunch at the C's where she did not bother to sit with Adilie and eat in the kitchen. His anger and simmering frustration just boiled over in the morning.

The two were awesome when they exited the PC and the trmebling, shaking Imlie just feeling overwhelmed by the reporters and being calmed by Adi was 👏 As was the scene of the editor n Jainendra. All it takes is a few words to ruin a person for life, none the better. The way Adi handled him with truth, the core of his being is now coming out again. It was dimmed a bit over his guilt, but glad the cloud has passed along.

I am loving this original Adi back, who is fighting against the injustice and for the underdogs.

The fight between AdiMun was so layered and both were awesome here. Finally the truth spilled by Adi, he is afraid of how she will react to the truth. It boils down to her HAQ. Come full circle.

precap was interesting with Malini fighting back for her place, her Haq.

Nice write up nim

@bold is it her haq though? Was it ever? What haq is she fighting for when she never gave adi any in her with the formality . Aise bolne se toh haq dia lia nahi jaa sakta action main dikhana padta hain. She can't even give him itna sa haq of halka sa jhidkooing her too roh phir kaunsa haq

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

this ! She started with her dukhaada of how he ignores her how she is the one making adjustments and nibhaooed with him with 7 yrs once again completely ignoring ke she has her faults it all became she deserves a medal for being with a problematic man like him when rofl if anything he should be the one making those complaints ke usne apne aap ko dabba dabba ke yeh nibhaya hai for so long which is why aaj adi ko itna intensely laga bhi yeh taunt.. caz now finally the realization have him him ke how much he tried to make it easier for both of them.. today for the first time he didn't tried to pander to her or be guilt tripped yeah it slightly started with her mujhe HM tak nahi dia and he again genuinly apologized for it but she again taunted him about how he is a liar etc etc which she did had the point to an extent but timing all galat and she refuses to give him a least and benefit of doubt it felt more like making herself martyr again then trying to actually address the issue and let him speak caz eveb though she kept saying tell me she was getting riled up by his annoyance and refusal to tell and wasn't still ready to hear. It was again an exercise je maine toh pooch but he never said anything so she can put a checkmark ke am trying to solve the issues he isn't instead of actually trying to solve it otherwise taunts se matter start nahi hota. And she wouldn't demand ke apologize karo 4 din jaane ke liye and ab wohi chahiye mujhe and not even a justification.. she was DEMANDING it and that irked adi caz he knows woh galat nahi hai in what he said and then her you taalo which again rubbed him off so wrong caz theb he had no option to blast ke he ignores ok then why he ignores she is the reason for that and all the baggage how can anyone even start telling her the truth with her fragility .

Wohi toh fundamental problem hai na....every argument always ghoom phir ke comes back on Malini not leaving a chance to jataao how she JHELOES him😆....how she's the one adjusting to his behavior....she always makes their relationship sound so transactional ki maine tumhare faults ko bardaasht kiya, tum badle mein mujhe pamper karo😕. Aise kabhi koi serious attempt at reconciliation ho hi nahin sakta.

I toh just can't get over the fact that he finally broke down enough to tell her he is SCARED of her reactions and she didn't care one damn bit for that😕....pause bhi nahin liya isne us baat pe ki someone is SCARED of how she behaves.....but directly jumped to again DEMANDING that he NOT be scared of her....lol yeh bhi koi daant ke maangne waali baat thi kya? She was in that lecturing professor mode again where she thinks she can just lecture/guilt him into bowing before her.....phir suddenly flip maar liya into HAQ do....matlab ek taraf jataa do ki main tumhaari galtiyaan jhelti hoon, dusri taraf demand kar lo patni waale haq ki......clear cut case of not hearing anything he is telling her....even if he's not giving her the full answers, whatever he said there should have have given her some pause, something to process....but she didn't give a damn....usko bas apne resentments unload karne the and wanted to make Adi feel like shit enough for him to grovel in front of her again.....but ab Adi se nahin ho paa raha.

Amazing that Malini actually thinks berating a person so much will bring him closer to her😕....you berate someone so much and then want him to give you "haq"? lol

So we got to gear ourselves for some high voltage scenes in the coming days owing to malini-Aditya clear faceoffs!

I just want to add that though TV shows ain't reliable for adoption of values for a real life,they are meant to entertain but this show has deffo given some very good insight into relations:

1.If you are in a relation where you cannot speak your heart out with the other person owing to their obsession & extra sensitive nature,the relation is bound to fall with the slightest of deviation from the norm!

2.Home environment is the what moulds a child so better keep your fights at bay while being with children.If your relation is at edge & you have lost respect for each other and you want to make it work for your child while keeping the baggage of misunderstandings with each one of you it will only be detrimental to the child & will result in a malini like adult.So better cut ties for a momentary pain is acceptable over a suffering of a lifetime!

3.When a person succeeds over us, anna ka masla bana k we try to malign his image on personal front to win by hook or by crook,your jealousy overpowers your logic & you end up doing things which we are only are going to regret in future!So in moments of anger,one must abstain from speaking,take time,think n then respond!

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL arey no, I don't think Imlie is going to realize Didi ka true face so easily😆.

I don't think either ke fully bahaar aa jaayega didi ka sach Imlie ke aage bhi but I do see thida discomfort between the 2 and inlie stepping back from didi bhakti and didi is the best mode so more into avoiding esp seeing her abnormal behavior and frankly that needs needs be cut down beech main bonat zyaada fakeness ho gayi thi.

What I meant was ki Imlie will start to see Adi's point about how sab log ghut rahe hain.....she is seeing how Adi is suffocating in these constant fights with Malini and isn't happy, and that Malini isn't happy either.....and yeah, she may realize ki even if she retreats, the issues between Adi-Malini will remain on a fundamental basis.....but phir bhi I guess they will maintain Imlie ka guilt trip for the most part....so dunno kya solution hoga interim bhi. Yes she needs to see how malini cannot stay happy in this caz kuch nahi bacha but then uske liye kuch Hina toh chahiye to begin with.. she will start seeing adi ka point ke regardless imlie jitna sacrifice kar de it is of no point kyonki woh dono nahi nibha sakte ek dusre ke saath they have major issues jisse imlie ka koi lena dena nahi hai. Woh bas zariya ban jaati hai of them voicing those issues and finally addressing them

Dinner table scene tha hi itna awkward....koi bhi uncomfortable hota Imlie ki jagah....problem yeh bhi hai na that most of the time Adi-Malini keep fighting over something related to HER....jaise yeh baat bhi admission form pe start ki aur kahin aur le gaye....that is why I feel bad for Imlie ki AM dono bas apne arguments ka mess failaate rehte hain, us bechaari ka bhi no khayaal😆....

On a different note ... where is the story headed to? Where will adi Malini fights lead to ? I know that the truth will not come out so soon... so will it lead to imlie withdrawing completely and adi playing reverse psychology on imli by flirting with Malini in front of imli ? Or will it lead to mailini ill treating imli and slowly turning all the family members against imli ? Iam just confused on where this track is headed to ... coz for now it seems that except the 3 main leads, no one else in involved in the truth revelation

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Thanks for correcting me. I can never get this reporter's name right in my head. 😆

As per the precap it seems nothing is resolved. I do not know how this fight will end but one thing is sure, nothing will be resolved. Will Malini think WHEN SHE FAINTED? Will she? Will she contemplate what Aditya is talking about that he is scared of her reaction as she fainted in the past. It was the time Aditya spoke the truth which she has long forgotten.

Malini may be back to taunting Imlie tomorrow but at least today she brought up Aditya's PD trip. I thought she would never bring this up again, blind trust that she has in him. 😆 In their fight, she did not utter Imlie's name and that made me happy. She might bring her up tomorrow but dekhte hain. 😆 I just hope all these fights lead to some resolution. I know the whole truth will not come out so easily. But there are so many hard roads ahead for Aditya, kuch toh badle. He obviously is done with his marriage with Malini. How long is this extreme tension going to stay between them. And Imlie will keep blaming herself. There is no way Aditya will be able to spend quality time with Imlie if she continues to think she is the cause of all the problems between Aditya-Malini. Hey bhagwan, my head hurts thinking of all the mess these 3 people are in. 😆 I have no idea how the writers are planning to untangle the most messed-up knot of the century that they have created. 😆

For once Malini asked the right questions and Adi told the truth that he is afraid if her reaction.I just wish he would say the truth and then deal with the consequences, guess we have to deal with these fights for another 20 episodes😂Every major changes comes in 50’s😂😂

Can we take a moment to acknowledge Adi’s reaction after Imlie left without eating her dinner, he stopped eating at that time as well😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh fundamental problem hai na....every argument always ghoom phir ke comes back on Malini not leaving a chance to jataao how she JHELOES him😆....how she's the one adjusting to his behavior....she always makes their relationship sound so transactional ki maine tumhare faults ko bardaasht kiya, tum badle mein mujhe pamper karo😕. Aise kabhi koi serious attempt at reconciliation ho hi nahin sakta.

I toh just can't get over the fact that he finally broke down enough to tell her he is SCARED of her reactions and she didn't care one damn bit for that😕....pause bhi nahin liya isne us baat pe ki someone is SCARED of how she behaves.....but directly jumped to again DEMANDING that he NOT be scared of her....lol yeh bhi koi daant ke maangne waali baat thi kya? She was in that lecturing professor mode again where she thinks she can just lecture/guilt him into bowing before her.....phir suddenly flip maar liya into HAQ do....matlab ek taraf jataa do ki main tumhaari galtiyaan jhelti hoon, dusri taraf demand kar lo patni waale haq ki......clear cut case of not hearing anything he is telling her....even if he's not giving her the full answers, whatever he said there should have have given her some pause, something to process....but she didn't give a damn....usko bas apne resentments unload karne the and wanted to make Adi feel like shit enough for him to grovel in front of her again.....but ab Adi se nahin ho paa raha.

Amazing that Malini actually thinks berating a person so much will bring him closer to her😕....you berate someone so much and then want him to give you "haq"? lol

Exacly This! it didn't even rang a bell ke Adi sia fraid to voice out his thoughts instead she went to matt daro. it was more like main kya karoon if tumhein darr lagta hai no my problem i am not gonna change.. and they want us to sympathize with her in this 😆. She took that as her entitlement too ke lagta hai toh acha hai mera masla nahi hai mujhe haq do mujhsemaafi maango of all your behaviors.. koi bhi normal insaan as you said would have gone into shock byt hat statement if their partner?the one they calim as love says ke theya re afraid of saying anything to them and speaking up caz they fear their abnomrla reactions. instead of asking aisa kyon hai aditya plz tell me where am i going wrong you shouldn't feel this way and maybe it is unintentional let's solve this SHe goes Whatever.. all i am bothered about is some answer and haq and Maafi.. how do you even demand that After the person telling you straight hat they cannot be honest with you simply caz your reactions are scary and they don't know what will happen if they try to tell you the sach and you aren't capable of hearing the sach.. she again ignored that part totally 😆 as if he never said those words .. and diverted the conversation to a complete different direction the moment her fault was pointed then it shifted to HAQ do and trying to pounce on him to manipulate him physically ( sorry if this part sounds wrong i swear i come with the clean intentions lol )

Also A HUGE SHOUTOUT TO GM.. the guy deserves freaking every award simply for that last scene today and i don't say it often.. it's been so Long i have seen such Fantabulous Performance somebody so freaking Dooba hua in their character and the emotion .. EVry switch of expression his voice the tone.. the body Language mindblowing It is Freaking masterclass 👏👏👏. The way he turned red in anger tot eh explosion to then avoiding BRILLIANTTTTT Stuff..

and Idc if this sounds OTT but i am sorry i have not seen This Level of performance on TV since MR as DUTTA nothing ever came close to Dutta's intensity & finally we have Male lead who is Actually that complex and Actually knows how to show us the shades and Actiing Prowness and is Totally ORIGINAL..

Was just rewatching the last scene.....man, the nuances.....Malini KNEW he would be forced to come talk to her. She was standing in the room in righteous anger like she was waiting for the expected reaction of his sorry. Jab attitude hi aisa hai toh phir kaise nibhega?

And then when he shows up, she starts off instantly with how she's daaloed aadat of jheloing his kadvi baatein or she wouldn't have managed to stay with him for so long.....again, every convo has to begin with a reminder/jataana of how she's supposedly done him a favor by being with him for so long😕😆.....and yet this same lady switches to desperate groveling herself by the end demanding his love/affection....lol

And right after that jataana, she then mocks him also for just giving her a sorry each time.....lol aur agar sorry na bolta toh wouldn't that be another point she would hold against him? The way she kept repeating, "Kitni baar maafi maangeinge"? Like what was that?😕😆.....she kept talking past whatever he was saying over and over......

Aur precap mein looks like Adi took time off from work to drive Imlie to college...lol and Malini ko bhi saath mein lift cuz same college.....haha Adi seriously thought Malini aaraam se maan jaayegi to just go in a car with him and Imlie? 😆.....they all need some wake up calls about Malini now.