What are your views on hiding things from loved ones? - Page 2

I think it is wrong to hide things from a loved one. I agree that people can only make a decision/behave based on the information they have.

Having trust in a loved one is important that’s how relationships grow....just my humble opinion.

Originally posted by: Magnifique

I'm totally against hiding something from your loves ones too unless it can have an effect on that person's health. In that case , better proceed with caution. If there are no such limitations, better advise them of the issue. The person whom we think of weak and do not want to hurt might actually be able to deal with the situation better than us.

Just to mention in case of sairat both are guilty of this. Sai bound by her promise didn't share the pulkit kidnapping and her plans to virat.

Virat hid from samrat his and pakhi story and ended up hurting that poor man more.

So, basically they both have this character flaw same as other itv leads.

Yes, health does play a major role but better prepare them and inform them. This is so true, most of the times, the ones who we think are weak, are the ones who handle things in a better way :)

Oh yes, both of them are at fault here. I just want to see them grow together by helping each other and specially, they should learn to hold their marriage above everything else

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

For a successful relationship, communication and transparency are very important. Lying to your partner will affect the relationship and causes more misunderstanding. To make a marriage successful one needs to work on it every day.

If we talk about the show, Pulkit should be the last one to tell what a wife should be telling her husband. Even for that matter, Aai is equally responsible for the mess. I wish someone had advised Sai but in ITv this is norm but not in real life. To become husband and wife in a true sense one needs to be honest with your partner. Lying and hiding will destroy the relationship

Yes, relationships are so delicate, we need to nurture them with love and trust❤️

Exactly, who is Pulkit to talk in between a husband and wife?! Even I have a problem with aai. Instead of saying all this, she could just say, it's kaku who started it, it's not Sai directly jumping in to do the marriage

I hope they learn from this fiasco! Want to see them grow and be in a healthy relationship

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I blame pulkit for not opening mouth but coming to aai and usha mausi if they opened their mouth, it will add more fuel because the stuff know is pulkit cheating msgs that's it... Although I am surprised how sonali also didn't mention about those msgs from pulkith and sai holding Kaku feet and all.. because that would have pushed virat more to believe sai is cheater. This shows CVS completely ignored kidnapping track and it's never gone come out

No no. From what I understand, according to Virat, he told Sai that he will reinvestigate and until then, not to talk about Pulkit(something in these lines). But she didn't trust him enough to wait till the reinvestigation is done and went ahead to do the marriage. What he doesn't know is thta, it's kaku who asked Sai to bring Pulkit home. So it is not like SHE did it on purpose.

and I don't think Sonali will mention about it. These people have a habit of hiding things from Virat

I just hope they don't ignore the kidnapping track!

Originally posted by: Khushidum

I think it is wrong to hide things from a loved one. I agree that people can only make a decision/behave based on the information they have.

Having trust in a loved one is important that’s how relationships grow....just my humble opinion.

Yes dear, even I believe the same! No relationship can grow without trust in it

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

No no. From what I understand, according to Virat, he told Sai that he will reinvestigate and until then, not to talk about Pulkit(something in these lines). But she didn't trust him enough to wait till the reinvestigation is done and went ahead to do the marriage. What he doesn't know is thta, it's kaku who asked Sai to bring Pulkit home. So it is not like SHE did it on purpose.

and I don't think Sonali will mention about it. These people have a habit of hiding things from Virat

I just hope they don't ignore the kidnapping track!

I mean if Kaku asking to bring pulkit bring back comes up, his jootha msgs will also comes up and Sai act of asking forgiveness will also comes up but kidnapping drama won't which results in more misunderstandings

Trust is the most important ingredient in marriage. It cannot just survive only with love. There should be no secrets between hubby and wifey. period. All the promises to others will fall secondary to the promise you make to your life partner. Doensnt the name itself have partner in it! Spouse is your partner, good or bad you have to share with them.

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I mean if Kaku asking to bring pulkit bring back comes up, his jootha msgs will also comes up and Sai act of asking forgiveness will also comes up but kidnapping drama won't which results in more misunderstandings

I got you. But what I think is, Virat's anger is more because Sai broke his trust.

So if he knows that something like this has happened, he might think of it in a different perspective. Wouldn't he question his kaku why she asked Sai to bring Pulkit home, when they have Sangeetha's letter? What would Kaku say, that she didn't trust that letter? I just feel this might make him wonder about what exactly might have happened

Again, it also depends on the timing. But just my assumption based on the Virat I know 😳

Personally, I think lying by omission is also lying.

And rarely anything good can come out of lying.

Truth always does come out. We may feel that we are trying to protect someone from getting hurt, but that hurt is nothing in comparison to the hurt one feels when they find out their loved one was hiding things from them. One can get over things that hurt them, but broken trust seldom gets repaired.

So I am against hiding things from people close to you.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Trust is the most important ingredient in marriage. It cannot just survive only with love. There should be no secrets between hubby and wifey. period. All the promises to others will fall secondary to the promise you make to your life partner. Doensnt the name itself have partner in it! Spouse is your partner, good or bad you have to share with them.

My thoughts!❤️ This is what makes them - life partners! :)