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Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL again, sorry if I'm repeating something and this already got discussed.....but delayed LOL@ Adi saying to Imlie, "bacchi ho kya"? 😆

Yehi aadmi was determinedly trying to call her a bacchi just last month when he wanted to downplay her status in his life😆....ab realize ho raha hai ki woh bacchi nahin hai 😆

Also how cute was Imlie bumping her head against the window while trying to eagerly look out at the balloons😆....the expression on her face and the way she turned to look at Adi after bumping her head.....Sumbul did that ADORABLY😆

Hahah adi will use imlie bachi hai again the day he will have to jhado raub on her.. 😆 aaj usne bachi jaisi khwahish kar di toh isko raub jhadna tha ke bachi nahi hai..😆

I found the whole car ride so amusing with him being a khadoos and her trying to distract herself constantly.. 😆 the bump was adorable but also the way her eyes followed the balloons from one end to another and iske kehne se pehle hi adi called the guy

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wait....what exactly are you referring to as "intimate" here?😆 I don't see Adi doing anything "intimate" with Malini or Imlie encouraging him in that sense...that just sounds wrong when you use that word for it😆.

All Adi has done since coming back from PD is formal things as Malini's husband....her ask of wanting him to put on sindoor at Holi which he was going to do as a formality....just putting sindoor on someone doesn't make it "intimate". And then the next thing has been this pooja which was also just a formality as husband-wife. These are the only things he's done as part of that vachan from Imlie and Imlie has given him those subtle signals with her eyes or a nod to support him.

Intimacy is a much more loaded word in my eyes and I don't consider all these things intimate😆......Adi-Malini never really had emotional intimacy and now they don't even have physical intimacy anymore despite her attempts to plaster herself to him for a hug.....lol. And somehow, despite all her mahaanta, I don't see Imlie expecting Adi to perform hug service for Malini as part of this "vachan".

You know what the funny part is... all the so called affection from.her is starting to look more like zabaradasti and forcing herself upon him..it is just the way she pounces , clings...it makes her look like despo. Well not she isn't she is a despo.only but more despo too haha

It is again laughworthy to me that people were calling adi srk from darr a few days ago jab woh traits dido show karti hain of obsession and need to the extent of it being a mental sickness

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Hahah adi will use imlie bachi hai again the day he will have to jhado raub on her.. 😆 aaj usne bachi jaisi khwahish kar di toh isko raub jhadna tha ke bachi nahi hai..😆

I found the whole car ride so amusing with him being a khadoos and her trying to distract herself constantly.. 😆 the bump was adorable but also the way her eyes followed the balloons from one end to another and iske kehne se pehle hi adi called the guy

LOL this exactly....bas raub jhaadna hai kaise bhi karke Babusahib ko😆.....dono taraf se daant-ta hi hai use....kabhi yeh bolke ki bacchi, kabhi yeh bolke ki bacchi nahin ho😆.....ek din Imlie should ask him directly ki decide kar lo main kya hoon😆. Phir he will likely say aage se, "Tum humaari patni ho"😆.

I enjoyed the car ride more on the second watch....haha he was being so deliberately grumpy and poor Imliya was trying to find something else to focus on than his grumpy mode😆.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

You know what the funny part is... all the so called affection from.her is starting to look more like zabaradasti and forcing herself upon him..it is just the way she pounces , clings...it makes her look like despo. Well not she isn't she is a despo.only but more despo too haha

It is again laughworthy to me that people were calling adi srk from darr a few days ago jab woh traits dido show karti hain of obsession and need to the extent of it being a mental sickness

LOL well I wouldn't really call Malini in the "mental sickness" zone either.....na mujhe woh SRK wala Darr comparison Adi ke liye sahi laga tha, na iske liye.

Malini is showing obsessive tendencies, yes....and yes her behavior is getting more desperate too, no doubt.....she is reaching the point of forcing herself onto Adi in some ways but I don't think she's realizing how it's looking.....I would actually feel sorry for her getting this desperate in her cluelessness but then I can't help but remember how she treated Imlie and that evaporates the little sympathy I could feel for her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wait....what exactly are you referring to as "intimate" here?😆 I don't see Adi doing anything "intimate" with Malini or Imlie encouraging him in that sense...that just sounds wrong when you use that word for it😆.

All Adi has done since coming back from PD is formal things as Malini's husband....her ask of wanting him to put on sindoor at Holi which he was going to do as a formality....just putting sindoor on someone doesn't make it "intimate". And then the next thing has been this pooja which was also just a formality as husband-wife. These are the only things he's done as part of that vachan from Imlie and Imlie has given him those subtle signals with her eyes or a nod to support him.

Intimacy is a much more loaded word in my eyes and I don't consider all these things intimate😆......Adi-Malini never really had emotional intimacy and now they don't even have physical intimacy anymore despite her attempts to plaster herself to him for a hug.....lol. And somehow, despite all her mahaanta, I don't see Imlie expecting Adi to perform hug service for Malini as part of this "vachan".

I know and I thought while writing it that it will be taken in the physical and emotional sense. I really tried to find the word to describe the personal essence but could not come with any 😛 to fit that into those “maang barro” or doing Pooja rituals... I meant intimate only in terms of the rituals as they are sacred to a couple and Aditya feels real discomfort performing those especially as he know how much they mean to Imlie and the whole essence of that relationship has changed for him. He always looks to Imlie with that questioning look to give assurance and take assurance that it’s Ok. Sorry if it totally confused you 😊

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I think what she was trying to do was sow the seed of shak in aparna's mind too i Don't think it was intentional yet but it came from the kind of person she is she has that shak so she wants everyone to view everything like that only.. caz come on 3 hrs isn't that big a deal given the kind of person person showed adi to be who is always out and about here or there getting distracted for work.. no big deal.of he probably stopped somewhere on his way back but didi ko curiosity thi and shak tha so she managed to make an issue out of a non issue too..

Again it comes down to trust only she wants to hold a register jahan ek ek sec ka hisaab ho

exactly it was not intentional but she wanted someone to question him about the delay and make him call her so she can find out when he reached and where he was.... Plus to show the whole family that things are still not right between them

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL well I wouldn't really call Malini in the "mental sickness" zone either.....na mujhe woh SRK wala Darr comparison Adi ke liye sahi laga tha, na iske liye.

Malini is showing obsessive tendencies, yes....and yes her behavior is getting more desperate too, no doubt.....she is reaching the point of forcing herself onto Adi in some ways but I don't think she's realizing how it's looking.....I would actually feel sorry for her getting this desperate in her cluelessness but then I can't help but remember how she treated Imlie and that evaporates the little sympathy I could feel for her.

Same with me, the little sympathy that comes evaporates immediately. I really don’t know where her cluelessness is coming from, her mother or her own inability to listen to answers. In 7 years, she does not even know Aditya enough to know that he will always shut up instead of lying. So when he is not speaking that means he is hiding answers. Why back off then unless you don’t want to hear the answers. She is doubting him but she is not telling him because she does not want her image to get Kharab in front of him. If Imlie is troubling her, then ask about it to him, why hide behind this mask and roundabout questions and games, get dukhi when things do not happen in the way she wants and make everybody else dukhi.... ... if she wants to save her marriage then ask the question that is most troubling you “ his attitude towards imlie”... other than this she is asking everything and that is why I do not consider her actions as her fight to save her marriage... this is not how marriage are saved, it is by direct and clear communication. her actions currently are all about controlling Aditya and his every move.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I know and I thought while writing it that it will be taken in the physical and emotional sense. I really tried to find the word to describe the personal essence but could not come with any 😛 to fit that into those “maang barro” or doing Pooja rituals... I meant intimate only in terms of the rituals as they are sacred to a couple and Aditya feels real discomfort performing those especially as he know how much they mean to Imlie and the whole essence of that relationship has changed for him. He always looks to Imlie with that questioning look to give assurance and take assurance that it’s Ok. Sorry if it totally confused you 😊

I don't actually think Adi considers any of these rituals sacred in general.....it is only when he performs them with Imlie that he seems to do them with a different level of solemnity and that personal touch....if he feels any discomfort doing rituals with Malini, it's only in connection to how much value they hold for Imlie.

He's always performed those rituals with Malini as a formality/obligation....otherwise he doesn't dwell on these things. Imlie is the one who brings meaning to every ritual or relationship for him.

I actually think this is part of the reason he was able to marry Malini....if he actually felt the weight of those rituals having some meaning, he wouldn't really have gone through with it. Even Malini only seems to attach significance to these rituals/sindoor as a means of staking a claim on Adi rather than feeling any solemnity about it.

Imlie is the one that probably attaches the most importance to sindoor among the main three characters and she is the one who is able to put it on/remove it as needed.....amazing, no? The so called "conservative village girl" is the one who seems to understand how meaning is actually assigned to something and it doesn't disappear simply if you don't wear it for a bit😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

+100 to the bold....and once again, it is that organic quality to their conversations, their bond that make them so interesting to watch....kuch bhi PLANNING ke saath nahin hota....lol jo plan kiya bhi hota hai, when they are in the moment, it's like dil apni raah dhund leta hai cuz usko apni manzil, apne ghar ki pehchaan hai.

Adi otherwise tries to start off most convos being all stern like he's got it all figured out....but when he's in the moment with her, by default, his vulnerability somehow starts coming out until he totally unravels in front of her like use bas ek Imlie ke saamne hi apne saare dukh-dard share karne hain.....and then the way our pyari si nanhi jaan somehow becomes the older one between them with a wisdom in her eyes much beyond her years....giving him her candid/simple take on things as she sees them.....her intuition guiding her on when he needs comfort/assurance, when he needs a push on something...it's just marvelous to watch their back and forth.

Haha brings me back to this duffod saying tum sambhlaogi humein 🤣 oh boy if only he knew kitna har roz sambhalti hai isse yeh.. I guess ab idea ho raha hai how much he depends on her emotionally that he is able to show his raw self to her.. once again I have to give a shutout to GM for the part where he goes hum bhi naahi dard dena chahte one can see him choking with emotion I the moment then taking a moment and finishing he got.so overwhelmed in that moment that he is becoming the cause of her pain and that is going under his tab that he doesn't want to hurt anybody na imlie na malini but phir bhi despite his lakh tries he becomes the unintentional cause..pehle iski wajah se imlie had to hear all that she did and then the whole thing with malini.. I absolutly loved him telling straight to imlie too that you Don't have to do you all in well nautanki I know it is not well so stop .. he kinda expects her to unravel in front of him like he does too only he doesn't know that is part of her nature too jahan woh shikwa kar bhi de toh bhi khud ko khud kahin na kahin pacify kar paati hai caz she has been doing all her life toh uska hurt iske hurt jitna intense in term of reaction nahi aayega uski tone main and the way she hides her nazrein and her facial expressions main zyada hota hai then in lafzon ki kaat and in that she is just as intense as him...if that makes sense .. but he gets more vocal about the hurt the pain

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't actually think Adi considers any of these rituals sacred in general.....it is only when he performs them with Imlie that he seems to do them with a different level of solemnity and that personal touch....if he feels any discomfort doing rituals with Malini, it's only in connection to how much value they hold for Imlie.

He's always performed those rituals with Malini as a formality/obligation....otherwise he doesn't dwell on these things. Imlie is the one who brings meaning to every ritual or relationship for him.

I actually think this is part of the reason he was able to marry Malini....if he actually felt the weight of those rituals having some meaning, he wouldn't really have gone through with it. Even Malini only seems to attach significance to these rituals/sindoor as a means of staking a claim on Adi rather than feeling any solemnity about it.

Imlie is the one that probably attaches the most importance to sindoor among the main three characters and she is the one who is able to put it on/remove it as needed.....amazing, no? The so called "conservative village girl" is the one who seems to understand how meaning is actually assigned to something and it doesn't disappear simply if you don't wear it for a bit😆.

This is a good point because he of this may he was able to so easily dismissed his marriage with Imlie. They were meaningless to him till Imlie made them meaningful for him. So for him a marriage where he was forced and did not see a companion in Imlie, he could easily call it illegal and forget about it. With Malini, as he says there was comfort and companion and he went ahead with the marriage because everyone expected him to be. But he was able to detach himself from rituals and go for work because the rituals were not important to him at all.

So looking at this from this POV, a person who does not believe in rituals is now taking an initiative to complete those rituals like precap sindoor thing, implies how important they have become for him because of the person that they are now connected to.