Humein is rishte par vishwaas ho gaya hai - Page 14

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL well I wouldn't really call Malini in the "mental sickness" zone either.....na mujhe woh SRK wala Darr comparison Adi ke liye sahi laga tha, na iske liye.

Malini is showing obsessive tendencies, yes....and yes her behavior is getting more desperate too, no doubt.....she is reaching the point of forcing herself onto Adi in some ways but I don't think she's realizing how it's looking.....I would actually feel sorry for her getting this desperate in her cluelessness but then I can't help but remember how she treated Imlie and that evaporates the little sympathy I could feel for her.

I know it doesn't sound right 😕 but what my general point was her behavior is more alarming and more on the dangerous side hence the lame comparison.. instead of adi's .. malini is more capable of causing harm given her desperation and obsession

Originally posted by: pamk06

Same with me, the little sympathy that comes evaporates immediately. I really don’t know where her cluelessness is coming from, her mother or her own inability to listen to answers. In 7 years, she does not even know Aditya enough to know that he will always shut up instead of lying. So when he is not speaking that means he is hiding answers. Why back off then unless you don’t want to hear the answers. She is doubting him but she is not telling him because she does not want her image to get Kharab in front of him. If Imlie is troubling her, then ask about it to him, why hide behind this mask and roundabout questions and games, get dukhi when things do not happen in the way she wants and make everybody else dukhi.... ... if she wants to save her marriage then ask the question that is most troubling you “ his attitude towards imlie”... other than this she is asking everything and that is why I do not consider her actions as her fight to save her marriage... this is not how marriage are saved, it is by direct and clear communication. her actions currently are all about controlling Aditya and his every move.

Mera point simple hai agar isko sach main yakeem hai ke what they share is pyaar why is she so worried about keeping an image..

Jahan sach main pyaar hota hai wahan image maintain nahi kiye jaate hain..wahan banda apne real emotions dikhata hai wahan dikhave nahi chalte..agar pyar hoga rishta hoga connect Hoga toh it will not matter to the other person ke tumne ladai ki ya behas ki ya tumhara image kharab ho gaya.. farz karo agar immediately ho bhi gaya toh love has its way mending those things.. one will shake it off maaf kar sakta hai aage bhadh sakta Hai.. image wahan maintain kiye jaate hain jaahan aapko sirf acha dikhna ho formality rakhni ho .. rishte toh images pe nahi chalte.. rishton main Ladaiyaan jhagde daant dapat, behas, roothna manana, baat karna sab hota hai . Images toh banda acquaintances ke liye banata hai formal outsiders ke liye ke oh boss ke aage na image khrab ho.. Gali wali aunty kya socheingi let me behave.. teacher kya soche gi.. let me be courteous.. IYKWIM

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL let me know if you prefer I address you with something OTHER than Whatever😆

Haha! Nahi nahi...it just was so funny reading that...😂. All good!

I love this show. So many wonderful moments and how they slowly slip into love with each other. I have like 50 of my favorite Adilie scenes already- so many poetic moments-‘ like the way he refuses the towel she gives him to wash his hands on their first trip to PD from Delhi and post- riot (where Imlie saves his life from the bottle bomb) - and he washes his hands for the second time- how he takes the towel from her- Thats like the first time he thaws in his cruel icy attitude towards her.

Am just catching up with the April episodes. I tried reading the discussions on the April 2 episode with the ‘car trunk’ chat- (just love how they managed to pull it off without looking cheesy or cringeworthy)- but couldn’t read all 17 pages of discussion though😁- so I might have missed this - but HOW can Adi keep his promise to Imlie about keeping his ‘vachans’ to Malini? I find that disturbing - like how is that even possible- I see so much heart break in it for Imlie and almost want to protect her from it. Do let me know your thoughts on this.

It’s also interesting and also matches her naivety that she isn’t as ‘head over heels’ in love or to the intensity that Aditya is. I would love to see this arc in her slowly growing love for him. And the day that she actually declares that she loves him as well would be a precious one.

Amazing work from the Imlie team .Signing out to get completely lost in Adlie world 🥰