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Vanraj is not a child or teenagers when he fell for kavya he was a father of 3 kids 😳🙄

How could he cheat anupama then?

The fault for a failure of a marriage lies more with the couple than the third party.

In this case I beleive Vanraj is more at fault. As a human he is decent, as a son& father he is good but as a husband& now as a boyfriend he is an absolute jerk.

Though like how the makers of this show the handling the story, a regresive one in a super positive and progressive manor but in the end man like Vanraj can never be redeemed due to how he betrayed Anupama who trusted him unconditionally.

If she is not the wife you want and realise it then he should have given her divorce instead of two timing her for this many years.. How can one forgive such a betrayal..

One more thing to note is Kavya not a just a third angle, no she herself is a married woman and is betraying her husband and her vows. So both her and Vanraj are home wreckers.

Last one and the one who should bear more responsible for this fiasco is (strictly my POV) Anupama. How can anyone be in a marriage that's so one-sided?(esp ifs she can be strong now then why didn't she fight for her marraige before it was broken? She set such a low standards for herself that she let him treat her like a doormat fo so long) Shouldn't woman demand respect from one's marraige even before love?

In order to show women are mahans these kind of stories are telecasted even now. Would like to see Anupama be civil to Vanraj but not so nice. He did betray her and her family in a worst way possible so he should be made to feel ashamed of that deed and that can only happen if the family and herself make him accountable for what he did to the marraige.

Ps. Kavya is immaterial when it comes to the failure of their marraige. You can replace her with anybody. In future vanraj will not be truthful to Kavya either.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Even if we let go of everything as mutual adjustment and compromise, it was very flaky of Vanraj to get attracted to Kavya when he saw she is prettier and more confident than Anupamaa.

Hundreds of people get attracted to people other than their partners, its all hormonal, but acting upon the attraction is not. Plus it also festered contempt and conceit in Vanraj's mind for Anupamaa's personality due to which he emotionally tortured her so many times, apparently the same personality he liked before he met Kavya.

Completely agree. one can let do everything as mutual adjustment and compromise which anupama always did but extra marital affair and betrayal no women deserves.

Vanraj got attracted and after that he started acting it. That was pathetic to see that he and kavya was sharing bed and bedroom. I am eagerly waiting for their divorce and new beginnings for anupama.

Exactly it is vanraj who never want to marry anupama. He say to his parents ki meri shaadi illetrate se kara di is anupama ko to restaurant ke menu card bhi padna nahin aata yeh to ungli se bata ti hai i feel suffocate when i am with anupama

Right from marriage vanraj never liked anupama because she is not much educated and cannot speak english and not ultra modern wife

Vanraj never love anupama right from marriage because she is not ultra modern wife

And also vanraj also said to parents yeh anupama mere se match nahin karti

So defnitely vanraj want that wife who can match to him. So vanraj him self want kavya as her wife because according to vanraj kavya was exactly match to vanraj and according to vanraj kavya has quality of ultra modern wife

So he him self vanraj want kavya not because kavya trap vanraj or brainwash him

And i remember vanraj saying to anupama tum to 45 year mein 55 ki lagati ho

So vanraj is speaking lie that he love anupama before kavya entry and try to show himself innocent and best husband and putting all blame on kavya which is indeed wrong from. Vanraj side

Originally posted by: mthiru

The fault for a failure of a marriage lies more with the couple than the third party.

In this case I beleive Vanraj is more at fault. As a human he is decent, as a son& father he is good but as a husband& now as a boyfriend he is an absolute jerk.

Though like how the makers of this show the handling the story, a regresive one in a super positive and progressive manor but in the end man like Vanraj can never be redeemed due to how he betrayed Anupama who trusted him unconditionally.

If she is not the wife you want and realise it then he should have given her divorce instead of two timing her for this many years.. How can one forgive such a betrayal..

One more thing to note is Kavya not a just a third angle, no she herself is a married woman and is betraying her husband and her vows. So both her and Vanraj are home wreckers.

Last one and the one who should bear more responsible for this fiasco is (strictly my POV) Anupama. How can anyone be in a marriage that's so one-sided?(esp ifs she can be strong now then why didn't she fight for her marraige before it was broken? She set such a low standards for herself that she let him treat her like a doormat fo so long) Shouldn't woman demand respect from one's marraige even before love?

In order to show women are mahans these kind of stories are telecasted even now. Would like to see Anupama be civil to Vanraj but not so nice. He did betray her and her family in a worst way possible so he should be made to feel ashamed of that deed and that can only happen if the family and herself make him accountable for what he did to the marraige.

Ps. Kavya is immaterial when it comes to the failure of their marraige. You can replace her with anybody. In future vanraj will not be truthful to Kavya either.

On point . !

shayad kavya ke ane ke baad anuraj ke relationship effect huwa still i will not blame kavya alone here

I dont like this idea of blaming it all on Kavya... or she was the only reason

Vanraj treated her poorly for years (and all of sudden flashbacks they showing they are ok... what the hell, making excuses it seems)

Vanraj just saw as a maid etc. Like she didn't exist for anything beside doing housework, serving him and his family.

I dont think I could ever want AnuRaj together after all he has done before and after the affair and his toxic behaviour and mental torture and being dismissive of her etc

This whole scenario isnt only kavyas fault vanraj and baa is equally at fault for not understanding anupaama.i dont like the current track where paakhi and baa is trying to unite anuraj.because this is the same pakhi and baa who constantly found faults in anupama.now just because kavya is in the picture anupama and vanraj must reunite.totally absurd for me and selfish,at this point i feel a little bad for kavya like she doesn't know of vanraj will be with her or not. To make it worse going on a picnic is a bad idea because that will show anuraj wants to be back and i dont want anu to stay with vanraj.she will be back to be a dorrmat and i certainly do not want to see her becoming one.

This few episodes make me feel like slapping paakhi and baa really because they are selfish.only thinking about themselves and family but not what anupama wants.god pls someone slap them.they need it

I dislike baa and pakhi both are so fake and stubborn. Yeh pakhi to keh rahi thi sshe has accent divorce now she is planning anuraj together ?

Yeh dono pakhi aur baa abhi bhi anu ki happines ke bare mein nahin soch rahe hain bus apni khushi ke bare mein soch rahe hain

Anupama chali jaayegi to 18 19 ghante kaam kaun karega thepla kaun van ayega

Yeh pakhi aur baa apne selfish ke liye khoob anupama ko maska laga rahe hain

25 year mein baa ko kabhi khayaal nahin aaya ki anupama ne kitna torture saha hai ab baa ko yaad aa raha hai ki anupama ne kya saha hai? Agar anupama divorce ka faisla nahin leti to baa aisi hi anupama ko taunt kar rahi hoti

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I dislike baa and pakhi both are so fake and stubborn. Yeh pakhi to keh rahi thi sshe has accent divorce now she is planning anuraj together ?

Yeh dono pakhi aur baa abhi bhi anu ki happines ke bare mein nahin soch rahe hain bus apni khushi ke bare mein soch rahe hain

Anupama chali jaayegi to 18 19 ghante kaam kaun karega thepla kaun van ayega

Yeh pakhi aur baa apne selfish ke liye khoob anupama ko maska laga rahe hain

25 year mein baa ko kabhi khayaal nahin aaya ki anupama ne kitna torture saha hai ab baa ko yaad aa raha hai ki anupama ne kya saha hai? Agar anupama divorce ka faisla nahin leti to baa aisi hi anupama ko taunt kar rahi hoti

Kyunki unko samajh aa gaya hai ki khali anu unki seva karegi.Kavya ko kuch nahi padi hain #selfishnesskihadhhai