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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

i have two options one virat will himself ask her to leave , yah phir it will be kaku who will do it in presence of virat , whose hands will be tied up he won't be able to do anything


As strange as it sounds, Indian marriages are indeed decided by families but only the two people in that marriage can decide whether they want to break it or not. This relationship is protected by law and society more than any other relationship :) So family throwing out a person does not end the marriage until one of the two individuals want to break it.


For sairat, unfortunately they both do not want to break it, but not knowing the intentions of the other have put their relationship under vulnerable situation. Adding to that, Sai's public display of their dirty laudry has given more leeway to the family to decide/comment on their marital status.


Virat is the one who is matured and understanding in this relationship given Sai's fixation on deal and her own insecurities, he should step forward and clear his intentions before the family and shut them up. He was the one who apologized profusely and stopped Sai from leaving before and he is the one who is working hard to build trust and love with Sai. Even though he will be tongue tied when she is sent out, he should convey that he is not breaking the relationship. Writers should show atleast that much to stick with Virat's character and his progression in this relationship. I prefer him not being there when she is sent out. In that way, his character and situations does not look out of place in the current progression in their bond.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hahaha, nice discussion.. according to me , I wrote this before all this kidnapping drama happened.... But frankly speaking , what my thoughts are how can someone behave so differently with his loved ones....

Now, he thinks pulkit is bad guy but during mahashivratri he believed in pulkit and he got to know what all his Dil ke bhade did, but he didn't even try to confront them

But while coming to sai, he know her intentions towards devyani, he know she loves devyani , I agree doing devik marriage is biggest mistake of sai according to virat , even according to us if she is blindly trusting pulkit without any proofs... But throwing out of the house, is it correct... How can he behave drastically different in similar situations ( according to him spoiling devyani life).... Who he claims his family..... I love virat alot somewhere more than sai... But I can't ignore so of his acts... Like staying almost silent during harini and devikit track, blaming sai for his forced marriage and missing his pyari chease during DIG track.

Edited by Saichintalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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She is totally wrong but one can't throw his wife out of the house like this that too when he married her to take her zimmedari. If he can throw her out of the house than he should also have the guts to punish his own family by putting them in jail.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Hahaha, nice discussion.. according to me , I wrote this before all this kidnapping drama happened.... But frankly speaking , what my thoughts are how can someone behave so differently with his loved ones....

Now, he thinks pulkit is bad guy but during mahashivratri he believed in pulkit and he got to know what all his Dil ke bhade did, but he didn't even try to confront them

But while coming to sai, he know her intentions towards devyani, he know she loves devyani , I agree doing devik marriage is biggest mistake of sai according to virat , even according to us if she is blindly trusting pulkit without any proofs... But throwing out of the house, is it correct... How can he behave drastically different in similar situations ( according to him spoiling devyani life).... Who he claims his family..... I love virat alot somewhere more than sai... But I can't ignore so of his acts... Like staying almost silent during harini and devikit track, blaming sai for his forced marriage and kissing his pyari chease during DIG track.

Your dialogue was brilliant and the inspiration behind this discussion.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

She is totally wrong but one can't throw his wife out of the house like this that too when he married her to take her zimmedari. If he can throw her out of the house than he should also have the guts to punish his own family by putting them in jail.


Yes I totally agree. This can be a setback in their relationship. Both should discuss about how Sai was wrong to just go ahead get two people married without Virat's knowledge especially one is his mentally unstable sister. Virat should learn to use his IPS brains even if it concerns his family :D. They can assure each other this will not happen again and move on! This is how marriages work in real world.


But in ITV world, either the couple die for each other or ignore each other :P nothing in between. I wish they show this steady growth in sairat's case as they are doing it till now.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: notaquitter

Your dialogue was brilliant and the inspiration behind this discussion.

Thank you 😊.... Moreover do you know in KD he throws out out emon and next morning he normally sits and drinks coffee Aram se.... For sure hamara virat tho ise nahi hoga , thank God for that.... Somewhere I am happy that they virat was less flattered for sai compared to rono for emon till now... Because in KD as far as I saw few important episodes ... In one episode he is like so flattered for emon and in episodes like after throwing her out and hand twisting scene he really behaved like stranger... As far as we see virat maintenance consistency... Even during fight we can see his hurt

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Hahaha, nice discussion.. according to me , I wrote this before all this kidnapping drama happened.... But frankly speaking , what my thoughts are how can someone behave so differently with his loved ones....

Now, he thinks pulkit is bad guy but during mahashivratri he believed in pulkit and he got to know what all his Dil ke bhade did, but he didn't even try to confront them

But while coming to sai, he know her intentions towards devyani, he know she loves devyani , I agree doing devik marriage is biggest mistake of sai according to virat , even according to us if she is blindly trusting pulkit without any proofs... But throwing out of the house, is it correct... How can he behave drastically different in similar situations ( according to him spoiling devyani life).... Who he claims his family..... I love virat alot somewhere more than sai... But I can't ignore so of his acts... Like staying almost silent during harini and devikit track, blaming sai for his forced marriage and kissing his pyari chease during DIG track.


@ bold n italic - ye kya hua kab hua kaise hua🙈🙈🤭🤭😄😄


🙏just joke tha no offence pl...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: notaquitter

I read in Sachintallis OS.it’s related to the Devi t’ai plot The dialogue from Sai to Virat

“Jab dekho mei tumara family hu kehthe hai , koi apne familyko aise ghar se nikalthe hai ?…. Kaku, baba, omi kaka and pakhi didi jab galthikiya tho , aap ne vunhe ghar se nikhala hai kya ?, nahi na?? kyu ki vho apkafamily hai, mei tho sirf zimmadhari, isliye mujhe ek dum se ghar se nikhaldiya.

Agar aap mujhe danthe hai, ya chilathe hai mujhe ithna dhook nahi hota lekin app mujhe apne apse alag kardhiya…ekdum se, aasani se boldiya hamara rishtha katham.”


I felt the above dialogue interesting.


In ghum we don’t know if this will happen and it’s all assumptions at this point.

Sai getting them married without letting the family know is WRONG even if the circumstances was dire she should have atleast told Virat.


i want to know all of your thoughts about the punishment meted out to her ( whatever might be the circumstances)


sending her out of the house knowing that she doesn’t have anyone else or anywhere to go to .

@slant bold

Well, Sai would be wrong ,cuz in the current situation Sai is struck in a loop, and if she takes such bold decisions ,ALONE, then obviously it will be wrong from her side too.

But ,it does not mean sending her out of the house us right. Cuz ,it will also depend on how the situation and circumstances play out. That is,if Virat will take that decision solely based on seeing one part of the story ,that is his family's side,without even listening to other part,or the others version and if he will not even contemplate why did Sai take such a drastic step.

Then both will be equally wrong and equally responsible for what is happening.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepthi2014


@ bold n italic - ye kya hua kab hua kaise hua🙈🙈🤭🤭😄😄


🙏just joke tha no offence pl...

Oops sorry auto correct, I will edit now only.... I can't imagine this in my worst dream also 😭😭

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Posted: 4 years ago
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He can't throw others members out Coz he has not right to that as CN is not his property, even he can't throw pakhi out coz she samrat's wife not his . Sai is in CN coz of only him as she is his wife.


Regarding sai , she only might have instgated him by saying this family is not her , or she will leave , or don't want to live with such people , so virat may simply ask her leave if she don't want to live in CN with him or other family member , it can be a shocker for sai coz virat always had stopped her from leaving house. Sai only keep repeating I don't care what other things .


Marrying devi under any circumstances without informing virat who twice asked her to wait 4 him will definitely be wrong.

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