A new birth for Adi - Page 10

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl yup but adi.maharaaj thinks he is the best🤣 iska bas chale toh peeche BG score laga ke chale I am the best I am the best I am best..🤣

Rofl adi ko.chodo the mummies who otherwise were so thrilled to find a bahu for nishu jaisa boring insaan too were just resigned in adi ka matter they also gave up on their match making skills ke iska liye na ho paayega poori dilli milke bhi auntiyan na kar paayein yeb🤣

It is kinda refreshing though to see them treat like this rather than the usual humara heera beta crap 😆 who can do no wrong yahan ultra hai.bechara sahi bhi.karta hai toh they go oh adi no he can never do anything right 🤣

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Originally posted by: tellyme

I have one point here... If Adi himself declare himself as Imlie's husband with his own consent then he should convey the truth to Malini. After accepting the relation there is no point of hanging out with 2 wives. Coz that will be complete cheating and unethical. Imlie is ready to leave him but for whatever reason he is accepting Imlie as his wife he should give up Malini. If Malini then decide to even send him to jail he should be ready but it will be wrong to accept 2 women as a wife. I think even Imlie should not accept this sharing husband concept.

Till now he ad not accepted Imlie as his ife so PDA was acceptable but now it will be cheating both and in front of doing it with Malini will be clear hit on her respect. It will be like, I have accepted you as wife but you have to bear me romancing with my 2nd wife. It will also be cheating on Malini as he has accepted other woman as his wife and hiding truth from her... It will me somewhat similar to the act of Vanraj

I think we should wait for the episode to air before making assumptions. but if I read the lines correctly, I do not think he is accepting Imlie as his wife emotionally. He is not there yet. He is only accepting her choice that for her, in this life, he is the only husband and there will be nobody else. For her, she will always be Imlie AKT and he is only giving her the right to his name. Basically, the disagreement was that Imlie did not stop him ever from choosing his life partner and she has supported his choice so according to her, he should not stop her from choosing her life partner and should support her choice. This is her basic right, the ability to choose and he cannot make that decision for her. Her Meera reference was basically that, that if she chooses to be devoted to him, like he choosing to be devoted to Malini then he should not stop her from doing it. Its not because she is in love with him but because he is her destined partner chosen by her Sita Maiiyaa. By accepting her name ,he is just acknowledging only that and for him, consciously, Malini is still his one and only wife and that has not changed yet. That there is the core difference.

Well, as far as the truth is concerned, he has been wrong from the day he decided to go ahead with his marriage but in his conscious mind and heart, he has always been loyal to Malini, physically, mentally and emotionally till date.

Well, Aditya can never be Vanraj, If he was Vanraj, he would have left her in the ashram and never looked back. Vanraj is an extremely off the charts self conceited, calculative, manipulative and the most egocentric man ever seen on ITV. He is a man who wants to have the cake and eat it too. Aditya even if he tried, cannot be him and the first sign of that was bringing Imlie home, even though he knew this life as he envisioned might go down the drain. He never wanted to hide the truth but Malini's fragile state did not allow him to disclose it plus yes, he is selfish enough that he did not want to lose the love of his life or sacrifice his dreams. In spite of forced circumstances , he has always been considerate of Imlie's family feelings, the most recent being his interaction with Mithi.

Hence, I feel that the day he consciously accepts that Imlie is the partner that he wants to share his life with and that his feelings run deeper than he ever gave them credit for, he will start distancing himself from her and try to tell the truth.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Exactly ! This is the weirdo who knowingly walks towards death just so his jhalli can give an exam he prefers dying over making a compromise with the gaoonwalas.. how is malini capable to handle any if that when she cannot even deal with a 2 din ke liye jaana lie.. her thinking betrayed isn't wrong but her the way she is reacting to it is and no nothing can justify the way she made a tamsha over it.. even if she was hurt and unsatisfied she should have waited for adi to explain to her when he gets back .. that would have added to one feeling for her garnering some sympathy that yes it was wrong on his part but not anymore as salman khan says every season in BB rubber kar dia issue ko .. agar sahi bhi ho toh bhi itna keechna ke it loses its meaning and makes you look stupid instead.. which is what happened with malini and how she disrespected her own relationship.. jo bhi tha at the end of the day it was aapsi maamla that should've remained that.. and agar phir bhi koi explanation na milta toh OK she could have involved family but yeh kya tantrum hai Mai phone nahi karoongi her Sui is literally stuck there while she keeps elongating and making it the bigger issues then it is instead of trying to solve it..

@bold: THIS. Exactly.

I mean let's just take a step back....you learn that your husband lied to you and your first reaction is to create a SPECTACLE about it in front of his whole family? You aren't even in the least bit curious to atleast find out WHY he lied to you before you go about taking a public stance on it? 😕.

Adi was wrong to lie.....but if instead of trying to get to the root of the matter, you are more interested in uchhaloing it, then frankly you've already given up on the relationship. You think it's over so it doesn't matter how you react about it.....and that's fine if that's what she wants. She is welcome to make her choice....but then she can't turn around and cry ki Adi mere paas kyun nahin hai😕. You yourself proclaimed publicly that he isn't capable of being trusted, you reduce his respect in front of his own family by daily making your private matters public and you still want him to come back to you? lol yeh kaunse 3 saal ke bacche waali understanding hai rishton ki? Only children expect to throw tantrums on everything and think it won't matter.....only children expect adults to indulge their behavior cuz they feel entitled to things......that's how Malini is coming across now.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I think we should wait for the episode to air before making assumptions. but if I read the lines correctly, I do not think he is accepting Imlie as his wife emotionally. He is not there yet. He is only accepting her choice that for her, in this life, he is the only husband and there will be nobody else. For her, she will always be Imlie AKT and he is only giving her the right to his name. Basically, the disagreement was that Imlie did not stop him ever from choosing his life partner and she has supported his choice so according to her, he should not stop her from choosing her life partner and should support her choice. This is her basic right, the ability to choose and he cannot make that decision for her. Her Meera reference was basically that, that if she chooses to be devoted to him, like he choosing to be devoted to Malini then he should not stop her from doing it. Its not because she is in love with him but because he is her destined partner chosen by her Sita Maiiyaa. By accepting her name ,he is just acknowledging only that and for him, consciously, Malini is still his one and only wife and that has not changed yet. That there is the core difference.

Well, as far as the truth is concerned, he has been wrong from the day he decided to go ahead with his marriage but in his conscious mind and heart, he has always been loyal to Malini, physically, mentally and emotionally till date.

Well, Aditya can never be Vanraj, If he was Vanraj, he would have left her in the ashram and never looked back. Vanraj is an extremely off the charts self conceited, calculative, manipulative and the most egocentric man ever seen on ITV. He is a man who wants to have the cake and eat it too. Aditya even if he tried, cannot be him and the first sign of that was bringing Imlie home, even though he knew this life as he envisioned might go down the drain. He never wanted to hide the truth but Malini's fragile state did not allow him to disclose it plus yes, he is selfish enough that he did not want to lose the love of his life or sacrifice his dreams. In spite of forced circumstances , he has always been considerate of Imlie's family feelings, the most recent being his interaction with Mithi.

Hence, I feel that the day he consciously accepts that Imlie is the partner that he wants to share his life with and that his feelings run deeper than he ever gave them credit for, he will start distancing himself from her and try to tell the truth.

You have out this together so well. Indeed this second chance is one where he will learn from his mistakes and will learn between embracing his fears and temptations. It will be be a constant battle between the mind and heart and how he deals with that is the ultimate issues. We have seen from the start he has never been one for emotions and therefore has never seen relationships in that light. He goes with what his mind has said and what he deems was right. It’s refreshing to see someone seeing his view point too.

Yet I do feel where once he was emotionally unattached to Imlie her decisions will battle him and will make him have to choice. He although his allowing her to make her choice freely will also struggle when she moves forward. We have seen a shade of that battle in the lay few episodes. We have seen her craves for far more then he shows but he doesn’t realise why so. He will learn so much more off himself.

min the past he has been able to put his feelings at bay for Maline but know I feel he is asking her for the same yet not receiving it in return. When he wants to open up she shuts him down each time and that’s what he receives form imlie she lets him in and argues till he tells her what he wants to say even if they disagree.

I do feel barka Kaka sees what we all see. But he is yet to be the voice of reason in the future.

Everything aside I do hope we get to see a bit more of Aditya jealous side it’s a treat to watch afterall a bit of drama is not so bad especially when he is learning about his own emotions. For sure this will make for some firework moments between the two.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think it might be Nishant ultimately if he survives his leukemia😆.....but you're right, one can't say what level of friendship he will manage to build with her.....lol I toh am just super amused at everyone's confidence over how much Adi loves Malini😆.....talk about putting on a good show, Adi babu *slow claps*....haha....the signs of them falling apart are staring everyone in the face but Adi's solid acting in all his PDA mush sessions has managed to overcome all these glaring cracks😆......like I said a few days back also....his true calling appears to be acting more then journalism😆.

Malini will play the victim card for as long as she can until she is finally forced to face the truth that she has lost Adi.....only after that is when she may have a phase of genuine self-reflection regarding how blind they both were in their 7 years together without really having known each other.

Sometimes, after reading certain posts, I actually think that are we watching the same show 😆 How can one equate throwing tantrums with "mein bechari" jaap to sharing problems with her sasural is beyond my scope of understanding. I was in doubt about his love since the day I heard their formal talks and he decided to leave his engagement to pursue a story and Malini was all OK with it.. Nothing could convince me about his so-called perfect love after that even though their PDA session were pretty convincing 😆 But as you said the other day, he is a regular man and it does not hurt that she is beautiful. 😛

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - it is almost like it’s devotion. Her Meera reference was plugged in right. Aditya has always been first for her. She took in the Ts because they were connected to him, apart from the fact that it is her basic nature and that she knows the value of having a family as a support system. Her decisions have always had Aditya’s well being in the center and he is aware of that. The pull he has had is because while he might be the chiraag of the house and all that, he’s never been the DNA. Imlie made him that strand. And that is why she will always be his foremost priority as well because she is the other strand for him. It is another thing that he is using his family as a shield instead of trying and answering the questions swirling about in his head.

The Ts are not a bad bunch by any standard. They are a wholesome lot and dysfunctional as any other family. Imlie touched a chord with them and they reciprocated immediately. And that is the sheer beauty of how families operate. The fact that Aditya’s parents do not understand him completely - well uske liye bhi toh Imlie hai. Time aane pe theek kar degi sab kuch.

@bold: Yep, and that is what they are doing a great job of showing subtly.....Imlie is the one building a bridge between Adi and his family without them even realizing it. His family connects with her on an instant level of apnapan....and she gets Adi like no one else does.....lol.....she is the link that will bring them together in the long term.....right now, all her influence is behind the scenes and only we as the audience are able to see how she brings the threads together. Malini at one point was noting how Imlie is bringing out new shades in Adi but she's stopped doing that now too......lol the family is yet to even realize that. I think whenever the story reaches that point is when Adi also will start to realize just how much Imlie is the key to weaving him into the fabric of his family that he is otherwise kind of aloof from in many ways.

The story focuses so much on playing up Imlie's kooky blunders like letting the wrong people into the house again and again or getting duped about some family anthem, they all forget how much she manages to handle all of them one by one, including and especially Adi.

This is a rare story where they manage to show the importance of family without being that preachy about it.....Imlie ofcourse values family even though she hardly comes from a big family herself....but she understands the value of relationships.....while Adi even though he's not the typical brooding male lead struggles with really managing family connections/relationships one on one as he's mostly in his own head......so that's where Imlie becomes the missing piece in his life as she helps connect him to relationships and things he's missing out on.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I think we should wait for the episode to air before making assumptions. but if I read the lines correctly, I do not think he is accepting Imlie as his wife emotionally. He is not there yet. He is only accepting her choice that for her, in this life, he is the only husband and there will be nobody else. For her, she will always be Imlie AKT and he is only giving her the right to his name. Basically, the disagreement was that Imlie did not stop him ever from choosing his life partner and she has supported his choice so according to her, he should not stop her from choosing her life partner and should support her choice. This is her basic right, the ability to choose and he cannot make that decision for her. Her Meera reference was basically that, that if she chooses to be devoted to him, like he choosing to be devoted to Malini then he should not stop her from doing it. Its not because she is in love with him but because he is her destined partner chosen by her Sita Maiiyaa. By accepting her name ,he is just acknowledging only that and for him, consciously, Malini is still his one and only wife and that has not changed yet. That there is the core difference.

Well, as far as the truth is concerned, he has been wrong from the day he decided to go ahead with his marriage but in his conscious mind and heart, he has always been loyal to Malini, physically, mentally and emotionally till date.

Well, Aditya can never be Vanraj, If he was Vanraj, he would have left her in the ashram and never looked back. Vanraj is an extremely off the charts self conceited, calculative, manipulative and the most egocentric man ever seen on ITV. He is a man who wants to have the cake and eat it too. Aditya even if he tried, cannot be him and the first sign of that was bringing Imlie home, even though he knew this life as he envisioned might go down the drain. He never wanted to hide the truth but Malini's fragile state did not allow him to disclose it plus yes, he is selfish enough that he did not want to lose the love of his life or sacrifice his dreams. In spite of forced circumstances , he has always been considerate of Imlie's family feelings, the most recent being his interaction with Mithi.

Hence, I feel that the day he consciously accepts that Imlie is the partner that he wants to share his life with and that his feelings run deeper than he ever gave them credit for, he will start distancing himself from her and try to tell the truth.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl yup but adi.maharaaj thinks he is the best🤣 iska bas chale toh peeche BG score laga ke chale I am the best I am the best I am best..🤣

Rofl adi ko.chodo the mummies who otherwise were so thrilled to find a bahu for nishu jaisa boring insaan too were just resigned in adi ka matter they also gave up on their match making skills ke iska liye na ho paayega poori dilli milke bhi auntiyan na kar paayein yeb🤣

It is kinda refreshing though to see them treat like this rather than the usual humara heera beta crap 😆 who can do no wrong yahan ultra hai.bechara sahi bhi.karta hai toh they go oh adi no he can never do anything right 🤣

LOL haan it's refreshing on that level that atleast we are spared the usual, "mera raja beta, heera beta" rants from ML ki family😆......but on the flip side, I do feel bad for Adi ki uski apne hi ghar mein hardly koi izzat hai😆.

haha@ the I'm the best jaap....he definitely has the confidence in himself regarding his job and his capabilities.....but his biggest vulnerability is his guilt regarding Malini.....and when his family piles on with stuff like, "Tujhe toh Malini ke ilaava koi mil bhi nahin sakti thi", I'm just left thinking wow......ghar ki murgi daal baraabar phrase isi bande ke liye banaa hai😆......maybe this is Karma coming for him since isne itna convenience ke hisaab se ek relationship 7 years drag kiya and now his family thinks ki yeh bas itne ke hi capable hai/tha😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Sometimes, after reading certain posts, I actually think that are we watching the same show 😆 How can one equate throwing tantrums with "mein bechari" jaap to sharing problems with her sasural is beyond my scope of understanding. I was in doubt about his love since the day I heard their formal talks and he decided to leave his engagement to pursue a story and Malini was all OK with it.. Nothing could convince me about his so-called perfect love after that even though their PDA session were pretty convincing 😆 But as you said the other day, he is a regular man and it does not hurt that she is beautiful. 😛

There are many things on IF beyond my understanding as well😆.....but I guess that's part and parcel of this place. I choose to focus on constructive discussions without comprehension gaps 😆.

Re: Adi's LOWE for Malini.....LOL yeah pretty much from the very beginning, the "understanding" they've shown of how Malini is totally "fine" with him ditching her at any moment to go chase a story has always looked ridiculous😆.....they've cloaked it in "understanding" but it's actually lack of communication and guilt that kept it going. She let him go chase his assignments, he felt guilty and came back to her sooner or later and that was good enough for her.....waah kya "relationship" hai😆.

The PDA sessions are an extension of his guilt😆.....and yes, it definitely does not hurt at all that she's beautiful....as a man, it can't be that hard to keep it going with that much atleast in the short term😆. Problems arise when you realize it takes more than a beautiful face to keep a relationship going....and when personality clashes show you that you can't paper over it with token romance.

If Aditya stops romancing his legal wife jab 100 episodes bhi nahin hue and starts chumma chaati with Imlie, mere joote padenge uske character pe. Reality is that Imlie is, in the current set of equations, his step sister-in-law. If he does not accept that what’s the point. Him accepting that reality does not erase the connection Imlie and he share.

Baaki Nishant aur Prakash, kuch na kahoon toh hi behtar hoga.

Imlie does not need an Aditya, Nishant or Prakash or any man for her progress. She is strong enough on her own. If the makers want to use Aditya, it will be because he is her anchor as is she.