The 'knot' in the relationship - Page 5

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

You are watching the show with your hubby? And even observing the clothes My husband is blissfully and thankfully unaware of this new fixation. It will be like arming him with ammunition to roast me Lucky you!

Omg, same with me. Untll last week my husband didn't know I watch this show. I was watching Saturday's episode while he walked over. stood listening to the dialogues Virat was saying and he was like why are you watching this. So I paused tv to reply and he looked at the show montage and he was like this guy saying all this crap is not only hero but also a cop?

I was so embarrassed to be caught watching this 🙈.

I know it will be used to make fun of me time and again. Last this happened was when I used to watch IPKKND and have been roasted like hell 🤣

Ohhh...I dare not watch with my husband. He has this habit of asking silly questions when I'm watching, on purpose of course. And this serial is waiting to be roasted😆 alongwith me for watching it.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

1. Pakhi not being addressed clearly by Virat even after Sai's outburst twice in two days. He felt the need to apologize and clarify with Pakhi immediately. But why not the same urgency with Sai?

That's why his "usse bhi jhagda ho gaya mera" was such a put off. I actually got pretty tuned out after that because I was also in a hurry today... It was so unnecessary and the fact that even in that kind of a moment he says something like that means subconsciously he's still wanting a patch up with that vile vahini of his?

Agree. I was not happy to hear that. esp coz he said us se BHI jagada. His jagada with Pakhi is not the same as fight with Sai. It felt like for him, both were the same and thats why I was turned off after that statement. Plus in my mind Virat is still a liar and a manipulator , until proven otherwise. I can't trust anything he said to Pakhi about his feelings nor the half ass apology today to Sai.

2. Trip thing is not yet resolved, its going to make an appearance in a bigger way soon. Everyone makes her feel like a namesake wife of Virat. He by his attitude today proved it to everyone. How will Virat resolve this?

Her feeling of namesake wife and his feeling of having "no maayne" are going to remain like the biggest ball of ego betweent them -- how will they address this, really? But his "I am your family" comes from his feeling that she doesn't consider him her husband and her silence on his question comes from her feeling that he only wants to be "family" and not the husband. So basically ringa ringa roses and back to the first square...

They are back to square one, with one more dent added.

3. Will they talk about Sai outing the Pakhi-Virat past and Kaku's plan in open? Will she apologize for saying things out in open? Why is Virat not bothered about it? Its as if he has accepted Pakhi as a permanent fixture in his marriage.

Again that @bold is the question that will be addressed from here on because that is the only part of this story that is "new" and untold before I swear if he goes and says sorry for the "jhagda", I will stop watching the show

When your spouse or someone you care about misunderstands you, there is a pain, feeling of urgency within us to show them, tell them the truth. Until then we have this dread in us, ki pata nahi kaise samjhaon, how to correct/ clarify their thoughts about their incident, about me.

Even if he feels Sai doesnt like him, how can he stand the fact that Sai thinks so low of him, to accuse him of having feelings for his SIL. If itna mayna rakhti hain Sai, why doesn't her opinion of him bother him as much to correct about Pakhi.

Virat had that for Pakhi, where he rushed to talk to her after Sai's outburst and I have a feeling he will talk to her again and apologize for being rude.

4. Taking away Money was not addressed. They discussed food, but not money, is it because she will get scholarship money soon.

I think she will get her scholarship in "two days" but they are moving to March for Shivratri so god knows!? Will they address it over that take away meal tomorrow?

Scholarship comes in first semester itself usually, so wonder why it is taking forever.

Atleast I hope she tells herself that from Shivratri, she will use her own money and doesnt need to borrow from him and return the money back to him.

She can be like i am not being rude, but when I have it, I dont need a loan. Maybe if need in future, I will ask, but I dont need it from you now.

I was asking sarcastically ki first time he stretched his hand and gave the vaada to we-know-who but this time he kept his hand on her head and made the vaada. Whenever he's made vaadas to Sai, he has generally held her hand or placed his hand on her head. Waise, his vaada of "maan aur izzat jiski haqdaar ho, main doonga" was almost broken on 'Sunday'.

Ofcourse I got that, but the vaada the other day was not as big a deal like yesterday.

One thing TRP audience doesn't like is kasam thodna, what he did yesterday was not just vaada, but kind of kasam. So he will humiliate and throw her out at midnight with no consideration or concern for her safety, but being a kasam nibhane wala, he will pack her dinner and throw at her.

😂 true .. when Sai mentioned Pakhi ... he should have said “ Who’s that ?” And then dismiss what she said or even better cover her mouth with his hand ... “ tut tut she who shall not be named” a little background music 😬

Originally posted by: Roch

Good evening Sister, and it was a lovely analysis. While I absolutely liked the episode, your analysis and the parallel drawn was lovely (I have no words actually).

There were moments which were very nicely presented in todays episode. I saw different opinions and different views but I loved it. Be it the body language, scenes all were good and nicely presented I must say. With the emotional tension between them any Romance was out of question (would have loved to see it but it was not the right moment).

There was a post I read, where someone mentioned a hug. How would a girl hug a man who just hurt her a while ago and vice versa. It will take time for that at least. The tension between them was visible, hurt was visible and both of them I think did a good job of putting the point across.

At that moment, it was only about he did not want her leave. And she wanted him know how much he had hurt her.

I agree. I just mentioned a few posts back too how the physical closeness was impossible because the reason for his mortification was also the use of physical force. They aren't in that phase of the relationship yet and this incident has just added to the awkwardness... If it were a normal Husband wife, they would have definitely ended the argument with a hug.

My comments in Blue 😉

Lets see how the story moves ahead from here on, the relation has changed, the equation has changed. Some facts have been stated, some have been registered. They have spoken something very clearly, she in anger and he in desperation. It was a good scene, well executed and close to reality.

@bold: that's true. It was very close to reality. That's how people give their relationships a chance. It's a gamble. Sometimes,it backfires because the toxic person doesn't change but sometimes it is indeed a new lease of life.

Aaj ka sawal, last week ka precap scene kithe gaya ??? Did the channel decide to edit it or was it the PH. Not that i was keen on watching but phir bhi. Matlab pura hafta ek scene dikha dikha ke paka diya phir gayab. I wonder why 😕

I think it was a special promo for that week never intended to be shown as it is... 🤓 because even the Khana Nahi milega dialogue was different. I guess it was to show how Pp was persevering her case with the hope that Sai has finally been removed from his side, which she did.

Originally posted by: sukri

Omg, same with me. Untll last week my husband didn't know I watch this show. I was watching Saturday's episode while he walked over. stood listening to the dialogues Virat was saying and he was like why are you watching this. So I paused tv to reply and he looked at the show montage and he was like this guy saying all this crap is not only hero but also a cop?

Mine might blow his top if he sees the montage and the uniform and then what's being dished out... It's a sensitive subject 😜 better off being a secret for now. I might tell him the story some day when I am done 😂😂

I was so embarrassed to be caught watching this 🙈.

I watch the show when he's working out in the morning so there is no chance he will turn up in the middle of his routine🤣

I know it will be used to make fun of me time and again. Last this happened was when I used to watch IPKKND and have been roasted like hell 🤣

I had last got hooked to a show with a gangster as the protagonist, more than a decade ago and he had a ball when he saw just a 1 minute clip of the gangster and his 'wife'. It was enough to turn the next two years into a PJ fest with me at the center 😑🙄

Originally posted by: Cuteepie01

😂 true .. when Sai mentioned Pakhi ... he should have said “ Who’s that ?” And then dismiss what she said or even better cover her mouth with his hand ... “ tut tut she who shall not be named” a little background music 😬

How I wish!